Hmmm.....
STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
SHOCKING BREAK UP
My blog fam, he was the first man in my life, he showed me so much love at first and even paid for my late grandmother's (who brought me up) grave digging when she died 3 years ago.
Man was too nice but way older than me, and a lot of people, even his close friends called me aside and said I should be careful cos I was too young, but I was blinded by love ni o.
Mhennn!
It happened like a dream...
He brought food for me at the hospital and there was so much pepper in the food and I choked on it while eating, so I couldn't finish the food . Next thing he started complaining that I was becoming too selective for his liking, he went home and started sending me hurtful texts on WhatsApp, like play like play umu chineke I lost him.
Even the food flask he used to bring the food is still with me.
This story is too long let me not bore you people with too many details. One thing is certain, the day I would try to have anything with him again would definitely be my last day on Earth, I made this promise on my late parents and grandma's graves, so no going back to him again, NEVER!
Devil should stop playing with my emotions. I believe he'll definitely see this cos I introduced him to this blog and he comments here once in a while.
Please pinch me first so i can understand!
What a strangely wicked man and his wicked reason for breaking up......... was the food poisoned?
There is no need to put a curse between the two of you, the man no worth am at all...He is not worth even your curse.....
Oga if you are reading this, shame on you but if there is a reason you did this, then you have a right of reply, drop your own side of the story in the comment section for pick up or mail me
I don't understand.
ReplyDeleteHow old are you?
Not a clear chronicle.
DeleteThere’s nothing hard to understand here
DeleteWhat difference would her age make
Her being underage would definitely be an issue.
DeleteSplendid but...why do you people swear on graves? Or is it just a figure of speech? Meanwhile, i didnt read anything that warranted your giving him the "Man too Nice" trophy. Because he dug your grandma's grave? You will be shocked at the kind of things that impress girls.
ReplyDeletePaying to dig grave is not cheap na
Delete🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. Your last line.
DeleteThis poster sounds very young. Maybe under 20
Sdk you read when she says he was much older than her na money baba nor wan spend again he wife prayer don work .
DeleteThank God for saving you from this time bomb o. Just be thanking God.
ReplyDelete😑
ReplyDeleteWhat kind of narrative is this abeg
ReplyDeleteI don’t know why people do this
ReplyDeleteYou’re mad at a girl you’re courting and you insult the person 100%
Where is room for reconciliation
Reconciliation ke? You want a married man to reconcile with his side chic? God no go gree!
DeleteThis reminds me of Elton John song,cold cold heart..what a stone heart he has...but poster swearing with graves isn't really necessary cos this life? Never say never!!!
ReplyDeleteThe man was just tired of your childishness and was probably tired of tolerating.
ReplyDeleteHe has moved on to a mature lady the way Blossom moved on.
How do you know she was childish
DeleteDon’t say bad things just for saying sake ....even on a blog
You don’t know the state of her mind now and what you may create
Anon 15:45 May God bless you for your wise words. We never know what someone is going through...let's not add to it.
DeletePoster, just move on with your life. Learn the lessons and forge ahead with your life. Just leave him to God.
Your last line just reminded me of my late grandmother, she always says lef am for God.
DeleteBe careful with swearing, donynuse the word of your own mouth go kill you,devil have a way of making sure it comes to pass
ReplyDeleteHe wanted out. That was his way. Since you have decided never to go back to him, so be it
ReplyDeleteYou did well to keep your emotions in check...You will attract the right person at the right time.
ReplyDeleteI don't know the whole story, so can't for a fact say what happened. However, from what was posted here, and taking a view, He probably started complaining not because of the spicy food but because of some accumulated /bottled up frustration with you.
ReplyDeleteHe was tired over your immaturity perhaps, but quite inconsiderate of him to have sent you hurtful messages and breaking up with you while you were on your sick bed.
It's time to really redefine what relationship is in Nigeria - No one owes your anything and you set yourself up heartbreak through EXPECTATION.
NO ONE OWES YOUR ANYTHING! STOP all the cursing and move on with your life
👏👏👏👏 well said 👏👏👏
DeleteStop with the "no one owes you anything" until you are bedridden and you can't do anything for yourself,hope then you won't change the phrase when your parents or siblings are so busy with their lives and they totally neglect you..
DeleteNo one actually owes you anything! Grow up with that mindset and it will save you a lot of pains. If they help, good, if they don't, move on.
DeleteOnly thing missing for me is he asking for reconciliation
ReplyDeleteIf so, what did he actually text you
I know I’m more forgiving than most but if you share some of the “horrible” things he said maybe others or Stella can help you judge if they were that horrible
This chronicle is somehow..I won't blame u but u no need curse am abeg.
ReplyDeleteLet go , sit tight🔥, focus on your life and pray to God, ur own man will come.
I don't even know ur age shaaa?
Let’s not conclude based on your own side of the story.
ReplyDeleteHis reaction may have been triggered by how you really acted. Did you tell him the food was too spicy or you just acted irritated with the food, coughing n all. Maybe he felt you didn’t appreciate his efforts.
You only mentioned all he does for you, hope you try to reciprocate his benevolence too. He could have felt the relationship was one sided and on top of that he wasn’t been appreciated enough. Though he went about it the wrong way by causing you out on the phone.
Well it’s your first breakfast. Like they say on this street, every body must collect. Pick your lessons from it and move on.
Ps; The curses were very very unnecessary. Allow your dead loved one Rest In Peace, not tomorrow after another breakfast you go and start disturbing your poor grandma that already tried her best in raising you in the name of swearing at her grace when your mates are taking flowers to the graveside of their late loved ones
What is the big deal? People break up everyday. He is not a wicked man and you are not a bad person. You are done with each other ba? Mourn the relationship and move on. There is always someone else better…for both of you
ReplyDeleteEXACTLY! Thank you for this word of wisdom. Poster admitted he was good to her for the duration of the relationship now. Now, because he decided to move on he’s a bad person??? HaaBaa! Like why nau? In fact, I’m convinced you provoked him into writing such nasty messages.
DeleteIt’s a big deal because of all the horrible things he said
DeleteAre you sure you were not dating a married man whose family is abroad??
ReplyDeleteI've since realized that most of us ladies, only write or tell what will garner sympathy to us and not the reality. As far as I read, you stylishly skipped what the cause of the break up was.
ReplyDeleteShe told you what happened But you don’t believe
DeleteMaybe he will reply
YOU SOUNDED SO FUNNY AT FIRST..BUT I DONT UNDERSTAND YOUR CHRONICLE.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmmm
ReplyDeleteStella! You like drama sha
Gbosgbas n Stella = 5 & 6
See as you codedly snuck that in
“ drop your own side”
Very confusing chronicle. How somehow wan give advice now when story doesnt have head or tail
ReplyDeleteMy sister the person you are his missing tip is yet to find that missing rip. Please face front and do not even look back mtcheew mtcheew
ReplyDeleteInstead of sending hurtful words to someone you wanna break up with, just say, we are breaking up, state your reasons and move. No need to cut corners. People grow bored in relationships and marriage everyday.
ReplyDeletePoster you said alot without really saying anything, so I don’t know what to say to you
ReplyDeleteAunty stells, thanks so much for posting. May God bless you and your home. I clocked 21 this year, all along I was a teen. Uncle F, this is not me tarnishing your image, you know how it went. He was single, though he never promised me marriage he only showed signs, he asked that I took him to my step father for introduction "so they could know who was dating their daughter". I'm really hurt as I type. He got married that same month I was discharged from the hospital, he was the cause of my ailment, yes cos he was the first man in my life. It's been 3 years plus, and you have been using different nbers to reach me. Please dey your dey. You said your spec was light skinned ladies like myself, but you ended up with a dark skinned lady. Uncle F please stay away from me for good. I don't want to involve police. Thanks aunty SDK
ReplyDeleteMy thoughts exactly. You are acting your age. Guess he was tired of trying to understand your teen behavior. You will be for
Delete*fine*
DeleteMan played you. Sorry Sugar. Life can be this way sometimes.
DeleteThe good thing about experience is you learn the skill of sifting wheat from Chaff.
You've got a whole life ahead of you keep blocking uncle F till you heal and go out there plan your life and meet new people both males and females.
Wishing you the best 👌 👍
Wait a minute, if you just clocked 21 this year and all these happened 3 years ago, then you were still in your teens.
DeleteI'll advise you to move on with your life and block him from every means of communication. He wants ro destroy what he didn't finish destroying that time. You are still very young and you have a very bright future, please don't let on agbalagba mess you up
Na wa oh Zaram what’s the age thing here now. Dude treated her poorly and it’s her fault
DeleteHe was dating someone same time. It’s still her fault
Even as as a parent… what a herculean task it is to understand tanagers and immature youths. Hmmm
DeletePoster it’s not just you, it’s like that with almost everyone. Life is of stages so I think we all go through that faze of immaturity. sometimes, while in that faze of immaturity and naïvety we even think we’ve known it all. That’s why it’s advisable for for youths to be patient, grow and learn some more about life before delving into relationships else we’d keep hearing the usual stories we always hear. But then i guess some people need to learn through experience tho.
Poster don’t worry, you’ll be fine. Lol Only God knows the kind of headache that mature man would have had trying to understand a far younger girl…that he had to blow up that day. 😂
BBM
Close legs una no dey gree .
DeleteMaybe he was insecure, if he mentioned you select a lot maybe not just that particular day or food you see dear you only just mentioned that he’s move on now married to someone opposite your looks, it’s all good. He’s now taken you too try and move on you sending this chronicle is another form of communication to him. You’re still young nothing missing nothing broken. No more curses dear.
DeleteMaybe he was insecure, if he mentioned you select a lot maybe not just that particular day or food you see dear you only just mentioned that he’s move on now married to someone opposite your looks, it’s all good. He’s now taken you too try and move on you sending this chronicle is another form of communication to him. You’re still young nothing missing nothing broken. No more curses dear.
DeleteBut why do Nigerians have a culture of dating dishonesty? How are you dating someone and then get married? It is the most common Nigerian breakup story. People are dating and boom, one of them gets married and the other finds out on social media or through a friend. What wickedness is that? Is it lack of communication skills? Why not just tell the person before they find out somewhere? Pls let's have honor, it's really bad..
DeleteBut why do Nigerians have a culture of dating dishonesty? How are you dating someone and then get married? It is the most common Nigerian breakup story. People are dating and boom, one of them gets married and the other finds out on social media or through a friend. What wickedness is that? Is it lack of communication skills? Why not just tell the person before they find out somewhere? Pls let's have honor, it's really bad..
Delete02:19 and sadly people here are saying it’s no big deal and she’s at fault for being annoyed
DeleteHe ha record hisbkarma
Stop messing with married men!!! There’s more to your story abeg
ReplyDeletedid you even read the comment she dropped?
DeleteHe’s the one calling her
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