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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
TIPS ON HOW TO STOP CRYING NEEDED
Dear Stella, please don't insult me or add to my problem lol.
I am a very emotional person and I cry a lot, I mean a whole lot.
I am 30years old and I still cry as I have always been crying, no changes at all. I have tried my best to work on it.
Let me give instances;
if someone offends me, I cry. If I try yelling or defend myself, I cry. If I am sharing an emotional story I cry. When someone yells at me I cry. When anyone or people eulogize me, I cry.
It happened few days ago, I went to visit the family of my boyfriend. He has a big family so as his mum was introducing me and everyone started hyping me, tears started gathering in my eyes.
Omoh!!!
Luckily for me, they were cooking for a party and so I had to lie that the smoke was entering my eyes. I was ashamed of myself but I couldn't just help it. I am scared of my wedding day where people will be focused on me and hyping me left and right. I hope I won't shed hot tears because I don't understand this thing anymore.
I have googled and tried ways of reducing this tears of a thing but it won't just stop. Anyone ever experienced this or still experience this?? How can I deal with it?
If i talk wetin dey my mind you go cry, so no need...
This is just me 😄😄😄😄. I can cry for Africa😄😄. When I'm happy, I cry. When I'm sad and angry, I cry. I cry while watching movie too. I don't know how to help myself . When I hear emotional stories, I cry. Even when i read books, I cry too. Let me follow and learn how to stop being a cry cry person and I'm 28 o
ReplyDeleteI’m like two of you, I cry a lot. If you take my thing I cry, if I take your thing I cry. If I cheat on you I cry? If I look for your trouble I cry too when I finish insulting people, I start crying
DeleteThe day my mother asked me not to go and swim in the village stream, I ignored her and went to swim, coming back I saw her holding a broom I started crying she still ignored ny cry and beat me blue black
Let’s read peoples comments today and see how we can stop, hopefully we won’t end up 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Even when doing the do abi?😂😂😂😂😂
DeleteFan Emmanuel, so u mean u dey the film too..how will you cry when you see ur enemies being burnt to ashes?
DeleteJust asking
Fan,Fan...You is cray.No cry o.🤣🤣🤣.
DeleteFan stop making me laugh. Please🤣🤣🤣.
DeleteI cry so much too but you dear poster,you take the crown.I cried many times on my wedding day so just get ready sha
DeleteFan, you be case that needs studying, what is this 😂 🤣
DeleteOh! Fan 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
DeleteFan you will not kill me.
DeleteFan, your matter dey God hand😂😂😂😂
DeleteThis is also me. I cry alot at every slightest thing. I'm so emotional. At 37
DeleteI cry a lot too. When Im angry sad happy etc. When Im angry at someone and I starr cryin its usually misinterpreted and the other party starts to see me as weak not knowing its becos Im boiling inside..It got worse while pregnant lol
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ReplyDeleteThis one na chronicle wey dey funny
Hahahahaha, see SDK comment. You are soft heart poster. It may reduce in marriage.
ReplyDeleteMy thought too
DeleteHahahahahahhaha see me laughing while reading , thank God ooo I better pass some people lol . I laughed throughout reading this chronicle, fan sef join her own , abeg make una no let me fall for this chair lwkmd.
DeleteHahahahaha… very funny chronicle
DeleteStella you self, you be case. You just made me laugh, have a great weekend.
ReplyDeleteYou have PBA or small depression.
ReplyDeleteBB,which one be small depression?🤣🤣🤣.
DeleteChaii we are in the whatapp group ooo.. but funny enough tye day I was giving birth I did not cry...
DeleteI am emotional but didnt cry during childbirth too. I guess the pain was beyond tears lol
DeletePoster,I don't see anything wrong with you being all soaked in your emotions.It shows you're human,it shows your genuineness to how you feel,It shows appreciation,It shows vulnerability,It shows gratitude...hmmm,I Would give a hand to watch my partner cry over me on my wedding day.
ReplyDeleteThis Oyinbo too much ooo..by the time she starts reading this, she might start crying again ooo.
DeleteMy hand is no dia ooo😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
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DeleteWomen ehn,. Back in school, one bad guy that was leaving in the estate I lived then, his chic cheated on him and na say she say she no do again, na so bobo begin cry, me and my gee come carry am go one spot around come by mc dowels whiskey make him take am burn him 'loving' heart lol.. one of my class mate that was staying around passed by then saw Una chilling and came to sit with us, fast forward to after the sit out, she lives close to me so we moved together, next thing this babe go tell me be say, she wished her boyfriend can cry for her the way the 'bad guy' was crying for his babe.. Lol.. see winch oh😂😂.. her boyfriend was my friend, bad guy wey him mind string like stone, I come advice am say if she dey find man wey go dey cry for am make she go date Jew simp cos that if na that my guy ehn, na she go cry for am last last..
So aunty kry you can get what you want, leave correct OGs, make you marry simp wey go dey cry give you all day for house✌️
Are you me? Is me you? 🤣🤣
ReplyDeleteDon't worry ,it will reduce with time,just try to control yourself so that people won't take advantage of you.
One love sis❤️
Stella has killed me with her red biro lol
ReplyDeleteAnd Stella's red pen got me 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
ReplyDeleteNo mind Stella, she wan cause wey n go make bed wet 🏃🏃👁️👁️
DeleteCry cry baby 🤣
ReplyDeleteThis makes me remember one advert like that..
DeleteOgaoooo..the level of cry cry in this chronicle is x factor
😂 lol@Stella's red pen. You are a comedian. Funny BVs don influence you.
ReplyDeleteThis is so hilarious 🤣🤣. Please cry no more.
ReplyDelete😭😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
DeleteShe might begin to cry from this ur comment oooo..be careful 🙏
My partner
ReplyDeletePartner in cry
Delete🤣🤣 dear poster, we are in the same Whatsapp group. Only few people know though cos my face hard🤣🤣
ReplyDeleteLol..
ReplyDeleteWe go see movie that year for cinema, na so all the babes begin cry.. one babe for our end commot tissue begin pass, pass am give the babe wey dey with me, that one sef commot her , come pass give me, the kind bad eye wey I take use look am eh🙄😏😏.. I tell you say I dey follow Una cry,. Me wey I come cinema with babe make I come do 'bad things' Una come dey use cry cry take spoil parole
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DeleteCry cry baby 😂😂😂
ReplyDeleteStella your red pen got me 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Poster there's nothing wrong with you,I believe with time you will grow passed this phase
It will eventually stop after marriage...... Josaria
ReplyDeleteWas once like that but marriage taught me to control it because inlaws will turn it to jest. They will say...if we talk now she will start crying...poster try mental control. Anticipate the situation and school yourself mentally so when the emotions overwhelm you have a focus.
ReplyDeleteI agree with you, learn to control your emotions with people around, if not, when you are angry and you want to vent but start crying instead, Yoruba ppl go say na house scatterer you be... (Asunkun rojor, Ile lon tu
DeleteLol my friend cries a lot too. Just be ready with your tissue
ReplyDeleteThere's nothing wrong with you, you are just someone with strong empathy. You are a good person. ❤
ReplyDeleteOmo! Lmao @ Stella's red pen. @poster, some things can't be helped. Just manage yourself like that.
ReplyDeleteI cry too sometimes when I can't really pour out my heart or emotions build up. May not be to your own poster. One good thing I like about mine which is a secret weapon is sometimes the cry na crocodile tears. I can be crying about a thing but my mind is set on stone. Don't really know how to describe it.
ReplyDeletePoster, I think you may have had a traumatic experience in time past. You may need therapy.
All I see is Stella's red pen 🖊 😳 😐
ReplyDeleteYou will overcome it soon.
Dear Poster, don't worry much it will reduce with time and also, learn to control your self emotions.
ReplyDeleteBut that wedding day, hmmmmmm , you might cry a river ooooo.
Eya, welcome my sister, my own is bad that I cry if I see someone crying.
ReplyDeleteThese days I try hard to control it, when I notice the tears coming, I try breath control ( breath in and out slowly) and it actually helps. You can try it too
🤣🤣 @ Stella red pen, on your wedding day na correct cry u go cry be dat.
ReplyDelete😂😂😂
ReplyDeleteMama Stellz!
Always carry tissue and handkerchief inside bag, wear less makeup because this is who you are.
ReplyDeleteNa me be this . I am 36 and I cry . Even when watching cartoon with my children I cry . It is my strenght jare . When I was single I cashed out . Imagine professing live to your boo and crying . Bank alert everywhere . As a banker if a man is chasing me I will just start crying and he will open Acct fast fast out of guilt . I can cry for Africa . Nkiru sylvanus has nothing on me !!
DeleteThis one strong o 😂😂😂😂
DeletePlease Stella say what is in your mind so that I laugh cry from here
ReplyDeleteAll the comments here are funny
I need to control it though, they said too much of everything is bad.
ReplyDeleteI just hope Aunty Stella has not forgotten me like this for the 10k giveaway. Haven't seen alert just.
I am usually like that too. Today I was so surprised on how I challenged a VIO officer, without the thing rolling... So proud of myself today.
ReplyDeleteThis got more funny with stellla response.😅😅😅😅. Poster there is nothing you can do. Just cry on. Nothing do you.
ReplyDeleteBetter start listening to Rap songs like Eminem, DMX, Ja rule, With all the hoes and bitches. As daddy waa will say "Come off it""
ReplyDeleteI used to be like this, but somehow since I gave birth, I've stopped crying I don't know what happened. Even after I lost my dad, I couldn't cry. There's nothing wrong with it. Chris Jenner cries at the slightest thing and I think it's cute
ReplyDeletePoster you better stop crying or reduce it to the minimal else your tear will soon finish
ReplyDeleteWhen u start having children u will stop
ReplyDeleteI don't think there's anything wrong with you. Na so God create you, but if it is beginning to give you concern, then you can start praying about it. After praying, start confessing that you no longer cry unnecessarily. Confess it multiple times daily, before long it will stop. Confession releases a consciousness in you and enables God to act on your confession.
ReplyDeleteThis use to be me, I cry like it's going out of fashion then I started praying about it. I kept saying I no longer want to cry at silly things, I want to cry for God's goodness towards my life. Before I know it, I stopped crying. Even when I try to cry, I don't.To the glory of God, I overcame the emotional part of me
ReplyDeleteI am same thing,too emotional I cry to everything,even saying goodbye I cry too. Nothing is wrong with you,it helps check your emotions.
ReplyDeleteI remember during covid,I had postnatal depression I didn’t know but I noticed I stopped crying,I kept telling my husband am not okay I don’t cry again that’s not me,to God be the glory am okay now and back to my crying business 😂😂
good afternoon.happy Sunday to all of us
ReplyDelete@ poster, pls use your crying to pray for Nigeria & good Nigerians!...na so.
Stella pls post.i don't know where my comments go to..