STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
FACEBOOK LOVER PROPOSAL AND THE OBSTACLES
Hello
Please I need help to save my relationship.
I will go straight to the point so that I won't take much of your time.
I am a single mother of one, my child is six years old a boy I am 37. I met a man he is 43, a white on Facebook 10 months ago we started dating, he loves me and I love him too.
Our relationship is a very serous one, he respects me and my son.
He gave me 70% of his time we talk every day with video calls, he does not abuse me in any way, he's very free with my son and my family members including my mother she talk to him once in a while. He supported me encourage me always.
I have never met a man who treated me this way, when we met I was like a skeleton no man would look at me because hunger has finished my fresh. I struggle with my son all alone, if not God I would have given up my child, I was depressed, I cried every night and day for help. This guy breath life into me again.
He proposed to me and I've accepted him. He wants to come to Nigeria soon to spend some weeks meet my family members probably we can get married.
He want to come because of me. We've planned everything.
Few days ago, he told me that I have to give him an invitation.
He told me I will include international Passport number then asked me if have I said no and I don't have.
He actually feel bad, this really got deep inside me he's right at least I have to try to do something to prove that I love him that's the only thing he asked from me.
He said he's going to wait for me to do passport so that I can include the number in the invitation later and other details of mine.
I really need help, i am feeding from hand to mouth, struggle with my son in school is not easy for me I really believed that he is the help I have been sent by God.
Please post me anonymous. I need help and advice too.
Thank you very much.
You need help how? we should give you money to go and make passport? are you for real? You dont have a Job or means of supporting yourself so that automatically disqualifies you from inviting anyone...
Here in Germany if you want to invite anyone, you need to include slip of your salary for some months, proof of accommodation et al.
If this is not scam then tell him to enter Nigeria as a tourist, you dont need to invite him at all please. He does not need your passport details to be given visa.
Since he has been helping you, please beg him to send you money for the passport, you would only need 100 pounds or 200 dollars or 200 euros to achieve this and thats chicken change.....However i am not sure he has a Job if he can give you 70 percent of his time every day.. Probably someone living off government allowance.
I wish you all the best my dear.....
Keep us updated.
*side eyes*
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ReplyDeletethe problem i see with this post is this part "I have to prove my love to him" Sweetheart you do not need to prove anything to him. it is this mindset that keeps women stuck and used by abusive men. If he really wants 2 see you, he will make a way. na man dey prove love to woman, no be the other way around. maybe he has seen some low self esteem in you and your energy is giving off desperate vibes. relax, n let him be the one eager to make a way to come n see him. stop operating from mindset of lack
DeleteStella mama has said it all. Poster pele. Good afternoon
ReplyDeleteWhich advice do you need? Passport is around 50k, if you don't have the money, ask him for help. Did you not tell him about your situation for him to know that you cant afford it? He can travel to Nigeria as a tourist without you inviting him. If he cant help you withe the funds, move on. You dont even know what this man does. You have to be opened to him. Good luck to you.
ReplyDeletePassport is less than 30k
DeletePassport is presently 60k
DeleteE be like say Stella no know as e Dey go for naija.you say 100 or 200 euro na chicken change?some people never gather N10k for that naija for years.
ReplyDeleteStella is referring to the oyibo man Sending her that amount as a chicken change not from the poster.
DeleteTry dey talk truth it's not that bad.
DeleteU are not getting it anon...she is trying to make the poster understand that, 100 or 200 euro is a chicken change to that oyinbo man over there if truly he cares and love her.
DeleteStella meant that's a chicken change to someone living and working abroad in reference to the man. Kindly read to understand 1st.
DeleteShine your eyes. Don't be too desperate and put yourself into more trouble.
ReplyDeleteWhy do I feel like someone's identity is about to be stolen? I wish you well.
ReplyDeleteYepa, Stella you are brutal but poster she's 100 correct. Let's appreciate Stella's red pen today. The ink no go dry o.
ReplyDeleteAmin
DeleteLovely red ink today
DeleteI smell scam
ReplyDeleteSame here.
DeleteAsk him for the money since he knows your condition.
Aunty tell him to send money for your passport na since he is taking care of you,sending passport money won't be a big deal unless he is broke too.Aunty shine your eyes o
ReplyDeleteAsk him for the money
ReplyDeleteIn some countries, you can get your passport for free so he may not even have considered you need money to get the passport
If you’ve always being open about your financial situation, this shouldn’t be a problem. If not, the good luck explain why you can’t afford this small amount
The money he will spend to come see you is nothing compared to this
Also check him out well to make sure he’s real. Hope you have done plenty video calls cause there are scammers using white guys picture to lure people
Which county abeg is passport free
DeleteI really don't understand how love blinds a person to the point that they don't even see the bold handwriting on the wall in caps lock.
ReplyDeleteDoes that mean if you don't get this passport,it would hinder your supposed oyibo 'fiancé' from coming to see his future wife??
Call me old fashioned but why would he even propose through Facebook if not to totally sway you from reality. He should wire you the money if he truly wants to come see you..it's that simple.
Again,why are you still begging when you've got an oyibo 'husband to be'😪😪🙄
Receive sense IJN...
Proposing to someone before coming to see them is very normal. All that’s left is to see each other, verify and continue
Delete16:40 Someone you've not met before??
DeleteSomeone you might not have seen his bad sides to know if you can manage it, because apparently,everyone is an angel on phone...That's desperation pls.
Yes o love rules
DeleteThey tell you they are coming to see you for marriage. It’s only if things go very badly on that visit that the marriage plan will be cancelled
Poster, please shine your eyes before story enter this whole matter.
ReplyDeletePoster, tell me the country he's from to confirm my suspicion and I will tell you something happening. Something isn't right here. A man who loves and want you will go any length to meet with you. You talked about him helping you, was it financially or encouragement? If it's financially, he can still help out this time.
ReplyDeleteMy advice is that, first and foremost fix yourself first before trying to go into marriage so you're not treated like a piece of shit.
Be careful is all I can tell you.
Poster if that guy truly loves you, want to be with you he should send you the money for passport. Tell him you cannot afford money for passport which is around 45k let him try and raise 30k and ask you to complete it since you don’t have a job or you are feeding from hand to mouth .
ReplyDeleteDon’t let desperation take you to our early grave oh, guy man is catching cruise with you while you are falling for real thinking that is your meal ticket. Be careful with this man please
He should send you money to do passport now,it's about 60k here abi it's Bvs you want to contribute to do the passport for you? Let me tell you something, sometimes it's better to always prepare ahead Incase opportunity like this comes you will grab it...if you know within you it's not scam,look for money and do passport
ReplyDeleteIs he Indian? Na question Sha....
ReplyDeleteI’ve seen letter of invitation with no passport number
ReplyDeleteIs pasposrt number required now?
37 n this broke and relationship is what is making you write chronicle. You never ready to be serious with your life
ReplyDeletePls stop
DeleteWhy can’t she do relationship
Maybe this is what will bring financial security
Or the poor don’t have emotional and sexual needs
Aunty, u will soon be scammed and I won't like u coming back here to cry oooo..
ReplyDeleteI have a cousin brother who is 28years dating a woman of 40years.. the woman is in USA. Recently, she sent money to him to go get his passport.
Also, sincerely, an Oyinbo man doesn't need ur invitation to get a visa , he has so many means he can use to get a Nigeria visa, make I even shock you, some countries are allowed to Nigeria on visa on arrival, so look well before them use your identity commit crime ooo..
I wish you well
You people should have given him the money
DeletePeople trying to file for someone can get discouraged by bringing money and the thing can fall apart
He does not need your passport number to come to Nigeria.
ReplyDeleteHe can apply for tourist visa, simple.
What exactly do you need our help for?
I think letter of invitation is faster and more guaranteed
DeleteNa you gettam. She want make una giv am money for passport. Hmmm Egungun be careful na express you dey go.............
DeleteI've never seen a letter of invitation with passport number unless it's now a requirement by Nigerian immigration. An invitation letter is all about you informing them that you are inviting Mr/Ms A to visit you for x duration. Include the purpose if for instance they are coming for a wedding, experience the rich culture, etc . You will also include if they will stay with you and if you will fund their day to day expenses while they are around.
DeleteHe probably just wants your passport details/screenshot to give his people in case anything happens to him while visiting you. Na wa
Be careful. All that glitters is not gold. Are you not saving from the money he gives you?
ReplyDeleteThe quest to marry oyibo or travel out of naija is real. God order your steps@poster. You did not say the kind of help you need. Whether advice or money. Let me assume you need advice because money should not be an issue going by your post that you are now looking very good due to the man's care. Shine your eyes. 419 or Yahoo People are the most patient people. It does not matter how long he has been dating you. Shine your eyes. Goodluck
ReplyDeleteI smell human or organ trafficking. Poster, don't go with the man please.
ReplyDeleteNahhh
DeleteHe would have paid for the passport if that’s the case
They come in different ways. Who can say who really this stranger is?
DeleteThis na new begging format, because you hear Stella talk about money, you carry yeye story wen you wan take beg come.
ReplyDeleteIf you don't have money for passport,go the market and start pushing wheel barrow, from now to December, you be able to realize the money for the passport.
Giveaway scavenger, with new format.
😂😅😅😅🤣🤣🤣 you people are wicked on this blog oh
Delete😂 😂 😂 😂
DeleteNa wao,was actually waiting for this
DeletePush barrow ke inside blazing sun
Delete😂😂😂😂Anon 16:11, abeg na no kill me with laugh. Good evening
DeleteJust like Stella said, for you to invite someone means you must be financially grounded as you will prove funds to maintain the visitor while he is in the country. Your address, work, bank statement and income flow will be demanded. Same is done when abroad people are inviting us.
ReplyDeleteAll these you dont have. Just be careful and come out clear and clean to the man. The fact that he is white does not mean he has a job. Many of them are living from hand to mouth too.
I wish you luck and may God open the doors of breakthrough for you and your son.
Do you have the means of caring for him when he visits?you can't expect him to DO EVERYTHING ALONE,better to wait until then!
ReplyDeleteDon’t wait
DeleteIf he likes you now, go with the the flow
I don't think he needs your passport number for him to be invited to Nigeria. But you still need to get a passport in case he wants to invite you abroad too. Ask God to open your eyes if this is all a scam.
ReplyDeleteYou're not far from the truth
DeleteMadam, dont let hunger push you into what you will spend the rest of your life regretting.
ReplyDeleteHave you done investigations into this man. What about his family members?
Why is he still single at his age?
Are you sure he is even single.
How about his mental health, is he 100 percent ok upstairs?
There are many wearing suit and tie who should be in mental homes under 24 hour surveillance.
You sound very hungry and very desperate and this will blind you to reason and to obvious red flags.
I see nothing wrong in telling him straight up, that you cannot afford a passport any the moment as your major concern is your son's welfare.
If he wants you, he will find a way to get to you.
I would advise you to be extremely careful.
Extremely.
Being single at 43 is not shock abroad
DeleteLive your life and not someone else’s