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EX DRUNKARD NEEDS ADVICE
Stellzzz, Hmnnn I used to be a roaring drunk, as in It was so bad I can wake up brush teeth and swig, drinks was to my purse what makeup is to some women's bags.
I was so dependent that I required rehab and even after the rehab I was taking steady swigs. Then suddenly I stopped.
I stopped so completely that the smell of any alcohol turns my insides, i can walk into a supermarket and once I see the section I'd want to puke, If I see some drinks, I feel queasy, I'd be wondering how did I allow the green liquid into my belly?
If someone pees and flushed with smell of alcohol I'd be so irritated. Its now turning to an issue with my husband cos I can't stand to sleep next to him cos of the stench of beer.i feel like a fanatic or radical Muslim(no offence).
Stellzzz, Hmnnn I used to be a roaring drunk, as in It was so bad I can wake up brush teeth and swig, drinks was to my purse what makeup is to some women's bags.
I was so dependent that I required rehab and even after the rehab I was taking steady swigs. Then suddenly I stopped.
I stopped so completely that the smell of any alcohol turns my insides, i can walk into a supermarket and once I see the section I'd want to puke, If I see some drinks, I feel queasy, I'd be wondering how did I allow the green liquid into my belly?
If someone pees and flushed with smell of alcohol I'd be so irritated. Its now turning to an issue with my husband cos I can't stand to sleep next to him cos of the stench of beer.i feel like a fanatic or radical Muslim(no offence).
Is this normal? Am I over reacting? Believe me I can't help it.
I dont know if its normal and i cant give advice cos i cant stand the smell of alcohol...You wont find any in my home or around me.... I dont know what to advice you to do oh...
Did you both use to drink together? If Yes, wahala dey!
Hmmm... Lemme read comments. Good afternoon
ReplyDeleteHow did you stop?
ReplyDeleteHelp him too
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DeleteHe may not be a drunk na. He probably takes alcohol from time to time like every normal person
DeleteLol... Ex distillery.
ReplyDeleteNice point of correction 😂😂😂
DeleteAh ahh,Poster tell your hubby to always brush his teeth before bedtime or lick mint,that way you won't have to perceive any nonsense.
ReplyDeletePersonally,I won't even talk to you,if I perceive anything,talk more of letting you sleep on the same bed as I am.
Thank God for your redemption and nothing is wrong with you.
Brushing doesn’t help
DeleteIt’s in your breath for a bit
Madam poster are you pregs
Wear face mask, maybe it'll help. Try out different things to help you out. Air freshener, mint . Mind control like humming, singing, positive thoughts etc. Google to see what can work for you. Good luck 😃
ReplyDeletePoster, the same way you went to rehab, why don't you arrange for him to go too? In the mean time tell him to always bath and brush his teeth before coming to bed and explain to him that the smell of alcohol, makes you throw up.
ReplyDeleteDid you read that rehab helped her in her story? She stopped on her own. And she didn't say her husband drinking is too much like she used to.
DeleteIf you are from Delta St, ask your ppl about your disdain for alcohol. I know of one juju dey do on alcohol and give someone. That person will forever hate anything alcohol...of cos there will be side effects, even up to insanity.
ReplyDeleteI remember one lady that hated her husband love for cigarettes, after that rituals was performed on the man, he never touches any smokes but later developed some kind of madness, which they took time and money to solve.
Am not saying my talk is final sha.
Lol..
DeleteSame thing that crossed my mind.
Not just Delta tho, I have also heard someone from badary in Lagos state speak of it
Your people went the juju way for you to stop.. i have a distant relative that was a complete drunk.. now the smell of alchohol repulse him.. i was told him mom went to a herbalist who did the magic. It could have been prayers too.
ReplyDeleteThere is nothing wrong with moderate alcohol as far as i am concerned. Because it now irritates you doesn't mean you should become intolerant of those who still take alcoholic drinks.
ReplyDeleteShe’s not intolerant
DeleteAre system is repulsed
She can’t help it
Poster sleep in a different room when he takes alcohol for now
He might learn to drop it as it bothers you so much but don’t push him
You are like those women wey don do ashewo well well but becomes intolerant of those still doing ashewo just becomes you have repented.
ReplyDeleteIf you read her post and still typed this then you are judgementally very stupid
DeleteThe best bet poster will be to help him out as well. This has nothing to do with you, you tackle issues from the root and not the leaves. You are just irritated because you don't like the odor. So you need to kill the smell to have peace. So help your husband stop drinking or better still help make him to take something that will always mask the smell for you. Shikena
ReplyDeleteAlcohol : This one serious issue , but thank God i was able to let go since December last year and God has been doing a lot of great workings in my Life.......
ReplyDeleteTry and talk to your husband about the issue and how it affects you especially when you encouragewabr to sleep at night.. It requires patience on your path too .
ReplyDeleteUgochinyerem
Try and talk to your husband about the issue and how it affects you especially when you encouragewabr to sleep at night.. It requires patience on your path too .
ReplyDeleteUgochinyerem
Kindly let us know how you stopped. You might be helping someone here.
ReplyDeleteDon't know what to advice you sis
Your giving up alcohol has saved your liver and kidneys . Alcohol consumption contributes to liver and kidney diseases. I know cos I lost a family member who was a chronic alcoholic to liver disease
ReplyDeleteWhy do I think poster is pregnant?
ReplyDeleteIf you're not pregnant then pls get him to use mints or chew groundnut to put off the smell of his alcohol
Another angle
DeleteAre you sure you are not pregnant at the moment? please take it easy with the man and keep praying for him.
ReplyDeleteI don't think there's anything much to do. You just simply tell your husband how you feel about it especially if he knows your alcohol history
ReplyDeleteInfact I personally always ask myself what people see in alcohol. It's not sweet, it doesn't freshen your skin, doesn't give you blood. Please why do you take it????
ReplyDeleteMe, when I'm high, it helps me forget some of the things bothering me 'for that moment'
Delete@God's Favour,loud it please
DeleteTry telling your husband how the smell of alcohol makes you feel. I believe he will make some adjustments for you. Gods speed
ReplyDeletePerhaps you should consider seeking professional help. It could be that your mind has set this automatic repulsion as a way, to help you not go back to drinking. It has nothing to do with Oga. Let him be. Work out your own issues.
ReplyDeleteYou sound like a very compulsive and addictive person. You don’t have to go to either extremes. Everything in life there’s a balance, moderation and self control. Please also religion has nothing to do with your compulsive behavior. Seek help and learn discipline and self control.
ReplyDeleteI don't have any advice to give you, rather I'm just happy you've stopped drinking. With the rate you said you were drinking, you probably would have had issues with your organs in the future, so thank God for delivering you.
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