MARRIED MAN'S PROPOSAL
I'm 30 years old.
A married man is on my case.. His wife has been trying to conceive for 16 years. He stays in the abroad. He wants to get me pregnant while he starts my relocation plans to his base.( Europe) .
I'm 30 years old.
A married man is on my case.. His wife has been trying to conceive for 16 years. He stays in the abroad. He wants to get me pregnant while he starts my relocation plans to his base.( Europe) .
He wants me to come with work visa and he gives me papers through the baby.
Then traditional Marriage will be next year while i am there.
I hate polygamy, I hate baggage /wahala. I dont want to be a second wife to any man but this is dead on arrival, Dude isn't ready to divorce first wife and he has a foreign partner in the abroad with kids.
Do I string him along and back off at the last minutes? My family won't accept.
First and foremost, please wake up.. He will get you pregnant and you will remain in Nigeria. They use this tricks on a lot of Ladies all the time.... You cannot leave Nigeria with a working visa to any Country in Europe... Working visa to work where and as what? All that has changed oh.
First and foremost, please wake up.. He will get you pregnant and you will remain in Nigeria. They use this tricks on a lot of Ladies all the time.... You cannot leave Nigeria with a working visa to any Country in Europe... Working visa to work where and as what? All that has changed oh.
Secondly if you travel with pregnancy and birth the baby in the diaspora, you are the one who will give him papers and not the other way round, your child will afford you the opportunity to stay on as its guardian, you are the one who decides who the father of your baby is at that stage.....
Why do you want to get entangled with someone who already has two wives? Trust me when i tell you that you will become a baby mama and you will be in Nigeria..
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NARRATIVE TWO
WEIRD DREAMS
Hello my people. Please what does seeing a big fish inside a well in a dream mean? Second one, I sometimes dream of seeing some of my friends from my university and high school days but someone said it's not a good dream. I want to know if it's true. Thank you my good people....
Hello my people. Please what does seeing a big fish inside a well in a dream mean? Second one, I sometimes dream of seeing some of my friends from my university and high school days but someone said it's not a good dream. I want to know if it's true. Thank you my good people....
Big fish could mean that you like fish a lot and the friends could mean that there is something in your past that you didnt tidy up that comes up in your dreams like that.....
Narrative one...You is naive and a lil bit greedy...
ReplyDeleteStella the dream "interpretator "🤣🤣
DeletePoster 1,go ahead and be a baba mama then write another chronicle when he abandons you and the baby in Nigeria.
DeletePoster 1, abort mission. There's no headway in this marriage arrangement except sorrow. Abort.
DeletePoster 2, seeing a big fish in a well means you're limited, caged and imprisonment. You're not at your destined position. Pray against backwardness and ask God to release you fro. Captivity...
Wait, he has a wife whom he ain't ready to divorce. Again he has a foreign partner with kids. Come babe what are you looking for in that man? You see full house and wanna chook head? Don't do this to yourself naa please. This is July, TM is next year with no date. Babe try get sense, you hear.
ReplyDeletePoster 1, for you to even bring this issue here means you are seriously considering it and probably looking for just one or two comments that will encourage you to tow that path with "good" reasons.
DeleteYou already know deep within the right thing to do. Do it and stop being so desperate. Decisions taken out of desperation always end badly.
Do the right thing. And I know you know fully well the right thing to do.
Poster 2, I wonder why we try to attach meanings to every dream we have. I personally don't. Some dreams are just what it is...dream! Funny enough, I also dream of taking exams, being in a secondary school, etc but I don't put my mind to it.
Attaching meaning to such dreams will only build up fear in me, and fear gives the devil a foothold to operate in my life and I am not ready to give him that opportunity 😃.
This is how I weigh a dream to know if it is true: it must align with God's Word! If it doesn't, I don't brood on it. I throw it away sharperly. I am not ready to give up my faith in God's Word. It is too precious biko😃
Blackberry is like her name is Obianuju 🤣😂😅, (the one that comes in when there’s is already a full house)
DeletePure inspiration, true that not all dreams have meaning. But I used to dream that I was writing exams for the longest time and I finished school over 11yrs ago. Guess what, I’m back in school now and I could have sworn I’d never ever go back to school again. So it could mean the poster will go back to school to take another course or certification.
DeleteFirst poster,if you marry him,you will be the third partner abi I don't understand this story.If it's dead on arrival,why are you thinking about it.If travelling abroad is important too you,better get there and make sure all is well before getting serious/pregnant.
ReplyDeleteShe's a very greedy human. She sent in this to see if she will get encouragements...Poster please dive in
DeletePoster one: Are you sure you really want to go that route? Good afternoon
ReplyDeleteMy question is na by force to travel?
DeletePoster 1, why una like baggage like this? Shey na abroad make sense leave you, you said he has a foreign partner with kids so why must he get you pregnant?
ReplyDeleteI remembered a chronicle that was posted years back about a lady who's a side chic, the man gave her all the comfort she needed, apartment, car, etc, got her pregnant and took her abroad. The man and his wife are ttcing then, aunty gave, but she didn't come back to Nigeria with her child. The man took the child from her, don't know if anyone remember the story... Please wise up ooo
Chill pill
Poster 1 better wise up and dump that man,like Stella said,he won't take you to any abroad for work permit.you will be a baby here caring for your child alone...why the desperation?? Just 30yrs and you want to enter into big wahala with your two eyes wide open? forever is too long to be miserable and be regretting
ReplyDeleteNot supporting the poster but how's 30yrs 'just?'
DeleteYou know what she meant...its just 30yrs
DeleteP1 is a criminal in disguise but I won't blame you.
ReplyDeleteThis buhari plague wey dey outside wey dey hit everybody no dey allow person reason well at times.
First poster Do NOT DO IT! DO NOT DO IT! DO NOT DO IT! I'm done.
ReplyDeleteNarrative, you are not serious. please leave that man to go with his baggage. Abroad is no heaven ooohian.
ReplyDeletePoster! My naive heart survived the lies of a married man ...it took me 8years to recover. Please leave him n move on
ReplyDeletePoster one :LEAVE THAT MAN
ReplyDeletePlease don't be greedy,trust me you won't be happy in that kind of marriage,your own man will find you.
Na you guys don’t understand the plan
ReplyDeleteShe’ll get work visa and go to Europe...uk is doing that. You still need a sponsor as in money for tickets and to pay for visa etc. he’ll help with that.
But she won’t get pregnant as he intends. She’ll find her way from there
Lol… you make me laugh.
Deleteshe must get pregnant for that man before he’d think of taking her abroad. So he’d be sure he’s not spending his money by taking her abroad for nothing. Because the pure nigerian breed baby he wants is the main factor in him taking her abroad.
Now guess what, after she gets pregnant he still will not sponsor her abroad.💯
Well numero im just stating the plan
DeletePeople are saying she can’t get work visa to Europe and that’s simply not true. She can
If she gets pregnant first, the work visa will be impossible cause you get different medical test before that
If the guy is truly desperate for a child, he will get her the visa hoping she’ll keep her end of the bargain
Stupid and greedy girl! You will never smell that abroad . It’s Nigeria he will let you remain forever!
ReplyDeleteAnd he already has two wives ? Ah are you that slow ?
Poster there is nothing like working visa in Europe. Stella has said it all. That man will never divorce his wife because obviously he got his papers from her. Birthing a chid in Europe does not earn you passport. You will get a birth certificate and thanks for coming. Shine your eyes ooo. LEAVE THAT MAN OOOO. YES I AM SHOUTING
ReplyDeleteSo what’s the uk caretaker visa
DeleteThere are plenty work visas to Europe
Anon@18:13 there is no work visa to Scandinavian countries ooo. UK is not in Europe again ooo. Check your facts right!
DeleteNkiru uk is not in European Union
DeleteIt’s in Union
There are 44 of them and only a few a Scandinavian countries
Nkiru uk is not in European Union
DeleteIt’s in Europe *
There are 44 of them and only a few a Scandinavian countries
Poster 1, kindly walk away right now. Why string along? what kind of mentality is that? HE has a wife, and cant divorce herfor you while go into such a relationship when you know you cant handle the trouble that comes with it? Move on now and don't be greedy,
ReplyDeleteStella, people can go to Europe with a work visa.
If tables were turned and you were the man's 1st wife would you like it? 🤔
ReplyDeletePoster there is nothing like working visa to Europe do you speak German, swedish, norweign, or dutch. That man is just choping you oo. You can only go to Europe through family ties or school. Family ties is thru husband and wife you must do court marriage. Don't come and cry later here ooo. A word is enough for the wise.
ReplyDeletePoster 1
ReplyDeleteThere's nothing like stringing along with him. As you string along, you commit yourself and tie yourself with that kind of rope used at wharfs.
It's old format for abroad men. If you're in doubt, try and see. Back off.
Poster 2
Any dream that has to do with primary, secondary and university environment or class mates is not a good dream. It's a stage one has passed. Dreaming of/about them means backwardness. I guess this kind of dream comes when good things are about happening to you. Its deeper than you're taking it. Arise!
Poster 1. Please wise up, don't give in for this tricks before you regret, had I know.
ReplyDeletePoster if you Love yourself, you better leave that man and move on with your life.
ReplyDeletePoster1 you should be smart and don’t allow these married men play with your brain, you should tell him that he should process everything when you get there you will get pregnant. Scope him too till you get there and play him.
ReplyDeleteYou are believing lies from the pit of hell with your two eyes open abi you will be the one to cry. He has a wife over there plus one here yet you don’t want to be smart abi I pity you oh.
Poster 1 please listen to Stella,but something still tells me you won't.
ReplyDeleteYou don hear abroad na.
A word is enough for the wise
Your own man will come with more opportunities than you can imagine
Poster 1: you think you’re wis me but you are otherwise. This guy is the one stringing you along. Trust me
ReplyDeletePoster 2: the second dream isn’t good at all. It represents draw back, regression, setback you must pray hard and giving alms to the needy. To counter it.
ReplyDeletePoster 1, you are greedy! What are you stringing the man on for if not for material things? Better move on before e hook you.
ReplyDeleteOnly here is the Mans wife doesn’t know about the plan
ReplyDelete16 years is a long time
If he involves the wife, they can both bring you to have a kid for them and move on with your life
@poster1, Stella has said it all. Read what she wrote twice and digest it.
ReplyDeleteFor poster2, from my own understanding, you seeing fish in a well, is a signal of marine activities going on in your life (you need to pray against it). And for the second dream where you see you old friends, God is telling you that you are going back to your old way of life
Lolll dream interpreter🤣🤣🤣🤣 my Goodnessss.. Guys please stop this dream chronicles!! If you can’t pray it off please go to Alfas or ifas to help you
DeleteI wonder what you are still doing with that man.
ReplyDeleteAt just 30 years,you want to decide to look for wahala because of japa. You can japa by yourself you dont need a man. Go and research and start saving up
ReplyDeleteGbam!
DeletePoster 1 - do you love yourself? Do you think you can’t do better than this married man with a truckload of baggage? Is the “supposed” abroad worth it to you? What if you remain in Nigeria after being impregnated? Hugs.
ReplyDeleteGreedy Bi*ch @ poster 1
ReplyDeletePoster 1...just get a jotter and a pen,go around to polygamous homes you know and ask questions on how good they've been living then you can decide if u can trade on their path.
ReplyDeletePoster 2. just pray.... spirit of limitations.
Poster no 1, I hope it isn’t because of an actor who just had a 2nd baby for a married man in a Scandinavian country. Did you see her post the child father’s pics? Do you think she wouldn’t if he wasn’t married? Is that the kind of life you want at 30? Many people fantasize & romanticize life abroad until they get here. In your case you may not even go past the airport! What will you do as an illegal 3rd wheel in a strange country? A work permit is NOT citizen!
ReplyDeleteThe man will pretend not to know you. Some young ladies are so greedy & shameless.
When did Nigeria descend so low that a 30 year old will sell their future for a ticket to slavery? Yes it is like slavery because you will be an illegal single mom initially working odd jobs at below freezng temorśYou sufcvjuh if you get there. Somehow I think your mind is made up to do this.
You are young but because you seem mean, you will do it out of greed & regret it. It is wicked to displace a woman because she is TTC. Why did the man not marry the “foreign” mother of his kids? With those kids it’s not like he is under pressure. See the life timidity turned our youths to? Instead of organizing and protesting the lack of jobs & opportunities like we at least tried to do up until the 80s under the more wicked military regimes, you prefer to upset another woman. It’s easier to upset a fellow woman than carry placard to Alausa or whichever state you are from as I’m sure you are eager to become part of the “we are the Nigerian wives in Nigeria association” led by “Mercy Adekaz”
Keyboard malfunction..*temperatures below freezing*
DeletePoster 1, you just want to intentionally bring kids into this world to punish them for your own selfish gains, don't you think of their future?!
ReplyDeleteI just can't understand how a woman would conveniently say she wants to destroy peoples' homes, and you are a woman who'll have kids someday! Stupid chronicle, don't go and get your own man be looking for someone else's man.