Do you believe in reconnecting with an old love believing it would be better than the first time even though a lot of issues happened?
Do you believe that once a lover, always a lover?
Do you have a story about going back to an old love and it worked out well? or it flopped and caused more problems? or was all about the once a lover thing? I mean would you sleep with someone now, just because you slept with them before?
I know someone who keeps meeting with someone for old times sake and his excuse is the once a lover thing...... (Okafors law)
Lets gist!
If I happen to be in room with my PH ex, sex must definitely happen, her BJ is the best I've received in my life, better than my wifes. I still have those fantasies from the past.
ReplyDeleteYou have concluded that sex must happen without taking into consideration that her bjs might be the best to you but your technique was not the best to her. She actually might not want to ever have sex with you.
DeleteAnon 15:14, lol. That's another angle for real🤣🤣. Baba is comparing an ex's Bj game to his wife's, Smh. Why you no marry your ex cos of her Bj game?
DeleteGood sex doesnt bring about Good marriage, mark, you're not married yet, but know this.
Delete15:14 thank you,even his wife might just be managing him.see this life nobody get am finish.thats the mistake alot of cheats don't realize.
DeleteMy dear. It not easy. A goat eat thorns and still remains a goat!
DeleteOnce I X you, like tontoh said I have had a burial ceremony in my head and mind for you, I don't look back. If by chance we meet on a neutral ground, after greetings I won't give you the chance for any other discussions
ReplyDeleteThe problem is the kind of men you attract, ask yourself why Tonto attracts such men, since ure using her as example
DeleteSame
DeleteI will never find an ex attractive ,its just like we never met, I don't take things and people too serious that's my problem,I have the kindest heart but when I stop being cool that person becomes a stranger instantly..
DeleteThen, you don't have the kindest of hearts. Everyone giving themselves labels of what they aren't.
DeleteMy ex boyfriend that’s now in Europe kept disturbing me sometime ago. He told me he would love to come and see me in Abuja as soon as he visit Nigeria. When I reminded him that I’m now married he said I should forget about it that “once chopped is always chop able”😳
ReplyDeleteFan I trust you to insult shege commot for his body for making such comment.If it has been working for him with his other exs,you case is different.
DeleteHahahaha
DeleteHe understands the law
What an insult!
DeleteWhat an insult!
DeleteI hope you blast him? What an insult, that means he thinks yotr cheap, hope you didnt cheap yourself while dating him,vos for him to tell you that hmmmmm,no respect for you at all
DeleteOnce a lover, always a lover is not real for everyone.
ReplyDeleteMy ex boyfriend is on my whatsapp contact list, and i feel nothing for him. My mind does not even go there when i see him.
So people that have like 15/20 exes will be doing ‘once a lover, always a lover’ no be die be that.
I believe exes can still be cordial tho, but not in terms of still doing rubbish.
Still do much I love with my Ex , we meet again ,sometime match this year ,we plan to reconcile.
ReplyDeleteI have gone back to an old lover before,The love rekindled and we continued from where we stopped.
ReplyDeleteIt saved me the stress of getting to know a new person all over again,trying to feel comfortable and all that.
But that thing that chased me the first time came back knocking and this time with full force,Problem came ×100 o
I japa,better off being just friends with him.
Eating your vomit doesn't always end well,I learnt the hard way.
Never again🤲🏾
That eating your vomit is such an irritating analogy. Aren’t there other metaphors we can use? To think it is even from the Bible.
DeleteHe will forever remain my vomit!
DeleteCalm down abeg! You ate the vomit once, didn’t you? 🤷🏽♀️
Delete15:17 you are right
DeleteNo need to make a disgusting analogy to make a point
No and never.
ReplyDeleteIf I build what I have destroyed, then I will become a law breaker (Galatians 2:18)
No thank you.
ReplyDeleteI no fit do am; when we break up my ex is dead to me PERIODT. No we can never ever be friends so that my next don’t get insecure and me I no fit lie to my next who you be!
Unless I am still single & the other party is single and we are not engaged to anyone and we are willing to give love another chance apart from that the Okafor law can never be for me
ReplyDelete99% of the time, it ends in kerewa.
ReplyDeleteLol😂😂😂
DeleteI am not friends with my exes. I move on very fast! I don't want to put anyone I am currently seeing in a position where she has to be on her toes always when I receive phone calls. Once you become an ex, do I even know you? Have we met?? Geddifok!
ReplyDeleteCamdan jor! Small thing small thing, buga😪
DeleteNope. There is a reason you are an "Ex" in the first place. We can be cordial as friends but sexual....No. Have moved on.
ReplyDeleteIf I was ever told that I'll go back to my ex not to talk of opening tohtoh I'll never agree but I did went back to my vomit.
ReplyDeleteThis guy was my first,I was naive. I give me all.We were in love until he was transferred to another town.He was coming to see my every weekend,he still maintained his place and I had the keys.Even if it's raining and he entered town he must come see me no matter the time before heading to his place.From every weekend to once in 3wks till he finally stopped coming.i called he claimed work no knowing that guy man has gotten a rich aunty gwe.
One day I went to his place to at least clean up and I met another tenant there,oga had moved out without my knowledge.ha! I cried that day.my first and only heartbreak. I decided to visit him in his town,I went to his office cos he was squatting with a cousin.He wasn't in the office and I waited.Few mins oga drove in with a car.ha! Iga donbuy car! I said no maybe someone else's.To cut story short,few months later oga married his aunty gwe.moved into her house,aunty is rich. I cried and moved on.
Fast forward to present,oga and aunty had a messy divorce,aunty threw iga out and sold their house and move abroad with their kids.
I'm working in that town now and I met oga when he came to my office.Oga crawl back to my heart and my bed😩don't know how it happened but like I never stop loving him.pls don't insult me I know mumu but it is what it is.
Lol no one will judge you, your life your choice .
DeleteJust make sure you’re enjoying and chopping his money proper! Don’t be doing full wife duties and spending on him without him reciprocating oo.
If he’s not giving you the money ,then he’s giving it to someone else that one na you be mumu pass.
Also does it mean after all these years you never moved on ? Because if he has kids with his ex wife then it means they were married for like 5yrs and you’re saying for 5yrs or more you never dated ? Eiii
And the way you speak derogatory of his wife using her age, see as you’re turning out to be aunty gwe gwe for a guy who did you stupid once and is doing it again oo
Anon 17:00 Are you still seeing him? You better be vigilant so that you would experience a more fatal devastating heartbreak this time around.
DeletePlease learn the lesson and RUN.
DeleteHope he won't ghost you again when he gets a richer lady. Dont dare sit comfortable in his heart o.
DeleteHmmm.
DeleteAunty gwe is derogatory term
DeleteFix yourself by stopping using that first
You get mind to open yourself to hurt again
DeleteIf the way he jilted you didn't make you to stop loving him, i'm sure and certain our advice won't......but pls love yourself more, it will save you from future heart break
Delete@18:37 *not
DeleteLolll, this one never get sense. Don't worry, experience will teach you.
DeleteJust learn a bitter lesson that an ex should and will always remain an ex. Never will l try giving one a chance again. Fool we once, you are the fool. Fool me twice, l am the fool. Fool me 3rd time nko, abeg wetin we go call that one?
ReplyDeleteThis is much subject to the nature of marital situation the either party found his / herself.
ReplyDeleteI once dated a lady in my Secondary School days, late 80s, we never quarrel to part but school things and no means of communication brought the gap. We met on social media after 20 something years after. The moment we reconnected, the whole show became fresh. We eventually physically met. It was a great time. The only issue I had with her that made me to cleverly distance myself from her is that she wanted to dominate me at the expense of my home. mba!
The 2nd one that is very similar to hers was an unfortunate situation she met herself in marriage. She's looking good and doing well but her husband happens to be a type that is ever non-challant about her.
She's practically sex starved; at times for 6 months, the husband work with a parastatal that takes him away from town for periods of days, no intimacy. In fact, she's openly begging me for just xxx at all times HABA! And do you know that she was a Pastor in her church? I really feel for her. But I will always ask her what she will preach on pulpit if she engages in such. May God help us. So to me apart from the longer-throat types, marital situation could lead to such.
I agree with your last sentence
DeleteWow what won't we see on SDK?
DeleteWhen we were dating, he was the best thing to ever happen to me. He left me for a new 'corper' in his office. He met me when I was a 'corper' too. Now he is retired and bored as hell and wants to return after about 8 years. We met again early January this year but he kept singing that pensioner song and I felt very irritated. I refused to meet him again oo.
ReplyDeleteYou n old men🤣🤣,please if you must marry an old man, no marry the one wet dey wait for pension o,marry a well grounded CEO grandpa o
DeleteNa wa o. Don't you ever meet rich old men? If person wan chop frog ,make he chop beta one na.
DeleteNever say never
ReplyDeleteDidn't work for me.
ReplyDeleteReconnected and I walked out again cos he had become more manipulative than ever.I dusted him completely after that.
Am here to read comments o,I did not experience ex o,I married my first love
ReplyDeleteMy ex is my ex,
ReplyDeleteFor one of my exes sex will sex definitely happen. In fact we avoid anything to put us in same place. Our breakup was not because we didn't love each other.
ReplyDeleteIt would have happened if not my promise not to sleep with any married man, I might just break that promise soon
Young and beautiful ones keep coming up. Why would I go back to my wrinkled, saggy breast ex? I dey mad?! We move. The beautiful ones are not yet born
ReplyDeleteYou go done really old for your ex to be wrinkled and saggy breasted. Uncle gwe gwe gwe
DeleteAnon 03:02. Yes. Ned Nwoko is my model. Catch them fresh.
DeleteUncle gwegwe. Fresh catcher as Ned is your model he'd better be your model in money making!
DeleteAgadi na agwo ofe. Old man
Anon 10:07, if you are young and fresh, just fill an application---make I manage you too. We die once. Imagine going back to one's vomit. Isn't that insanity?
DeleteImagine the cruelty someone brought forth
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