FRIDAY In House News...

  Hailings.....

IN HOUSE MEMO

This memo is for Blog visitor Eesah....

Please stop gaslighting people to respond and fight you with words... Stop catching cruise with those that cannot control their emotions.... I deleted a comment that was a gaslight today..

I am tired of trying to defend you or studying your comment a 100 times to see if it carries shades or not...I cannot continue like this, you can make your comments without referring to any tribe at all.. State your points and move on....

I will no longer try to shield you but there will be no attacks cos i will not allow your inciting comments anymore... This is not a threat, I want peace here and i want everyone to be blog friends....

Eesah has been here for longer than most of you clamoring for him to go, he has been faithful than most of you, when he worked for me, i tested him with money and he did not fail.... You guys remember he covered the Ooni of ife's coronation for me? those are good days... what happened to you man?

Eesah is not going anywhere but he will definitely change his style of commenting henceforth..... Eesah it is an order. THANK YOU.

Vincent the whatever, I see you are still here and still insulting me under anonymous, Do you want me to give you the shootergal treatment? Do you want me to download your story here? You are free to comment as anonymous but you are not allowed to have an ID here because of all the insults you came to my email to drop and dropped here as anon and with your ID andalso the ones you dropped on the other blog and on Instagram.. I have begged you to leave but you seem to be stuck here..... This is a warning memo........

If you are too proud to admit your mistakes, stay away and go and plan your life scattered life, I don warn you...

Its a very hot day here and we could do with some rain ooooooooooo.

In house news will be back on Monday unless there is an emergency before then.. LMAO...

See you amebos in the Friday night gisting post..... Hehehehehehehehe

To all those who do not like me but still visit my Blog, thank you, God bless you...Mwaaaaaah!!!

Choose love, hate is a damn heavy load!!!

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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD.




I have been so exhausted in the last few weeks in ways I hadn’t thought possible. Especially mentally, one of my kids was sick and had to go to the hospital thrice, business brought its own drama, started a new ministry and all. I was doing a lot of online training and was just mentally exhausted.

Yet I had to be a good mom by not transferring aggression to my kids and they chose this period to also test my patience like never before.

I am so glad I chose the gentle parenting route and each time I feel I am lashing out, I try to call myself to order and remember my resolve to be a gentle parent.

I am in a much better place now, praying helped, relaxed by watching good movies and, having a good laugh also helped.

Also I have come to realise that parenting is not a sprint race but a marathon so I am pacing myself.

That Patience will be tested until they become adults!!...LOL

Right from the pregnancy to the labour room to when your baby gets there, your patience is already stretched I wonder why no one tells us what to expect with motherhood.. Its the toughest course ever i swear but the beauty of it is that you will never fail if you pay attention.  well done babe, you are a positive inspiration and your stories are so refreshing...

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY PATIENCE

''It's my birthday today June 17th and I am grateful to God for my life. I cannot but count my blessings. I am not where I thought I'll be but, I am surely better than yesterday and in God's plan and thought.

Happy birthday to my fellow birthday mates. We will keep going from glory to glory''.

Happy Birthday to you Peshe!!!

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WORRIED MUM

Good day Stella and Bvs 

A Worried Mum My son is 2 and half years old. Let me give a brief summary of his eating habit. The major foods he agrees to take are Pap and Cereals. Getting him to eat regular foods is a tug of war. I have tried different methods.

 He started school this January, I tried not to add cereals to his lunch box initially so that he can be forced to eat the regular food but that didn't work out. He always comes home with half of the food. (The teachers are trying their best I know that).

 He also has a personal Pediatrician who sees him and says he will outgrown it. My major source of worry is that the vomits ALOT and he's always coughing. The cough stops with Antibiotics but after 2/3 days it will start again. Has anyone had this experience? 

How do I get him to start eating well? Any method to stop the constant cough apart from taking drugs. Thank you for your kind suggestions.

Where are the Docs in the house?

I dont think the Antibiotics are doing any good, please take him for proper check up with the Doctor, continuous cough is not a good sign...

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