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Tuesday, June 28, 2022
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Oh no! I won't. That's not enough to feed one person na.
ReplyDeleteHahahaha but I have seen a security man that earns 30k monthly manage his family very well.
DeleteIf I earned 45k or a little less, why not? Everybody marry your class.
DeleteWe can marry and hold off baby making till things improve. So long as both parties are of the same economic and social class, and are compatible in other areas, that 45k is a spring board.
DeleteMs. Saphire you keep winning my heart everyday but only say you don marry😁😁😁 I just like you to be sincere.
Delete@Teejay, he earns 30k, and he manages his family very well. How do you know this? How do you know he survives on this 30k monthly salary, alone?
Delete@ Ms Saphire, even if I earn 5Ok, I WON'T.
Love is important in a relationship, but money too has its own role.
Now you're talking Candy. What gave you the feeling too that it will be just the 45k a man earns that wants to marry will survive on? If you think this security man isn't surviving alone on his 30k, so also could be the 45k prospective husband.
DeleteI agree with Ms Saphire. I believe people should marry within their social class irrespective of gender
DeleteTomorrow’s should be if men would marry ladies who can’t cook 🤣
Delete😄@ Tj.
DeleteCindy, if you earned 50k or less, your taste and wants should be shaped by the size of your pocket. When you then begin to desire designer life and scheme to marry up, that is gold digging. And if that 45k earning guy begin to look for a 7figure earning babe, his is gold digger.
Bottom line; everybody should marry their class.
I may wake up and stab him @ 9t. Why commit murder?
DeleteMs Saphire for President !
DeleteWe share same mindset
Saphire nailed it
DeleteHaaa
ReplyDelete#45k monthly or daily??
In this present Nigeria?
Noooo!
BV Yosola
He has no business getting married in the first place
ReplyDelete😁😁😁You can never disappoint one bit.
DeleteI agree with your Fan, he has no business getting married to a greedy girl who earns nothing.
DeleteAnon.18:43 sarcastically delivered the goods.
DeleteAnd the reciept of acknowledgement was signed by Fan.
He was collecting more than 45k now he doesn't have a job, will I leave him, no.
ReplyDeleteSo yes I'll marry a man that collects 45k with the hope of a better tomorrow
I love you pearl. Everyone is shouting no no. When I married my husband, last two years,his salary was 40k. My own salary was 30k. We did low key wedding and trad the same day. We created plans on how go about our expenses. Today, God been so kind, we are in a much better place. My husband doesn’t joke with me cos he know I married him cos of love. When his family came to attack themselves not me cos he bought his first car and gave it to me to start learning how to drive, he shut all of them up. This is because they make mockery of him during our wedding cos of our low budget wedding. Don’t turn down a good man proposal cos of money.
DeleteMy sister married a rich man but she ran out. Now she said she will rather drink garri with someone that will respect her as wife than someone who will always remind her that she is eating his food
Anon 18:35, you're a good woman. God continue to bless your home. I Iove stories like yours. Even the good book says, never despise a humble beginning. Women this days don't want to go through the process.
DeleteHOPE??
DeleteIt's better you don't hope on any better days and manage his 45k like that because that hope might never come.
Man proposes,God disposes.
18.35 I thank God for your experience. But I am sure, even if things didn't improve as it has, you would have still been with him because both of you started off on the same level. No one lifting or dragging the other up or down. No one is taking any glory of "making" the other. No one playing the "doormat" for the other. You both celebrate every win and grow together.
DeletePearl God bless you.
DeleteNO!
ReplyDeleteNeehi 🚶🏼♀️🚶🏼♀️🚶🏼♀️
ReplyDelete🤣🤣 Neeehi Papa Neeehi
DeleteParis😂😂😂😂😂
DeleteWhy na? It's d Neehi for me
No pls
ReplyDeleteYes, if I love him and I’m working too, no big deal but we are not going welcome a baby 👶 immediately.
ReplyDeletePeople without no salary are marrying too, so what’s 45k earner not to marry.
Another wise and intely woman spotted.
Delete*intelligent
DeleteYes!
ReplyDeleteBut only in my worst nightmare👹
I no come this life to suffer😢😢😭
ReplyDeleteAwon pespire to aspire, food don land.
ReplyDeleteAnd na den dey reproduce like rat.
Burning children then cant take care of.
This indiscriminate reproduction dey always trigger the he!k out of me.My dear na them dey born pass with no shimgbai to cater for them multitudes.
DeleteBurning 🔥 with fire?
DeleteYes with charcoal ..rabata.
DeleteThis has always been an interesting topic. Nobody wan suffer sha!
ReplyDeleteLadies, remember, you could marry a man who earns 500k, and then he loses his job. You also could marry a man who earns 45k, and then he gets something huge later in life.
There's a lady in my church who got married to her husband when he was earning 10k. Yes, 10!! Today, they have several cars and properties, as he is now the admin head of a very big firm.
I'm just saying, look before you leap. Guage a man not by how much he earns, but his visions, goals, aspirations and how committed he is to actualizing them....
Una Gud Evening. #ALiSpeaks
Some women don't see beyond the now. They always think at the moment. They don't think things could take a nosedive in life and then situation changes. It mustn't all be about the money.
DeleteOn point 👌
DeleteTeejay: True bro. A man with lofty dreams and ambitions, coupled with great determination and resilience, will definitely do well in life. Maybe not immediately, but eventually. A woman must look beyond the now and look within to see the spirit that drives the man....
DeleteMeanwhile, if you be man and woman stick with you when you nor get shishi, then when you con get small change, you begin treat her anyhow, 600 years of suffering for you. Idiat!
Can you swear that the man is faithful to his wife who married him when he had little?
DeleteLadies, don't be blackmailed into marrying a man who can't provide for his family. Many women are carrying their family financially without any support from their husbands because they bought into these stories.
And Wht is wrong with women carrying financial responsibilities? Didn't you women want gender equality? Àbí is it only men that should shoulder responsibilities?
Delete22:35, you are right but so many women are guilted into burdens they cannot bear. If you're earning way more than 45k, there's no point playing Mum and letting every argument be won by someone who uses your success against you. Many men sell these stories to women who they will perpetually borrow from.
DeleteIf you're on the same level financially, it's fine to date your wage but you can look at the career choice and trajectory of a person and have an idea of how driven and resourceful they are.
Don't let your greed push you into marrying a man who is selling you a mirage in order to dig into the contents of your real pockets.
As I long as, I also have source of income and he is hardworking and ambitious. Yes, I will marry him.
ReplyDelete👍👍👍
DeleteYes,
ReplyDeleteI married a good man who was not earning anything.
Today, he is worth far more than everything; far more than I ever asked for.
Let the creator, Jesus lead you in choosing a life partner and not money.
Above all, the peace I have in the marriage is priceless.
👍👍👍
Delete👏👏 Peace of mind is priceless
DeleteNa my electric bill and recharge card money for a month be that.
ReplyDeleteThis question is pretty tough. But my answer is YES: I won't marry because of how much a man earns. I will marry because of my convictions and the fact that the man is responsible and of good character. Someone who is earning 45M, may be a murderer or political looter; they are one and the same. Inasmuch as I want to be comfortable in my marriage, I won't sacrifice values for paycheck. The man I am currently in love with is yet to find a job and I have never bothered about it.
ReplyDeleteCan I kiss you right now? You're an intelligent woman and a wise one too.
DeleteMost broke guys are loyal and humble. Not talking about your man though.
DeleteVery humble and loyal o. Dem fit wash under of your shoe sef.
DeleteWho dem wan raise shoulder bone for na?
Make small money touch them first....🤣🤣🤣🤣 your class go dey different.
A person earning 45 million may most likely be a good man. There are many poor men who are a nightmare for their partners. Low Socioeconomic status has a serious link with certain mental and social problems. Don't let poor men looking for helpers and rich women who didn't make the same choice mislead you. Suffer no good for body.
Delete🙄🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃
ReplyDeleteI don't get it oo but let me put it this way. If women saying they can't marry a man earning 40k does that mean these women are not doing well financially themselves to have such men if truly there's love between them? As a woman, he earns 40k and you say no. You what are you earning? Can't it sustain you both if you think you're doing better than him or you too don't have a source of income. What happened to you both adding up and taking care of responsibilities?
ReplyDeleteThe same man that will pick a woman doing nothing and wife him, then set her up for life and when the reverse is the case you all start shouting NO ooo.
What happens to setting a man up as well if you think you're doing well yourself as a woman?
Yes the money is too small but that doesn't mean things won't get better in marriage if as a woman you cover him in some fronts just like he would gladly do if it was in his position.
Most men are wicked!
DeleteSet them up today,tomorrow they deny you and show their true colors.
Women are wired differently,Such dedicated, devoted and pure hearted specie.Set them up and watch them stay loyal till infinity,Unless ofcourse you trigger their bad part.
What statistics gave you the value you used in saying 'Most Men' are wicked? Not even some.
DeleteMe I don't even believe in setting anybody up. I am not your God. Marry your class.
Delete80% of married men are married to a lady who don't earn a dime.
ReplyDeleteThe lady will still want to share house chores with the man.
80% don suffer for sdk blog hand today😓
Delete😂😂😂😂 Na 80% dey reign today.
DeleteLol...80% in the mud
DeleteI married one already and I have peace. God has given us kids, I am earning enough for us to thrive. He is hoping to get us better economically.
ReplyDeleteThis is what I'm saying above. God continue to bless your home and provide more for your family.
DeletePraise God, women like this still exist. A lot of us when we feel that the biological clock is winding up, will marry even one without a job or a penis.
DeleteHow do you cope with his insecurities? Because a man is not naturally built to receive. And from my experience, his ego will give you a bad kick once in awhile.
Delete@Saphire
DeleteNothing like that exist between us. Our accounts are same, there is no giving and receiving here. Same way we are training our kids right now. This life can be blissful and peaceful. And with Jesus in the mix, it is heavenly.
@19:23 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣@Without a job and a penis. Chai, some of you get mouth here. But no be lie o. Women fear that winding up bio clock more than ten lions.
DeleteGod bless your home.
DeleteIf I love him and working too, yes
ReplyDeleteI did and it stung me. Mine didn't even earn up to 30k monthly because he was running a business that wasn't moving well,but I married him . On top that,he was cheating. I married for love but with what I know now,I would gladly marry for money and know why I signed up for.
ReplyDeleteThat his cheating is his inferiority complex coming through to prove to himself that he is a "man" even though he earns less than his wife. They become extremely difficult to reason with and impossible to please. Ah...I have been there.
DeleteBut keep your hopes high. You can very well get the love, money and peace in one person.
I see most Nigerian women would readily stretch their arms to a completely baked cookie, than deep their hands in flour to bake from scratch.
ReplyDeleteI can hardly blame them though, the present economy of Nigeria has subjected the citizens to prioritize survival before love or compatibility.
Yes I will. I did so 7yrs ago. We could barely pay creche fees of 10k for our first child that year. I had to work too so I could bring in my own little income. We continued like that and lived in love and unity.
ReplyDeleteFew years down the line, hubby and I go on dates and spend good money and it doesn't feel like a thing. We both drive good cars. Our kids go to expensive schools cos we can comfortably afford it.
He was promoted and work and now earns a good salary. Does a side business that gives him a profit of atleast 200k daily.
Those times were tough tho but love and prayers kept us going
Amen, thank you Jesus.
DeleteYou have done it to the faithful.
I love to read things like this from women who are wise. My testimony is similar
and it is up, up there.
Quite encouraging
DeleteE-hugs sis😄.
DeleteAbeg my own na money. Please which business gives you 200k profit daily??
DeletePlease come back and advice me.
Aww 💛
DeleteSee ehn!! No jokes. 45k small o. If you stay in Surulere and work in V.I, that's your transport for a month o.
ReplyDeleteOver to the ladies sha.🤣
If it were before I got married I would have said no, but with what the % govt is paying now we had to readjust he is earning less ..so why not😄... no condition is permanent
ReplyDeleteYeah no condition is permanent
Delete@ anonymous 18:56 pray tell what type of side hustle is that I need a side hustle like that.One which will allow me keep my job still.We can private talk if you want...
ReplyDeleteYes, I can. I won't be looking out for love alone, other factors applies. We will hold on with bringing kids till there's an improvement.
ReplyDeleteI will as long we're both working to see we make ends meet and there's love
ReplyDeleteBitter truth!! A man who earns 45k a month would borrow to do a wedding. I don't care how you want to look at it.
ReplyDeleteHow much does it cost to go to registry, then pay brideprice in her father's sitting room with a few relatives present? If you wan do bellanaija level wedding, Oyo o.
DeleteYou dont need to borrow, friends and family will assist.
DeleteSaph, the question said "would you marry a man who earns 45k a month? I dey tell you say that 45k sef go be him transport fare to work for a month. A man who earns 45k a month would have little or nothing to save after salary comes. You have bills to pay, You have to eat, you have to buy necessities. Trust me you will borrow!!! Where bride price money and registry money go come from? No dey whine me! All these stories you guys are preaching can not work in present Naija, let's not kid ourselves. 45k a month in Naija is abysmal for someone wanting to get married. For a bachelor sef it's stressful. You wan con use am marry wife? You dey whine yourself.
DeleteReading through some comments and I just dey laugh dey shake head like lizard.
ReplyDeleteWhy not,if I truly do love him and he loves me too,I will marry him.......... Josaria
ReplyDeleteBig No
ReplyDeleteIf he is hardworking and has set plans for the future with prospect, you love him he can give u peace of mind Biko don't let go of such man your future will be bright, nothing bad if you support him .. fresh out of academy hubby had no job yet the little he had he gave me to support my then small business while he was searching for jobs, had my wedding in my dad's parlor..long story short,that small shop then is global now, that broke man is in billions today. Comot eye for he money just support the good man in him
ReplyDeleteBad guy🤣🤣🤣🤣
ReplyDeleteThat's why most of them are single, they want an already made-man.
ReplyDeleteCapital No,
ReplyDeleteI met someone last year who proposed marriage to me, he earns 35k as a casual worker, i turned down the proposal, i asked him to wait till he gets something better to do but he refused, he said that he had made up his mind to get married in 2021, i wished him well and ended the relationship,
This is someone that stays in a "face me i slap you yard" i have never stayed in such yard before and i will not do it as married woman,
He told me that he couldn't finish his HND programme due to lack of funds, i later found out after i ended the relationship that he was expelled from the school,
He later married one girl like that and i heard they have separated,
My advice is if you earn 45k a month, look for someone in the same social class with you.
MARRY YOUR CLASS.
DeleteI can marry the person if he has prospect, he has visions and he has head not marrying someone that collect 45k yet no future. The man must be educated, smart, hard working so that we both can plan our life.
ReplyDeleteDon’t forget I am also working to support him in anyway but let him just have sense.
It says a lot about you that the only time you are able to exercise your severely limited IQ is when you want to scratch your scrotum and denigrate women, then you become all excited and giggly like a child.
ReplyDeleteThis was the same pressure I faced as a single woman before I got married to EXACTLY THE KIND OF MAN I WANTED.
I got married at 32 and I was very intentional about the type of man I wanted to marry.
I was not ready to pick trash, do rehabilitation project, start contorting like an acrobat to accomodate a person whose values, lifestyle ,perspective was not in sync with mine. If answering Mrs was just the goal, I would have married at 19 or 21 or 24 etc. Always as a woman you will be faced with these mocking ugly unsolicited comments from aimless jobless men who were barely patching through life tryna pressure you to accept any living thing because to them a woman having STANDARDS and GOALS is unacceptable.
Imagine a human being said 'ehn leave them after 40 the undesirable becomes desirable' loll. And it was really thumping its chest, supported by its fellow cross eyes goons, feeling like it had dropped wisest nuggets of of the century. Hilarious.
So if a woman above 40 is unmarried, what will happen?
She will die?
Her money and assets will disappear?
The gates of Heaven will be shut?
Her achievements will be erased from the earth?
No, what exactly will happen?
It may be strange to you, because you may not have any woman that age in your lineage who has achieved anything relevant other than attaching a title to her name.
But trust me, once you get an opportunity to leave your village, go to cosmopolitan areas, maybe even go abroad, you'll see some 40 year old and above women doing extraordinary things, politicians, business leaders, renowned broadcasters, some rich, single, unmarried and preferring to live their lives on their terms than marry any available penises just to escape the scorn of nonentities they may be surrounded with.
That's why we have so many women in unhappy marriages struggling to escape. Because there will always be loads of oafs around mocking them, sneering at them for their choices.
Why?
Do men mock other men for their choices?
No.
But when its women stating their choices, they start to panic, that inferior part of them that is so frightened of how powerful women are, is always looking for a way to mock and subdued them.
Strange though in the presence of white women their mouths are always sealed shut, why don't you open that guttah you call a mouth and spew all that rubbish na?
Ladies, your choices, whatever they are, are valid. You are perfectly entitled to want whatever you want. Stop dumbing yourselves down and stop shrinking, stop settling for smelling trash, stop dimming your light, stop listening to the voice of lousy mediocrity.
Just stop it.
Until we can get to that point when Nigerian men will look for other ways to rid themselves of their massive inferiority complex rather than masking it by constantly making pitiable attempts to denigrate and subjugate Nigerian women, just IGNORE them.
Even 450k sef, I no go marry
ReplyDeleteNo way. I cannot. I tried it look at me suffering now. I can't even buy some if the good things I used to buy when I was single. I have to keep managing.
ReplyDeleteMarry your class or higher than your class. Shikena
ReplyDeleteAll I can say is Remember May Yul Edochie and Adekaz's first wife. Just saying
ReplyDeletePeople forget quickly.
DeleteBut why do you guys enjoy mocking single ladies? Both singles and married are answering this question right on this blog. Stella herself wey don marry 20years ago answered and said a big fat NO. But yay, let us mock singles... you guys should stop this nonsense abeg
ReplyDeleteNaah, not likely.
ReplyDeleteNot when I earn £200k+, 😌
He will be intimidated 😎
Story of my life....I did marry one and expecting our first child( sometimes I wish I wasn't though its our miracle baby
ReplyDeleteHe was earning 35k while I was earning 75k, I resigned from my job on health ground ( microfinance bank trekking) before our wedding.
I got 25k teaching job to support the house and lost the job role while I was sick with kidney issues( employer was my blood sister oo)
Now he earns 40k monthly as a driver and trust me as much as am supportive, there are days I wish I didn't get married.
He has potentials.. Oh my husband is gifted! Smart and there is no skill he doesn't have but I guess Nigeria happened.
Waiting to birth this child and go back to Lagos where my parents are, this decision hurts but I have to do this for my unborn Son and Hubby.
In Lagos I know I can get good jobs offer and then he can join me later.
Would I marry my husband next life? Yes
But wont make the mistake of getting pregnant or relocating out of Lagos
Lol. Until you marry someone who makes N400k a month but is a gambler. Someone who makes N45k/month will be better than you. Earnings alone don't always tell the stories
ReplyDeleteMarry your class, marry your class, do food items know class in the market? In this buhari economy. Even the local rice is very expensive, local rice with stones o, not to talk of other items. What about rent, the people shouting marry your class should go and do survey of how much rooms in face me I slap houses are, combine with other utilities bills to be paid. Abeg make we no dey deceive ourselves, money will always be an issue in such marriage. So for me it's a big NO.
ReplyDeleteLeave them o. Na mouth.
DeleteExactly!!
DeleteNO NO NO
ReplyDeleteYes,I will..as long as I'm working, will gladly support him.
ReplyDelete👌👌@Anon 22:22
ReplyDeleteThank you.
In this economy?
ReplyDeleteNo way,l can't.
Anon 22:22 💯💯💯💯
ReplyDeleteI will marry him if I see his potential and we both work together as a team
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