Actress Chacha Eke in a recent post, announced the Break up of her Marriage for the second time and insinuated that she was going through Domestic violence.
She said she did not want to die or vanish mysteriously and indicated that if such happened her Lawyers would release evidence on the social media... She has since unfollowed her husband on Instagram.
This post is about the husband's response.......
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Typical of women suffering abuse
ReplyDeleteThey scream, they deny , then they go back.
I said it she was suffering domestic violence when she made that post of mental illness to cover up for her husband. I guess she did that cos she was pregnant.
Cha-cha run
Thy never stop
Run
That man would eventually kill you.
Abusers are narcissistic
Charmers
Religious
Some are preachers
KING XOXO MYSTERY
Imagine she had to claim mental illness to keep this man. God!
DeleteIts possible the man was the man passing through her account.
DeleteYou have no idea how terrible and manipulative some men can be.
What has religion got to do with it?
DeleteWe didn't expect you to confirm the gist so save your lying breath.
ReplyDeleteI don't know if y'all know but most MOST men can lie o
They lie so perfectly that you would be compelled to believe them and turn against the one telling the actual truth.
I fear who no fear una!
We know
DeleteEehhh ya. He must have really done a number on you. Such bitterness in all your posts. Don't worry, lesbianism is an option. I can comfortably state, going by your posts here, that we men do not care about your type and wish you well as you move on to the next (same) gender.
DeleteAnd women dont lie? Women are saints.....they don't even lie at all. But Na Dem collect dick pass...Na Dem double date pass...Na Dem nag pass...Na Dem bring bastard children to the family pass....yet you are trying to hold all men to a standard thay you women folks cannot even hold yourself to based on hearsay only.
Delete10:15 May God have mercy on you.
DeleteAbuse can affect your mental health
ReplyDeleteLook at Sulivan Chime's wife
Look at Precious Chikwendu
All accused of mental illness by their abusive husband.
KING XOXO MYSTERY
Hmmm... It's terrible.
DeleteAnon 8:42, you took just took me down memory lane
DeleteNa wah for this power couple. Why can't you resolve your issues privately? Go and fix your marriage oh. All the best.
ReplyDeleteHave u heard from the man before? Its usually the women running to social media
DeletePower couple bawo? Don't make me laugh😂
DeleteChange Mr man,change!
ReplyDeleteShut up your mouth.
DeleteDo you know him before?
You can't judge him just yet.
DeleteYou no longer have access to her instagram account to cruise like you did the other time,now you know it’s a serious case. Anumpa
ReplyDeleteAs in..........Im sure he came up with the mental disorder thing.See the beautiful wife God gave him
DeleteWhen she came to the public, she didnt have access to his IG account abi? Shallow brains
DeleteI see a case of Amber and Johnny
ReplyDeleteThis is not Amber vs Johnny at all. It is a classic case of what Chiwetalu Agu describes as "Ekwensu e romancia mammy water". Both of them are fighting their personal demons. Has Chacha filed for divorce yet? Abi na the as usual Internet break-up and make-up that is not recognised by law? Na the end of the movie I wan see sha. They both know how to put on a show. Wey Chacha followers wey I dey salute last week here? Una mummy GO don start again o! We will take her serious when she files for divorce and goes through with it. We are tired of her "See wolf!" cries. Howdy FP? 😘
DeleteI see a favorable weather condition, I'm doing good. Thanks Amebonawork
DeleteOkay, who are we going to believe now?
ReplyDeleteSome men can lie ehe!
Toh! Na siddon look I dey
DeleteI believe him sha
ReplyDeleteMe too
DeleteMe too @9.03
DeleteMental illness is not anybody's mate.
He should sha encourage to be taking her drugs to prevent frequent relapses and all these embarrassing posts.
Me too. I believe him
DeleteCheck well now, hes even the victim. But its easier to stand with a woman that screams DV first.
DeleteHmmmm
ReplyDeleteIf it's not working for both of you.. leave.
Oh dear children will always be the once to suffer
Wahala promax
ReplyDeleteGo back to your husband Chacha...
ReplyDeleteWhat can I say?? Another back and forth from you both.
ReplyDeleteLet the truth be revealed this time.
Preach all you want but it is hard to feel empathetic towards Chacha. I feel a big bowl of nothing for her.
ReplyDeleteI don't understand how people made her the poster girl of women struggling to leave abusive relationships.
Chacha kwa? Same chacha that posted this beautiful lovely message for her husband's birthday last month talmbout he is too gentle and cannot kill mosquito and best thing that happened to her.
Chacha is not a typical abused Nigerian woman. Her ordeal is not the same as most women in abusive marriages.
For one, she is enlightened and financially comfortable.
If she leaves him today, where she'll go, what she and her kids will eat, finding work, etc, are not problems for her.
She has the finances to start afresh and land on her feet. She is a part of an industry that doesn't care about her marital status. She can jump in and start making movies any time. The "where do I start" question is not for her at all.
Same cannot be said for most abused women in Nigeria.
2. She has a family that has been begging her to leave that situation for a long time. When her brother and her family swooped in to take her away the first time she cried out, she recanted. She said her family is out to kill her. Blocked her own brother when he came out to say Austin beats her. Cut her family out of her life.
Other abused women are scared of going back to their families. In Chacha's case, na dem dey beg her to come out. She refused.
3. She took back everything she said about the man. She not only denied that her husband hit her;
She made videos saying she has bipolar disorder and lied against her husband.
Made videos saying she has been checked into a psychiatric home cos in her fit of rage she physically abused her husband.
Made videos saying her own family were trying to kill her.
Made videos apologising to her husband for lying against him.
All this just to pander to the feelings of ashy-kneed man.
Why would any woman claim she has a mental illness and has been admitted into a psychiatric hospital for treatment just to cover up an abusive husband? Amu ya o na bu gold?
I don't understand us women. She even did videos where she cut her hair, wearing white, looking bamboozled just murmuring "pray for me".
On top abusive priq.
If this woman had wanted to leave whether then or now, e too dey easy. Na to claim she dey go set, rent house and move out. She has the money, the influence, the beauty, the everything to start afresh. In fact even if you argue that her husband took away all her money, she still has a very supportive family begging her to come back.
But nouu.
Sometimes it is hard to leave abusive relationships but in Chacha's case, it is not that hard.
Stop trying to force out empathy for her o👏👏👏
We shouldn't be pampering women like chacha who have the means and resources to leave abusive marriages yet refuse to leave. This is not a poor woman in the village that doesn't know where her next meal would come from should she leave. This is an African celebrated star intent on doing patch today, leak tomorrow with her life.
Abeg abeg abeg stop infantalizing women by creating excuses for her and trying to force people into crying for her. Women are adults and capable of making our own decisions and living with the consequences.
Ugh.
I see we all have different threshold for pain and tolerance, you cant sit infront of your keyboard and assume what's easy & remotely difficult for an individual you know nothing about, just what's mostly portrayed on the internet.
DeleteChai... Where's clapping emoji when you need it? Well said.
DeleteYour last paragraph is the Absolute Truth!
Preach sisturrrrrr!!! A thousand kisses dear Anon 9:19.
Delete@Anonymous 09:19, you are spot on in your analysis about the traits of an ‘abused Nigerian woman’.
DeleteHow does your analysis include the popular gospel singer (Osinachi) who died as a result of injuries from domestic violence? Remember that she was the bread winner and had the will power to pack up and leave but didn’t?
Most times, women just want to save face in the thing called Marriage. It takes the grace of God to say ‘I am done’ in Nigeria but very easy to say ‘I am done’ in the abroad.
It is well.
@anon 09:19, you clearly don't understand the power of a master manipulator. By the way, you can't force emotions, you either have empathy or you don't, it comes naturally, you cannot choose when to have it or not. You sound very cold and mean. I advise you work on your mindset.
DeleteGod bless you for this.
Delete@10:31, Osinachi’s bread and butter was from the gospel ministry, which is notorious for their holier than thou attitude. She may well lose that income by leaving, as most churches still frown on divorcees. So hers is a bit different.
DeleteMystic
What is happening ?
ReplyDeleteWahala no de finish.
It is well with Chacha, no husband will accept being violent na, oga rest
ReplyDeleteWho do we believe?
ReplyDeleteThem go dey alright
ReplyDeleteI know sometimes, because of past events, we want to stand behind women, but what if he's saying the truth? No be chacha go church go give thanksgiving say na enèmiés ãttåck the first time? I think we all should relax, wait and watch things unfold!
ReplyDeleteNah so hubby n I get issue,I yabb am yabb him mama, he got angry dash me slap, run to my bro, that one came, nothing he no do to my hubby,I no talk wetin I do o, now bro is married,wife was rude to mum, he asked her to pack n go. My marriage still dey, 11 years now,and hubby has never beat me again,but my mouth still dey run ,but he ignore or sometime beg me to stop abusive his family when we get issue,and me na sanpana, if I fight one person,I must touch everyone attached to him
ReplyDeleteYou are so toxic,you better change for your own good.This is how must women shout domestic violence as if verbal abuse is not part of it.
DeleteAnd u are happy that u have no control over ur mouth?
DeleteYou really don’t sound well.. God help that man
DeleteNa your husband I dey laff,.
DeleteI'm not one to talk about ones family, but if your brother was not wise enough not to investigate a matter before showing power, Omo, by the time I'm through with him, you sef go pity am.. as for your running mouth, my own tongue dey more bitter.. that's why I advise guys to also learn bad mouth as them dey learn sweet mouth.. it helps, especially with women like you who would frustrate a man until he hits you, unless he's someone who can humble you with his mouth or handle you with silent treatment..
You see why I don't take women who come here to call men that give silent treatment a coward seriously.. you go frustrate and insult person and you no want make react..
Na Una know the kind men wey Una dey meet sha..
As for this cha cha ish, if truly that woman has mental ish whenever she's pregnant and the man decide to leave her, na Una go still come insult am for not standing by his wife, now he's standing with her, Una still dey insult am..
Make Una continue.. this has been the routine with this lady, but each and every time Una go come insult the man, projecting stuff, like say Una follow them dey live for house
Mstchew
DeleteNow woman on this blog saw your comment and jumped pass.
DeleteNo one took the time to tell you off that you are abusive to your husband and you even have the nerves to say it with pride.
You've been verbally abusive to your husband for 11 years and yet....no one bat an eyelid.
I can never support women.you do despicable things but never hold your folks to account for the rubbish that you all do.
Clap for yourself. You are doing well. You are a devil.
DeleteI hope one day his eyes opens and he leaves you before you kill him. You're so toxic!
DeleteKeep sowing seeds you will reap in future. That's how your DIL or SIL will insult and ridicule you in future. Na simp you marry! Na him no reduce your brother to vegetable, give your insults that will shut your toxic tongue for life. You are even proud that your brother sent his wife away for doing the same thing you do, you should be ashamed that at his age he has no settled home, you may join him soon if your husband ever gets fed up. Better amend your ways else you will regret it.
DeleteMadam, you're a terrible being. You're not remorseful at all. Repent and change your ways.
DeleteLet me tell you people this man right here hmmmm....the case of gaybriel, abuse and threat is beyond normal. Paternity bruhaha join for the threat. Both parties trying to play same. Chacha better don't look back o stay alive for your kids. Be Pray to God genuinely for forgiveness dear it's not too late to change
ReplyDeleteI will still not put my mouth in their matter, it’s only someone who agrees that they have a problem and seek for help that will get help. Ur story is becoming similar to the story of the little boy that was always crying wolf and playing with the support of people who were turning up for him and fighting on his behalf.A time will come when u will cry out and will get no response,cos people have moved on.
ReplyDeleteBetter brace up and take the action of helping urself first,before any one else will step in.
You two should Zukwanike bikonu
ReplyDelete🙄🙄🙄🚶🚶🚶
ReplyDeleteWhat if he is saying the truth?
ReplyDeleteNa wa ooooo.
ReplyDeleteThink they both need some time apart before ....
Time will tell, time will heal. Gbogbo won ma wa alright.
It is well o
ReplyDeleteI am not picking anyone's side, the two of them have nothing good to their names. He has been accused of pimping his wife from comments on this blog, her own sister accused her of sleeping with her sugar daddy and telling lies about her.
ReplyDeleteI’ve been close to this family. They had so many issues but domestic abuse is not one of it.even If there was to be an abuser Between Chacha n Faani, I would say Chacha because she’s hot headed n Faani is really on the calm side n sort of fears her, he no too get mouth for that marriage not to talk of raising hand to beat her,. Coupled with her issues with illicit substance.
ReplyDeleteI guess this may be one of her breakdowns.
May God heal their family.
Lol. That's what's everyone says about covert narcs. Do you live in their bedroom with them 24/7 to know who they abuser and victim are?
DeleteSo a woman being feisty makes her an abuser and a man keeping to himself in public makes him the abused?
Anon 12:41
DeleteIt’s not fair how we are always quick to judge and condemn men once allegation dv comes up without enough evidence. Even her brother that came up to support her the last time that she humiliated said said there was no domestic violence involved even though he still blamed Faani for whatever issue they were having.
I know them personally, and what this anon said is not far from the truth and I’m not taking sides till appropriate evidence is brought forward.
I think it's bad to judge the man at this stage .It's so obvious Cha-cha has some mental issues with her recurrent outburst on social media. We don't know the details.i pray she's healed
ReplyDeleteLet us drink water and mind our business before she adds us to her enemies the way she did to her brother
ReplyDeleteThey should drink palmie and settle abeg.
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