This makes it the second time actress Chacha Eke would announce that her marriage has ended...
The hint at Domestic Violence this time is shocking and I pray she is strong enough and has supportive people around her.....
''LEAVE NOW ALIVE OR LEAVE AS A CORPSE ⚰️
Many have died pretending all is well whilst wishing, hoping and praying for a better tomorrow.
I don't want to "die" or go inexplicably "missing".
I sincerely and publicly apologize for living a lie these past years.True to random speculations, there has been trouble in my "perceived paradise".
For the 2nd time in 2 years, I am here again on social media boldly declaring that I am done with my marriage. My long overdue/relentless stance on this is of course no news to Austin Faani, the doctors and my parents.
I sincerely and publicly apologize for living a lie these past years.True to random speculations, there has been trouble in my "perceived paradise".
For the 2nd time in 2 years, I am here again on social media boldly declaring that I am done with my marriage. My long overdue/relentless stance on this is of course no news to Austin Faani, the doctors and my parents.
If push comes to shove and suddenly i am incommunicado; my lawyers, the welfare department and the Nigerian police force have my testimonials in recorded video clips/statements set for public release on all social media apps and national newspapers''.
Rest in Peace gospel Singer Sinachi, you didn't die in vain afterall....
Na waa ooh. Pls better mean it this time. I hope you don't go back again. I don't want to believe those people with the school of thought that 'Marriage' is overrated but then, the things one read on the daily about matrimony is so shocking and scary.
ReplyDeleteChacha you no try, how on earth will you marry your pimp? What were you thinking?? You can never have peace in that marriage and it's always a constant reminder of your past. Ladies learn from this oh, never marry a man who pimps you to other men. Note: this happened before they got married
DeleteHe always pimps her out to big gods, especially in PH. Wishing you love and 🔆
She made her bro looked like a fool before the whole world!.
DeleteThank God you didn't die while living a LIE
Thank God she summoned the courage to leave
DeleteBut Teejay, there are millions of successful and happy marriages out there that when they talk about, people tell them to stop showing off, keep their marriages off the Internet or outrightly wish them evil. Yet you choose to use the bad ones to conclude that marriage is overrated. Why?
DeleteTeejay please take that back, Marriage is not over rated, it has its ups and downs but if you are with someone who has a good heart, bad will work out for good.... I have been married for almost 20 years, i can even believe how the time flew...
Deletei will do this again and again but with the same man...... I dont know if marriage would have lasted this long if i had married a Nigerian man though cos their mentality does not encourage a lasting marriage.... some of them are dream killers, some are users, some are plain wicked....
get married first before u come back to say marriage is over rated...
Wow!!! Stella, so happy for you. I pray to experience this marital bliss very soon. Eka, I didn't say it's overrated rather I say I don't want to believe those with such notion. Yes there are happy and lasting marriage.
DeleteFirst ask yourself if you are someone who genuinely has something positive to give a marriage before you talk of 'overrated '.
DeleteTeejay: marriage is a wonderful experience. If you have the right person beside you, the journey makes sense. However, it is not all rosy. I no go lie give you. It takes 2 to make it work. 2 committed, loving, caring people who are willing to love relentlessly and forgive countlessly.
DeleteMeanwhile, bro, there are lots of good and bad Marriages. Focus on the good ones. After all, people die in car accidents everyday, but it doesn't stop us from boarding vehicles. Get married and make yours work!
Tjay, the sincerity of your intentions is so very evident. I pray in a few years you will be here screaming at the top your lungs that you got it right, it is easy, no stress, no lack. You will come here and tell us how possible it is to have a perfect marriage with zero tension, all silk and honey. Some people here will hate you for it but you know what? Still talk about it nonetheless.
DeleteThis their picture speaks volumes. See the distance between them, the facial expressions? The body language is just off. I wish her well in her future endeavors.
DeleteBut he didn’t say he thinks it’s overrated na
DeleteEzege do you read the secret?
DeleteHave you read the secret?
Buy the secret?
It will ensure you a happy marriage.
17.42 I am actually on that book now and it is amazing. Am becoming a better Christian by the kind of life style it promotes. I am better mindful of my thoughts and words and actions because I know that at every point in time I am actually attracting things to myself as a result of my quality of life. I bought the video first and now on the book. Fascinating.
Delete17.42 the joke is on you.
DeleteOkay.
ReplyDeleteToh! I remember last time she said she had bipolar disorder and her marriage was fine and threw her brother under the bus. So na siddon look I dey this time. Tomorrow she fit tok sey na something else.
DeleteYes o Stella , Sinachi didn't die in vain..She gave me the courage to leave my abusive marriage and I am glad i made that decision.
DeleteChacha, you will be fine ..
May God give you the strength during this difficult period.
LEAVE NOW ALIVE OR LEAVE AS A CORPSE ⚰️
Truth will always prevail
DeleteSo it took sinachi to die before you have sense? Wonderful
DeleteNa siddon look i dey too.
DeleteI have learnt not to put mouth inside husband and wife matter.🚶🏼♀️🚶🏼♀️🚶🏼♀️🚶🏼♀️🚶🏼♀️
Anon 9:20 thank you so much for reminding us and the insult meted against him the brother here no be small!
DeleteHusband and wife matter na wa!
Chacha's brother , biko, be far from her this time. Do not involve yourself in her marital woes. Stay very far from her and her schengians.
Delete10:06, u just took the words out of my mouth.
DeleteGod continue to rest Sinachi's soul Amen. May this one not be Bipolar part 2 oooo. She made her bro look so stupid at the first he tried defending her. Na sidon look we dey for this one shaa
DeleteAnonymous 10:26 Yes, it took Sinachi dead for me to have SENSE... Any other insults?
DeleteAnon 10:26...why? Why are you guys so angry at someone's pain and honesty?Another anon up there even seconded it.May bad marriage never happen to you guys.
DeleteDisco Dancer, it's so sad the way people come here to make comments with so much venom in them. Someone just stated what made her take a big decision in her life and you come here to throw insults?! Those "anonymouses" should say a big amen to this prayer!
DeleteSurrogate mother, may God lead you in your new journey. You made the right choice.
DeleteNot again with all the flaunting, too many pictures and still many sad stories. If is not working please walk away after all no marriage in heaven.
ReplyDeleteSmall time she will come back to speak that she has mental health problem. Her family and friends should help her out if only she is willing.
But its obvious she has mental health issues....doesnt mean she is isnt suffering DV. Who knows if its d bad marriage dat drove her into depression and all other mental health challenges.
DeleteI dont see the statement of someone with "mental issues" being admissible in court.
DeleteMental health conditions or disorders are not always a constant, they may fluctuate, including being different at the time of an alleged offence. Who know if Esinachis burial has triggered an altercation from 10yrs ago, who knows? Given her mindset. Or shes actually lucid on this matter.
@False prophet. Statement of a witness who is diagnosed with a mental disorder or "mental issues" is admissible in court. The Judge will assess for competency and A psychiatrist can be called in some cases as an expert witness and sometimes to assess the capacity of the patient to testify as a witness
DeleteShe don get belle again,na wen she get belle she dey see domestic violence. May the Lord heal you completely and restore your marriage.
ReplyDeleteAnd take her drugs. Taking drugs daily is not easy.
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DeletePlease be serious for once, I hope that you will not come out again and change this story.
ReplyDeleteIf it is true story, may God protect you and guide you as you leave.
The truth is out finally! I wish her all the best going forward..na siddon look I dey for husband and wife matter oh! No comment abeg
DeleteSame here my beautiful babe Paris!
DeleteThis separation is long overdue,I'm not shocked because even her brother confirmed it then.
ReplyDeleteChacha you made the right decision!
Some men ehhn
I pray for her that she gets the courage to leave this time around and never look back. It shall be well, sigh
ReplyDeleteHow are we sure Chacha is not pregnant? We don't want to make fools of ourselves please?
ReplyDeleteYou and who is the we? Do not involve yourself in couple's quarrel, you won't listen.
DeleteWas it not you that ridiculed your brother like he was trying to destroy your marriage?
ReplyDeleteHave you apologised to him?
After telling the world you are bipolar to probably cover your husband now you are finally done? Anyway, It is well with you.
So painful,I felt bad for the brother cos I knew he was trying to protect her
DeleteAs in eeeeeh, the ridicule and insults the poor boy suffered no be here.
DeleteLord have mercy!
She humiliated her blood brother and made him look like the devil. Now, she's seeking for sympathy again. Confused human being.
DeleteShe was living a lie and made her brother look like the liar, disgraced him for speaking up and standing by her,I don't pity her,if she's truly done,good luck with whatever choice's you make Chacha.
ReplyDeleteIkwakwakwakwa!
ReplyDeleteChacha Eke is a bipolar being truly cos what's this?? She was driven crazy to the point of almost entering the market back then but she still stayed put?
Women,damn all the consequences and move outta that marriage that's not giving you a tiny little bit of peace..
Life is meant to be enjoyed and not endured in some miserable marriage..
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Tomorrow she will come and tell us she had bipolar abi amnesia… na she sabi!! Husband and wife matter I no dey chook my mouth as I use my aunty own take get sense
ReplyDeleteI'm telling you very bad to chook mouth, I was giving a sister my shoulder to cry and listen to her, some days she calls and says she's tired, I was ready to house her children so she could Japa,the way this lady switched shocked me,na sorry and it is well be my advice now , infact I go add let's pray over it.
DeleteHmmmm
ReplyDeleteI hope it's true this time
It is well with you CHACHA.
I didnt see this coming.
ReplyDeleteI thought they mended fences.
Old photo? Why attach a photo of you two in the first place
ReplyDeleteThe way she discarded her brother like tissue paper the other time when he was carrying her matter on his head like gala telling him to mind his business and not interfer in her marriage that all is well.
ReplyDeleteTor if you want to leave Biko leave nobody has the strength or time to fight your battle for you because at the end of the day they will tell us to mind our business and not interfer in their marriage.
Like snowhite like chacha
Thank you.
DeleteI can't believe the comments! How insensitive some of you are.
ReplyDeleteWell done ooo. You that is so sensitive. It is what it is.
DeleteOnce beaten, 10x shy
DeleteU no go understand.. People here were genuine and wanted to help her after that her video fiasco.
DeleteNext thing was mud
.just as her brother got mud too
Yes that is why ,we are not the same,life experiences has taught one big lessons,a pregnant lady suffering domestic abuse,the hubby was cheating on her, no money,no food,I fed her children, kept them with me, spoke to some mother's aware of her issues to contribute money for baby items,she had Asthma attack,I was called to come take her to hospital,see me driving and kabashing,she was discharged,she still called me to come take her home,she was going to terminate the pregnancy I told her the baby could be a baby boy you're praying for,don't touch it,long story short she put to bed,baby boy, husband man came back,they settled,I became their arch enemy,A man I told some men including DH to speak to,he insulted them and told my hubby that his wife is jealous of me and gossips me round town,lol please I'm tired of typing, the truth is no more empathy for such women.
DeleteAt anon...09.50...bottom line is she suffers from Domestic abuse from your write up and one knows how manipulating the abuser may be...this means one should actually be empathetic towards her. She is actually a victim here. I even thought you wanted say she lied about the abuse.
DeleteOrela, she is not a victim but an enabler.
DeleteAnon 09:50, I feel you.
After my two friends used me to settle with their spouses, I don't advise anyone going through DV. Lie lie.
Even if the couple are stabbing themselves in front of me, I will sit comfortably and entertain myself. Any of them that die won't even get a sympathy from me. Even RIP, I will not tell the person.
Nothing like DV victim. they are enablers not victims.
Yes, some of us are very insensitive concerning cha-cha. Someone that disgraced her blood. Is it us the online in-laws she will spare? Whatever she receives from the man, let her collect it and stop disturbing us. We have our own challenging too.
DeleteIf you like be waiting for someone to emphatic to you or for someone to die before you have sense. When it comes to Nigeria women and relationships, it doesn't bother me. Unless the woman is extremely poor and SEEKS for help then I might consider
DeleteHer last action is still fresh in the mind. You cant blame people
DeleteGod bless you @11:18. They deserve every single pain they're passing thru
DeleteLmao any woman that throws her own brother under the bus publicly for simply defending & trying to protect her deserves no mercy. With a passion, i dislike women who place useless men on a pedestal, even to the point of publicly disgracing the very people who love them & at the expense of their own lives. Those kind ain't worth shit. You better save ur empathy for the many other deserving people. This woman here is a fool
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ReplyDeleteShe seems bipolar. We expect her to debunk this by next orie market day.
ReplyDeleteYou see , her brother has been vindicated.
ReplyDeleteYou for stay naa.
Lots of peeps wouldn't take her seriously this time, after the 2020 debacle...
ReplyDeleteHowever, it's a good thing she has FINALLY seen the error in her folly of sticking with a man who doesn't value her. Leave alive or leave as a corpse. Thankfully, she made the right choice.
The marriage vow is "till death do us part", not, "till my partner kill me". Know this, know peace! #ALiSpeaks
How do you want us to take you serious now madam..Anyway Good luck to you
ReplyDeleteChacha don't change the narrative tomorrow...
ReplyDeleteYou will be fine
Last month or so, stella posted chacha pics among the other celeb, i commented on chacha post, I said all this her smile na fake, that she was trying so hard to make her marriage look sweet to the world, but some one on this blog nearly eat me raw,infact the person curse me so hard but i never replyed. I still dont know wht is wrong with some people in this blog sha , anyway we move.chacha has been suffering for so long in her marriage, she tried all her best to make it work but her hubby na ........thankGod you left chacha, it is not the end of the world.
ReplyDeleteIs still remaining someone I will not mention name, she is yet to make up her mind cos of what people will say,oneday she will come out and people go shock.marriagr sweet but na people inside makam bitter.
Sometimes we all blame the men in marriage as if they are evil . Can you honestly live with someone that is suffering from bi polar ? Can you ?
Deleteyou have already concluded on who is the problem may be it’s even the husband that is enduring.
Delete@09.35 are you saying because one is bipolar they should forever be alone?
DeleteIf the DV is true, do you know if she was saying that to protect her marriage just to make it work?
I mean I never saw a medical document stating she was bipolar either. Some people say a lot of things under coercion too.
Her having bipolar disorder or not does not change the fact that the husband abuses her if her brother was saying same before
@ Anon 09:35, if you can't live with someone with bipolar, doesn't mean you should beat them up or abuse them in any which way..simply walk away .
DeleteI just pray healing for her. Bad marriage/Dv can lead someone to have mental health issues.
ReplyDeleteI just hope she means it this time. Better late than never.
DeleteI pray God gives you the strenght to stick to whatever decisionyouhave to take not to end up dead
ReplyDeleteThank God she is still Alive.. okiroyalty1@gmail.com
ReplyDeleteIf I was her brother I'd sit on the fence and press button from the sidelines. He was disgraced when he tried to help. This is what happens when your husband has seen your family finish. He knows he can maltreat you and your family won't do shit.
ReplyDeleteof course, thats what he will do. Press ignore button.
DeletePlease, they should collect that phone from her hands. Chacha is not mentally stable. Please Chacha, try and continue taking your drugs, it is not evil spirit or enemies that is tormenting you but you need medical checkup. Your husband is not perfect but he is a good man. Don't leave your marriage, you are not that strong to move on. I know you dear, you love him dearly. You can give him some break but don't leave
ReplyDeleteImagine
DeleteChacha,if it's true this time
ReplyDeleteYou made a right decision, you will be fine.
Hian!
ReplyDeleteI blame people that always rush to advice couple to stay together when it's obvious the problem is too much.
ReplyDeleteBe truthful and realistic in your advice. At that point when she broke down all she needed was her time alone, away from the man.
Let it be her own decision to come back and keep on with the marriage.
Men too, if you need a break take a break. Clear your head and be sure this is what you want to do. I'm not saying take a break and start sleeping with available privates o. Take a break and pray and think things over.
May God be with them.
It is well with her.
ReplyDeleteThis time I believe a lot will choose to mind their business cos she may come out later to say we all should respect their privacy
It's that privacy we are respecting like this o.
DeleteWe are doing that already.
DeleteI feel for her and the children. May God come through for you dear
ReplyDeleteMake she shift😏... Soon she will announce her pregnancy,,.na her own way of announcing pregnancy.... mtcheww 😏
ReplyDeleteMental illness is real,let's keep praying for her and also encourage her to always take her medications. A bipolar patient can change so fast that the shock can kill u. So let no one blame her. She will be alright. Oga Fani, pls keep witnesses and enough alibi in case she does something that we ail all cry over.
ReplyDeleteGood for her
ReplyDeleteWhatever decision you take, I am solidly behind you. Life is beautiful and precious.
ReplyDeleteIt's well chacha
ReplyDeleteMtcheewww next post please. she is probably pregnant for baby number 5.
ReplyDeleteNext tomorrow she will write a long epistle claiming mental health issues.
biko go and sit down, we dont care.
*nonsense and buhari*
Husband and wife matter 😬 . Untill I see the Steps you have taken . Then will know how serious you are . Once bitten.... ✌️✌️
ReplyDeleteBy evening she will do a photoshoot with a big baby bump and ask all of you that are commenting against her marriage to shut up and mind ur business.
ReplyDeleteU will see captions like ‘No force is strong enough to break our love Austin Faani” then she will ask all of you to give her family privacy and face ur lives😂😂😂
If she could do her brother and family members dirty cos he was fighting for her and trying to save her then who are we the online commenters.
Abeg shift.
I hope she's not pregnant again? Before she will come out to blame it on pregnancy and start blaming her siblings for trying to destroy her family?.
ReplyDeleteWith the way this was written, you will know she needs help medically I pray God heals her and people around her should please take care of her.
ReplyDeleteFamily business
ReplyDeleteI no dey put mouth for husband and wife matter. By lunch time now, she go don put picture say e don carry 3 months belle dey send message like oha soup say make una mind una business.
ReplyDeleteThis one, anything wey im like make e do.🚶♀️
All the best Chacha
ReplyDeleteCongrats on your pregnancy chacha,wishing you safe delivery.
ReplyDeleteCha cha you really need help i hope you won't change mouth tomorrow
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