Are you with someone whom you can say for sure is a Narcissist? Are you both Married or dating? Is it easy dating or living with someone like this?
Are you coping well or is your relationship/marriage a nightmare?
Please note that both Male and Female can have this behavior which googles describes as a mental disorder....
Did you know your partner was a Narcissist before you Married them or you found out after?
Lets gist!
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I'm the narcissist,so over to my friends and love ones . how Una dey cope with me,cos even me myself can't cope with me
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DeleteHahaha 😁😄 anonymous 14 46
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DeleteCant relate 😉
ReplyDeleteA narcissistic person will break you, they will break you so bad that by the time you realise you were not actually the problem you've already been filled with so much hatred and bitterness..matter of fact people will think you were at fault but na only you know wetin your eye don see. Their goal is to make you feel inferior,sucidal, depressed and empty that's what they prey on.
ReplyDeleteThe moment a narc finds our that their technics no longer works on you they'd try to breadcrumb you. If you bruised their ego they will go any length to make sure they see you wounded emotional. I have mastered it all because you play the game of narcissism with me I will use reverse chronological psychology on you.
Wagon, reading your comment just took me back to a place, a memory I hate... mtcheeeeeew.
DeleteI didn't like you again 😭
Apt! Thank God I fled but the scar is still there. I'm a work in progress
DeleteI'm sorry for what you went through I'm happy you are in a happier place now Sapphire,please like me back again😭😭😭
DeleteChai! I'm so sorry @makas
Gwagon. Omg this is so accurate. This chronology is so true.
DeleteThey lack empathy. They manipulate(triangulate). They can't love and never loved you. You were just a supply to them. They NEVER change.. The lack accountability. They are vindictive. They make the BIGGEST mistake with their victims especially if you are good supply. Once you get out, stay out. You can't change them....Just leave them, period. The worst are covert ones... I had a narc convert wifey and mother in-law. I am out for good..
DeleteOops....I forgot "THEY ARE ALL CHEATERS TOOO......" Last, it killed her that she can no longer goad me into her narcissistic behavior.
DeleteWould this count? He hates when I remind him of his wrongs and he denies totally. He finds a way to blame me for everything. He like to control everything including what I wear. He gets angry when I ask him questions. He doesn't allow me explain myself when there is a misunderstanding. He shouts at me at slightest thing.
ReplyDeleteHe is an abusive person. He abused you mentally. A narcissist would manipulate you and how others see you. A person who wants total control and is total oblivious.
DeleteI’m sorry but why are you reminding anyone of their wrongs and expecting a good response
DeleteNa only you Waka come?
DeleteWhat kind of miserable situation is this?
Ha! This one is narcissism Pro max oh
DeleteHis ex parents have plenty money. He just didn’t marry her because she wasn’t humble. Guess that was my hint that if I’m not humble I’ll be dumped
ReplyDeleteThen from there to his ex was a lot of fun. She drank with him etc but you don’t like to drink much. You are not like his ex and on and on
He is bad news. Leave him and move on so he can go and buy humility for his ex.
DeleteOmg!!!
ReplyDeleteI don't pray myself and my generation should come across them again in this life and life to come amen
They r emotional manipulators, emotional blackmailers and difficult to understand
When i first met him, he used to shift all d blames on me and i would apologize. To the extent i apologised and felt bad for what i v nt done wen we were together.
He was always right, he hated correction, he was d best in everything he did, even if the whole world showed him d truth, he wil stil defend himself. But the d day d Ondo nuts in my head loosed i changed it for him, he begged d hell out of me...
I cant b manipulated again!!!
The day he chatted he would b going to the seminary, i danced and shouted alleluia cos i cant imagine what his future wife would go thru.
But i later pitied d parish he would be posted to as a priest...
Hmmm, it is very difficult living with them
ReplyDeleteThere is no coping, for the sake of your mental health, just leave. My boss was one
ReplyDeleteNarcissist? There's no coping with them. Just leave already
ReplyDeleteI think most people don’t know the true meaning and characteristics of narcissism. I studied it and honestly took the test for it to confirm if I had it but I did not. I went for online therapy and found out what my downsides are. I can assure you there are different types of narcissist and I can spot the different types of narcissist and they are very hard to spot. The people you think you love or are very nice may be narcissist and you don’t even know it.
ReplyDeletePlease dear anony enlighten me
DeleteNarcissist always have a mask ie they have their Real self,they show to the public(which is usually the charming, charismatic persona and the Evil one that their immediate Family, Spouse, children close friends knows about(This side of them is pure Evil,wicked,manipulative)
ReplyDeleteThey are usually CHARMING, CHARISMATIC at the love bombing stage. They will make you feel like you are the essence of their existence especially if you don’t fall easily for men… They will pull away every iota of defense with the LOVE-BOMBING STAGE… They will test you by not calling you and not answering your phone calls, Text messages… They are testing your RESILIENCE, I learnt the hard way… They will want to break your SPIRIT, that’s what they live for. Don’t ever show them you are hurting, it’s a supply to them (They get high on messing people psyche, willpower, Tenacity). No matter how they hurt you put up a strong Facade, when you are with them… Learn to master your Emotions… (In my own case, the Narcissistic bastard will not call me for like a 1-2 week and will have the audacity to ask me “You are not angry”? In a disappointing tone, I will reply No,I’m not… Why should I be? I wish I continued shaa…
They are Master of Manipulation and they have sometimes a twitch of psychopathy in them… They are deceptive, that’s how they can perpetrate their evil act without being found out, The world sees a SAVIOR ,but you know the MONSTER that you are with better than the world… The world sees you(victim)as a CRAZY person and sees him(EVIL) as an ANGEL
They are CHIEF-GHOSTERS: They will love bomb you and the next thing they will stop calling, picking your calls. This is a Psychological ploy to get you to go nuts, thereby you will start calling them like mad, and they get so HIGH from the incessant calls like a junkie gets high on METH… That’s when they start to devalue you,they will show you their evil side and when you want to leave and they feel like they are losing their grip on you, they will start BREAD-CRUMBING you(a mild form of Love-bombing), then the CYCLE begins again, you fall deeper and you bare your emotions to them… The next thing, they will start to devalue you… They are very Vindictive, Evil, Mentally deranged people. The final Stage is the DISCARD… They no longer get their supply from you because they are into a new Supply…
I call them MAN-CHILD, They are children trapped in an Adults body. The one I encountered is so Vain, lives for adulation, has a Full length Mirror in front of his Desk in his Office, another one opposite the entrance of his office… The way he boasts that his office is the most beautiful in the whole of the East… He loves lying but I guess it comes with his profession…
Wow so insightful and true, I mean every thing you said is damn true.. reminds me of my narc ex, I left his ass and he started bread crumbing me.. lol too late, I’m with someone far better you miserable narc..
Delete@anon 23:40,you just discribed my boss or am I missing something here.
Delete@ Anon 10:34 They are despicable creatures (They lack Human Empathy). They see their friends, partners, workers like a Pawn in their chess game. Thank God you found someone better…
Delete@Anon 10:36 Wow, Are you serious?
Most CEO are narcissist, that’s how they get easy supply when the Love supply is not readily available.
Can you give more insight about his narcissistic traits. Let’s learn about Narcissistic Boss. Was he nice in the beginning when you started working and then switched to his evil Persona? I will love to know. Does he taunt his workers, does he withhold their salary, incentives based on his emotional state of mind? Does he lay off his/her worker? Is he a Master of manipulation, Silent Treatment? Does he portray himself as “Morally upright”?
My ex and ex boss are narcissist, I never had peace with them, I went through all forms of abuse from them, when I left them, I regained my psyche. They are mentally sick and no one can cope with them.
ReplyDeletePlease can you tell us more about Narcissistic Boss? How was he initially when you started working with him? How did he change during the course of you working with him? Does he shout on his Employees? Does he treat them with respect?
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