MONDAY IN HOUSE NEWS...

 Hailings.......

IN HOUSE MEMO

This will be a long memo.

How is the day going? I am having a good day and i hope your day is sparkling?

So let me gist you guys a story....

Last year a BV that came from the other blog to become a celeb on this blog decided to come into my inbox and insult the living daylight out of me..... They always come into inbox when i delete their comments here....

So i blocked his comments here and he came to my inbox and we exchanged some words, when i saw he began to insult family i decided to send his emails to spam and made sure i did not enable his comment here again.

His name is Vincent....

When that Instagram handle called me out and FASELY accused me of sleeping with that BV Vitalis from that old WhatsApp group, this Vincent came on my Instagram handle with his full name and celebrated it and was happy that my marriage would crash, he called me a prostitute and even went to the blog he originated from to post it there and it was enabled...People sent me screenshots and i begged them not to anymore... I blocked him on Instagram when it became too much becos i didn't want him to tear a vein in celebrating my supposed downfall...

I am bringing this up because he has tried all the tricks in the book to start commenting here again and even though i have moved on from what he did, i don't want to see his comments here...He posted last week with the new ID he opened and i deleted the comments and he left me a memo saying I was petty and added insult to it...He also hinted that i found it difficult to forgive...

My people make una Judge the matter...why will i even bother about someone who went on the social media to celebrate my being dragged and called me a prostitute? I am someone's wife, mother and sister..... would he be happy if told all the female in his family are prostitutes?

Why does he not want to return to the other blog and leave here? He even insulted someone this morning that was deleted.....

Even to apologize is a problem but he has the audacity to return here and think he can comment, I don't want negative traffic please.

While Vincent was dragging me along with others and calling me prostitute on Instagram, BV Eka Joy was defending me with her handle as if her life depended on it..... She attacked everyone who attacked me and i was really amazed that she stood up for me without hearing my side...

Eka Joy, this is me saying Thank you... You and I know you are not my favourite person here, we argue and fight a lot inbox but you have never insulted me and i thank you for all.

I am also amazed at how much you have evolved and will evolve more......Please be you always!

Vincent, you cannot do what you did to me and expect to come back here...Please leave, I have forgiven you but my heart is still bitter towards you... I wonder how you behave to older people around you....

I guess the reason I am always having problems with you guys here is because i opened the door to allow access to me right? Oh well it is who I am and i cannot change because some people decide to mess up....I will always be accessible to people with functioning brains and not those who think the solution is to throw insults and wish one death.......

Don't wish for someone's downfall when you are still climbing the ladder...

I preach love all the time but it is sometimes difficult to practice it and that is the truth.... There are no friends here... Does anyone here love me genuinely? I dont think so but its OK, i like you all.

In other news.....I am about to make hot tomatoes sauce and basmati rice with plantain and salad for the house....my Bambino says ''Mama i want Nigerian Rice and sauce'' Hehehehehehehehe #mamaofboys #bambinos 

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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD.




Time management is one area I have struggled with more since I became a mother. Just when I thought I had settled into a working routine when I had my first he started teething with a lot of drama.

This was just the beginning, years later, one more addition and I have still not figured it out totally or I feel I am still struggling in this area. There is always so much to do and with kids and schedules can be unpredictable.

Now that they are toddlers it’s way better and I am trusting God for better ideas on how to manage my time.

Salute to every mother !!

Hehehehehehhe it never stops at all

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BLOG VISITOR TTC JOURNEY

My fellow TTC women. 

I can imagine your pains and struggles especially if you don't have any child at all. God will come through for us all.

I already have a child and been searching for another one for years now and recently made up my mind to go for tests as hubby is not bothered, so it seems but he keeps telling people that he has only one child and he prays for more "if God wishes". 

I don't trust any man, men can still have babies at any age as long their sperm is viable but a woman has a stop time. Before you know it now, you will hear that he has impregnated a woman outside, though I have never seen any reason to doubt his faithfulness but we are all humans.

I am nearing menopause because my flow is reducing. I have decided to confirm my own fertility status first before telling him.


I want to carry you all along as I pen down my journey and I believe you will rejoice with me in the end.


 I went to a fertility hospital as I can't withstand the long queue at government hospitals and their shakara.

The doctor was recommended to me by a friend who said he is good at fertility issues.
I paid for registration card. Then he asked me plenty personal questions, one that almost angered me was whether I am sure that my first and only child was for my husband.

I endured the questions.

Then he referred me for an ultrasound scan in another health facility.

I was told to go there before 7:am as there are usually plenty people, it is rumoured to be one of the best in the state.

I woke up 5:am on Friday, cooked, dressed up for myself and child and pretended to hubby as if I want to go to my shop early. I left home 6:41, got there 7:07am and met more than 10 people waiting already.

I was told the price. I paid. They said I should drink one big Eva bottle water so that my bladder will be full before the test. that is one of the requirements. My people, I went outside and bought 4 sachets of pure water and downloaded three.

I waited for two hours plus before it was my turn. Before then, I had urinated twice against their warnings. I cannot come and go and weewee on my body while waiting for my turn.


So my turn came, I was not pressed, they said I should drink more water and wait, they now called somebody else in. I almost cried.

At last, I became pressed and I went to stand at the door of the room prancing up and down.

They called me in, rubbed something on my stomach and put that thing like a computer mouse. They were now watching the monitor and telling themselves what to write down.

At last, I was back to the first hospital with the scan result. My heart was beating so fast. I was praying they don't see any bad thing in my womb.

The doctor looked at it and said everything was normal. He handed me the result and I saw:

No mass or debris in bladder
Uterus is marginally bulky
46mm AP
55mm TS
95mm LS
Fibroids : "nil".
Ovaries: normal
Normal Adnexa
No POD fluid collection
DIAGNOSIS: NORMAL FINDINGS

 

Doctor said I should come back after my menstruation period which is in a few days time so he can run checks on my cervix to know whether it is open before recommending more tests or drugs. He told me to come prepared financially. Hmmmmm. I hope I can bear the cost, I will back down if the cost will break my neck o, I know how much I spent today alone. Chai!

 I think I heard him say something about putting me to sleep before checking.

 I am waiting for the day to come and I would let him explain what he wants to do exactly, if he mentions that he would put me to sleep, I will not allow it. Is it operation that he wants to carry out? even if it is that, it is not compulsory to put one to sleep.

 If he cannot check whatever he wants to check while I am fully awake I will carry my bag and go. Let one old man not come and sleep with me or say incantations on my body and use me for rituals because I want to born another pikin. I don't trust anyone abeg. Doctors get their own too for body.

Stella and bvs. I will be back to update you.

Hopeful mum

Dont let him put you to sleep ooooh.

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