This happens all the time in Lagos..... He entered a Bus and pretended to Mistakenly touch her and when she pretended to be asleep to be sure he was touching her, his hand went for her boobs and she landed him a hot slap...
I have been a victim inside a molue Bus back then....
This shit is so common. What about the ones that share bike with u and end up cumming on ur trouser. Happened to one woman I shared bike with once. She actually showed me the mark left from her cleaning the cum. Unfortunately for her, the man alighted before her so there was no one she could hold.
ReplyDeleteThis pervert should have been arrested
See ehn, this harassment is very very wrong but it goes both ways,.
DeleteI have also been harassed alot of times but unlike guys, most girls dey use sense do am like say dem no know wetin dem dey do..
Is it the ones that'll be using boobs to rub your back and hand, the ones forming to be asleep then falling on your laps and rubbing your desk, even those standing on bet sef, you can stand in a way to avoid stuff like this or refuse to sit in front of a guy on bike, some girls go use yansh rub your preek finish come change am for you later say you dey harrass them when na them harrass you.. even that bike own, I have been harassed before but I took the challenge like a man 😏,. I have once said the story here before, babe wey dey stand wait, as I come won enter the bike, she tell me say make she enter first say she no fit sit for back, as a gentleman I obliged, as I sit behind, na so she shift back sit on my lap, I shift back dey sit on iron, she still carry soft yansh come put on top me,. No no no,. I must accept this challenge, na so I balance well ontop the bike and dealt with it like a man that night 🚶🏽🚶🏽🚶🏽
Dante, why the comparison all the time? There’s no time they share a post about women being treated badly that u don’t bring up the case of a man. It’s a different case if u share it normally but every single time this happens, u bring a ‘me too’ case
DeleteNa wa oh, so make I no talk wetin I win talk when e enter my head😏..
DeleteWhat you're calling comparison is what I would call creating awareness.. it's all about perception.. perception is a mindset, a mindset is how a person see things, some people only see negative when they have a closed mind, while those with open mind see more..
Ok, tell me what's wrong with what I wrote here, I already said it's very wrong to engage in such before going ahead to tell my story and create awareness, instead of you to attack the issues I raised, you instead face me and attack me for speaking..
You will prefer we all just come here to curse and insult men as usual bah😏.... Na the 'me too' wet Una like be that
Take a look at all the comments below, almost everyone is talking about their experiences, but talking about mine is an issue because I'm a man right?
DeleteNa so Una take dey cyber bully person to silence
Dante biko, explain the "No no no,. I must accept this challenge, na so I balance well ontop the bike and dealt with it like a man that night". Some anonymous say make i help them ask you.
DeleteThe slap fit him .
DeleteDante, so how did you deal with it? You hennn! 🙃
Deleteone lady did this to me and when we came down from the bike, i noticed her checking out my private area she was actually disappointed i didn't have an erection. i guessed she was testing her power over men but this man here surprised her
Deleteit goes both ways, but when ladies do it? my thoughts are always how to follow up; coming down at the lady's bus stop? collect number? start chatting etc
DeleteSee his face.....The slap enter wella.
ReplyDeleteThis reminded me of something that happened to me while in Jss class, we were on transit from Bida to Abuja for hols and one yeye man kept placing his hands on my laps in the guise of sleeping, i kept adjusting and removing his hands,i was too scared to confront him.
Bbjac
Pedophile
DeleteShe did so well.
ReplyDeleteThis made me remember what happened to me during Jss 3 holiday. I have never shared this with anyone.
My parents asked me to join our Neighbor to visit my younger brother who was in school then. The had this mini bus. I entered and sat at the back, shortly another of their brother entered the bus too and sat beside me.
As the journey started, this uncle started shifting towards me. I was so uncomfortable and Afraid at the same time. I can't remember the whole details of every thing that happened but I know I was almost crying. I kept pushing His hands away.
When it was time to return. I went and sat with the Man's wife. It was such an ugly experience.
I am committed to raising my girls better. To speak up and slap where necessary.
Almost every girl have had this painful experience. Men in the past got away with it but thank goodness people are more aware and potential perpetrators will think twice.
DeleteA very well deserved hot slap. All the passengers in the vehicle would have taken turns to slap him and it still wouldn't serve as enough justice for groping her boobs. One of the mad people in Lagos Nigeria
ReplyDeleteMe i love this new Eesah o...
DeleteGirls how una see this newly baptized Eesah?
How won't you love him? it wasn't your younger sister that was killed by the fanatics he supports .
DeleteIt is wrong to touch anyone inappropriately. So wrong and cruel a behavior.
ReplyDeleteHowever, in this unverifiable case, this man has been labeled a "sex offender" without any trial in a law court
and his image spread on social media. Social media is not a court of law. it is so easy to pass a verdict in a mob and
that is what social media is.
You are right and May God forgive us for condemning jungle justice but appreciating he got called out
DeleteI also think the insults in the bus was enough, posting on social media is an overkill. For a rapist, I would applaud this though, I always believe the punishment should fit the crime and I am a female.
DeleteThe call out is good. It will make him and other perverts think twice before trying such nonsense in the future. The fear of becoming a meme or going viral for the wrong reasons is the beginning of all wisdom.
DeleteAnon 5:35, keep condoning evil. From clapping of hands it will enter market. If you haven't experience this annoying act you should keep quiet.
DeleteThe person that said it happened can call out but if I didn’t see it or gave evidence of it I’m not putting it on Facebook
DeleteThis might as well be "dumping gone awry," and the vendetta that follows.
ReplyDeleteI have once been labeled "ole" and a mob gathered and guns were corked; yes GUNS. But one of the gun-wielding men identified me
and pulled the plugs. Had any of the five gun trotters pulled the trigger, I would have died an ole; armed robber.
😮😮😮😮😮
Deletehappened to me in Unilag 98 inside the shuttle bus...the guy next to me was stylishly touching my breast from the side cos we were sitting so close at the extreme end.. Abi na dream, I looked at him and he quickly removed his hand. I adjusted again and the idiot resumed again, this time i shouted and told him i will give him a dirty slap if he tries it again. the pervert could not talk as everyone was listening at this time and looking at him...I was so ready for him that day...sick people
ReplyDeleteGood you spoke out. Such people need to be confronted.
DeleteWhere are the men, do you see double standard 😏. Where are the women supporting the men on this blog, humping all over the place chanting double standard. Why didn’t the men chip in when it became obvious he was guilty? Nice one to the ladies who assisted her in the situation.
ReplyDeleteI've had an encounter like this.. only that he was an elderly man... The shock I experienced didn't even allow me react. I just got down from the bus. An old man behaving like that... Gone are the days where men were honourable and the aged respectable.
ReplyDeleteI disagree with you. Its men of those days that were terribly raised and experienced no consequence of misbehaving. Men of these days know that things have changed.
DeleteThe men kept quiet.
ReplyDeleteSee, that's a big problem.
He more than deserved that slap. I remember my Uni days, on my way home, I sat close to a guy. I remember he kept looking at me funny, only to find out he brought his d**k out, and was stroking it in the bus. I asked him what was he doing, and he said "what can you see". I just came down quickly.
ReplyDeleteA lot of them out there..He so much deserve the hot slap.. mtshewwww
ReplyDeleteThis also happened to me many times growing up. One time I was going to the hospital with my son we boarded a bus and I carried my son on my lap he was 6 or 8yrs old then. The next passager was a randy idiot he put his hand under the SEAT and was touching my laps and touching my panties trying to put his hand inside my private parts. See me see trouble when I moved my legs he stopped and started again. I asked my son if he mistakely touched me he said NO. I gave him a reset slap and I told the driver everyone on the bus was insulting him. The driver stopped and dropped him off no time for nonsense. Perverts and animals everywhere.
ReplyDeleteWhy will the men say anything when most of them are guilty of that?
ReplyDeleteI have experienced such thing before. About three years ago, I was waiting patiently for a bus home at under jubilee bridge, Ajah. A man in his car saw me and decided to give me a ride home, since we were going to almost the same place.
On our way going, he started touching me inappropriately, touching my laps and my shoulder, I was so scared that evening.
This is a man in his 50's or thereabout. Immediately, he was able to park his car and tried to check what was causing unrest at the front, I quickly opened the door and ran away. To think that I agreed to enter cos he looked mature and responsible.
Ever since then, I hate anything lift or whatever.
Most men are the same but you people won't enter bus like your mates, the same pervert men is the ones you'll be waiting for to give you free lift..
DeleteSome years ago, I was at a junction waiting for cab, I and a girl on a hot afternoon, one stupid man stopped, I approached and said where I was going, of course most private cars pick up people and collect money so that's what I approached for, the werey say him no dey go, come call the babe ask where she dey go, she said the same place I was, him say make she hop in😏..
She did..
Now, why did she think the stupid man carried her and not me that was going to pay for the fare of not for ulterior motives 😏..
That one sef go come here come talk say them harrass am,. As you no won pay in cash na kind you go use pay nah😏..
Abeg those ones that enter free lift are not victims
In my single days I hardly used to enter free rides. My pride was top notch 😂 I go just turn my face go one side, no matter how clean and flashy the car is 🤭
DeleteAnother one, I remember one of those years when I was seeking for admission, I went to write post Utme at Unilag.
DeleteBefore we were ushered into the multiple-purpose hall for the exam, we were told to all line up, so that will be called in one after the other.
As we were there waiting, the guys started misbehaving and scattering the line. I was still trying to maintain my balance on the line, when I felt someone dipped his hand inside my pant. I looked behind me and saw that it was the guy standing there that did it, I immediately used the pencil with me to stab his hand. I felt irritated and violated that day.
Me too...i can NEVER enter a strangers car...too dangerous!
DeleteWe have one on this our Nyanya route. His own is to locate where a beautiful woman is sitting in the vehicle, sit beside her and then start using his leg to rub the woman's leg. The first time, I didnt onow what to do. The second time, I cut him very serious warning. Old man oo.
ReplyDeleteA lady did same to me early in the morning sometimes last month. she romanced me badly on bike .wetin concern me,I enjoyed her big boobs and soft hands ,luckily for us,the weather was so cold after heavy rain in that morning.i collected number shapaly and invited her to my house when my wife was out .the sin is on her bcos I was on my own when she seduced me .
ReplyDeleteSee your thinking faculty
DeleteA friend of mine shared her experience with me when she went for a carnival... According to her, she said this man stood behind her and was using his pee pee to rub her... She noticed it and turned to him but he quickly diverted his gaze, so she said she decided to observe him again therefore she moved elsewhere and he still followed her... She pretended to be lost in the show and he came closer again repeating the same act... She said she had to act smart and fast so that was how she grabbed his pee pee ooo... This guy started begging her to let go of him but she didn't until a small crowd gathered asking them what was wrong, she had to explain to them what happened and that was how they begged her to release him while they warned him seriously and chased him away.
ReplyDeleteThis happens a lot in buses. When I was still in secondary school less than 16 years, I was in a bus heading home. Sitting beside me was an old scrawny looking man with a sack on his lap.
ReplyDeleteAs I was in that bus, I felt a hand touching my b00bs. I wondered if I was imagining things..
I looked towards this supposedly responsible man, he look innocent and his hand beside me was clutching the sack tightly.
It couldn't be him, I thought. This must be my imagination. After some minutes I felt the hand again, ahn ahn, his hand was still clutching his sack.
So I decided to observe him with my corner eyes. The sack was a decoy. He was using his other hand while passing it beneath the sack so he wouldn't be seen.
As soon as I saw his hand this time, the timid me forgot how old he was and reprimanded him. The woman beside me asked me what happened and I told her.
Na she help me Escalate the matter. I was so disgusted 😒☹️😢.
OR is it the psychos that share bike with you? 🙄🙄☹️
It is well
It happened to my sister in British airways flight to London years back. She was sleeping and the guy brought out his Pepe, she just woke up and screamed. They quickly upgraded my sister to business class after enquiries. A lot of sick people out there 😩😩😩
ReplyDeleteI have my fair share of this experience as well, the guy didn't even touch me, he only sat down beside me and by the time I turned over, he brought out his hard naked penis, I was shocked! He quickly alighted at the next bus stop
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