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LIVING WITH A PARTNER WITH MULTIPLE PERSONALITY DISORDER; GRANDIOSE DELUSIONS AND PSYCHOSIS

My partner suffers from multiple personality disorder, grandiose delusions and psychosis. He has not been official diagnosed because of stigmatization and the fact that he is unsure of what's wrong with him.

 I didn't know initially when we met, his family kept it from me. Along the line, I learned that some of his siblings suffer the same, his siblings own are worse.

 You wouldn't know about his own because he looks organized outwardly. Living with him is like living with different persons everyday. 

There is a loving one, there is an impulsive one, there is a violent one , there is an evil one. It's like he battles with different versions of himself everyday. He can take his bag and disappear; even sleep in dirty places, then appear like nothing happened, then disappear, then appear whenever the crisis starts. When the crisis starts, he will wear one shirt for days and even go on barefoot sometimes. 

He makes grandiose statements like everyone wants him to be the governor or house of reps or to contest for election or whatever. 

At first, I thought he was dreaming big but now I know better. 

He doesn't save, hardly likes to work and makes up things in his mind. At first, he used the church as a cloak to cover his personality while in school though people knew, when he faced the real world, he couldn't cope, any little thing, the crisis will start. 

I have a boy and a girl for him and i didn't know until I had to start filing his weird behavior daily. At first the crisis were spaced out or he hid it , now it's becoming often. He has done so much more. I didn't notice because ours was a long distance relationship and I am from a different tribe.

 When we started living together that's when I noticed the inconsistencies in his behavior. 

I could describe each of the personalities, the loving one can be so caring, then the evil one comes to question what the loving one is doing and scatters it, the evil one sees evil in everyone, then the violent one comes with destruction and beating, the impulsive one spends all the money in a day with no plans for the next day. 

When the crisis start, he is ready to take the kids to the worst of places then something will click and suddenly the loving one takes over to make up to the kids. I cry everyday for my kids. He thinks everyone is out to get him and accuses everyone. His family keeps denying and thinks he just need prayers while four of his siblings are same.

 Two male died with the madness , one female roams the street with tattered cloth four times a year while still on drugs, one male is battling same. I plan to leave. I can't go through this anymore. His family is asking me to stay but I won't. I didn't ask for this. I am planning my exit carefully.

You are still planning exit after all these explanations? Madam pack your bags and RUN with your kids.... This does not sound like you and the kids are safe at all... RUN!

I pray that your kids did not inherit this!

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