MONDAY In House News....

 Hailings on this beautiful Easter Monday....

IN HOUSE MEMO

I have been on the road and just arrived my destination. Thank God for journey mercies......Let me quickly settle down and see what news i need to do..I saw something about a little geh

How is your Easter Monday going?

I am joining in a zoom Easter Party soon.....yaaaaay!

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IJEOMAS GIST CORNER




There's this fine girl that hooked up with a bobo in the abroad, he fell deeply in love with her and sent his people to go pay her dowry. She was taken home to go stay with her hubby's family till he returns (these two haven't seen except on video calls).


Big Wahala set in when he sends her money for upkeep and to cook for the family, his sisters who are all older than her started making problems and giving her attitude. They felt she's come to take their position in their brother's life. Everyday quarreling and fighting.


In order to let peace reign, he stopped sending her money for the family and pays to his sisters account. This guy promised he was gonna send her over a short time after the bride price, or come home, but she's stayed in the house for almost a year with no hope of going over to her husband or him coming home. He keeps postponing his visit



One of his sisters after a fight one day, told her she'll wait and get tired, their brother will not come for her. This babe thought it was a normal talk as they were quarreling. Her family can't even help her cos she belongs to the guy's family now, they can only give advice (Ha, thank God for my own family oh).


The thing now be sey, babe went to church and pastor see vision for her oh, told her that one of his sister in laws go do jazz for her. E sey she tie fowl legs, which implies that the guy no go ever show face for Naija to come see him wifey and to turn his face from her too. She go wait tire and the guy no go show face. Naso pastor asked her to do back to sender prayers, before babe go finish the prayer, God went to visit the evil sister in law. She's seriously ill at the moment with no hope of recovering.



The young girl that prayed back to sender prayer is scared, she doesn't want her to die, na him she run back to pastor to tell God to forgive her. Na the matter dey hot so..... Update nabia


WHAT A WICKED Sister in law....She should run oooh, this one sister in law is already fighting her, wont another sister in law take over if this one dies?nawah!!





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BV SUFFERING DOMESTIC VIOLENCE WALKS AWAY FROM 3 YEAR 

OLD MARRIAGE

Stella, I'm a bv of your blog and my blog Id is surrogate mother. I have been a victim of domestic violence and verbal abuse from my husband of 3years.


I made the decision of staying alive today and moved out. We have been ttcing since last year, there's no week that passes that i dont get beaten by him.


I always put up that smiling and happy family face for my family and friends , so no one suspects anything.


That EKWUEME singer gave me the inspiration to walk out on Sunday and i am glad I did.

I'm scared and excited about the new chapter of my life , don't know what the future holds for me because i was solely dependent on him.


I left on Sunday morning after another round of beatings, he burned all my clothes and destroyed my phone and shamelessly naked me and called me a barren woman in the compound. I'm so emotionally drained.


I'm in a friend place and I feel a bit safe. Please say some prayers for me.

Attached is the wound of Sunday's assault, I would have sent previous pictures of assaults but he destroyed my phone today.

I have to use my friends phone to send you this mail.

Thank you and God bless

P.s, you can share with bvs , probably this might save someone.

May God give the strength to stay away from that man because if you return after walking away, the story gets worse...He has burnt all your things so move on!

May God be with you!

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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD



My phone is not just mine anymore. It belongs to three people. My champions and I, they can navigate their way to YouTube for kids and games on their own, all they need me to do is unlock the phone. Yet they haven’t grasped the alphabets fully.


I noticed the same with my friend's children, even when given a phone they have not used before, the speed they use to locate games and YouTube is impressive.

Recently I noticed that if a call comes in while they are using my phone, my first would pick the call say hello and tell the caller bye bye immediately and cut the call. I warned him to always bring my phone to me when it rings and he has been complying.

I don't mind sharing my phone with them but its amazing how you can share your phone with your kids and not with anyone else...

I didnt share phones with my Bambinos oh.....they had their own phones from6 years old. The stress of fighting over mine was too much so we opted to get them theirs but it was just for games...

I have a phone bag and its all the used phones from ym kids, used but still new, there are about 10 phones in the bag.

Na wah for pikins

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