Friday In House News..

 I smell a beautiful Weekend ahead.........

IN HOUSE MEMO

Lucky Nigerians!

Some of you wont be working until next weekend Wednesday or Thursday.... Do you have anything planned?

Who are those attending parties and events?

Don't forget to make your days productive........ Some of you claim you are Jobless but you can make hair, why not start making hair around? That is business that will never close up if you plan it well... Go from house to house or open somewhere at the corner or back of your house to make braids and other styles.....

Abeg enough preaching!

I am all up for what the Isokos call Ukodo... Thinking of making it when i remember all what i need...LOL

Have a beautiful day.... see you in other posts!

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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD


When I was pregnant with my first, I downloaded so many pregnancy growth tracking apps. I would read about the sizes of the foetus and expected symptoms.

 I was so excited.

 My first antenatal visit was surreal, I asked a million and one questions .

I was so excited for my bump to show so I could shop for maternity wears and when my baby bump started to show, I was always in front of the mirror measuring it. The excitement was on another level. I bought a lot of cute short gowns I had been eyeing. Fast forward to after delivery, most of the outfits were not practical for breastfeeding.

I never knew it was a thing till I had my baby. For example the cute jumpsuit in pregnancy could not be worn in public in case I had to breastfeed and due to the extra fullness from breast milk my bust line had changed drastically. I had to overhaul my wardrobe.

For a long time, the first thing I checked when buying an outfit was how comfortable it would be for breastfeeding.

LOL..... no one is ever prepared for the changes Motherhood brings my dear..... The one that shocked me most was that my shoe size increased

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PINKYS CORNER


It's so disgusting and disheartening to hear or be informed about what ladies go into now all because of money. It's a shame to humanity and annoying to neglect values, norms and ethics all in the name of MONEY.


I am here for my gender(men),it's high time we put ourselves in check and also put a stop to some nasty attitudes. Not all holes are good to enter and not all waters are good to swim in. So many diseases and spiritual attacks which we don't know but suffer from it.


Some ladies have become a shame to humanity for sleeping with dogs all in the name of money and these same ladies will go to their "Husband to be" and still allow the guy sleep with them..   Hmm wahala dey come oooo.


Some people go to clubs and have fun and pick up a lady to sleep with for night without knowing who she is or where she came from.... They do this without thinking about the danger involved...


Let me shock you a bit, there is a club in Ibadan and there was a day my in law and i went to a cheap bar around the hotel to have some drinks and Lo and behold, I saw a Mallam who begs money negotiating with a Lady, before you know it, they walked into another cheap hotel in that same area.


Now, imagine those men who sleep with anything in skirt sleeping with this lady who sleeps with beggars.... DIRTY BEGGARS!!!

 Let's be careful and be watchful. The life we are now is something else.

if you need it hot hot, discuss with your wife and explain how you always wanted it or enjoy it. it's better that way than putting your life at risk. 

Please be careful where you insert your thing.....




Sleep with all these dirty beggars and then pass it on!

Oh gosh men are really trying with taking risks!

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FROM THE COMMENT SECTION...


I know this reply may be very very LATE. I just read the chronicle about the lady and her husband not allowing her to work or use whatsapp and I was wondering if I wrote the chronicle.

 I am exactly 36 years like you. Married to a guy, I had no idea will have the type of money he has today, meaning he is RICH and provides all for me and the kids. Just like you, he feels I must not talk or make decisions cos he provides. Listen, it was hard but I made it clear I will do exactly what I want. 

During my Master's program. I had to install whatsapp on my phone to allow me keep up with class schedules and lectures. He told me to delete it, I laughed and so hard and told him NEVER. I wish I could write more. So much to write, people have no clue and even wish they are in my shoes cos of the money.

 My beloved sister, I understand you FULLY well, please start that Cake business he will only shout and rant. Did I mention, he did not even want me to do the Master's. I went to the school, paid and started the programme I nor look am. He says I am ungrateful, I just look at him and laugh. I LOVED this guy with all my heart, but the way he talks to me, yells and tries to control me for over 12 years of marriage has made me stop loving him.

 I love MYSELF too much now. I hope you see this, or I hope Miss Stella puts this up not just in the comment section. I am in your shoes sis. Start the Cake business, go secure that bag please. I LOVE YOUUUUU.

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