The Former Beauty queen who was a victim of extreme Domestic Violence shared some photos from what she went through and explains why women being abused dont leave quickly......
Friday, April 15, 2022
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At the end of the day, all these won't matter when the victim is dead so why not think of you first for once?
ReplyDeleteIle aye yi dun o, ko de pe meji!
Muah!
DeleteShe need to zip it!!! Thought she denied ever being abused publicly when there was a report about her being touched or abused by her ex during her pregnancy? she is part of the problem. Period!!!
DeleteShe need to zip it!!! Thought she denied ever being abused publicly when there was a report about her being touched or abused by her ex during her pregnancy? she is part of the problem. Period!!!
DeletePeople need to stop judging or name calling those that walked away from an abusive marriage or relationship. What society will say, friends and family members is what is dragging a lot of women to their early graves from abusive marriage.
ReplyDeleteOnly those with big heart can endure.
How many marriageable unmarried women have committed suicide because they are unable to get married and get shamed by everybody? If the singles can lead a happy life why would a woman who has tasted the bitter water of domestic violence remain inside a marriage for the fear of what people will say? I don't see taunting as an excuse to make a man or women stay in hell on earth.
DeletePlease I don't want to hear she denied it previously, blah blah blah. Every win is a win regardless, I am happy she found her voice to speak up, Femi should be jailed and taken for mental evaluation.
ReplyDeleteI got married to my ex husband in 2016 and from that November 2016 I knew no peace of mind.
ReplyDeleteI kept on pretending all was well, attending church but when it got to one time I decided to speak out to my family members not knowing my elder sister kept on begging my ex each time he complain to her about our little argument.
I didn’t know cos she was begging him kept him misbehaving. In 2018 February I decided to forget about what people, friends and family members will say about me and walked away. My ex didn’t beat me but I was emotionally, financially, sexually abused. I was also told after some times to go back to my marriage cos I have dent the image of my family.
I could remember how one of my elder sister will always used my failed marriage to talk to me. She said If I become the chief bridesmaid to my elder brother’s wide she will not attend the wedding. She said non of her meeting, friends and our family members will not attend also.
For peace to reign I stepped down but I was hurt. I couldn’t talk in our meetings or gathering cos I couldn’t keep a marriage but not until I told myself I will not take shit from anyone.
My elder brother didn’t help matters as at anything he will lie against me, saying things he didn’t even know. Always using my failed marriage to speak to me.
Today I am happy I left that idiot, properly divorced and I have no one to take shit from. January this year I was suicidal but then I spoke to my family and warn them to step off my path or else I will stop talking to them.
My people since then everyone has respected my decision, how they talk to me and life is good. Until you get to the point of not taking rubbish from anyone you will remain in that abusive marriage.
I have a lot to type but my hands are paining me.
Have you thought about maybe you were the one people were actually taking shii from.. so everyone including your family are wrong but only you is right.. some of you have very bad manner and will refuse to change and when one complains it becomes another big issue..
DeleteNa Una sabi sha..
I might make a lot of mistakes but I'll definitely take my time to be sure of the person I'm getting married to cos leaving a marriage is not always easy.. but if it gets life threatening.. it would be my last resort ✌️
Ordinary chief bridesmaid role o. So if you were to officiate the wedding nko? Your o n sister O.
Deleteyou did good.
DeleteGood. Eleanor Roosevelt said: "No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." When next they insult you, highlight all the wahala in their own marriages too. Make it a gbas gbos sumtin make everybody collect. Once they know you know it's not all roses on their own side too, they will stop messing with you. If that doesn't work, AVOID THEM ALL. They will look for you when they are ready for peace. Blood is thicker than water but Okomu palm oil is thicker than blood. Be around those who give you positive energy. Bad energy stay far away.
Delete🤗🤗🤗🤗
DeleteMay God heal you of that experience completely and give you your own true partner and give you your own home. May God also help your ex be a better person instead of going on to hurt someone else.
DeleteEven on this blog once they know you are separated or divorced they will always use it against you. People will not allow you breath just because you had a failed relationship or marriage.
ReplyDeleteWe should stop doing that.
This!
DeleteOga if you are suffering dv Speak up abeg .. Wetin happen 🤨🤨 They should speak up abeg
ReplyDeleteE hard you cus they warned you....
ReplyDeleteYou wan die there just to prove them wrong... FFK dont live in pretence
Exactly! She would have left after her first child but she wanted to pepper her online ancestors who reported her abuse case with feeding FFK Oha soup. Ngwazianu! How are they sure that after fighting for you again, you'll still not go back to your personal evil spirit? So, most people just dey their dey jeje dey send her "love and light" from afar before dem go use dem settle again with Ofe-owerri.
DeleteMay God help Precious.
DeleteThank God you came out alive.
ReplyDeleteAnd people should stop shaming and blaming victims that leave a domestic violent marriage.
Good point Justyswt but I haven't seen anyone abusing Precious with the "divorcee" tag. Not even anonymous comments here. People have been empathising with her especially because of her kids. Sure, some reminded her that she was warmed about FFK but she's been getting massive solidarity even from the children of anger. But mbanu; snowwhitey says it's not enough. She wants buhari-battered Nigerians to declare 3 national days of special prayers for her when the matter is already in court.
DeleteSorry to change the subject but please what breakfast are these people always talking about.
ReplyDeleteEvery time I keep hearing she/he has been served breakfast, meanwhile all I can think of is a full English - bacon, sausages, beans, egg - well done, mushrooms and a fried slice.
Okay off to the café, will be back to read properly after eating :-)
Breakfast = Heartbreak. kapish?
DeleteHmmmmmmm thank God for you
ReplyDeleteIt's well
#saynotodomesticviolence
Breakfast is a slang that means breakup
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