Hmmmm.....
ADVICE NEEDED ON WHAT TO DO.....
There's this girl, according to her, she's an orphan.
We live not really close and we're not in any way related and we ain't from the same state too. I happen to buy stuff from her elder sister's shop. So one day, I meet her crying and when I asked her why she's crying and she said her elder sisters husband has been sleeping with her since she was 15.
So I asked her if she has told her sister and she said yes that when she told her sister, her sister sent her away that she wants to collect her husband, but they later brought her back after some months. She said the husband said he can't train her in secondary school just like that without any reward.
I asked her if she can do sales girl work because she said it is because she's always at home that's why her sisters husband sleeps with her and he sometimes takes her to hotel if there's no space at home according to her.
So I got her a sales girl work not far from my shop like four shops after mine.
She complained about cloths and I gave her some of my cloths both new and neatly used. To my greatest surprise, she cut some of the trousers to pants not shots and some she turned them to rugged while some gowns to hot mini gown that's just a little below her bum bum. The thing now is that all the the guys in that my line have slept with her because I always send them away when they come close to her and they will be like "this girl your protecting we done use her finish oooo"
Like 4 guys have said that to me. She doesn't stay in the shop according to her boss which is true cos I've told her severally about staying in the shop. All this is in a space of 2months.
I want to wash my hands off her because her boss said if anything gets missing in his shop as a result of her not staying in the shop that I will be the one to pay.
Note that she doesn't want any help as I've told her to call me anytime her sis husband is talking her to hotel so that I will call some my friends and we catch him red handed but she refused.
So I want to tell her boss that I've washed my hand off her that if anything gets missing in his, he should hold her responsible and if he thinks he cant cope again with her, he should sack her.
I'm a single mother trying to fend for my baby as I walked out of my marriage because of severe Domestic Violence and the rest of it so I want to carry only my problem now.
What do you think?
What do you think?
*Hmmmmm this is serious.....
That Lady is so damaged that she is sleeping around and she sees nothing wrong with it... The sister brought her back to continue sleeping with the Husband? Unbelievable!
Please wash your hands off this lady, she does not need a Job, it is help that she needs and you dont have the solution......What a pity!
Madam you better wash your hands off this Girl... she has no respect for her Body.
ReplyDeleteThis is so sad! Sex abuse of minors is a TERRIBLE thing because it ruins their perception of reality. Sexually abused kids grow into promiscuous adults because their sense of self becomes tied to sex; every Tom, Dick and Harry can have a turn. Can you connect her with an NGO? To a FEMALE chaperone, as a man might likely continue the abuse. She needs help and fast too. Lastly, please don't gossip about her, I know you know her story but how come 4 different guys told you they had slept with her? People just don't walk up to others to share such information. You were only lucky you were not an orphan and sexually exploited so please don't judge her as you don't know what you would have done if you were in her shoes. Connect her with the right female organization such as those that help rehabilitate prostitutes etc, that's the kind of help she needs not judgement and gossip.
DeleteAs you wash your hands off her, please return her back to her sister’s house. You can’t take her somewhere and start singing wash my hands. Return her back to factory reset that you met her because if anything should go missing in that shop, you will still be arrested for introducing her in the first place. Incase you don’t know, you are still her guarantor provided she is still working there.
DeleteSee them! 👇👇👇 witches all over the blog saying return her to her sister! The same sister whose husband has been having sex with this girl since she was 15!!! She told her sister, the sister took her away and returned her to the husband to continue the sexual abuse!!! You call yourselves mothers but you are all wicked, heartless witches!!! would you return your daughters to a person who damaged them in the first place???
DeleteMessed up.
DeleteKindly wash your hands off her case before she drags you to the mud. She knows what she's doing and wont change. She has tasted a man already and will continue in the way until she genuinely seek God.
ReplyDeleteStella dont forget she is an orphan, it was necessary for her sister to bring her back.
If you can get this girl to live with you and go to school, that's better. She needs Jesus and if you know Jesus, preach Jesus to her. She needs the true Love that only faith in Jesus can fetch her. The pathway to normalcy for her may not be easy but it is doable and Jesus is the answer.
ReplyDeleteIt also takes sacrifice from you.
If there is anyone who can be a mother to her right now, that is what she needs.
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DeleteHian!😱
DeletePoster, this blog angel say make you kukuma allow her go open branch office for your compound make all your neighbors and street boys enjoy wotowoto.
Anon, you go gree carry this kain geh go dey live with you make you dey preach gi am ba? Y'all play too much!
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Anon, use detergent, bleach and blood of Jesus wash hand commot now now now! If one of the boys carry am go do ritual, that her sister wey do like say she no send go carry police come ya doormot. Person wey dem lap no dey lap person. The girl is wild; forget her fake sob story😏. Na format.
Poster please ignore this Anon please.. End time advise
DeleteAnon 15:09, how about you drop your address with Stella so that poster can send the girl to you to accommodate in your house.
DeleteLmao @ amebonawork.
DeletePoster please ignore 15:09.
Why can't you all leave someone's advice alone and give your own? If this were to be your sister, you all will be begging for her to be accommodated. What you all are doing now is to push this girl to a brothel and you will all in turn point at her and call her ashawo. Meanwhile, some of you aren't better than her.
Delete🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂..@amebonawork you no kill with laugh o
DeleteThe young lady is damaged and needs help but you probably not the best person to assist her except you're a psychiatrist?
DeleteAs sad as it may sound, please wash your hands of her so not to bring problems to yourself. What she's facing is much bigger than you can handle. She needs therapy not a job, she's broken and damaged.
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ReplyDeletePlease help this girl with counseling.
Hmm, some men are rejoicing that "they have finished her?"
The powers in the waters are rejoicing that these men's days are numbered and every of their "wealth" are stolen and they are to spend eternity in hell"
Who finished who?
Take Stella advice. She is not ready to become responsible.
ReplyDeleteIf her own blood sister cannot help her, who are you? Wash your hands and face front oh...
ReplyDelete@Sweet, are you talking about the same sister who has given her own blood sister to her husband for sex? Is her sister not the cause of the problem? To fix a problem, you must understand the foundation and address it from the root cause.
DeleteThis made me so sad!
ReplyDeleteYou are still writing a chronicle instead of rushing to go wash your hands off her, make sure you do that before today ends.
ReplyDeleteThis is sad. If you have the means take her for therapy or take her to a priest and see if the church can take her in, if not? Wash your hands off
ReplyDeleteGod bless your kind heart poster. Pray for her and advice her. But you need to tell her Oga that you are no longer responsible for her.
ReplyDeleteThis is so sad.
This is one of the many cases why I need to do fast and open my therapy centre. 😥
I feel so sad for the girl, she started having sex too early, now she's uncontrollable. She has been so damaged that u need a lot of time and patience to actually help her. She needs spiritual, psychological, emotional therapy. If u can, do ur best, if not, just wash off and be praying for her.
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Poster, you still dey ask question abi you don free the babe already? God will bless and reward you for your efforts and kindness but it's time to let go. That girl is a time bomb. Run for cover. I'm not sure you can love her more than her sister who drove her out, brought her back and is still tolerating her. Move on!
ReplyDeleteI feel for her. It breaks my heart but please wash your hands off. Your best bet is to lead her to christ now oo, she is damaged psychologically and only God can heal her.
ReplyDeleteI feel so bad for victims of pedophilia honestly. May God send healing to every child who has been abused or is being abused sexually
That young lady has been damaged. She needs serious counselling. She should be handed over to a counselor for professional counselling. So sad she was exposed to sex at such age and with her sister's husband.
ReplyDeletePoster please return her to her sister and stay clear from her.
ReplyDeleteTake her to an agency that deals with sexual abuse survivors. Most people do not understand the complexities of sexual abuse. Promiscuity does tend to show up regularly for those who have been sexually abused. They do not see their bodies as having any value, because they were taken against their will so mentally many need deep counselling and therapy to come back to a place where they find their self-worth and self-esteem. She needs help beyond what you can do. Say words of kindness and upliftment to her. You do not know her destiny, maybe one day she will see you as the person who helped turned her life around because you showed love instead of judgment. Connect her with an agency if you can and do good for her if you can.
ReplyDeletePlease return the girl to her sister or another family member and help from a distance if you must. This is Nigeria, If she is under your care and she catches something incurable, steals something valuable/expensive, is harmed, gets pregnant, has a failed abortion etc. All fingers and eyes will be directed at you. Our people like to look for who to blame. Don't make yourself a victim, except you are fully prepared to damn the consequences and help her. Put your oxygen mask on before someone else's; your baby should be your priority. She is not ready to be helped.
ReplyDeleteInstead of Washing your hands off why not be her counsellor, help her, talk to her,advise her, be the elder she has that's not there for her. She's still growing groom her please.
ReplyDeleteI use to have this neighbor in Magodo Phase 2 whose younger sister was having sex with her fiance.
ReplyDeleteWhen she found out, she drove her sister out of the house. Me and my friends were angry at her for choosing the guy over her blood sister.
My landlady's friend took her in. She is a wife to one of the big politicians in Naija. Not up to 3 weeks of her moving into their home, she started causing problem between the man and his wife.
Calling the man whenever he travel to give him gist about where the wife is and who she is seeing.
She started sleeping with the man until the man and his wife broke up.
Things dey happen. Make we just pray for it to happen to us
At anonymous 15:48 I don't gossip about her and I will never will....it was in one of the occasions that I was warning the guys to stay off her and allow her concentrate that they said that to me....I even told the guys that she's my sis so why will I gossipy about my sis? Heaven knows that my rule is whatever I know that if done to me I wouldn't like, I won't do that to another person.
ReplyDeleteAnonymous 15:09 remember I said I'm a single mother trying to fend for my baby and I so can't train any adult in school for now.
ReplyDelete@G Wagon you can't help someone that don't want to be helped...before now she do greet me once she passes my shop or touch my baby, (though that's not my problem) But now if I try to advice her, she be like aunty have started again. She sees me now as a disturbance to her life. I can't drag her from her house to followships that I've invited her severally. I've been waiting for this post before I go ahead. So tomorrow morning, I will call her boss and tell him that I've washed my hands off her. And there wasn't any grantor.
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