Her caption on Instagram reads....
''I almost got married last year. I mean, I was proposed to but I chose me. I chose life.
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How can I be with someone that hits me?. He always tried to show the world that we had a perfect relationship but I had a black eye and wore his expensive shades to cover it up. I can remember my caption when I posted that picture “Rich and getting it”. I had comments like “show us the way, cut soap for me, you are the fashionista “ . My dear, your fashionista was covering her shame.
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I could have chosen to stay with him but, won’t my children have to constantly watch their mum being hit? What kind of effect will it have on them? Will they be traumatized? Will they become bullies? Will they learn to hurt others ?
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There are relationships where people are free to be happy. I wanted that. I wanted a happy family so, I sacrificed my unhealthy relationship before I sealed it. I saw the signs and did what I to do on time.
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Andre’s mother is also a bully. She will constantly tell me to treat her son like a king so he won’t get upset and hit me.
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He will hit me for disagreeing with him, for complaining about his late nights, for smiling for too long, for not making fresh meals three times a day, for wanting to go out with friends.
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In as much as he blames his character on his upbringing. “I was bullied in school, that’s why I hate being talked back at, my dad made me an angry child, I’m a Leo and you are aquarium abi asparagus (whatever he calls it). Zodiac sign excuses to be animal.
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He is an adult now and should know what’s wrong and right. He is so rich but wealth doesn’t guarantee health''.
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All these were words from Udochi during our conversation last week. I understand where she is coming from. Society is blaming her for still being unmarried, social media trolls are bullying as usual but I respect her decision.
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Choose you and your future today. Do not let your children become monsters because you chose to be with a monster. That’s if you’ll be alive to see your children after such decision. Leave unhealthy relationships. Don’t be with a bully. #saynotobullying #saynotodomesticviolence
*Alex don learn work, se wrote the story in the beginning without quote so it can trend if people think it is hers...LMAO
When people submit to all those "zodiac" and the devil convinces you that you are a lion, cancer, crab etc. you just find yourself helplessly behaving like those.
ReplyDeleteWhat a shame that folks won't read and believe the Word of God (Isaiah 8:19-22, Romans 1) not to walk that devilish path.
No. She has always been a good writer.
ReplyDeleteBecause you have always known her from childhood?
DeleteEven if she farts, isn't it fragrance for you?
14:48,
DeleteGo away. I don't answer uncouth people.
Theres no friend anywhere, na she
ReplyDelete💯.
DeleteAlex is Aquarius, who be Udochi? 🙄
She decided to switch things up at the end, make dem nor come beat am again.
You wish so bad that she is the one, bah?!
DeleteAlex has always been a good writer tho. She didn't start today. I love reading her epistles.
ReplyDeleteEven after all of these stories you will see people that will marry abusive boyfriends and still see women that encourage people suffering dv to remain in the marriage and pray for the useless man.
Seeing one person hitting another scares me! Gosh!
ReplyDeleteThank you, Lord for my life. I no fit shout abeg!
I once travelled to visit my boyfriend and I think his other girlfriend that lives in his city heard and came to cause a scene. The security couldn't hold her so he went outside and beat the living day light out of her! There was this particular slap to connected badly I can't get the sound of it out of my head till today. I watched from the window. By the time he came back into the house he met a different me. I was like a robot, couldn't relax or gist or play with him. I couldn't even get angry with him cos he scared me shitless!! He tried his best and I left and couldn't even find the courage to break up with him. I never saw him again till after about 4years!
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ReplyDeleteLexy babe
ReplyDeleteYou're a good writer
keep it up 👍👍👍
#Saynotodomesticvoilence
#Saynotobullying
My boyfriend was verbally abusive, he constantly told me anytime he got angry which was quite often that if i was his wife he would beat me up but i was willing to marry him cos i was already in my forties but one year i had enough and just deleted his number
ReplyDeleteAlex d “disguiser” . Alex that used to have diff IDs to troll, hope u have changed? Na only ur followers will believe sey no be u.
ReplyDeleteSo what if it was her?
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