He says he has healed and thanks her for 2nd chances....
Nice story!
His post says...
"Todays post is about 2nd chances
Today is the last day of the last month of me being single as I marry my baby next month. I was married before and have 2 girls (I used to post about my girls but as more eyes came to my page I stopped because as a father, protecting is my job). After 8 years of marriage (I got married at 26) we filed for a divorce in 2018. We were young and made mistakes and I had struggled with bouts of depression.
His post says...
"Todays post is about 2nd chances
Today is the last day of the last month of me being single as I marry my baby next month. I was married before and have 2 girls (I used to post about my girls but as more eyes came to my page I stopped because as a father, protecting is my job). After 8 years of marriage (I got married at 26) we filed for a divorce in 2018. We were young and made mistakes and I had struggled with bouts of depression.
2018 was my toughest year ever!
Requesting a divorce was one of the toughest things I ever did but it was about survival. I am not accusing anyone… just speaking about my own struggles as a human being. Suffice it to say that my life has been the stuff you read about in books and I kept it all inside. Only those in my inner circle know my story and perhaps one day I might write about it.
Now back to 2nd chances.
Now back to 2nd chances.
Coming out of my earlier situation I never believed that I would remarry. I was wounded and hurt. I first reached out to Ini after we had commenced our divorce process via DM (we all know that story) but never met her in person till sometime in 2019. We started talking as friends and eventually started dating in the second half of 2019. (I remember when I told her about the circumstances of my divorce, her response was “that’s your version but I’m sure there’s another version that’s equally true”). But wounded people wound people. And every time I saw we would get close I would end the relationship because I was afraid of committing.
Yet when I was away from her I couldn’t function. This happened a few times and ultimately I had to seek professional help with a clinical psychologist to deal with my past trauma. What became clear to me was that she was my 2nd chance that I never thought I deserved. And I always functioned better whenever she was in my life.
Well maybe I’m sharing too much, but I have now received a lot of healing and continue to be healed. And as the good book says, “love covers a multitude of sins”, and her love for sure is healing me daily. Ini I am looking forward to saying “I do” in a few weeks time. Thanks for the second chance."
Well maybe I’m sharing too much, but I have now received a lot of healing and continue to be healed. And as the good book says, “love covers a multitude of sins”, and her love for sure is healing me daily. Ini I am looking forward to saying “I do” in a few weeks time. Thanks for the second chance."
*Some things are not necessary at all..... This post is sweet but who ask am? This is how they keep updating and feeding the trolls...
He never talk wetin happen in the first marriage naa
ReplyDeleteAnd this post is because the other aproko blog has been on ini's case saying she wrecked his first marriage
He shouldn’t have even bothered, in the end… no one cares that much. Now the will want to bring receipts and the drama continues.
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Alot of men dat married early didnt marry their spec. By the time they now enter their 30s/40s and gathered small change,taste change... they want to upgrade and start findn fault in any small thing wifey does. B4 u know it they claim depression and unhappiness in d marriage.
DeleteTrue @ Beds and Roses
DeleteAbeg, it's not by age. It's greed and lack of self control. How old was Kalu the actor when he got married? How far the marriage today? Let's stop making excuses for badly behaved men
Delete@beds n roses that's because they marry what u call builder wives. The ones that build the man in2 the perfect man he wants to be to feel worthy of his actual spec. Sad but true. Why I said most men marrying b4 30 is not a good idea. It's plain as day what the agenda of those men is
DeleteHe is trying to shade his ex to make her feel she missed but Oga let the sleeping dog sleep biko.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations for having second chance but I hope you will be calm and not repeat your mistakes.
Congratulations....
ReplyDeleteHe made the post because a blogger claim that Ini was the reason he filed for a divorce.
ReplyDeleteLet bad married end today with April. From tomorrow May,may we hear good marriage news.Na aha Jesus!
ReplyDeleteIs he writing all these because jeans jeanslova wrote that he and inidima began dating while he was still married?
ReplyDeleteLol... Guilty conscience
DeleteLmaoooo when one platform like that does tueh tueh , guilty conscience go begin shalaye upandan. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
ReplyDeleteOga why you dey write this epistle for general public??
Hopefully your second chance isn't a rebound. That's how one guy told me he met me the week he left his wife and his wife was desperate to marry him. I just said oga, you are the desperate one, whatever is the real story, why should you want to jump into another relationship few days after leaving your wife? I will even be more desperate to accept because if you can sit here and call your wife desperate, only God knows how you would describe me in the nearest future. I'm not your rebound move forward and all the best.
ReplyDeleteWise of you
DeleteIni, I here by cover you with the blood of Jesus Christ.
ReplyDeleteNa so, Jesus no dey dey consulted ab initio oh, when we finish, we begin to harass him.
DeleteHe is doing this because gistlover wants to oust him.Its even whispered he's gaybriel.Time will tell
ReplyDeleteSay no to shalaye , wish you guys the best
ReplyDeleteThe fear of Tueh Tueh is the beginning of shalaye 😂🤣😂🤣
ReplyDeleteNa jeanslover make am write this epistle oo
ReplyDeleteThings are happening
ReplyDeleteHmm ok sha. Hope u have received therapy n healed very well. No woman is a rehabilitation centre for broken n hurt men
ReplyDeleteAbi ooo
DeleteNa wa
ReplyDeleteR u people seeing it now? All the olori ike pressuring people to marry early without first advising them to ensure their mental health is paramount will not see this one. B4 u embark on a relationship with another person u have to make sure u have addressed all your traumas, low self esteem, childhood wounds n ensure ur self sufficient. So many people go into relationships hoping for their partner to make them happy, to complete them, to be their energy supplier, to be their therapists n that is not what relationships are about.
ReplyDeleteChika
ReplyDeleteWeird if you ask me👽🙄🙄
ReplyDeleteI'm not sure I can advise any man under 30 to marry sha. Men mentally mature slower than ladies. Duno why a guy will be that young and considering marriage. That's how one 25 yr old guy I know went 2 go n marry his babe on top he wants to be seen as a responsible n the jokes and see finish from his seniors was too much. A week after his trad he is already messaging the girl he used to have a fling with talking about I made a mistake, already doing shina. This is someone that while he was single would proclaim that he would do shina while married n he is already rounding up his roster, barely a few months to the white wedding
ReplyDeleteIt's not the age. Even a lit of 40/50year olds behaving like toddlers.
DeletePlenty covetousness and foolishness with lack of contentment in the heart of such "people'
DeleteThey are promiscuous and greedy
Which one be Tueh tueh again kaii🤣🤣
ReplyDeleteBlah blah blah! Never knew you would remarry, you were so broken but was already toasting woman same year as divorce and dating the next year. Na so the divorce pain you reach, silly, confused boy. How you people come up with these suspicious narratives everytime.
ReplyDeleteDon't mind him, till his ex wife will open mouth too
DeleteFor your info, spouses mentally and emotionally check out long before divorce is finalized.
DeleteThe fear of tueh tueh will make you turn radio without battery 😅😅😅
ReplyDeleteBeautiful couple, wishing you marital bliss.
Ini has always been a calm headed girl since I started watching her. This guy better not carry her leg comot outside.
ReplyDeleteYou have healed. Good for you. Seems he was the cause of his marriage break up with the way he evaded that. After all na him carry him wan explain himself.
Stella it was necessary bcos ppl were dragging Ini saying she snatched someones horseband. D gist has been ard that d guy left his wife for her, so dis is a way of him tryn to explain himself and d time-lines...As for me was always wary of gettn involved with divorced men, no matter how much u explain Nigerians will still assume u destroyed a home,even if ur innocent
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ReplyDeleteMany of our women never get over their exes so marrying a divorced man whose ex is Naija feels like being in a polygamous relationship. The west is more brutal and clinical when it comes to divorce. No pressures from busy body extended families to say “you are still …”. People move on quicker. It’s easier if the ex is not Naija. I’m sure someone sympathetic to her leaked the story. Oyinbos rarely return once they are done so everyone keeps to court terms and moves on
ReplyDeleteA good thing I am seeing is that he went for therapy, which means he wants to give his second chance a better chance. Some Naija men refuse to ever admit they need help, talk less of seeking it out.
ReplyDeleteIni,this guy is not for you.Dont say we didn't warn you o
ReplyDeleteE come even been akwiiiiiiibom man. How quickly he moved on is how quickly most men move on even if they don't tell you. Infact, the 1st girl they talk to after their divorce may be the one they end up with...even if the girl didn't want them initially. They , men always have plans . Young is no excuse, Even if his story is made up, he should remember with initially, he is now under greater scrutiny. Hopefully he will respect himself
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