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FROM TUESDAY IN HOUSE NEWS

My hubby's opposite neighbour who is in the same line of business was dating a lady for almost three years about five years ago, the wedding was fixed and wedding printed for their traditional marriage. 

This lady in question used to come to her fiance's house with the younger sis to spend time and enjoy as well as the guy is very comfortable, meanwhile, she came from a very poor home. My husband and friends departed for the ceremony on the D day, traced their house with their pictures printed on the banner, only for them to reach and find out that he was no longer marrying the fiancé but the younger sis who claimed to be two months pregnant for him, apparently she has been sleeping with him. 

She insisted he either marries her or she commits suicide that day, after dragging on and forth, they exchanged her for the elder sis. My husband said it was a big disgrace and embarrassment, they came back and became the hottest gossip in the market but you can't tell an adult what to do.

 7months later, she lost the pregnancy and so has been subsequent ones. It has been from one quarrel to the other,sometimes she comes to me for advice on her ttc journey, I do my best but people keep saying it's karma dealing with them. The hubby threw her out on December, I just found out recently about it, called her yesterday and she was telling me it's due to their childless that he threw her out and want nothing to do with her again. 

She made mention of receiving treatment and it's hopeful, he will soon take her back. This is someone below 30 and this desperate, do you think she is reaping what she sowed? I think she still need to ask for forgiveness from the sis. 

Let me mind my business, never knew blood can betray to such an extent.
 

You better be careful of people like this.. If she could go to this extent to hurt her sister, she can also do you worse....... How will she ask for forgiveness from the sister when she is still with the man? She will be scared of settling with the sister cos she is scared, the man will hook up with the sister again... People who steal what is not theirs are kept on their toes 247 watching that no one re steals it from them... Na punishment... LMAO

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FROM SPONTANEOUS POST - BIBLE VERSES NEEDED

Good morning bvs and Stella.

 Pls I need you people's help.My hubby is into supplies and there's this company he does supply for. They request for goods and he give his quotations and supply they pay after 2wks.

The purchasing manager like buying from him because his prices are always reasonable but there's this new admin manager they brought that likes frustrating my hubby,seems like one other supplier is his friend.

Now what he does is once my hubby supplies goods when it's close to payment,he will return the goods that they don't need it.or when they ask my hubby to supply,after sourcing for the goods and pay,the man will call and say he should bring the goods again.

These days my hubby comes back home frustrated. I want to take the matter to God by embarking on night vigil but I don't know Bible verses to use for the prayers. 

Pls bvs help me with Bible verses relating to this issue so u can use and pray. I believe that what God can not do doesn't exist. Thank you all.

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SERIOUS QUESTION FROM THE COMMENT SECTION.

Please ladies how do you take care of yourself after your monthly flow? A friend advised i use mycoten after my period to help clean out everything but I'm not comfortable using it every month. someone else suggested i sit on warm water and salt after every period. please what is the best option?




Sit on warm water and salt? what for? clean out what? 








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PINKYS CORNER

 

I could remember the year I went to Ikere Ekiti(2010). If you have ever been to ikere Ekiti,you will agree that they have two indigenes.(the first one is PIG and the second one are the villagers). 

They love pigs so much but have no farmland to keep them. The pigs walk all around the streets and main roads which makes travelers plying that road to Akure to either slow down a bit or hit down the pig.


 I went for isekuse then, I met a lady on Facebook and we began the social media love that resulted to me visiting her at ekiti state (ikere).

 When I got to her house, it was a cool place and a very nice area but one thing spoilt everything, they had no toilet. There is a small hill behind the house where you can climb and poop (primitive method). 

We exchanged pleasantries and she took me to her room and I was delighted.


Then, I had back ache because of excess sugar intake, so took agbo before leaving Lagos and not only that, I bought malt extra into one small plastic bottle which I was sipping bit by bit. At exactly, 12am, when we needed to start the ministration, my tommy began to give signal, then I asked her to show me the loo.


She said  ''awa o ni toilet oo,wa lo yagbe si ori apata yen'' (meaning, we have no toilet, we use the hill). 

I got to the hill at that hour of the night, then tried to poop, the thing had not even dropped when 3 pigs ran towards my blokos. You need to see the way I ran without even minding the poo dropping in my boxers, she heard my voice and came out. 

I was expecting her to tell me something reasonable when I explained what happened, she just laughed and said, ''it's normal, you just poop and they will eat it''  then I asked, is it with my blokos? That was how I took the Cooler I bought on my way to her place, pooed in it and threw it away, can't allow any yeye pig chop off my kini.

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MEMO TO ALL WOMEN



A few month ago, my friend had just crossed age 45. Just about 8 days later she was struck with an ailment ... And she died swiftly.
In the group we received a condolence message that ...

"Sad .. she is no more with us"... RIP


Two months later I called her husband. A thought crossed my mind ..he must be devastated as he had a travelling job. Till her death she would oversee everything.. home.. education of their children... Taking care of the aged in-laws.. their sickness.. managing relatives.. everything, everything, everything...


She would express at times.." my house needs my time, .. my hubby cant even make coffee tea, my family needs me for everything, but no one cares or appreciates the efforts i put in. I feel they all take me for granted ".


I called her husband to see if the family needed any support, as, i felt her hubby must be feeling lost to suddenly have to handle all the responsibilities, for everything.. aging parents, Kids, his travelling job, loneliness at this age.. how must he be managing?


The cell phone rang for some time..no response... After an hour he returned the call.. He apologised that he could not answer my call..as he had started playing tennis for an hour at his club and meeting friends etc. To ensure he had a good time.


He even took a transfer so as not to travel anymore.


"All well at home? " I asked,


He replied, he had appointed a cook .. he paid her a little more and she would buy the groceries and provisions. He had appointed full time caretakers for his aging parents.


"Managing well...kids are fine. Life is returning to normalcy...he said.


I barely managed to say a couple of sentences and we hung up.

Tears welled up my eyes.

My friend remained in my thoughts... She had missed the school reunion for a minor ailment of her mother in law. She had missed her nieces wedding because she had to supervise the repair work in her house.

She had missed so many fun parties and movies because her children had exams she had to cook, she had to take care of her husband's needs...
She had Always looked for some appreciation and some recognition.. which she never got.


Today I feel like telling her..
No one is indispensable.
And no one will be missed.. it is just the play of our mind.


Perhaps it is the consolation.. A symbol of our understanding if you would like to call it that... That's the problem of putting others first.
You have taught them that YOU COME SECOND


Reality bites : After her death two more maids were hired and the house was in order....


We only measure our respect and our value.. ain't that true?

ENJOY LIFE

.. Remove the frame of mind that I am indispensable and without me the house will suffer..


My message to all Ladies :


make time for yourself .. the ME time.. the time for the self..


-Get in touch with your friends... Talk, laugh and enjoy


- Live your passion, live your life


- Once in a while do things that you love to do ...


- Don't look for your happiness in others, you too deserve some happiness because if you are not happy you cannot make others happy


- Everyone needs you, and you too need your own care and love.


- Women should come forward to help and guide other women who are unable to handle their personal stress and give them a hand to uplift their confidence .


-Let us HELP Ourselves and make this LIFE WORTHWHILE .


we all have only one life to live ....Life is beautiful ....


PS: it's a reality!.....A wake up call for women .....


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