Why would she risk her life jumping the fence that is wired with electric current because of a Simcard when she can either destroy or swallow it?....
If this footage is real then this Lady was probably running to save her life!
I don't believe the sim card narrative....
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ReplyDeleteI don't believe this man either,it's possible the woman was running for her dear life.
DeleteThe story is not complete! That lady must be running away from someone or something! Risking to climb with all that security gadgets! Nah! The story is not complete!
DeleteNow to answer your question Candy and NK on SP this morning concerning this post.
ReplyDeleteWhy is it that you guys always like or should I say want a benefit of proof when a woman is involved in some messy stuff? When it's a man, you all will hurriedly conclude just like we saw yesterday on the barrister fined in UK.
Now, you guys are trying to put a defence and peg it on domestic violence as if you are living with the couple. Suddenly you want to hear the woman's version as if you've ever clamour to hear a man's version at any given time during an issue. When you guys say "it's a man's world" I sometimes struggled to know and understand what that statement really means. For I know women are often sided in a given dispute even when they are the culprit.
On yesterday BEP Post, you all were saying or claiming victims of domestic violence and physical abuse in past relationship except G-Wagon who was sincere to say she was the abuser. My respect for her doubles with such sincerity. In as much as I wouldn't condone domestic violence, some of you could be the cause of it all. Some of us suffered DV but who do we tell our stories? Who will believe our report? It's a woman's world anyway on issues as such.
Women's hypocrisy can't be overemphasized. It's in their nature. It was on this blog during AFCON, you guys where all drooling on Nigerian goal keeper Maduka Okoye. Even the married ones weren't left out. Shamelessly they were all over him. But when guys applaud a woman's beauty or physique, you will all jump and abuse the guy calling it lust or fantasy just like you've done to me here on different occasions. Some will say, it's 'undressing a woman'. So you all that were drooling on Maduka, what was that all for? I guess it wasn't undressing right?
You people should keep deceiving yourself.
It's a man's world but a woman's paradise ✌️
DeleteBlessings my billionaire business mogul
As if we are living with the couple? But you fail to understand that you also don't live with them to know the REAL story, but then you're quick to believe his own side, because it is a man that said it ba. What even gives him the right to ask for her sim card in the first place? And about yday BEP, yes most of us admitted to being in abusive relationships, or in your words "claiming to be victims". I laugh at your statement teejay. You have no idea what some of us have been through all in the name of relationships, but if you wanna go ahead and say we "claim to be victims", well that's on you. I'm not gonna talk about this, but feel free to believe whatever you wanna believe.
DeleteTeejah, I would have explained everything to you but not sure I can type.
DeleteIt's the audacity to downplay what we went through in the hands of our abusers sha. Let me not just say more than that because e no dey hard u claim victim.
DeleteTJ you have time to explain. They call it men's world but female BVs will make joke of a man's small dick and laugh over it but once a man call a woman's pu$$y wide or borehole, they will be screaming blue murder.
DeleteWhat I know is that gender war won't end in this blog.
Candy dear, I know some women suffered DV but all I'm saying is that, everyone was reporting being a victim and none was reporting if they had ever abused a man either by nagging or all that except G-Wagon. Pls don't get me wrong and I will never support or condone DV no matter the gender involved.
DeleteEka dear, pls don't read my comment or misconstrue the context in which I made that statement. Men too suffered DV. All I'm saying is that, when reporting a DV, won't it be nice women as well tell us the men they abused as well? Or don't women abuse men? The reason I applauded G-Wagon. Yes women suffered DV no doubt but some of this DV could be caused by their actions as well even though I wouldn't condone it as a gentle man I am.
DeleteIt was the court that judged the lawyer from yesterday. Not commenters on a blog. You people love gender wars too much. When are we all going to accept that people do all sorts? It is not a male/female question. It is a human question. Such myopic argument in a world with more than two genders.
Delete“Irresponsibility has no gender”
- MM
Anon 12:53 🤣🤣🤣 you are funny o. Quoting me and making me look like a sage. Calm down naa.
DeleteThe point is a lot of Nigerian women are incapable of taking responsibility for what goes on with them. Even the issues of D.V are not clear cut in some circumstances. As much as anyone will want to misconstrue my statement or denigrate my character (I really don't care), it's true and we all have seen women push even gentle people to violence, or stay put in the face of escalating issues or tempers. Bottom-line, we are responsible for ourselves. Making excuses when issues such as the above post crop up, doesn't help the gender nor the generality and only promotes the gender division. Telling ourselves the truth is necessary for us to grow. Dante's right... It truly is a man's world but a woman's Paradise.
DeleteMaybe it's time Stella does a post(s) dealing with the challenges of men so we can all learn and understand ourselves better.
Teejay, please I was once married to this man. The SIM card thing is not real. The lady is just unfortunate as I was.
DeleteAda Agu.
There is more to this SIM card story.
ReplyDeleteShe could have easily discarded/destroyed the SIM card if that was the case, but to see her climb that wire like that, it’s not just about the sim.
So much more than we have read.
DeleteCommon sim card
This is a case of life or death. That lady is running for her dear life. The man locked the gate, but luckily for her, the ladder they used in fixing electricity in the other parts of the house is still available. That’s what she used. She will speak when she finally gets back to sense Stella. I can’t believe the man could be so wicked but she is from poor background, you will lock her inside and used your belt to disfigures every parts of her body people can’t see. If you see the wounds on her breast and bums, you will pity her. We no marry again ooo.
DeleteThis is a case of life or death. That lady is running for her dear life. The man locked the gate, but luckily for her, the ladder they used in fixing electricity in the other parts of the house is still available. That’s what she used. She will speak when she finally gets back to sense Stella. I can’t believe the man could be so wicked but she is from poor background, you will lock her inside and used your belt to disfigures every parts of her body people can’t see. If you see the wounds on her breast and bums, you will pity her. We no marry again ooo.
DeleteIts life threatening case.
DeleteI was wondering how possible it is for someone to risk her life because of sim card. The truth will definitely come out one day.
DeleteI think she is running away from something or someone dangerous
ReplyDeleteFor a lady to jump this high fence, then she is running for her dear life. Look at it no slippers, and the man must have locked the gate and caged her inside the house. The lady is definitely going through some domestic violence...
DeleteBecause of submitting of sim card that she is running away like that not even caring if she will be electrocuted to death on the fence there? The story no clear at all
ReplyDeleteBTW sef if I am the one being ordered to submit my SIM card instead of risking my life this way I will just hand it over to the person Sharp Sharp. You cannot get access to my SIM because I put lock on it already so any phone you put the SIM without the lock pin no show for you
If there is something bbad on the sim, you won't hand it over because if you do, he will command you to unlock it and you must do it
DeleteAnybody that believes that sim card tale is a fool. That lady is running for her life..even women caught red handed don’t pull this kinda stunt let alone because of SIM card.
ReplyDeleteNow, watch that video again. Listen to that man talk unperturbed and tell me why there’s not an once of concern in his voice even when she slipped and fell.
I call bullshit.
*ounce Ffs!
DeletePerxian, in this life nothing surprises me anymore.
DeleteThere was this lady I dated, she was playing a song on her phone, I like the song and told her to put her password to enable me access her phone and take the song via xender. She refused (someone that I have dated for a year, she access my phone at will but I have never checked her phone).
I told her to unlock her phone and use her hand to send the music, but she refused. I know it's because we are sitting on thesame couch. I wanted to collect the phone from her and she wanted to fight me because of phone. I let her be. When she visited the next weekend, she apologized and said I can have the phone and password. I told her after she has sanitized her phone, that I no longer need it.
I ended the relationship.
Ok, bro..as a first hand account and I have no reason to doubt you. In fact, scenarios like yours have played out so many times but bruv, I ain’t never heard or seen a woman scaling barbed fence in the middle of the night because of SIM card and until I heard from her..I call BS.
DeletePerxian watch your Language and stop calling people here fools....its not right at all...you can pass your point across without foul words... This is not nice at all.
DeleteGot it, Stella.
DeleteMy dear Anon 11:00, I’m sorry such happened to you but believe me, women also have such stories.
Delete“Irresponsibility has no gender”
-MM
If she’s running to save her life, where is the attacker? She had time to go get a ladder, climb it, and got over the fence. Where was her attacker the whole time? Pounding yam?
ReplyDeleteAsk urself why she doesn't have access to the gate.
DeleteThe guilty runs when no one pursues.
DeleteWhat if she saw that as her only opportunity?? And maybe the guy was not at home? Think!!
Delete@Eka, you have a point there 👌
DeleteI saw the video and I doubt she is running because of simcard,I think there is more to this story
ReplyDeleteThere is definitely more to that. I know she will share her own side of story soon.
DeleteI don't believe this also
ReplyDeletesome people will just comment without using their sense. how can someone risk her life because of ordinary sim card. why not wait and hear from the lady first. Nigerian's SMH
ReplyDeleteThis is terrible and a pity.
ReplyDeleteIf you know you're not ready to be faithful while getting married in the first place.
I watched the video and I heard the man saying that a marriage of just one month and all this is happening,and just because he asked for sim 🤣🤣🤣🤣 card to confirm his fears, madam begin run helter skelter Baayi...Don't be surprised to know that this woman is cheating with someone so close to the husband.
If you know you are not done with whoring around while getting married? Just look at the risk she took just to evade being caught with the numerous dixks she engaged with on adultery.
She could still be in love with her ex. Some women are dangerous and have nothing to do with marriage. I once dated a lady. I travelled all the way from Port Harcourt to see her in a different state. I was right inside her building and called her. She told me she was at home. I waited for her till 8pm when a car dropped her off. She came down smiling. When she saw me, she was shocked. She said, why didn't I informed her I came or I was coming?. She cried that night and begged me. I told her I won't sleep in her house. I went to a hotel and lodged. She followed me and begged. She succeeded in luring me to a good fuck that night but deep down I was hurt. I forgave her but she didn't stop. I finally walked away.
DeleteSuch a pity...
DeleteThat's why most men ends up fathering other men's children..
Thank God for DNA test Sha.
Women should stop being emotional and economical with the Truth....why did she ran with the sim card?
DeleteDozzybest, did u see the sim card she was running with?
DeleteOga, she could have walked out of the gate. To jump fence means she was locked in. There is no alternative way of escape
Delete@Eka Joy then why was she running when no one was chasing her?? Let's keep sentiment aside and say the truth BIKO...You all are now trying to judge this whole context using emotions.
DeleteYou should not conclude yet,there is more to this story.
DeleteWhat if the man threatened that if he didn't get the sim card, he will deal with her and inorder to save her life, she ran away? The man can't be saying Sim card if it's not sim card. I think sim card could be the reason but maybe the woman knows the husband she have could be a tiger and she decided to escape for her life.
Delete@dozzybest, continue yarning what you don't know. Have you heard from the woman before concluding? Men pleaser.
DeleteHow many men would hand over their sim cards to their wives if caught cheating?
DeleteMen cheat everyday and even impregnate other women, their wives forgive and forget, why should a woman's cheating cause chaos?
Anon 12:31, now you're generalizing all men to be cheating. Again, are you justifying a woman's infidelity? Going by your comment, it seems so.
DeleteIf you don't have a skeleton in your cupboard why jump the fence?
ReplyDeleteWhat if she saw the skeleton..and it was not from her own cupboard?? Think!
DeleteGod bless u jo!!!!!
DeleteLol @ Mark.
DeleteNo comment yet until I hear her own side of story.
ReplyDeleteWho scales a fence over "give me your sim card" issue?? People should learn to create "What if analysis". Think, people. Think!
ReplyDeleteWoman pleaser! You are doing well.
DeleteI don't believe she took that risk just because of simcard .
ReplyDeleteStella, I don't the sim card story. I mean why risk her life like that. Did he build his house, without a gate, that she couldn't just leave through the gate. There is more to this than that flimsy sim card story abeg. That's all I'll say
ReplyDeleteI heard the marriage is just a month old. People saying Sim card couldn't be the reason for her running away. Have you all contemplate what could be inside the sim card could lead to a grave issue? Suddenly, you're all calling the man a liar. If the reverse was the case, what would you guys have said?
ReplyDeleteNa to swallow d sim card if e bad reach. But to jump fence? Was she locked in? Why didn't she leave through the gate?
DeleteAnonymous 11:47, another possible scenario could be that, the man may have threatened to deal with her if he didn't get the sim card. Maybe that could have scare her away.
DeleteThese days, when men raise alarm about their cheating spouse, I'm learning to count to 100 before chiming in. The way ladies cheat on their husbands makes me think that cheating is now the new drug for mental and emotional sickness. Me don't think that it is simcard that will make this woman act like a chicken thief on a farm. Whatever happened to destroying it or even breaking it? It is either she's not ready to part with that Sim or the husband is lying about the Sim or the woman is fleeing for a different reason. My own is why the husband decided to shame his wife by putting out that video and the narrative...and why do husbands feel the need to use social media nowadays to air out their marital frustrations ??
ReplyDeleteYeye, answer for yourself. Are you cheating?
DeleteI don't believe the SIM card story. If it was just SIM card, she would have broken it and challenged him. She took a huge risk. I believe she's running for her life
ReplyDeleteBroken it and challenge him and get killed?
DeleteYou don't know if he had been beating her and inflicting injuries on her, now would you challenge such a man or hand over an u" sim card to him? You would run for your dear life.
No be here we dey wey one man accuse him wife of paternity fraud on three children all because she left his miserable self.
ReplyDeleteSo na so person go risk getting electrocuted or having her legs broken because of allegations of cheating?
Won't say more than this. Who wan believe make e believe. No be this kain story I dey carry believe just from husband's word of mouth
Sim card that she can easily hide somewhere. It is only a baboon that will believe this story.
ReplyDeleteStella said we should stop with the foul language...thank you...
DeleteIf she hides it and remain in that house, he may kill her. The best she could do was to escape
DeleteNow listen up Teeejay....
ReplyDeleteI speak for myself and i will always stand for what i believe in no matter what the gender may be. What is right is rught and what i consider wrong is wrong in all it's entirety. We all saw the viral video and what the man was saying . Why will u Tj just conclude and even went in to castigate the woman when you uave not heard the whole story and even went on to Spit Tueh??? Why? If the reverse has been the case here, i for one as person will not conclude until i know what actually happened.i am not a biased person like you. I stand and speak for what is right.i think before commenting rather than using sentiment. You hear????? And another thing, i will appreciate you stop generalising things on this blog Oga TJ. Always think and reason before you type. Have an awesome day ahead!!!!
I didn't generalize. I often used the words 'some' 'most' unless it's an oversight. The same way you and your gender in the comment section of yesterday post concluded that the barrister fined £45,000 was guilty of the charge even when we didn't see evidence.
DeleteThe lawyer was fined because he was found guilty in the court. Not by social media gender warriors. You really need to broaden your intellectual horizon.
DeleteSo court doesn't err in judgment? What about the instances one Anon gave yesterday on notable footballers?
DeleteI wouldn't like to conclude on this matter till i get the true story. Gor a person be it a woman or man to take this kind of risk, something must definitely be pursuing her . Lets wait for the full gist.
ReplyDeleteThere's more to this sim card story🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔
ReplyDeleteI heard, she is the guy's 5th wife. Guy dey marry each time he enter 9ja.
ReplyDelete😳😳😳😳
DeleteNawa
ReplyDeleteAnyone who doesn't believe the SIM card tale is a fool.
ReplyDeleteY'all acting like you don't know the length women go to prevent their cheating from coming out, married women especially, people that even kill their husbands just cos he finds out and they don't want him to expose them,. Because it would counter the victim narrative that they're fronting..
Na for here man come house see him wife ontop man, snap them pix with him phone come take off.. come see as the woman sef rush follow am dey shout thief for road, (not minding if he's lynched as per jungle justice) fortunately police were patrolling and they caught the man and also took the woman along to the station, he then explained that the woman is his wife and he just caught her cheating, na so police police see say na family ish, come free them, the man still take off go hide, na from where him dey hide him dey call him lawyer dey ask when court vacation go end so him go file for divorce, him no fit even talk where him dey for phone cos him dey fear say the woman fit don bug him phone., Make she no go send assassin after am..
Until there is a counter prove to establish otherwise, then only a fool would be projecting Nonsense, and don't even say domestic violence, use your sense for once, even the dog no near am sef if not Una for talk say the man sent the dog after her. Always trying to paint men as evil when women do worse, o dey with my guy some years back when his newly married ex who came to collect 'last shot' the week she got married, called him 2 weeks after wedding that she wants to come and collect 'welcome back'..
Women are Scum🚶🚶
Realest Man ✌️
WATCH YOUR LANGUAGE............
DeleteDIFFERENCE OF OPINION DOES NOT MAKE ANYONE A FOOL AND WOMEN ARE NOT SCUM.....ENOUGH OF THIS RUBBISH ALREADY YOU HEAR? BRING A MATURE AND COMPREHENSIBLE WRITEUP TO THE TABLE AND NOT NEGATIVE DRAMA INCITING WRITEUPS; PLEASE GROW UP AND STOP BEING SO PREDICTABLE IN A BAD WAY.........
WOMEN ARE SCUM INDEED.... for your info you behave like a woman with your words so you belong in this category!!!
STELLZ
DeletePerx said the same up there.. you didn't tell her to watch her language..
For her to say anyone who doesn't believe is a Fool is already telling us to either support her stance or chose to be fools..
Don't be bias.
I'm not coming at you, I respect you more than than, thanks for insulting me sha.. God bless you ✌️
You should try to be more refined dude you can argue reasonably and decently Dante you can do better.not everyone makes their deductions without hearing the other side. Please stop being so foul mouthed.
DeleteSDK but men have been labeled scum since time immemorial.
DeleteWe hear things like men will always disgrace you, irresponsible, etc.
Hey God!! Stella is in the comments today. Let me tuck my shirt in and dress properly. Shots fired!!!
DeleteDANTE you cannot be using one mouth to say you respect me another mouth from the first mouth to call me fool...I am one of those in the category you labelled fool...
DeleteI have addressed perxian, i actually typed a reply in another browser but didnt send it....
Dante,why are your anecdotes always negative?!How come you never have positive stories to share about women?!Listen,you need to sit down and have an introspective look at yourself.Before I got married,I never had any reason to call men "scum",this was because the men I surrounded myself with were amazing people!Like attracts like...if you keep meeting terrible women,then it's time to look inwards....
DeleteSTELLZ,.
DeleteReally? So you think I can disrespect you for any reason? Even when I don't agree with something you say, you think I'll disrespect you here? The highest I'll do is to come into your DM. I made that comment because perx wrote it and everyone didn't see anything wrong in it, if you don't show people back the reflection on the mirror some would never see the wrong in what they do..
Choc, if you won't write this same comment you wrote under mine under perx, then you need to apologize to me. I have always respected you here, it's people who don't respect themselves I return the favour. Don't carry someone's fight.
Blessings
DANTE E DON DO; WE NO DEY FIGHT: THE DAY YOU REALISE THAT IT IS NOT THAT SERIOUS EH; YOU GO DEY ENJOY ALL COMMENTS HERE AND IGNORE THE ONES THAT PISS YOU OFF.....
DeleteMark i got your sarcasm up there, tuck in well......
Dante I'm not carrying anyone's fight my homie I'm just saying that you can do better 😘
DeletePerx this, perx that.. Dante, why are you hounding me/my comments tryna get one on me? Why are you pushing for a face off so bad. Go touch grass outside, pls.
DeleteBoss man @Dante and my beautiful Perx, my two lovely buddies here. Pls you guys shouldn't do this. I love you guys alot and your comments here but I understand what Stella is saying. No matter how provoked I'm, there are certain words I can't use to express my self or emotion.
DeleteLet love lead.
So Stella can correct Dante? Of course she can and did correct pexian but Dante? Am amazed!
DeleteThat one time blog admin put Dante in his place. Today's post hot o 🔥
DeleteThis one sweet me choi, I malt for all bvs each🤣🤣
DeleteThere's definitely more to this story, she can't be risking her life just because of ordinary sim card she can easily destroy with her hands..
ReplyDeleteSomething is off here.You caught her Cheating, divorce her naa. What is you paining you ?. Who brought the video online?. You want to tarnish her image because she don't want again. Oga, sorry for your pains. Go and find another victim. She go submit her sim card to you because she is your slave abii. Have you submitted yours to her?.
ReplyDeleteMy opinion, I don't believe in sim card issue except if it contains something that can cause wahala then again that couple must have been having serious gbege , the risk is too much , even if she is cheating, why climb wall to go and cheat when you can get hot and sexy quickie on your way to market, salon, some even church sef, etc. There is more to the story
ReplyDeleteAnonymous your head is upside down. You don't understand the post and picture at all. Stand up straight, read the post again and then read the comments, you may understand
DeleteI don't believe this narrative
ReplyDeleteI don't believe this narrative
ReplyDeleteMiss Ess, did you believe yesterday story on the fined barrister in UK?
DeleteTeejay stop jumping all over the post, how many men caught cheating will submit their sim cards? Would you submit yours to your woman? How many women have you advised to leave their marriages if their husbands cheat? Hypocrites
DeleteThere is more to this story,than we are led to believe.Why didn't she use the gate,why did she have to climb the fence like someone escaping from something.If it's only a sim card,she could have disposed of it,broken it or even flushed it down the toilet but see how she escaped like someone running for her life.This narrative no complete,we go still hear the full story.
ReplyDeleteThe man may have locked the gate until she provide the sim card.
Delete@ Dozzybest, did you see her in the video running with a simcard? what you are narrating is called hearsay to support your gender...
ReplyDeleteHahahaha
DeleteSDK, I won't support anyone on this...I will blast the man 8f he's to be found Guilty of infidelity to his wife...I detest cheating alot.
DeleteStella , I hoped you wouldn't try to rationalise , but not you and your female blog visitors. It is always very easy for you all to condemn men, call them all sort of names to get your daily kicks. It is not surprising ,given all we have read here for more than a decade.
ReplyDeleteIt's alright Bros..
DeleteShe did cos she already said she doesn't believe the SIM stuff, so my comment kinda seem like I'm calling her a fool when it was actually a response to perx comment. Guess it was all a misunderstanding.. You get?
However, that won't stop us from still putting anyone who goes out of line on check, patapata, our comment won't be approved 😌..
This isn't a feminist blog/coven.. if you come here daily to demean and insult men, you'll definitely get your answer. I know what I go through daily, I know the length I have personally gone for a lot of females to make them happy, length even their own brothers won't go.. and I know lots of men do so too, if you can't be appreciative, fine.. but no come here come dey insult us after everything we done did✌️
People that are saying that they do not believe the sim card story, do you know who the woman is? Or even her state of mind? People can do very foolish things when they are afraid.
ReplyDeleteUntil I hear from her, I will believe the story as it is.
Another angle....But One month in marriage, the love suppose still dey sweet naa. If by one month person don dey jump fence, then there is an element of DV in the union.
ReplyDeleteI just found the video very funny, maybe bcos of howw the man was narrating the issue. Until we hear the other side I rest my case.
ReplyDeletePlease Stella your blog visitors should not fight over this as I am tempted to give the full details of this man so that people can see him for whom he is. Married to a Switzerland Woman whom supplies him with the wealth/money but enslaves any woman he gets married to here in Nigeria. That girl was only unfortunate like the others
ReplyDeletePlease Stella your blog visitors should not fight over this as I am tempted to give the full details of this man so that people can see him for whom he is. Married to a Switzerland Woman whom supplies him with the wealth/money but enslaves any woman he gets married to here in Nigeria. That girl was only unfortunate like the others
ReplyDeletePlease Stella your blog visitors should not fight over this as I am tempted to give the full details of this man so that people can see him for whom he is. Married to a Switzerland Woman whom supplies him with the wealth/money but enslaves any woman he gets married to here in Nigeria. That girl was only unfortunate like the others
ReplyDeletePlease let's be informed that this lady has a year old child. The question is where was the little boy when she was climbing the fence to save her life. I pray some day she will be courageous enough to come out and address all these.
ReplyDeleteAda Agulu
Please let's be informed that this lady has a year old child. The question is where was the little boy when she was climbing the fence to save her life. I pray some day she will be courageous enough to come out and address all these.
ReplyDeleteAda Agulu