Tuesday In House News....

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IN HOUSE MEMO

Hmmmmm... A BV mailed me and apologized or not commenting since..... Its been due to letting blog fights enter the inner skin.......... Anyone who stopped commenting and decides to return....It is Fine.

If you decide not to return, it is also fine.

I have since learnt how to detach from people on this Blog and what they say...I take thing when i see them and leave them when i dont see them.....

Just do what makes you happy and gives you peace of mind......

There are so many good things lined up and i refuse to return to being petty or allow anyone drag me into their mud... Learnt so many lessons with that old whatsapp group that i can never trust again but I am learning to love strangers again cos the new whatsapp group is all about that...

Shout out to you all in the group..... And please nobody should come and preach to me about not having a group.....At least its not a porn group or a group soliciting for men or women... its clean!

 

Enjoy the rest of the day.....

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FROM TUESDAY SPONTANEOUS POST

FOR LEGAL SECURITY OF THIS BLOG.STELLA PLEASE POST SALMA USED THE PICTURE OF A QUIET FULANI LADY FROM A PROMINENT FAMILY IN THE NORTH ON THIS PLATFORM TO WIN FACE OF IN HOUSE COMPETITION.. SHE LATER ANNOUNCED HER HUSBAND DEATH WHICH WAS AN EMBARRASSING LIE.. 

THE REAL SALMA IS YOUNGER,HAS TRIBAL MARKS,SHE'S NOT FULANI Open Google,type "22 latest skirts and blouse ideas for your pleasure..ng.opera.news SHE IS NO FOUR IN THE CURRENT POST THIS WEEK. ..........

Salma matter again? I think i will just do the needful to the posts.... Salma please what is going on?

I checked the number four photo... Salma is that you?

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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD




This year is running so fast and before we know it will soon be Easter. When this year was about to start, I refused to write a new year resolution or expectations like a normally do.

I normally write down business, career and family goals in the past years.

 I write a list of good things I am expecting and I base my happiness on the fulfilment of those things. For example if I’m going into the new year expecting a new car, if I don’t get that new car or that brand of car I think I want, I would start to feel like God didn’t answer my prayers and unhappiness starts to set in.


I’m not asking people not to have expectations about the new year or wish for something good or set goals. I’ve always done it in the past and faithfully God has always met most of my yearly goals if not all but this year I just decided that I am not going to place my happiness on a list or should I use the word landmark events or expectations.

I just want to spend the whole of the year being grateful for every blessed day. So at the end of each day I’m making it a practice to celebrate and show gratitude to God for all he has done that day.

So whether I get the job or not, whether business is going as great as I want or not. I choose to be grateful for the basics, even things as simple as getting a particular chore done I will thank God for it.

I want to celebrate every small victory, every big victory, every little things such as waking up everyday, having my family around me, every single milestone my kids achieve, as simple as saying a new word.

I just want to spend the whole year full of gratitude for all God as done and I hope it continues....

May we always have reasons to be joyful at all times this year.

Amen to your end note

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RANT

Let me rant. My friend is pregnant So happy for her. we have been on ttc journey together. Wish I believe am next in line But Stella am always checking up on her. If I talk about me she will just change the topic.

Our discussion is all about her and her baby. I love her no doubt and am so happy for her but am human; need to be listened to too and asked how are you? To be sincere am not fine. Am not jealous of her, God forbid. But I hope you all understands me End of rant






Ah ah wetin sef? Please bear with her, she has been Trying to conceive and now her Joy knows no bounds... Her baby is all she wants to talk about...You will do same when you become pregnant. I advice that you stay away from her for now, if you cannot share in her good news without feeling bad.... You hear?

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 FROM MONDAY SPONTANEOUS POST

 Hmmmm that post about a prophesy that came to past SDK pls post.

There was this woman, very very close to me(I won't state her Relationship so bvs judgement wont be clouded by sentiment), how I loved her the first prophesy came from a relative about her that she's a witch it was so difficult to believe cos she's so sweet to be around with, the care and love she showers on me I concluded the relative is just been jealous of our smooth relationship,

so it happened that after I had my first child, this woman was also around but some days to the naming ceremony I had a terrible nightmare where I saw 3 women trying to collect my child from me i ran and God gave me victory in the dream, I woke up shaking and screaming, told hubby we prayed and he took the to the hospital they said maybe it is PPD lol okay na I moved on.

Later, my husbands business started dwindling we thought it was the economy it got to a stage we were feeding from hands to mouth, in all of these i didn't stopped praying, truth is we are pentecostal but my friend took me to a white garment where they see vision, I started attending their mid week service without the knowledge of my husband i just needed an end to our suffering as my own business has packed up too after eating too much from it.

We had anointing oil, so one day i had another dream where i saw my course mate from school entered my room I was sitting on the tiled floor, she was angry with me that why was I listening to what people are saying about her before I could explain she placed an heavy object on my head I woke up and didn't even remember the dream until around 10am when I started feeling severe neck pain that was when i remembered I had a dreamd it was so bad I couldn't turn my neck I was crying, I went to the church and met mummy she prayed and read some psalms in water and asked me to have a bath, I did neck pain disappeared.

After that bath the first person that called was this my sweet woman, the ones that broke the camels back was when someone went in trance during one one of the service and i was called out, they told me someone a woman will die soon as she wants to used me, note this time I was already pregnant with my second child, that I should go to the market and buy a white cloth 3yards rub it on all my body and be praying that whoever that wants me to die during child birth this cloth I bought is the one they will bury her in, that I should give the cloth to an aged bugger with money, I did it and added 1k, I was 6months pregnant then, I didn't tell a soul even my friend that took me there cos work doesn't allow a her attend programs most of the time, i continued with my life.

On the day of delivery, my sweet woman was with me I laboured ooo cervix didn't open till I was sectioned then we got home unlike her she told me she wouldn't be available to assist me I took it in good faith, 3 months later I got a call that she fell down, I went to her at the hospital she started by saying I shouldn't worry that I will never experience operation again I was confused, she continue to say she's has fought ooo, laterals he started that world people so you can do this to me, we was transferred to a psychiatric home they treated her for 2 weeks they had to discharge her that nothing was wrong with her but she won't stop talking.

 Las Las when she was home she ran out and started confessing how many people she has killed, how she has bird, how she is the one behind my husbands financial problem cos he took me to dubai for honeymoon, she said she killed her husband and made her step son useless, so many terrible things she was taken to the hospital again and she died a day after I went to see her there asking her what I did to deserve all that, i cried and prayed for her told her I'd forgiven her but by then she couldn't talk again she was just nodding her head.

Our life has turned around, to the glory of God 3months after her death my husband bought another house, contracts upon contracts but I am still home taking care of my toddlers.

Hmmmmm na wah ooooh.... I cant believe this. Things are really happening!

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