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URGENT ADVICE NEEDED
A guy and a lady were engaged to be married but both of them are not from the same state.
He impregnated her and abandoned her , mind you both of them are working class, she decided to keep the baby but then he called off the engagement.
She moved on with the pregnancy and he married a lady from his town immediately and they both have kids together.
One day he woke up and wanted to send his wife out of his house. He started begging the baby mama to come back to him that he doesnt know what happened to him in the first place.
The Baby mama has moved on with her life and she is doing well for herself and her baby. She is engaged now to be married to a young single guy who knows her story.
If it was you it happened to what will you do in this case now because his family is serious and begging her to come back. Mind you when he was together with the baby mama they both contributed money and the guy used the money to buy something that he is enjoying with his wife that he sent out.
Some men are very wicked!
I need advice:
DO NOT AGREE TO THEIR BEGGING... do not take him back cos he is bad news!
DO NOT AGREE TO THEIR BEGGING... do not take him back cos he is bad news!
he is now claiming he does not know what happened cos he is tired of his wife...NO MIND AM!!!
Let him have a relationship with his child but stay away !
Let him bear the consequences of his actions.
ReplyDeleteSmh!
DeleteBlackberry, and Olomo olomo will go back to him because he is rich. Marrying up gang. Continue
DeleteThank you for all the advice, I have made up my mind that I am not going back to him. why we send in the chronicle in first place was because a child and family is involved. The decision is that I am not going back to him, I am going to marry my fiance, as for my child when he is ready we can talk about it on the phone because from day he did not contribute a dime in my child. Thank you Stella for posting.
DeletePlease move forward and backward never, He treated you this way and abandoned you and your child, now he must have heard something good is coming your way and now dont want to give up on you. Please if it didnt go well the first time, please think again, the pains you went through, do you think the other wife will allow you to be happy in your homw when she already have kids for him, the guy has baggage, move, infact run fast, why would you even think twice when you have found someone else who is willing to marry you and knows you have a son. God take Destiny and joy killers away from us.
DeleteShe shouldn't go back to the ex.
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DeleteThe baby mama should keep moving on. Let her focus on her child, and her husband to be.
ReplyDeleteYou see this defence men love to use "he doesnt know what happened to him in the first place", trying to make it look like the other woman jazzed him is so lame and only stupid people believe them. That's what some of them say when they want to eat their cake and have it.
DeletePoster please mufon.
Please don't go back....
ReplyDeleteStay with the current guy.. That ex is bad news. He will still go back to the wife later, after making you the second wife.
DeleteGo and marry your own husband.
Better stay where you are than go back to a man who turned his back on you. Where were his parents when he rejected you? even after engagement. Tell your friend to continue with her life and new relationship.
ReplyDeleteExactly where were the parents?
DeleteEmotional blackmailers everywhere
DeleteAsk GOD for wisdom and strength
You already said it at the end of your Chronicle.. Some men are very wicked.
ReplyDeleteSo ask yourself why you are even considering going back to him?
Poster is not going back.
DeleteShe is celebrating and wants to rub her joy in.
Who knows the man may be a Bv here.
There is nothing sweeter to the ears of a woman than for a man who jilted her to beg for her to come back when she is already in the arms of the man who really wants to marry her and who she wants to marry.
Thank God the Poster remembered to say that "some" men. Maybe that's because she is enjoying her new found love. Otherwise, it is very likely she would have used written men are wicked.
But Poster appears to have an eye on collecting her share contributed to what she and ex both bought.
Forward ever..
ReplyDeleteBackward never.
Did you attend OAU? 😂😂 That’s the anthem for real!!!
DeleteMake she no gree o.
ReplyDeleteLet her ignore his plea and that of his family.
He can visit his child at an agreed time.
Some Men are scum.
If dem no see you finish dem must see one thing to take misbehave
My friend's ex-fiancee's eye opened after three kids with the current wife, he just woke up one day called off the wedding a month to it without tangible reason. He is an only son and his sisters never wanted him to marry my friend claiming that she is too wise, they swore to scatter the two of them no matter what it takes and yea they won. Funny enough, the timid girl they brought to their brother has been dealing with him and has even cut him off from their leaches, dude has been busy begging his ex to come back that he was jazzed. She is in her late thirties and still single all because of heartbreak, he was her first love. Poster please never go back to him, it's already late.
ReplyDeleteQueen leave that gist abeg. Don't mind men who want to make themselves look like the victim meanwhile they are the aggressor. No body jazzed him.
DeleteMs Sapphire
DeleteIt is an entrenched form of manipulation (play on intelligence) and entitlement (wanting to eat cake and have it)
They snatched man
How?
He was a willing often lead participant in the shenanigans
He wants to claim say jazz clear for hin face abi?No gree o ,bad luck
ReplyDeleteSounds like a script in Nollywood 🙄
ReplyDeletethis is my story, It was posted in Friday night post. I am the babymama
Delete@16:24, please move on. You have someone that knows your story and has accepted you and your child. There is no discussion to be had; move on.
DeleteThere are people negatively placed to truncate people’s happiness, don’t fall into that trap.
@16:24, please move on. You have someone that knows your story and has accepted you and your child. There is no discussion to be had; move on.
DeleteThere are people negatively placed to truncate people’s happiness, don’t fall into that trap.
Anonymous 16:25 please 🙏 I take God beg you!! Carry your shoe run go front never ever listen nor entertain his ugly gist .
DeleteDo not break the beautiful thing you have now for the sake of yeye 'he is the first' leave that thing no be today , my dear all na wash .just move on with everything you've got including your soul , body and mind . I wish you the best as you listen good!!! .
My dear i definitely agree that you should not go back to your ex. I hope you vetted this current fiance very well ooo. I hope you are not just going for any man that will have you. Be careful oooo
DeleteNo geee again.Tell her say make she forget am
ReplyDeleteGree*
DeleteDon't give in to their begging and succumb to their pity party rara..They are not serious
ReplyDeletePlease stay far from the guy. He is not to be trusted. God has blessed and wiped away your tears. Move on.
ReplyDeleteIf she was engaged and to be married to a single guy, she won't even think of going back to her ex that left her, married another, pursue that one away and then wants her back. No she won't even send a chronicle towards that
ReplyDeleteI am engaged now to a good man. I have never consider going back to him, because of this man I faced shame at work but because of my determination I come out as a successful person. He don't know where ( state ) I live now and he has not meet my child.
DeleteSaid it above. Poster just want to celebrate in public.
DeleteAlways a good feeling to be wanted back even if you know you are not going back.
Don't go back to him. He is a mean hearted man. You can allow him have access to his child if you think is serious that's all. But move on with your good man. Some men are wicked.
DeleteThis one you're still asking questions sef, it's like they've gotten you in the man's family o
ReplyDeleteThere's nothing to ask, face your future with your new man
There is no case here o....unless you are saying that the baby mama no longer wants to marry her new man.
ReplyDeletePoster, let her tell him to refund her share of what they bought together, then open an account for his child where he will be paying upkeep money. Let her be nice and cordial for the sake of co-parenting but she shouldn't even think of going back there, he probably won't leave his wife, will end up stringing both of them along. Marry her guy and live her life.
ReplyDeleteI begged for us to coparent he refused, as for my money he refused to give me back even when his family intervene. I have use it as a send-off to him. ( the money is not a small money, where trust land me into)
DeleteSad news!
ReplyDeleteWas he under a spell? Yes probably.
Was it the baby mama's fault? No, it wasn't. Rather both.
Should she take him back? Exclusively her decision to make and she should not be coerced.
When people are gearing toward marriage and treading on the path of this life and they exclude God from their lives, flout the laws of God (premarital sex in this case etc.), they should bear responsibility for the outcomes.
Same happens in eternity; you are responsible for where you choose to spend eternity based on the life you live here on earth.
Just as you are responsible for where you want to spend your holidays.
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She shouldn't even think of taking him back. What nonsense. He should stay in his marriage and let her marry in peace.
DeleteI like my kind of person too well. I can be quite indecisive sometimes, but once I make up my mind, no body and I mean no Bishop, Pope or reverend father can make me change it. It will take the grace of Almighty God to have a change of mind.
ReplyDeleteIn a case like this, I'd just ask if the reverse were the case would he take me back? Once I get my answer, that is what I will go with. Even if you send your village king to beg on your behalf, chefuo ya, I won't agree.
So poster, say bye bye to that man and continue with you, your baby and God.
Don't agree, face your new guy abeg
ReplyDelete90% of men are jazzed walahi. Women no dey smile these days. The desperation is off da chain. Poster biko face your single guy jare. His useless family wey follow am to go marry her, make dem follow go settle dem. Na wia belle face be front family oshi
ReplyDeleteLight and no heads so they fall yakata abi?
DeleteFor selfish reasons , they cooperate and hide under it to craftily do want their lack of conscience wants
I don't believe you brought this for advice. Good radiance to bad rubbish. Treat the ex like a snake. Don't allow him win you back or else you will cry blood. Forward ever. Backwards never.
ReplyDeletePoster please keep moving. Don’t ever go back to him.
ReplyDeleteAre u sure u are engaged to a good man and really doing well for urself,? if u were,I doubt u will be sending this chronicle.if u are in a better place u won’t want to go back to ur ex that abandoned u and moved on with someone else.
ReplyDeleteVahleree you get too much sense abeg 👍
DeleteWhatever that has to do with him is in the past now because I send this chronicle on Friday night post and a decision has been made now. we are not coming back together not for any reason because from day one I am sole responsible for my child's welfare. The reasons for why we send this chronicle in the first place because of his family that got involved in the issue and I thank God that I have made decision available to them too with the full support from my family. Thank you Stella for posting.
DeleteNow you're about getting married to your boo... that man is bad news.
ReplyDeletePoster ignore him.
ReplyDeleteAkuko na ifo...
ReplyDeleteI think this has become the story of most men. Please tell your friend to move on o
Forward ever backward never...
ReplyDeleteDear poster don't go back to him (your baby daddy)
Forward ever. Backward never.
ReplyDeleteKeep it moving. It's not your fault he just discovered he made a mistake.
Best wishes on your marriage to the guy who is standing by you. ❤️
Keep it moving.
ReplyDeleteThis man is exactly the type of human being that their existence have no meaning to her!
ReplyDeleteYes I agree that she should not stop him having relationship with his child that he abandoned earlier. But the mother of the child MUST PLEASE MOVE ON.. 🏃♀️✈ NEVER LOOK BACK at him. He must now remain forever insignificant to her.👏
If he is serious let him pay you the money you contributed to buying the thing he is enjoying. Let him start from there. But never go back to him.
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