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CONFUSED
I don’t understand why I am feeling this way with this dude. When we first met at first I didn’t catch feelings for him but after a while I started catching feels.
Due to lack of seeing each other we fell apart.
This guy has been begging and talking with me to create time for us to see. Its not like I am claiming hard to get but I moved out from where he stays making it a bit difficult for us to see.
Last month I decided to give us a chance to see if things will work out between us. We agreed to see like two Saturdays ago but unfortunately we couldn’t, all thanks to him why we couldn’t see. Since then he keep calling, dropping me messages , calling me sweet names but I think I have started catching another feelings for him.
Maybe its because he got the quality I want in a man or because of his tribe is what is driving me to him. He keep saying he is too busy for us to see and talk things over,’we need to see and discuss on what we both want before we kick start this ship again.
I keep seeing Oga posting videos and pictures of his daily activities on going low key with plenty enjoyment. My question is could this guy be using me to catch cruise and saying he is busy?
Should I just quietly block him and face front because the feelings keep making me to reach out to him daily and to also check his status. The truth be said I am feeling for him and don’t want to appear cheap. Someone should talk some sense to me on how to approach him on phone or via chat since we cannot see.
Should I surprise him at his place unannounced and see if there is something he has been hiding. No S#x yet and I don’t expect one for now .
*Move on please, Dude is using you to catch cruise and not interested in a relationship.... When a man really wants you, nothing stands in his way....you dont need to block him, remove him as saved contacted from your phone and you will no longer see his status'
Face front. Please
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon
Poster take this from a sister.
DeleteThat guy is not ready for anything serious and he is only catching cruise while you are catching feelings.
He is baiting you to see how far you can go to seduce/please him- desperation.
And no he is not doing this with you only but with the other girls in his life. At the end of the day, he will have gists to entertain his guys about his conquests.
Please don't become desperate for a childish man.
Look for something concrete in a man asides your feelings for him.
Ghost him before he ghosts you with or without the sex. Best done without the sex.
You need to be stubborn for your own good.
You see that last line; "no sex yet..."
ReplyDeleteIt says a lot about your "catching feelings;" fornication. Once he enters and ejaculates and you tremble, it is over and then, you will write another chronicle; "he used and dumped me..."
Just know that if ever you are thinking "marriage," he is thinking sex; fornication." Full stop.
So choose wisely.🤔
Aunty don't you think you are beginning to irritate this Guy with your attachy attitude? Most Guys dislikes it when a lady keeps pestering them to see, haba can't you just see the handwriting on the wall?? You Even planned visiting him unannounce without him telling you to Come, like who does that??
ReplyDeleteThe way you package yourself is the way a man will address you...I will advise you to stay calm and erase him from your thoughts, and move on...when he's really serious about you, You won't be told but for now just face front and stop monitoring him.
The dude is not catching cruise, he is too busy for relationship/marriage but he is too available for a one daylight stand with you. Next will be to the dumpster.
ReplyDeleteWhat u ladies don't know is some of us jus "toast" ladies for toasting sake, we have no intention to see after toasting
DeleteSome guys collect number to catch cruise
Some up it to toasting, u gree to date them, they won't go further
Some up it to atleast pressing ur boobs n kissing u to know how easily u can fall for them, they won't go further
Others up it to actually sleeping with u.
No man is busy, these stages depends on the discipline of the man.
But if it's toast, the most discipline of us most collect number, how we proceed makes the difference.
Player alert. I've realised that most men will stick around in a lady's life until they mark register. For most of them it fans their ego that they've slept with as many women that came their way as possible. I don't think men care about their nakedness and sharing their bodies the way women do. But then I'd say why don't you foolish men walk around naked since you don't care about your own nakedness too? I digress...anyway, stop catching feelings for a disinterested nigga. You don't even need to delete his phone number. Just detach from him. Enjoy your singlehood. I wonder why women are always in a hurry to tangle with men. Except for those who want kids, I don't see what a man can do for you that you can't do for yourself. Like I drag my feet when a man talks marriage. Love my me time so much.
ReplyDeleteLadies,in everything you do ALWAYS REMEMBER that a man or rather a partner is never too busy for who they love,cherish and value.
ReplyDelete👌👌
DeleteSay what! You haven’t dated an auditor in a big 4 audit firm - preferably an assistant manager who is acting as team lead for a top tier bank audit or team manager on medium size engagements. In my profession, people can be really busy that’s why we advocate for colleagues to marry themselves as they barely have time to socialize.
DeleteMy dear face front when dude is ready he will look for you. You self start your own cruise and flaunt it. Enjoy been single now while it last marriage isn't easy lol
ReplyDeleteAunty,dem dey use your head plait bololo.
ReplyDeleteFind where dem dey sey self esteem, even if na 10 naira worth wey you fit buy,then look for someone who will teach you how to use it, so it will not turn to small chops in your hands.
After dat, face front.
I swear you are officially my best Bv. Are you a comedian?🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteLife has thought me that no one is too busy to create time for the person they love. When a man loves you. He collapse distance and time for your sake.
ReplyDeleteIf you show unannounced. Anything you see. Take am.
Some kind chronicles wey Stella Dey post sef
ReplyDeleteAs innnnn. See how people moved past this chronicle self. Is poster 10 years old?? Mtscheww
DeleteYou can also pretend to be too busy
ReplyDeleteBaby girl find a distraction and forget about him completely ( if the best way for you to forget him is to delete his number so you can stop veiwing his status - go for it).
ReplyDeleteIt is best for you and your mental health, don't let any man toy with your mind and heart.
Please I want to be your friend! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. Most funniest comment ever.
DeleteBabe face front and enjoy your self to the fullest when the guy is ready for you he will look you not you chasing after him.
ReplyDeleteHe's not interested in anything serious with you.Delete his contacts if that will make you forget anything pertaining to him.Build your esteem sis and face other things that will add value to you.That guy is just catching cruise.
ReplyDeleteWhen you really need advice regarding relationship with the opposite Sex, look for any mature MAN in your family, social circle e.t.c when you bring these type of things online, you will only get hoodlum advice.
ReplyDeleteDear poster, this dude you just described up there is not into you atleast.
ReplyDeleteIf a guy really want you, he will surely make chance to see you.
Please ghost him and never look back.
So sorry to digress...abeg update on the chronicle of the lady her boyfriend begged for 3month and finally returned her money..
ReplyDeleteThank you everyone cos I have hold my self since just watching him with all his cruise catching. Happy I haven’t given to his advances. He requested I borrow him money on Saturday 5k I did but till now guy hasn’t say anything so my head has told me he doesn’t love but want to get some money from me.
ReplyDeleteWatching him to see if he can return back the cash or not.
You are a certified goat. So he asked you to lend him 5k and you foolishly gave him???? Say goodbye to your money. He will NEVER pay you back. He is such an unserious fellow. I had a guy friend then that was deceiving one girl that he loves her, she kept lending him money…dude was using the money to send credit to other girls he is toasting. I remember asking him why he keeps collecting 5k all the time from this babe when he clearly has a job and didn’t need the 5k. He replied and said well since the girl no get sense, make he help am chop her money. Fear unserious men!!!
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ReplyDeleteface front madam. delete that feeling
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