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Sunday, March 27, 2022

Actress Chizzy Alichi Explains Why She Cannot Leave Her Husband Even If He Cheats.....

 


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    1. All men cheat? Ok ooo.

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    2. I'm very certain that many women on this blog has cheated on their bf or husband... If you think it's still you fuck a man then you have cheated, you are fooling yourself... Lusting after any man that ain't yours is cheating. Online flirt is still cheating... These women that are butthurt about cheating have insecurity issues and lack the ability to make good judgement when it comes to partnership.. You can't marry a yahoo boy or morally bankrupted individual and expect him to be faithful.... A secured, virtuous woman that knows her true worth/value makes the right decision when it comes to choosing a partner.. She doesn't lose any sleep over cheating.. It is the least of her worries... It is MOSTLY(but not all) the single, jobless, unintelligent and social media consuming women that make this subject popular... Please can you contribute on other subject like healthcare, economy, etc... When it comes cheating they are soooo vociferous.

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  2. Your life your choice darling👍

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  3. Lemme wait for Eka Joy's comment

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  4. Thank God for you. I like your self-confidence, but when a man decides to cheat he doesn't do it because the woman in question is better than you.
    May your home 🏠 be peaceful and blessed.

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    1. It is not always that the other woman is better in any way. Most men cheat for several reasons, variety (being the spice of life) is just one example.
      They will have a wife and a brood of side chics.

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  5. What inthe world is this? 🤦

    Chizzy next time please keep quiet.

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  6. This is how y'all defend their cheating selves and make excuses for scums. Yes! Anyone that cannot respect their spouse enough not to cheat is a scum!

    Sha don't come crying later if he cheats because you have already given him the go ahead.

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    1. Mu nwa kwulu ya27 March 2022 at 12:23

      Lol. Eka that's a Potential female cheat on the prowl.

      My prayer is that all MALE AND FEMALE CHEATS marry themselves

      The agony I've gone through after marrying as a virgin has hardened me.


      Time is a revealer.

      Oga you will see nwi in your old age. That is a promise.

      I wish my family investigated your lineage before the union.

      Everyone is tainted with a huge dose of hoeism.

      Eldest sis fucking married men at her business premises

      Other sisters are runs girls and fuck married men one even has a child for a man whose wife is resident in the abroad with a daughter

      Madam doesn't know her husband has fathered a child here.

      The males nko? they carry ehhh every one is an active HOE


      I have prayed for my children that they don't inherit their ancestral curses


      Sometimes this cheating thing maybe a habit but for some it's an ancestral curse an active scourge.

      I can't believe I'm related by marriage to such a disgusting lowlife lot!!!!

      This has nothing to do with morality but basic self control and self respect.

      Tufiakwa ndi otu na amu nko.




      Chiri aka ghoro.

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    2. Have you ever cheated in a relationship?

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    3. She told you she married as a virgin, you're there trying to justify cheating!

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    4. My nwa kwulu ya ndo😃

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    5. Ermmm I thought years ago you were of the perspective that all men cheat, what changed your mentality😏 Oppz you are now married.. 😂😂😂😂 life’s cycle

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    6. @ anonymous 14.01 who is this one?

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    7. Mu nwa kwulu ya27 March 2022 at 16:28

      Anonymous 14.01 you thought nothing, zilch nada! Looking at stirring the hornests nest??? Try next door. Keep it moving hun. Have a good week ahead.

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    8. Mu nwa kwulu, I don't think 14:01 was referring to you..

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    1. @ nwakulu abi what's ya name?
      Fear Yoruba demons and Igbo witches I fear u oooo see as u bring all ur husband family for public

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  8. Shalaye fc. I wish you all the best, this one you are already making excuse for him to cheat.

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  9. Chizzy please shut your mouth and don't ask for bad things. I just caught my boyof almost 3 years cheating on me this morning. I smashed everything I could my hands on thinking it will bring me satisfaction, it didn't. If a man cheats on you please run far from him. He will just turn you into a monster. I could have committed murder this morning on top man matter. I don't even know who i am anymore

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    1. I pity you,you better learn to control your anger before you destroy your life over men that cannot control their 3rd leg. You want to become a murderer and waste your life over a man. Tueh !!!!

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    2. Biko leave him for your sanity sake. Don't mind all those saying all men cheat. My husband has not cheated on me even during our dating days. We have been married for eleven years now. He is handsome and we are comfortable, not poor.

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    3. You could have committed murder? Unto say you own him, you idiot? You're lucky you met a weak man- a useless man at that. I'll wait for the day any witch will "smash" any of my things. I bet you with everything I hold dear, I'll follow the case legally. Police go arrest you and then charge you to court. You go hear nwi. Look at these girls. What exactly is giving you this liver? From this asshole's narrative, you could figure she physically assaulted him but chose to leave that part out. On top wetin? Ordinary relationship? No be una fault. The world is gradually having less of real men. No woman dating me can even imagine that because she knows she will have a handful to contend with.
      When men are told not to owe women anything in a relationship, they refuse. That guy has probably collected gifts from her. E fit don collect money sef. Real men don't take anything from a woman no matter how broke they are. Anything wey woman give you, na to engage you psychologically. She begins to tell herself she owns you. Woman no dey give something free. There's always a latent reason. Na where this kind entitlement dey come from. A relationship is a relationship. Nothing more. If you feel the person "cheated", quietly leave. No be you born am.

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    4. My sister. I don't even understand what men want. Even the ones that can last up to 5mibutes cheats,I don't know how men are wired.
      Cheating on my partner feels so weird.

      Men make una try change,as una no want una women to cheat, we self he dey pain us Wella if una cheat.

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    5. Ha u try o, that's how a friend of mine asked another friend to go smash her boyfriend property because he was caught cheat, they both landed in the police station.. my dear Respect your self too well to avoid anything that will cause u unnecessary headache. This whole stress ain't worth it at all.withtime you will get over it.maybe he will come begging with stories and u might even decide to forgive him, but baby girl in all u do out there with men, Wisely place yourself first.

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    6. Anon 12:17, the only reason I didn't touch you is because I still love you! What you smashed is in excess of 1.3m, but we move! My neighbors wanted me to involve the Police but I won't do that, I think more of people's good side before acting( that's the luck you have)
      You denied me of sex for months now.. and yes Ceaser, she assulted me, but no need beating her, my decision not to hit her back is cause of the love I have for her, I won't stoop low! This is not about been a weakling but a resolve to always stay calm. God knows I love you..

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    7. I typed epistle before I read anon 16.00's comment....!
      My golden pen is not needed here.

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    8. Anon 16:00 Pele. You really tried for not hitting her. You guys should resolve your issues and still give love a chance.

      @ Anon 12:17 try and be calming down. So that you don't get into trouble in future, go for anger management. E go better

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    9. 1) She needs anger management. 2) Why would you deny your man sex for months ? You can't deny your man sex and claim/call him your man... It is pure childishness on her part and a disrespect to any man to deny sex for no serious reason like std, cheat,,,etc... What is a man suppose to do ? beat his meat. C'mon now.

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    10. 20.01 it's BOYFRIEND not HUSBAND oh.

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    11. Ordinary boyfriend is claiming she denied him sex that is why he cheated, so her body is now your right when you have not paid her bride price. Must you fornicate?
      I don't blame you, I blame the girl that was opening her legs wide for you.

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  10. I cannot leave my husband for cheating either. If you like you can live yours. The people that will advise you to leave ask them if they will accomodate you when you leave your home,feed your kids and pay school fees. I should carry the children and raise them alone as a single mother or carry them to another mans house, the other man that will still at some point cheat on you.
    I am yet to physically catch my husband cheating,but as a man he goes out,i do not know what he does on this outings,i dont go through his phones for my sanity. He provides well and respects me. If you now think i will leave 10years of that for cheating.

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    1. So true...to me cheating is not the worst thing in the world. If a man is loving, treats me well and is an excellent father and provider then i can overlook cheating if its very discreet. The problem is the issue of diseases. How do you protect yourself from diseases. Thats the only reason why i would not stay with a cheat.

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    2. 12:18, remain there if he cheats my dear. We are all different. Some women like me cannot tolerate a cheating spouse for whatever reason. Since you don't mind, you can remain there if he cheats.

      Let me correct something in Your comment, you said "the other man that WILL still at some point cheat on you". My dear, not all men will cheat.
      There are faithful men out there. I luckily met and married one.
      To all the young single girls, there are faithful men, don't tolerate a cheating partner because you think all men cheat, no. If you can bear it, fine but if you can't, leave pls.

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    3. 12:51 Disease" that's a good point from anonymous 12: 18. I pray you don't catch deadly disease that you are not aware that it will gradually decline your life span. That time you won't leave a 10years marriage but you will leave forever from the planet Earth.

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    4. God bless you anon 13:09. Let her remain there, it is well with her soul.

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    5. 12:18 I support you, leave these ones that tolerate worse in their marriages and still stay put. My fiancé has never cheated on me, I have access to his phones, he’s very rich yet humble, he takes care of me and put me before anyone, respects me and loves me silly, so Godforbid if he cheats on me tomorrow I’ll then leave him?? Hahahahahaha.. so that one girl will come and enjoy this rare breed of a man? And then the same society will mock me for being single.. abegi
      I can only leave my man if he’s a chronic cheat that doesn’t respect or love me

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    6. When I are fully equipped, financially, mentally and emotionally madam you won't hide under the cover of who pays school fees and feeding to stay in such relationship or marriage, give birth to kids you can comfortably train. This had made many men loose value of the woman they married being over dependent on them.

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    7. Stay there na. Whose business. Don't empower yourself so you can rise and stand for yourself irrespective of man.
      Respect no dey cure HIV/AIDS.

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    8. Women and poverty mentality. The reason you will stay with a cheating partner is for him to keep providing . Jeez who raised these women God. So if you get infected with disease, it means nothing to you. Jeez,
      God I'm so glad I'm leaving this country where most women have been made to have a poor mindset and accept trash. See them all about provide provide provide.. obviously this kind of women will cheat as well.

      Women let me tell you what you don't understand. The moment you have financial power is the day you freely live . You start making real choices. Then add this to being a true dedicated christain filled with true love for humans.
      Women why do you hurt yourselves these much.
      Whew! The same men that can't stand being cheated, the same men that are so jealous when you keep talking about other guys.
      My joy is the fact that there is no husband or wife when judgement day comes. All ends here.
      Peace

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    9. Women cheat too. Men are not the only ones cheating. Okayyyyyyy.. However, cheating is not the worst thing any man or woman can do. Y'all make cheating a big deal in your marriage perhaps why it happens.. You give it so much power over you.. For me, If you insult my parents, I will dump you Period. I rather you cheat than insult my parents. I rather you cheat on me than put me in debt.. If you are toxic towards our children.... there are so many other things that deal breakers for me including cheating but cheating is NOT #1.

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    10. They cannot work and take care of themselves and the kids that is why they will remain with a cheat. Greedy and lazy women.

      They dont mind if he gives them a deadly disease that will kill them before their time leaving the innocent kids to suffer.

      They are even talking about love and respect 🤣🤣🤣

      A man that loves you will never cheat on you, a man that respects you will never cheat on you. Stop confusing yourselves.

      Thank God I can hustle no mater the condition. Any man can't use me to play ping pong.

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    11. Anon, do you know the true meaning of respect? Just saying.

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  11. Look at how this one just approved her husband cheating with her full chest. I don't even understand some women.....

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    1. She's probably cheating too

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  12. Her Toro. Me,I have forgiven but he thinks the world revolves around him and that I don't have anything better to do with my life. I don't even know what men want.
    You have a God fearing wife,good cook,supportive and homely. I don't even desire any other man but what do I get paid back with? Cheating and beating ontop pregnancy. I am glad I listened to my parents and left,if not for anything,the peace I enjoy now is unquantifiable. He can satisfy himself with his Benin exes,I am still some body's precious jewel.

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  13. I don’t wanna believe she said this. It’s one thing to think it, it’s another to say it.

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    1. Baffles me too. This is something you just keep at the back of your mind but don't say to the man and everyone's hearing.
      Now the husband knows she's going no where even if he cheats. No be juju be that?

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  14. How can someone just wake up and be typing this.. abeg who ask you?? Why cant you keep your family life private..

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  15. What Chizzy said is facts. I don't really care about Men cheating or what not, it's not one of my insecurities and I wonder why it gets women all worked up.

    If not for the stigma associated with being a second wife, and how a lady snatched another woman's husband, giving another woman sleepless nights etc. Polygamy is the best. What is currently being practiced is more dangerous than monogamous relationships.

    Do the maths, how many relationships on a average will a lady go through before she gets married and still will not leave in peace in the marriage?

    Some will say Polygamy is a great disservice to women and it breeds jealous and envy etc. Well, maybe it does, I don't know.

    But looking at the number of single ladies but independent or dependent, working class or otherwise. The available "single" men ready to marry can't go round. That's why cheating and side chick can never end🤞.

    Quote me anyday or time in the future, I sincerely wouldn't mind if my husband takes a second wife and live responsibly.

    I guess I'm the only female that doesn't feel pained by this.

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    1. Hmmmmmmmmmmnnnnn

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    2. There are many single men
      Ratio of men to women is just about even
      Y’all just like to look at other people’s men
      Go online and see plenty men looking for wife

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    3. @Anon 14:25, you think I have not been online? Many men seeking to marry aged 34 and above, when I dig deep they have been married before, separated or have kids(s). I know this because I am signed up to a number of dating sites.

      The single ones without baggage are either engaged or in a relationship.

      The other single ones (ready to marry) are not desirable (sorry if it is offensive), with clauses that makes being a couple uneven.

      Surely, if I see a single man I can work with, why not??

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    4. Remove the scarcity mentality from your head, you are seeking one good man. Good things take time 🙂

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    5. You are not the only female o, i wouldn't mind too if my husband has a second wife but oga is to discipline and has the fear of God he can't even cheat. Your partner not cheating on you has nothing to do with love or respect for you but fear of God after all it's God that made the commandment.

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    6. Chichi, please tell her!

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  16. Will Stella post?

    Are Journalists not being fair to Nigerian women?

    Most times women are reported in the soft sell media (dated word?), it is always about men, my boyfriend, my husband, cheating, the right of men and women to cheat, s3x, surgically enhanced bums, etc. Women, especally media visible women, are never reported as talking about any thing else.

    Even the professional women in media visible industries are rarely reported saying much about their crafts, development opportunities, challenges and potentials, or about mentorship of younger women and girls. Just my husband, my boyfriend, s3x, cheating.

    So why do women complain pained in the media about not being seen beyond their bodies or bums, and their use of either.

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  17. She oozes low self confidence and sounds very foolish. How can you publicly give your own lawfully-wedded husband the right to cheat on you? I guess the peanuts she gets paid for movie roles can't support her lifestyle so she has to hang on to a man like a life-support. Nigerian women lack self esteem. That's why the naive young girls that don't know men's behaviour have their happiness and self esteem eroded by these wicked men and before you figure out what's happening they've moved on to the next woman. I thank God I'm very happy without a man. I've realised it's not an easy feat. To each his own.

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    1. My dear, couldn't agree with you more. I'm happy without a man.
      I know it's so hard for Nigerian women to believe much less understand as they have no idea on how to build themselves as individuals, everything they do is tied to men.
      They don't even know know their own identities and powers women, just view themselves like beef for other peoples consumption and their men treat their animals with more respect.
      Never seen a more disgustingly repressive society this.
      Then next March, they will open mouth like funnel chanting 'break the bias', bias gbu o gi you there. Nonsense.

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    2. I'm happy to read both of your comments.

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  18. These babes who always put out their marriage online, hope it is not on the line?
    Hmm
    Just open mouth, wa, wa wa!

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  19. You had many suitors richer... But you picked him because he is your playmate, gossip partner and he's rich... Okay. 🤦

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  20. Pls not all Nigerian women lack self esteem. Thank you.✌

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