Na wah!
According to Wisdom Macaulay
"Hello Nigerians Good morning; i want to clear up something out there. I am not begging Annie to pay me what I did not work for, I'm not begging anyone for money.
I just want her to pay me for all the years I have put up in building her career based on the promises she made to me as a sister. For instance last year she opened her children's brand, I designed it, I spent sleepless nights at Yaba with different tailors who sewed those things and at the end of the day I wasn't paid for it.
Apart from that ,she made promises to me she did not keep. once I do anything she will say she is done and I will have to go back to her begging. Towards end of last year she gave me a manager job but because I was not around for one week when I came back Annie took everything away from me. I have been begging her for a car to do Uber So I can stand on my own, Annie refused.
Now put yourself in my shoes, after working for so long with one person based on promises and that she is your sister and at the end of the day none of the promises were fulfilled, she took all the hope and better life away.
Annie is so manipulative she just doesn't want any situation where I can stand on my own and provide for myself , she always wants me to beg her and cry. At every single opportunity she will tell me my family and children will suffer and I had no choice. I had no choice because I put in so much working with that woman I designed ***** she sold it worldwide but I was never paid a dime.
I'm asking Annie to pay me for those works I have done for her, all my sleepless nights at Yaba. To avoid problems I asked her to give me the least car she has for Uber job so at weekends I will return the car Annie refused. Yesterday I took the car and I told her let me use it to survive myself and family, Annie sent her driver and thugs after me just along VGC they were banging the car with knives I was so scared of my life I had to pack the car and ran away. I'm so scared of my life even as I am here now she has been sending threats she has called my wife I can't even go to my house.
Nigerians please help me, I have a family I have been doing this based on she is my sister, that God will touch her heart to fulfill her promises one day I spent sleepless nights working for her even lately the Netflix job she did at Eko hotel I was there , I was not paid"
Now put yourself in my shoes, after working for so long with one person based on promises and that she is your sister and at the end of the day none of the promises were fulfilled, she took all the hope and better life away.
Annie is so manipulative she just doesn't want any situation where I can stand on my own and provide for myself , she always wants me to beg her and cry. At every single opportunity she will tell me my family and children will suffer and I had no choice. I had no choice because I put in so much working with that woman I designed ***** she sold it worldwide but I was never paid a dime.
I'm asking Annie to pay me for those works I have done for her, all my sleepless nights at Yaba. To avoid problems I asked her to give me the least car she has for Uber job so at weekends I will return the car Annie refused. Yesterday I took the car and I told her let me use it to survive myself and family, Annie sent her driver and thugs after me just along VGC they were banging the car with knives I was so scared of my life I had to pack the car and ran away. I'm so scared of my life even as I am here now she has been sending threats she has called my wife I can't even go to my house.
Nigerians please help me, I have a family I have been doing this based on she is my sister, that God will touch her heart to fulfill her promises one day I spent sleepless nights working for her even lately the Netflix job she did at Eko hotel I was there , I was not paid"
*I think it is time for their mother to step into this and put a stop to this right now without taking sides!!!
I agree with you stella.. their mother needs to call for a family meeting asap.
ReplyDeleteTheir mother? 😂😂😂😂
DeleteWeed she smoked yesterday has not cleared o at 20mins to one o'clock in the afternoon.
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If you know the pain Annie is bearing,she became a daddy and mummy to her two siblings at a young age. Mother you say? She's as good as none.
No amount given to this wisdom will work or satisfy him.
Annie continue paying the bills,he should go and drive around town a Pure water distribution truck to earn weekly salary,other people's brothers are doing it.
He should state his amount, she should pay and cut him off… promises without a written contract is invalid
DeleteJust state the worth of your work, they pay up and let him go.
Push up and co stop saying Annie should pay him all she's owing him then let him go. Go where? Helloooooo.
DeleteThe devil brings a battle to her family,she should quit? Annie as the Ada should brace it.
Onye aghana nwanneya is a strong Igbo axiom working for many families today.
These 3 siblings grew up together without their dad, the already tired mom bore the whole brunt,broken and still forging on. Do you feel her pain at all? The shame,the stigma?
Annie take your bro for spiritual cleansing,Lagos has good pastors.Pastor Tony Rapu,Pastor Paul Adefarasin etc. God is still using them.
Or for rehabilitation or reinforcements,please don't let go Annie,don't give up.
There are thousands of young guys like wisdom in Lagos.
They sell cheap their dad's expensive Lexus Jeep for N2m and use the proceeds to blow loud and Arizona in a week.
No amount is ever enough.
I can imagine the tears on Annie's face reading comments on this post,she's fighting to move her father's name to a third generation,some people are preaching disengagement?
If a hear! 🙄
Annie jisike!
A case of "the monster u groomed has grown up to bite u, they all need help and REHAB fast. Tubaba stop being an enabler.
DeleteAnnie denied nothing. They are all correct from their point of view
Annie and family feud is like bread and butter. Today is her brother, tomorrow is her inlaw, next tomorrow baby mama. You guys should carry your yamayama family issue off social media mbok.
ReplyDeleteHonestly. It can't be easy being Annie. I feel for her. The trauma she let herself endure while competing to win Tuface twisted her sweet personality to this.
DeleteAbused people are the worst abusers.
Do this one like this has a wife?
ReplyDeleteBe embarrassing himself and his family everywhere.
I love how he conveniently refused to talk about the fact that his YOUNGER sister made it her life time duty to see that he impregnated his baby mama while she pays the rent, hospital bills,fees, feeding etc
Like her has never done nada for himself?!!!!??
Dog don lick this one's face...no shame again.
When I watched the Young and famous show, I was thinking Annie was too emotional but now,I can't even blame her.
IT IS WELL
ReplyDeleteIf you have not had someone who put themselves as god in your family or life, you will never understand what this guy is saying.
ReplyDeleteI know someone like this who stopped everyone in her fanuly from worki g just so she 'helps'them. If you want to really help someone, won't you help them find themselves and earn their own money. Cos what is it with making people depend on you just so you can score points with it later?
I just hope he goes from therapy and heal from all this brokenness. Man you need to get up and take responsinility for your life!
So he went to hustle and get a job and Annie issued a disclaimer that no one should higher him or patronize his business?
DeleteYou are both cut from the same material that’s why you spewed this trash here.
Is it his younger sister’s responsibility to help him stand?
No one owes him anything in this life. He gave birth to children they are his responsibility and he should fend for them.
Oga/Ma, no bi juju, why not go outside the family member and establish yourself, why must you wait for her to decide what you do or dont, if you depend on someone then take the shift that comes, if you cant stand the heat, leave the Kitchen. You dont know what the family member is going through to provide for you, go provide for others then you judge him/her. Find yourself and earn your money, i dont think the family member will be foolish enough to stop you from finding your foot in life, but you want him/her to establish you, establish yourself
DeleteI believe you don't have any siblings like this, that's why you're blabbling. Allow people that have someone like this comment cos they only will understand. One of my uncle, what did the siblings not do for him, buy car? Until they had to distribute his kids each of the sibling. Till now he is still a vagabond at almost 70
DeleteMy hubby's auntie is like that,she wanted the entire family to be under her and her husband but hubby's family discovered on time and withdrew from her and her family, right now the respect is mutual coz we all are doing well independently.
DeleteHe really needs to heal and man up, and stop depending on his kid sis, if possible detach from her entirely.
I understand what you are saying because I have once been in that position but I had to take responsibility for my life and change the narrative, my former sponsors were forced to start respecting me. If he was a responsible man, while marketing and doing PR for Annie's brands/projects, he would have established contacts and done such an excellent job that other celebs will start working with him on their own projects, he will be making his own money and taking care of himself and his family, if Annie calls him subsequently to do a job for her, he will have enough leverage to negotiate payment or a deal/referral for his services.
DeleteWhen the person sustaining you sends you on an errand, you won't have mouth to ask, "how much will you pay?" because you have already sold your self respect for 20k, 30k pittances. You aren't responsible enough to stand on your own, due to drug addiction, laziness, poor financial management (in my case) or whatever. Little wonder, no Hollywood producer will work with Lindsay Lohan, nobody wants to invest in an unreliable person or let their project be at the mercy of a drug addict. His wife is also an enabler, what is she still doing there, calling Annie that they drove her children from school? Na wa oh...
Anon, so you didn’t read where he was asked to service their late fathers car and use? What did he do?. He sold it. And he’s now here crying for Uber. Ndi ala ndi ala
DeleteI agree with you anon 12:52. My mother worked for her elder brother and was owed salary for years. She sacrificed a lot for him. Her brother was a very influential man. Years ago, some people tried to kidnap my uncle. My mum was out on errand with his driver and car. These kidnappers saw his car and thought he was in there. My mum slipped away while they were struggling for the car key with the driver and called to inform her brother. As if that wasn't enough, she took okada to his house to ensure that he was taken somewhere safe. Few minutes after she got to his house, these kidnappers landed in my uncle's house and ransacked everywhere. They took my mother and the driver with them. For weeks we didnt know where our mum was at. Thank God she was finally released. Funny thing is that this uncle, his wife and children never acknowledged my mother's sacrifices. She still wasn't paid and couldn't leave because it was her brother. I've sworn never to work for any relative. I can help you but cannot work for you. When you work for a relative, you put in more than you're supposed to , you can even be called in at odd hours to do something for them.
DeleteAnon3:07, beware of a single story
DeleteWhat is she getting from them that has made her to stay? I find it difficult to understand how people don't get paid for months or years and they continue working for the same company instead of investing the time to look for another job.
DeleteTell us about the help shes given you in the past.
ReplyDeleteSuch persons if you give them 10million naira sef, it wont last for a month.
Drugs will finish it
Why are you and your sister recounting your victories and woes to us,are we your village people?.Wisdom,you're not wise at all,you are the face of entitlement for March 2022.They are supposed to put you on the table and use USB cord to wipe wisdom into your head.Call your kid sis and settle off SM.Seems your family live and breathe sm🥱
ReplyDeleteOh God 😅
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Delete😂😂😂😂😂
DeleteEntitlement na bad thing sha! The moment we all realize that no one owes us shi not even family the better..
ReplyDeleteNa wa
ReplyDeleteWhen you have a lazy, entitled and irresponsible sibling. What happens to standing up for yourself. Did Annie tie you up to her cloth.
ReplyDeleteWhat happens to those people without financially enhanced elder siblings or parents.
Stand up Mr. Man. Nobody owes you anything on earth. If no one did it for you. Stand up and do it for yourself. This life na per head
When you have a lazy, entitled, irresponsible sibling, there is NOTHING you can do to help them.
DeleteNo money you give is enough, nothing you do is enough.
Don't waste your time.
Why would he drive the car away without the owner's permission?
ReplyDeleteUntil siblings learn not to depend on the most successful one amongst themselves, they won't be given their due respect.
1000% correct
DeleteSo true
DeleteIf you know she always makes you grovel at her feet for everything,why don't u stand up for yourself,your kids ,find a decent means of livelihood by YOURSELF and prove her wrong? You need to clean up man,as long as u are still taking those things,it will be hard for u to make something reasonable out of your life. Think of your kids will u like them to go through what you are allegedly going through now? Will u like them to constantly be at the mercy of someone? Wisdom,choose wisdom. Talk to yourself
ReplyDeleteCan Tuface and Annie extension take a break from SM ?????
ReplyDeleteI would appreciate! Thank you 🙏 in advance
Annie earns via sm.
DeleteTo me, she should cost everything and pay him and also tell him to start something with it. If she can add to it so that he will buy a small car for u er, fine.
Hmmmmmm if this is true Annie please reach an agreement with your brother and pay him every penny you feel his services render to you is worth. That why I don't like bringing sentiment when it comes to business. People say am greedy but I see it as knowing what I want for myself. sibling aside when I render my services to you, you must pay me oooo. I rem paying my cousin to baby sit for me many saw it as waste of money but I saw it that she was working and need to be serious with me esp. as it involves a child immediately she messed up I sharply changed her and we are both good cos I didn't use her for free. Nigerians like using one another for their gain which needs to be stop.
ReplyDeletePay wetin?...
DeleteThe estate he lives in Ajah,the cheapest rent for a three bedroom flat is 800-900k old building ooo for one year!..
School fees nko on that part of Lagos is not that affordable for his 2kids .
Let's say the cheapest school over there is 100k per term...
Hospital bills nko?..
Annie should just cut off her head for him abi?..
This guy is so ungrateful!..
For the fact he brought this on social media,Annie shouldn't give him shishi..
Those advising him to do this should fend for him..
I am the queen I know Annie has done a lot but if there was an agreement from both parties without sentiment regarding amount to be paid maybe Annie would have use it now. All am saying is that whatever service render by anyone should be paid for sentiment aside. The guy is ungrateful but look at the aspect of the side where he render services. If Annie should hire a manager you know how much she will be paying plus other bill cover so me am looking at the services render. Before rendering assistance to anyone let there be an agreement maka future call out.
DeleteHe's not even saying what she has done for him..
DeleteI blame their mother, can't she call them and settle them
I second this.
DeleteAnnie don't give him a dime, let him refund all the rent, hospital bills, school fees since he is mad!!! You did a job for her and she didn't pay but your ungrateful Ass has forgotten all the help she rendered.
But Makason is still right. If you pay someone a salary they cannot come back to you they have to learn how to manage their salary. Once you get paid you don't get to go back to your boss and say I need help with rent and school fees, the boss will you were paid, if the pay is not enough then you will have to find a job that pays you more.
DeleteFolks have to set boundaries. And what ppl forget no matter how great a sum of money anyone has it can run out. Any amount of money can go to zero if you don't manage it right. You cannot be friends or close to anyone who wants your life. Some ppl think they are more deserving or should be the ones wearing your shoes, you have to let those ppl go. Once that spirit comes on board you have to separate cause they will do anything.
If this man truly is owed for labour then pay him and ensure that payment is documented. There is no coming back from this public embarrassment so pay him and let him stay in his corner and you stay in yours.
I wonder how devastated Annie is right now. How can your so called blood be doing this to you?? Who will she ever trust??? Nawa!!!
ReplyDeleteSay no to drugs!!!
ReplyDeleteThis guy is crazy!..
ReplyDeleteWhat of the rent,your children's school fees,hospital bills that she provided for you?..
Ungrateful idiot!..
Now I know why Annie want to die on top tuface..
Cos he is the only one that gives her love..no support from family
Annie,should just kick all of them out of her life!..
Rubbish
Hmm.. honestly. I guess that's why we shouldn't judge people so harshly, myself included. If u grow up with crazy family like this, you will cling on to the little love/attention u get from outside. I empathise with annie truly; this is so heartbreaking. People saying she should leave Tuface; to go where? Back to these kind of animals? God abeg. Annie, the Lord is your strength
DeleteDisgrace....
ReplyDeleteI agree with you Stella. Their mum should step in and settle this before it escalates.
ReplyDeleteTheir mum lives in Annie's house.
DeleteThere's something dark and sinister happening with them.
All of you saying he has entitlement mentality are all mad! So he will be working for her without pay, and where did you guys learn that to help one's siblings is wrong? So I will he living in abundance and my siblings should be suffering because helping them would be entitlement mentality on their parts? See ehn some of you should be very, very care o. For someone like me who grew up with my siblings scattered all over because we lost our father very early and we were collected from our mama and sent to different relatives' house I shouldn't help them when I can? I was the only one who was able to go to school... the rest were labouring and passing through all sorts of maltreatment...
ReplyDeleteOur eldest brother saw shege! From a very young age he was always worried about us, in fact the little money he was getting from menial jobs, he would send to us because nobody was providing for us even though we lived with them. All they cared about was how to use us as servants... Today, we are grown and I am doing better than any one of them even though they are all hardworking... Then you would say I shouldn't help them whenever I can? Infact dem never born the great grandfather of that thing we go say make I nor help my siblings wey we all suffer for this life together. Stella someday I shall send you our story.
Read to comprehend. Nobody is saying not to help a sibling but not with this kind of entitlement spirit. You just said your siblings are hardworking regardless of their situation. This one here is a lazy mofo.
DeleteSee why it isn't good to judge quickly?
ReplyDeleteBecause of love and family, he worked tirelessly for his younger sister yet he wasn't paid.
The sister didn't want to give him the car for Uber to enable him stand on his feet yet she was quick to send thugs to destroy the car.
I pray their mother steps in and handle this case with wisdom if not she may likely lose her children because it seems she is under Annie's roof.
Exactly what am saying, If both had entered an agreement on amount to be paid all this call out wont be necessary. Now he is not counting on what Annie did for his family because he feels Annie owes him a lot which to me is right. When my cousin was babysitting for me I paid her the same amount I would have paid if I was taking my baby to crèche and was feeding her 3 times daily, plus other expenses reason because I was more comfortable my child been cared for at home than crèche cos my first experience with my older child was horrible. When wahala burst I was bold enough to discharge her without anyone holding me for using her. Even my uncle was so grateful cos he didn't know I was paying her until trouble started. With what I did for her it boost her to be independent cos as soon as she left my house she looked for another job as she is already use to receiving salary. Sentiment aside when it comes to rendering services it has to be paid for no matter how small or big the amount is. Whatever you do aside the paid services should be of free will.
DeleteTheir late father's jeep he sold, what did he do with the money? If Annie had been giving him the rent/school fees directly probably he would used d money n won't pay it.
DeleteFew days sleepless night you say? The money Tuface gave him what did he do with it? Just because Annie decided not to give him shi shi, he's spewing all these?
Annie's crime is - she married a millionnaire.
Cost everything and pay him.
My own is, he should go and pay the bride price of that my sister without common sense.
Annie, please pay this guy if he worked for you. Let him be on his own way.
ReplyDeleteThe guy is damn broke as in broke. Annie pay him n add something to it so that he can buy a small car for uber. Set him up once and for all.
DeleteHe sold their late father's jeep(bought by Annie). Why did he not use it for uber?
DeleteThis guy is a junkie. No amount of money is ever enough.
Please this guy is entitled to feel entitled. If you want your family members to slave for you, you should be ready to pay even add overtime payment join.
ReplyDeleteSome family members are manipulative. They beg you to help them, call for your help at odd times,you leave your life and rush to mould theirs and when it's the to pay, they put on airs. They want to to grovel, they start recounting how they fed your entitled ass.
I speak from experience!
Annie pay up fast fast. And please learn to respect your older brother. When inlaws were bashing you, your brother disowned you, WISDOM was by your side defending your ass.
Thank you my sister. He rendered service full time which has to be paid for. Abeg God in heaven know me I wont work for anyone free. Even with this my business I still charge my family member delivery fee. I only give discount but not free. I have two kids to care for so nothing is free. If you need me be ready to pay.
DeleteE clear say u no like Annie cha cha
DeleteI have been defending her Eka but this one she made mistake by not reaching an agreement with her brother on how she should be paying for the service render. Am surprise you feel the brother is entitled. She allowed the entitlement so she face the consequence.
Delete@Ijeoma what about the rent she paid for him? And his children's school fees? Or the cars she had given to him in time past?
DeleteMakason, my comment was for Ijeoma
DeleteMakason, so if someone pays your rent, kids school fees, hospital bills among other things, you will drag them on social media for not paying you how much? Ok, Annie should pay him and cut him and his family needs off. Let's see how far that money will go.
DeleteIf you have the means help your siblings to learn how to fish. Paying rent, hospital bills for them while treating them like rags is not dignifying. Help them to stand , don't create situations where they become your slaves. Even if you are the last born, when God blesses you with wealth, always remember that it is meant to be for the good of the family.
ReplyDeleteExactly
DeleteGive them a job they can get paid rather than sponsoring them, when someone earns something it makes them more responsible.
Let your siblings learn a skill and they can earn from it. Don’t give people things they don’t work for.
If he squanders it that’s on him, or rather invest in his wife if she’s more responsible
Exactly oooo why pay rent and school fees when you could pay him what he is worth if you were to hire an outsider.
DeleteFrom the narratives given by both of them, Wisdom doesn't look like someone who will stand on his feet no matter how hard Annie tries. He will squander and always ask for more. The fact that someone is your relative does not mean you will continue to condone and cover up their irresponsibility.
DeleteI recently suggested a business idea for my elder sis. Told her to do her research and get back to me on the cost implications. She did, I told her out rightly I was lending her the money to make her serious at the thought of repayment but the day I sent her the money, she chatted me to acknowledge receipt and then asked me how is she paying back? I knew she just wanted to be sure I meant what I said about it being a loan. I told her to focus of growing the biz and that when the business has grown, she can repay.
As I type this, the biz has gone down, she is back to asking for money to feed her family. Yet she has a husband, if by any means we ask about what her husband does, she becomes defensive and insultive. She will go days without talking to you until she needs something from you.
The business I gave her money to start, I would call her to give her ideas on how to make more sales but she will tell me she is taking things easy, how it is stressful and she doesn't want to rush things. Everyday, it is how stressful it is but you are making sales, why not try to endure to the point when you can then engage someone to help? The same stress others pass through to send you money that you use to feed your husband and kids.
I understand what Annie is going through.
You think it's every sibling that is responsible enough to fish? You don't know how bad some siblings are. They just want to suck you dry. The minute you complain, you're a bad person.
DeleteAnnie is just helping because of her nieces/nephews. Na "how we go do" eye she take dey do all the help. If their father is irresponsible, should they now throw the innocent kids away?
I really feel for Annie honestly.
@Anon 15:24, did your sister come to you with the business idea, did she show passion about the business and real interest? NO, you suggested it. People are not passionate about things that were not birth inside of them. It would have been better for you to do that business yourself. On top of it, not everyone is designed to be a business person, some ppl are better suited to work for a company.
DeleteIt would have been better to say to your sister, I know you and your family are having a hard time and if you had the means to you would not come to me. But I am concerned that you will not be able to function on your own without mine or the help of others, and this is sad to see you with all your talents and gifts not using any of them. I too have to set things in place for my family should anything happen to me and I can no longer work. I also know, God forbid, my wife and I should lose our lives you would not be able to take care of our children as you lack the means to. So please sit and think long and hard of how I may help you one FINAL time to get on your feet and have something going for you that can provide for you and your family over the long-term, but after this I will not be able to help you anymore.
20:56 you are both RIGHT and WRONG.
DeleteFor those who want to help themselves, your comment will work while those who don't will come up with a business plan and still fail at it woefully.
Then, they come back to you with a sob story.
Or they come up with other business ideas and fail consistently.
Do you know why? It's either they are too laid back/lazy or lack good business acumen.
Such people are better off learning a skill or employed in a routine job like factory work or drivers etc.
They are too simplistic to apply themselves to anything that requires good judgment and complex reasoning as well as effort.
God bless you for this comment....if you haven't experienced what this guy is saying you would not understand
DeleteBut businesses do fail legitimately. For you to say someone's business failed because they did not work hard enough or was not driven is judgmental. Economic cycles, business location, and many other factors can cause a business to fail legitimately, meaning the business owner was not at fault.
DeleteThere is a billionaire, I don't remember if it is Branson or some other who had 70 business failures before he found his winner. Simon Cowell went bankrupt and had to move back in with his mother in his 30s. Life really does happen out of ppl's control and causes failures. I am sure both those men were written off by many around them, but they persevered.
Una go Yaba market go sew clothes. I can imagine how much una sew the clothes there and how much una sell to una customers.
ReplyDeleteThose designer clothes you see people wearing, you don't know its China and Vietnam they sew them?
DeleteIf you knew a single thing about branding you would know that people are using for the NAME.
This is so embarrassing, honestly.
ReplyDeleteThis guy had better go and get a job elsewhere to get his respect back. Kini gbogbo kati kati yi bayi?
Big embarrassment....
DeleteAnnie if you introduced him to drugs to destroy him to this extent so he’s dependent on you, then you must take care of him till he dies. This is not the first time people have accused you of being a crackhead. Take care of him please and carry his cross. You don’t introduce people to hard drugs, fuck out their lives and when it becomes too much you throw them out! If I was him, I will do worse. He is asking for his pay, pay him what was agreed and let him go his way! If I was him that you messed up with drugs you will not have 1 days rest. Yes, you might be younger but you are richer, so, you definitely have a big influence on your older siblings.
ReplyDeleteOne of my ex-friends was the richest among her family while being the youngest. She orders everybody around and makes them do things even I could not believe or she would not help them. That is why she is my ex friend. She had all the connections in this world o, but wanted to always be like a god to her family members because of their very poor background. She got her own money from runs.
I know someone like your exfriend. This girl was balling in millions and made sure all her family members were at her beck and call. She never let them work. Even discouraged them from going to school. Their first son had to run away from the family house to hustle for himself.
DeleteShe died before she clocked 30 and her family members are still survivng.
What is with taking up people's responsibility? Once you enable toxic dependence from the people you claim you love to the point of doing their basic responsibility for them, be ready to take all that comes with it. And yes, you asked for whatever entitlement is thrown at you.
If you cannot show someone how to fish and if you cannot tell them the hard truth about life and hardwork, leave them to find their way.
You are not God. Evertyime you try to be a god in someone's life it will always turn around to bite you.
Shouldering someone else's responsibilities is not kindness.
God bless you for this. My best friend when I notice how this babe was balling in money I willingly suggested to her let me resign and work for her so that she could show me the way. My best friend said NO I should keep working while she put me through her business. some selfish people will have gladly ask me to resign so that they will used the living day light out of me. Nigerians are users if you give them chance they will used the last blood in you all in the way of showing you the way that they will never show you.
Deletehmmm... there are other accounts of Annie helping him set up a production company and helping him purchase cameras for that venture and also starring in some of the movies he produced from that outfit . Someone else on instagram also commented about how she and Annie invested money in a movie that was produced through that outfit but the young man sold the movie to Africa Magic without giving them returns on their investments. Maybe the reason Annie pays the rents and fees directly herself is because he doesn't have the means, and from experience cant be trusted to pay those fees if the money was given to him directly.
DeleteLooks like this tantrum he is throwing is because Annie who (according to her accounts) usually accedes to his demands said "no" to him being her manager. After which he went to her house, took her car without her consent on grounds that he wanted to use it for uber (Annie's reaction to this was probably driven by the the allegation that he previously sold the car Annie bought for their father instead of fixing it like he was supposed to). So now he is throwing tantrums. Annie is no saint but this whole thing is no more than emotional blackmail and smacks of entitlement
DeleteWisdom next time, get a contract documented properly, no do work based on sisterhood, and this is not the way to approach such issues, Are there no elders in that family ? They should wade into this matter now, Annie if you are owing your brother,pay him the money, make we rest for una abeg. I blame Annie for bringing her legs out last year, now the trend has continued, they will continue calling each other out on social media, instead of settling amicably.
ReplyDeleteSo all these call outs and talks cannot be done within the family? I wonder how people would have been living without social media.
ReplyDeleteIt is well with you people.
Seriously i pity Annie and some people will still have reason to blame her😒
ReplyDeleteThis old man should just go and hustle and leave his sister alone.
Wisdom, your eyes look lost and you do look like someone in deep emotional, spiritual and psychological pain. I remember Oprah going through the same embarrassment by her sister who was a drug addict, selling family secrets to the highest bidder. The sister eventualy died and Oprah went on to even more success.
ReplyDeleteWhatever money you will gain from going this route will eventually run dry, then what? I bet you have no plan for survival when the media stop reporting you or care about what you have to say. Money is a here today gone tomorrow thing when you are a drug addict. Why have you not asked for help with getting rehab and support for getting clean? Like any deep addict it's money you want becauss drugs cannot be bought on credit, so here you are. If you could step outside of yourself and see what you have become I am sure you would be ashamed. Drug addiction is not something for only the rich, many poor ppl are addicts too. I do not know what you went through in your life experience to bring you to this. But therapy should be a part of your healing journey. So forget money for today and think about life and the family you made, money is not going to fix you or them. A man who is clean, wise, loving abd supportive is far more valueable to them than the illusion of what money will do. I wish you all the best and that you make it out of that tunnel of darkness and you can become the man God created you to be. Choose life. Choose health. Choose Wisdom.
Damn if you
ReplyDeleteDamn if you don't.
There is a witchcraft entitlement mentality with Nigerians. If you don't give them fish, you are wicked. If you teach them how to fish, you are wicked because you didn't show them the ocean where they can fish.
In summary, they are angry that you haven't given them the money that will make you as poor as them. They want you to give until you are reduced to nothing, no savings and back to square one. They are the first to laugh when things goes sour for you. They will laugh if your children don't turn out well. They will laugh if you have issues in your marriage.
And let me tell you something, they will survive whether you give or not. Don't play God in anyone's life. Give if you feel like it or don't give at all if you feel you have exhausted your effort. Don't give out the stones you will use to build your house, rather build yours and give shelter.
Most takers are brutal. They will praise you, blackmail you or threaten you just to get money from you. It's not you they like but what you can offer them. In most cases, they don't want to offer anything. They don't know they can give their time or help you to watch your kids or something. They just want to sit down and collect without knowing they can give. They will never admit they have. Never ever. At the end of the day, you will see them using the latest iPhone, they even look fresher than you because they are relaxed somewhere, they carry the latest bags bought from your money. They don't know the sacrifices you make to give them. They will be the first to mock if things go wrong with you, they will even accuse you of staining the money with evil so they will not make it.
It's not every rich person that has a job to give.
It's not every rich person that can start a business for you.
Some can only give you enough to feed for the day.
Be grateful for whatever you are given.
If they give you fish, eat and be grateful.
If you are taught how to fish, be grateful.
Some are sacrificing vacations, bags, mansions , dreams just to put on your table. Don't dictate to them what to do with their money.
If you are not, do it yourself.
KING XOXO MYSTERY
this right here is everything
DeleteGOD BLESS YOU.
DeleteThis Annie's situation is making me SICK that i dont even want to comment.
The guy is a freaking ADDICT,until he gets off drugs any help rendered to him is like putting water into a basket with holes.
Anon 17:27👍🏾 You are correct. I wish I knew this 30 years ago! You are not your relatives Jehovah Jireh, don’t make sacrifices you may regret, they mostly do not even believe it was a sacrifice. Some of us here are realizing it too late.
DeleteAnnie God is your strength. i hav always critised you in regards to Tuface, but this your brother no join at all. give him settlement if you can and free him. do it through lawyer, that you will give him this amount and he should not come and disturb you again.
ReplyDeletemummy Macaulay may God help you in regards to your two sons.
Why would be around for a week, no employer would take that except you are ill
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