FRIDAY IN HOUSE NEWS

 Hailings ooooh...

IN HOUSE NEWS

How una dey Ooooooh. Hope the day is going well? I know that some people will rush here to see if i will post some certain news...Hahahahahahahahahahahaha 

una doh oh......

Ehen i wanted to gist you guys one story about someone, a teacher .She came into my whatsapp telling me about her potpourri of health issues and i advised her to get pregnant which she did but it was after she lost the pregnancy that i was told that she was pregnant for a married man.. HAAAAAAA!!!...

Meanwhile i had given her advice that she should get pregnant again for the same guy.... I felt so silly.

Get pregnant for a married man? when him wife go dey fire prayer for air? I hear this same person has been running mouth upandan badmouthing me for wetin i no sabi.... it is well oooh.... Before you give advice, make sure you hear the story well before you talk.....

Enjoy the rest of the day and stay on the right lane.....

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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD




I have mentors in this homeschooling and conscious parenting journey that I am on. But there are two ladies I modelled my pattern and methods after. We talk and we are in the same support group, they don’t know how much I follow them back to back. I see how much they do and I am always encouraged to do better.

They share their homeschooling curriculum willingly for free and I use it too. There was a time I started to struggle, I couldn’t keep up with the sheer amount of activities in the curriculum. I would mentally beat myself up and push myself harder telling myself if this person can do it, why can’t I .

I was struggling with the chores, two toddlers and other things so I was falling behind. One of the curriculum involved three outings per week. I just couldn’t keep up. There was another woman in the support group I was following the same way too. After a while I sat myself down and talked some sense to myself. I couldn’t keep running another person’s race. As much as I was scared of making mistakes and doing wrong by my kids, I needed to do me.

So I gathered the curriculum and activities and tailored it to my kids and home specific needs and I am flexible with them. So one day in a discussion, the women mentioned how the only reason they can do so much homeschooling activities is because they outsource every other thing in the home so they can focus on the kids.

I mean the whole yard, cooks, cleaners, maids, market runs and even drivers. I laughed at myself so hard, I do almost everything in my home yet I was almost killing myself with worry because I was comparing my results with theirs. They can obviously afford to do that much and I can’t. So I have learnt to appreciate the efforts I put into homeschooling, knowing full well I am doing my possible best.


Never again will I allow comparison steal my joy.





This homeschooling thing una dey try i swear!

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ATTENTION THURSDAY CHRONICLE POSTER


I want to write this in respect to yesterday poster. Please don’t try it o. 

Don’t even allow your sister to go. Let me tell you a story. So in 2015, a church member also got an opportunity like this; she was to learn tailoring in London. The family members were excited na as per abroad things.

It was when the girl came back we heard the real story. They were trafficked to sahba in Libya and made to work as prostitutes instead. She got there and was allowed to make calls to her family after two weeks. It was on a Sunday that’s how we knew. 

Anyway, It was when she got back after 5 years in 2020, later she told us the real story. Apparently they worked as prostitutes, made to pay a certain fee every week. 

While going they took flight to kwara and from there it was by sea. She said so many people died and they threw their bodies into the water and continued their journey. On getting there, they took their passports and were asked to change their names. 

They were allowed to call their families twice in a month and the calls would be monitored. Her coming back was in the night; she passed through Ilorin again and took a bus home with one child. 

She said Nigerians really suffered a lot on that trip. So dear poster if you love your sister, don’t allow her go o. If God says she’ll travel out; she definitely would even if it’s on other terms.


Thank you Stella for posting this.

Na wah, stories full everywhere oooooh

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EASIER SAID THAN DONE BUT GOOD TO DO

May God give us the Grace to always know the right thing to do and do it.








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