Dr Jennifer Abubakar, the third wife of Alhaji Atiku Abubakar while replying to Trent’s enquiry on the circulating rumours on the social media accusing her of several things including disposing off the couple’s Dubai real estate illegally, among other allegations ......
The full statement, delivered to The Trent by Dr Abubakar is reproduced below:
Putting the Records Straight, By Dr Jennifer Abubakar
For some time now, especially in the last few weeks, there has been a whole lot of rumours in circulation about the state of my marriage to his Excellency Alhaji Atiku Abubakar, the Waziri Adamawa, GCON. The stories got more vicious as they continued to circulate. I deem it necessary to defend myself against the calculated propaganda to malign my character, position me in a bad light and damage my name. Without resorting to nonsensical talk, I would address the two key issues at hand:
(1) That I asked for a divorce because His Excellency got married again.
(2) That I sold his Excellency’s house in Dubai.
That I asked for a divorce because His Excellency got married again
On 26 June, 2021, I asked His Excellency to grant me a divorce in light of the breakdown of our marriage. And, during that period, I told his Excellency that I remain at his Excellency’s service to continue to assist him in his activities even If I am no longer married to him. Suffice it to say that several friends of his Excellency tried to mediate in this matter. I thank them most graciously and remain grateful for their efforts, Peter Okocha, Senator Ben Obi, Tunde Ayeni, Captain Yahaya and Senator Ben Bruce.
The core reason for the divorce was disagreement over my continued stay in the United Kingdom to look after my children and several other long-standing issues. I needed to play the role of a mother at this time to the children who have gone through the absence of both father and mother growing up; especially, with the passage of my elder sister who used to look after them. Furthermore, in light of Covid times, choosing to stay with the children was non negotiable. However, in line with Northern culture, allow the new wife to take up the baton so I can also focus on giving the kids more care.
Although we were not informed officially according to northern/Islamic culture, I knew about his Excellency’s new wife from the time Excellency was dating her and when his Excellency eventually married her. I had graciously invited our new wife to my son’s wedding in Dubai in 2018 without any ill feelings and congratulated his Excellency when our new wife delivered a child.
I was already aware that His Excellency had gotten married to our new wife but that did not deter me from supporting His Excellency and indeed, we went through a most rigorous electioneering campaign and garnered massive support for his election in 2019.
That His Excellency married a new wife was never the cause of our problem as many have said. His Excellency is a Muslim and I have never questioned him about his wives or intended.
I hope this brings this issue to rest as I did not leave the house because of his new marriage.
Moving out of the matrimonial Home in Asokoro and Yola
The Matrimonial home in Asokoro which we reside was gifted to me by him even before we moved into that home from a previous residence. Indeed, His Excellency caused his Private Secretary to process the DEED of assignment documents for the house, which he did and handed me the documents. I then commenced processing the title to the property.
During the initial mediation discussion, Excellency denied that he gifted the house even after I showed him the document with the signature of his aide, his Excellency asked me to show him the deed of gift. When I asked him, ‘Where will me and the kids stay when we come to Nigeria?’, he told me that since I am the one that asked for a divorce, I should find a place to stay and I later moved out.
His Excellency further gave orders to have my nephews leaving with me in the house ejected within an hour of his order and gave orders that I and my family members are not allowed to enter the house. Hence, during my last visit to Nigeria in December 2021, I stayed at a hotel. I have long released these assets to him and hereby reiterate that the titles are at his disposal to pick up whenever he deems fit.
Dubai Home
There has been a lot of speculation on the Dubai home. For a while now, I had purposely stayed away from Dubai until I took custody of that property in September 2021 after his Excellency reneged on his word to give the current value of the said property in exchange. When I came to Nigeria, in early September 2021. I asked to have a private conversation with His Excellency.
During that conversation, I informed his Excellency that once I get back to the United Kingdom, I will go to Dubai and take over the house. He subsequently departed for his medical trip to Germany refusing to address any of the issues I privately wanted to conclude with him outside of third parties.
I subsequently travelled to Dubai, and took custody of the said property. Once I did that, on 18 September 2021, His Excellency sent me a text and I quote “I hear you have moved to Dubai to take over the house. I am still in Germany for my medicals. Make sure all my properties including (redacted) are intact so I can collect all my properties. I wish you well’. I responded to him: “ Excellency, I am left with no other option as we need to get on with our lives amicably. I hope your medicals are coming up good. I wish you well too’.
On 19th September, 2021 in response to his text that I am not being amicable and I quote ”Good morning, with due respect, Excellency, I told you on Saturday before you left for Germany, that I was going back to UK, take [our son] back for his test, then come to Dubai. I reiterated that day the need for an amicable resolution. I maintain that stance and remain at your service Your Excellency’.
Further on Tuesday, 21 September, 2021, I asked His Excellency in another text whether he wanted me to pack up his clothes and give to Rahim (his driver) since the driver on his instructions was moving his cars. I also asked Excellency in that text whether he wanted me to have Rahim pack up his office. Then his Excellency sent me a text back and asked: ‘so its true you have sold the villa?’ Subsequently, His Excellency sent the driver to take possession of all the cars. The truth subsists with regards to the Dubai house. I will make no further comments on it because it is the subject of litigation filed by his Excellency against me.
I need to also put on record that if I wanted to take His Excellency’s assets, I would not have returned to him his property documents in Abuja and Jos, allowed the driver to collect his cars, given up the house in Asokoro and Yola. The last time I was in Nigeria I called to have the Asokoro and Yola documents delivered to him. It was never picked up and I still state that Excellency is free to send someone to have the documents picked up anytime he deems fit.
I subsequently travelled to Dubai, and took custody of the said property. Once I did that, on 18 September 2021, His Excellency sent me a text and I quote “I hear you have moved to Dubai to take over the house. I am still in Germany for my medicals. Make sure all my properties including (redacted) are intact so I can collect all my properties. I wish you well’. I responded to him: “ Excellency, I am left with no other option as we need to get on with our lives amicably. I hope your medicals are coming up good. I wish you well too’.
On 19th September, 2021 in response to his text that I am not being amicable and I quote ”Good morning, with due respect, Excellency, I told you on Saturday before you left for Germany, that I was going back to UK, take [our son] back for his test, then come to Dubai. I reiterated that day the need for an amicable resolution. I maintain that stance and remain at your service Your Excellency’.
Further on Tuesday, 21 September, 2021, I asked His Excellency in another text whether he wanted me to pack up his clothes and give to Rahim (his driver) since the driver on his instructions was moving his cars. I also asked Excellency in that text whether he wanted me to have Rahim pack up his office. Then his Excellency sent me a text back and asked: ‘so its true you have sold the villa?’ Subsequently, His Excellency sent the driver to take possession of all the cars. The truth subsists with regards to the Dubai house. I will make no further comments on it because it is the subject of litigation filed by his Excellency against me.
I need to also put on record that if I wanted to take His Excellency’s assets, I would not have returned to him his property documents in Abuja and Jos, allowed the driver to collect his cars, given up the house in Asokoro and Yola. The last time I was in Nigeria I called to have the Asokoro and Yola documents delivered to him. It was never picked up and I still state that Excellency is free to send someone to have the documents picked up anytime he deems fit.
Threats/Intimidation
Since this incident, I fear for my safety and that of my kids. His Excellency’s security operatives especially Ibro and others, have been making threats and calling my relatives, friends and staff and searching for my assets to seize. For that reason, I have exited my law firm, sold all my assets and moved abroad until peace reigns.
I have done nothing wrong except to ask for a divorce and it pains me that I have to use this medium to address thorny issues but fear that at this point, I would have to put my side of the story on record. It is obvious that a campaign of calumny to total discredit and put me in bad light has begun.
Despite all that has happened, I reiterate that I asked for a quiet divorce which if it had been granted, we would not be where we are today.
Divorce is never an easy process for both parties. I reiterate that I hope we can settle our issues privately and I would remain at His Excellency’s service should he need my help, anytime.
*WOW... will he give his side of the story? why collect back all the things given at the point of Marriage? Hmmm gifts that are like fish bone in the throat, nah wah ooooooh.
Atiku grant the divorce and free this woman, things have fallen apart....
Marrying a big man is not a lazy man's job at all. It's not about smiling inside a lexus. Imagine if you are as intelligent and strong as Jennifer, they will rub your nose inside "San san" and get away with it. As a trophy wife, you are only there for show, it doesn't matter how many kids you got for them, once the chips are down, you will know the truth. Aspiring trophy wives, take note and learn from this.
ReplyDeleteSeriously o. You can't leave peacefully. They will show you pepper. See FFK and his own, one good case study.
DeleteThis woman is very intelligent. She sold her properties before they seize them.
Very intelligent indeed. If she was intelligent, she wouldn't have put herself in this mess in the first place.
DeleteThank God she is a lawyer. But why is aunty Titi not bothered about the other wives. She's still standing strong. Young wives,learn from the 1st,how she managed to turn the other way,while the man keeps bringing them new iyawo them.
DeleteThis is not about marrying any big man etc etc. Big man, small man, all the same here. No difference.
DeleteNigerian men generally have serious mental issues. Severe ones.They dont know.
They behave like jungle animals.
Like grotesque baboons.
Very coarse and unevolved thinking.
No be to dey spray oud oud everywhere, dey stroke beard like goat, elevate your empty brains Nigerian men.
Only very very few have sense and even fewer have emotional intelligence. Ask the man next to you what is emotional intelligence, he will be looking at you like dead fish. Such empty skulls.
See this empty headed fool demanding an apology because I didn't do video call over the weekend. Not like I'm dating him or have anything to do with him o. Legit demanded a video call!!
When you are polite and well bred, they think you must be stupid. Infact, when I saw that message, I had to check my eyes whether I was seeing double.
Someone I just managed to start talking to 2 weeks ago after ignoring his messages for 4 years. Mature man with 2 divorce certificates to add to his 3rd class BSc.
Maybe he was planning to flash his dick like that baeu dummy and I inadvertently denied him an orgasm.
I no blame am. Sebi I for just dey face front?
You ignore, fools will say you are proud.
You manage and answer, fools go dey shit energetically from mouth.
God, thank you because I have never needed a man for anything. Nothing.
Thank God for a job, family, decent pay and contentment.
These useless Nigerian men can go fcuk their anus with a burning iron.
13.07 you've come with your usual vitriol. Leave Nigerian men alone, if you can't seem to find a sensible one!!
DeleteThe men you associate with are a reflection of yourself in case you don't know.
Learn from which first wife? So she should sell her happiness? She deserves to be loved too.
DeleteHe has a new wife so she won't get any attention, there's no need staying where you aren't truly loved or appreciated, until you experience true love, you won't understand.
She made a huge mistake marrying a man like this, they will always put themselves first, their selfishness is second to none, so he throws her out in the cold cus she asked for a divorce? Then he truly never cared for her.
My dear, thank God you bounced and you have something to your name.
Dear women, make something for yourselves, please. This life is too short to be a slave.
@13:07, thank God you were not fathered by a Nigerian man.
Delete@13:38, well said. Birds of a feather flock together. Like attracts like.
15:35 Yes I honestly thank God for that.
DeleteNo one is dragging that strain of utter smelling worthlessness with you lot. Enjoy.๐
Hahaha. Two divorce certificates with third class. Babe you’re mouthed
Delete16:00 yet you started talking to one 2 weeks ago.. is that not a contradiction?! Why not steer clear of them completely? Please ehn, let Nigerian men be. ๐
DeleteWith this kind of mentality, you will likely continue to attract obnoxious men, it's a vicious cycle.
DeleteChai! You're "mouthed"! O gini bu ifea?����
Delete13:07 is very correct. Naija men full everywhere remain but quality Naija men are so few that it seems they are none existent. And yes when you show you are well bred they treat you like a fool. Na werey women fit them. Ha haha haha. They treat women like trash and expect to be deified by same women. It is refreshing to see that women of this generation will not be put down and ground to the ground. E pain dem.
DeleteI fully agree with you 13:07. Nigerian men are a problem . Good looking on the outside , but ugly on the inside and in their ways . Everywhere you go , nothing good is being spoken about them. Self centered, "educated" illiterates, loud mouthed beings, very empty in the head . Only think through their pen&$. Go on a date with them and you will be embarrassed.Them plenty for here in South Africa.
Delete12.02 then leave them alone and face Sputh African men! Shikena.
Delete06.31, we know you are 13.07, no need disguising.
DeleteThings have fallen apart and the centre can no longer hold
ReplyDeleteAtiku is pained that she asked for it. Men and ego. All these unavailable fathers that thought money can cover up for them are jokers/dreamers. The likes of Chris Oyakhi, Iginla Jos...
DeleteIf she were my aunty/sis, I would adviced her to sell everything. You give, you collect what about the kids.
Very selfish men. They sleep around, have numerous concubines, marry many wives and still expect loyalty, aboboku. Namsense. Na dis one wey una wan vote for president. I laugh in fulfulde. For the record, women are humans with blood running through their veins and not inanimate objects or property. A woman will vex, they will say why is she vexing, doesn't she know? Can't a woman feel? Then they will start writing foolish and useless articles about what women should do to keep their marriages and relationships and nothing for the men. The hell you men created is the fire ya'll will drown in. Selfish lots.
DeleteI got tired of the constant "His Excellency" in the write up.
ReplyDeleteSarcasm at its finest, your excellency
DeleteWhat's the sarcasm there...?
DeleteShe did the right thing, before they bring a lawyer that she is disrespecting him and maligning him. She ain't a lawyer for nothing.
DeleteVery wicked man and to to think he wants to be president, Chukwu ajuu!!๐คฎ๐คฎ๐คฎ๐คฎ
ReplyDeleteThat’s Nigerian men and their so called marriage you leave with nothing. Reason why I’m not married .I will everything I own to my kids upon his riches and children with the woman he wanted to leave her with nothing I’m glad she took control of the Dubai home smart woman
ReplyDeleteWhat children did she have with him? The children she refers to are the ones she had before she married him.
Delete@9:37, Abegi. Spare us. You are not married because you dont want to be married or you are not worth the men you desire. Simple.
DeleteThere are millions of Nigerian men who gave and are giving their wives properties while alive and by will. There are Nigerian men who are training their wives younger and older brothers. Nigerian men who are building houses for their fathers and mothers-in-law. Nigerian men who are are footing 100% the medical bills of their fathersand or mothers-in-law in Nigeria or in foreign countries. I write from knowledge. I wonder what manner of Nigerian men some female Bvs here roll with that make them comment as they do. Ha!
Such Bvs should up your games for themselves, stop looking for men to marry only because of material gains, and look for better men.
Enough of Nigerian men this, Nigerian men that - just spoiling the image of Nigerian men in the global space as if all Nigerian men are cast from same mould. The proper words are "some Nigerian men" There are good and bad people the world over.
May God save Nigerian men from SOME Nigerian women.
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DeleteTuwale 15:57๐๐ฅฐ๐๐ฅฐ๐๐ฅฐ๐๐ฅฐ๐ฅฐ๐๐ฅฐ you nailed it aptly!
DeleteYes oo..My parent were living in uncompleted building. A Nigerian man did the roofing and completed the house. We still have the good ones though
DeleteWhat’s all the ‘his excellency’ ‘his excellency’ Jennifer are you ๐ก mad ! Ki lo fe fa gbo his excellency oshi yi now! When he was banging your was that what u were calling him. Arrrgh!
ReplyDelete๐ Take it easy
DeleteLolzzz at are you mad ๐ ๐ก
Delete๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ sofri ooo
Deletelike my eyes were just turning like dammit woman enough!
Delete๐๐๐๐ Anon and Bini๐๐๐๐๐
DeleteYou left him because you want to take care of your children, lol see talk ooo. The things we do to others we can't tolerate. Madam you married him as a married man, now he has married another now and you can't cope.
ReplyDeleteNow you are realising that marrying a rich man is not everything. Bear your tarnished image in peace
Go back and read again...
DeleteMadam or Sir Mao Akuh could you read it for me. Comment without making sure a visitor is accurate or not. Please keep walking
DeleteWhatever be the reason, at least she has the dignity to divorce a rich man.
DeleteBut she didn't have the dignity not to marry him with his numerous existing wives?
DeleteTake care of which children? The ones wey don born grandchildren finish??? She didn't know she needed to care for her children when she married him? LEMAOOOO
DeleteShe would have had the dignity to leave his properties.
DeleteOh no!
ReplyDeleteMercy, I hope you are reading this.. This woman here was once Atiku's favorite wife. Did he not marry another one after a few years. Be ready to receive more co_wives oo. Kai, women don suffer.
ReplyDeleteWizkid FC
Proudly Tiv
Marrying a big man has plenty wahala o. You can't divorce them in peace. I think their ego is bruised whenever their women asks for a divorce. It pains them, hence the threats and name smearing.
ReplyDeleteI tell you. They feel they are too big and powerful for a woman to want to leave them.
Deletelike how dare you leave?!!!!
DeleteI have never seen where a woman married to a big man asks for a divorce and it was granted peacefully. It is always filled with problems. Is it that these big men feel they are too big to be asked for a divorce?
ReplyDeleteSo a woman cannot leave them even with several other women at their disposal?
big man wahala.
ReplyDeleteAt over 75years and with reportedly about 28 children, Atiku still had another baby in 2021.
ReplyDeleteYou see references in.this article to him travelling abroad for medical check up but we all talk Tinubu as if its only him that travel for medical reasons.
May God sort them out
Tinubu can't walk straight.
DeleteTinubu can't coordinate his speech.
But they are both thieves and nobody except their family needs them.
Is this your stupid attempt to make a case for tinubu? Like are you serious?
DeleteSo we should vote for an obviously aged corrupt elder because? Mtchewww
@ Push up, it was a simple unbiased comment based on observation of press reporting of both me and was not meant to garner support for BAT.
DeleteYou can respond decently without the insults.
Thank you
I pity all these 'smallies' marrying rich and well connected men, this is what awaits them should incase they try to divorce them. These men are vindictive. You try to leave them, they take all that they gifted you when everything was going on well, including the children. They will intimidate, harass and rubbish you if you are proving stubborn.
ReplyDeleteRemember they have the money and connection to treat your fuck up. please, think well before you say yes to that old rich daddy on your case. They can be mean.
That's why you garra be smart and set yourself up very well for rainy days like this. Don't get too comfortable cos they will come.
DeleteFFK et'al
DeleteAwon oha soup sorority cannot hear you sis, they are in the kitchen as dutiful wives.
DeleteSafety haven is Abroad when married to such. If precious Ffk has left Nigeria with her kids where the going was good.she wouldn't have found herself in this situation. No judge would give him the kids in Europe or America except if she's not a fit mum.
DeleteFFK Nor get money. Dude is broke living on political patronage and prostitution. Very controlling and insecure small boy in a big man's body. That is why Precious had all her children in Nigeria. FFK is broke.
DeleteThe average Nigerian man is pettily vindictive
ReplyDeleteAdd wealth and ego, zero/low respect for women on top
Then religion
Cultural sentiments...
Hmmmm
Suing the mother of your children
Hmmm....
Suing her on top house. Shameless man!
DeleteShe’s not the mother of his children.
DeleteThey have no kids together
DeleteHis excellency just marrying up and down. I remember when the Jennifer was all over the news as the latest wife they committed fraud in the US together now another new wife is involved wahala come start. She Jennifer can't enter US hence relocation to UK! Hmmmm madam fight hard and get divorce from him. When you roll with big men get ready for the worst! I never liked his excellency please we don't need someone like him as president he smells of corruption all over see him fighting his ex-wife because of house yeye dey smell.
ReplyDeleteWhere is the anon always singing I must marry up, marry rich man, please come and read. Better to focus on making your own money that no one can intimidate you with. The rich man will come along without you chasing after wind.
ReplyDeleteThese men just want to eat their cake and have it! I hope she has moved on, not tomorrow she will be seeking for peace and begging up and down.
ReplyDeleteBegging ba wo, na igbo woman she don cash out, she don't want to leave forever in north
DeleteShe is a lawyer, when a woman is done, she is done.
DeleteThank you so much commenter Amacastel, Gbam. Beg who?? Some of tgese people back home in Nigeria think begging is for every woman.. Jennifer is a core Igbo woman, Onitsha for that matter.. Beg kwa? Probably she jas met an Igbo man here in the United Kingdom.. she has cashed out big time ..
DeleteSee them, see mentality, see their emphasis on "cash out". What a society!! Na the same mentality land your sister in this wahala she is in.
Delete@Anon13:35, Lol.
DeleteHer side of the story. What of his side. What of the truth?
ReplyDeleteMen think money is everything. Their ego too much.
ReplyDeleteMen, or women? Would she have married him if he were poor?
DeleteThat's how he will deal and finish Nigeria and Nigerians.
ReplyDelete...and even sue us on top. Hahahhahahahhahha.
DeleteHow e dey fit sleep with woman with that big tank belle?
ReplyDeleteLet me go and ask him
DeleteBrb
He dey wear waist trainer take sleep with them๐๐๐
DeleteWhat is it with men and Ego sef?
ReplyDeleteCan she finally tell us where she hid that money he stole from Nigeria? The same case that chased her out of America. She is not a saint and they both need to go settle their differences like adults. How many houses does one woman want to get in a divorce settlement? She already has the house in the UK.
ReplyDeleteSee who wants to be president. Joker!
ReplyDeleteLoll.
ReplyDeleteLoller.
Lollest.
This is so untidy for a man of his calibre,the country's former number two citizen that is still vying for the presidency.What is a house compared to all the alleged looted funds?Something he could have left for her and divorced quietly when he knows what is at stake.Let them continue embarrassing themselves,wetin concern agbero with overload๐.
ReplyDeleteThat was how the woman reasoned before her action. From her narrative, it is clear she acted deliberately and sought to steal a march on him thinking he would not fight back because of... He also clearly thought the woman would not do what she did.
DeleteBut in the affairs of love, former love, marriage and failing/failed marriage, matters do not always follow rational lines.
men and stupid ego....ask for a divorce and they must want to punish you alongside. you gift someone something but want to take it back.. petty.com
ReplyDeleteWhat will now happen to Jennife’s Muslim name?Zainab or so. Well , she’s smart enough to have seized d opportunity of marrying him to go back to school & read Law ,as well as going for her PHD . However, she married Atiku without doing away with her former husband whom she had d two grown up children with & they shut him up when he tried fighting back. Even d wedding of d man’s son held in Dubai, was done without his consent & presence . Just like someone said up there, she cashed out which was what d Jennifer Iwenjiora of then Nta (reporter) was after & she’s not looking back. I think she had one or two kids for Atiku, not too sure of ds though. Just hope she didn’t bring ds up bcoz of his political ambition, while pretending to be courteous , with all d sarcasm?
ReplyDeleteSmartness to the average Nigerian is using others for your own selfish interest, then we turn around and wonder why our society is the way it is. Sigh.
DeleteAtiku & women. She divorced a whole Emir’s daughter , with flimsy excuses , just to bring in Jennifer & funny a thing, his first son’s marriage lasted less than 3years b4 divorcing her , with court cases of who goes with d children. In all of ds , Mummy Titi is not bothered with his harem of women , in as much as she seems to be d love of his youth, haven seen a pic of them in black & white , very young & innocent, She’s really patient.
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