As the topic of cohabitation trended on Nigerian Twitter on Wednesday February 16,2022, actor Ibrahim Suleiman revealed that he and his wife,(then colleague) Linda Ejiofor lived together for a few weeks before they were married.
Quoting a tweet stating, that it is wrong for Christians to cohabit before marriage, the actor said, "This is true But it is one of the wrong things I'm glad I did even if it was just for a few weeks."
Asked why he did it, the actor said, "It just felt like the natural/wise thing to do.
Get to spend time in each other's faces, day in, day out. We are both ambiverts who value alone time so it was important to learn each other's cues. Now I can tell when she needs a couple of hrs to herself and vice versa."
"Look, I've never been one to give a false impression of piety. I strive daily to be better. But once in a while...own your transgressions with your chest, " he added.
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* Abroad you see couples living together to see if they can live together when they are married..... I think its cool and prevents all the talk of couples saying they did not know much about each other before they married...The Nigerian society plays the role of Judge Judy too much abeg!
Whatever that rocks una boat 🚢.
ReplyDeleteThat's crap joor. All the people having sex before marriage and living together before marriage. Didn't they still divorce. Didn't the men still cheat
DeleteAbeg luvung together doesn't guarantee anything.my aunty and her husband never inhabited before marriage, they just prayed and fasted before marriage and they are still waxing strong
That's the truth.
Anyone that wants to live christian doctrine of not living together shld live it and leave those of us that find nothn wrong with cohabitation....i dont believe in living together for years and breeding kids with no marriage in sight. But spending time together,be it weekends,holidays,or moving in few months to ur wedding is okay to me.
Delete@Bed and Roses 👌👌👌👌👌
DeleteBnR, as long as you do not claim to be a Christian, that is absolutely fine.
DeleteMost people's issue with such statements is when people are saying they are Christian yet choosing to willfully disobey God's Word.
B&R 💯
Delete11.25, what if they are not practicing your kind of Christianity?
Ms Saphire, sorry to break the news to you but there is nothing like my/your own kind of Christianity. The Bible is CLEAR on what is sin.
DeleteAlso, it's not a must for anyone to claim to be a Christian. It's absolutely fine to be agnostic. But for anyone who claims to be a Christian, it comes with the full package. TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT.
Ms Saphire,what do you mean by "your" kind of Christianity?What other version exists apart from the Word?Listen,if you are born again and filled with the Holy Spirit,He will always guide you,and it will NEVER be contrary to the Word of God.If your "kind" is contrary to the Word,then you are walking in disobedience
DeleteEven the devil has supporters, so I am not surprised.
DeleteMs Saphire, how many kinds of Christianity are there? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteMy kind of Christianity is I know wrong and right. I know to love my neighbour as myself. I know not to hold a standard I learnt to strongly and be open to new ideas. I know to digest ideas and interpret it with my God-given intelligence. I know b4 Christianity was brought to us, people lived and knew good from bad. I don't need the Bible to recognise an evil deed/wickedness. You get?
DeleteMeanwhile, why does my opinion matter to you guys, anyway? Just ignore me and you will be ok, I promise.
Okay, so according to your own kind of Christianity, co-habiting is good? Yes or No?
DeleteAnd no, we can't ignore you. Paul did not ignore those teaching heresy in the early church.
DeleteHmmmm...I didn't cohabit but I don't see much wrong with it so long as the parties involved are on the same page and non is reviewing the other. Some decide they don't want the marriage title on their relationship and it works for them. I am all about what brings you joy that does not hurt another.
Delete*non is deceiving the other.
DeleteOkay, thanks for your response.
DeleteSo, you see nothing wrong with cohabiting although the Bible is explicitly against immorality?
@Eva stop generalising. Not ALL are divorced as you claim. I know some couples who cohabited and are still married for over 15 years.
DeleteThere's no manual to what works. Some didn't cohabit but still didn't celebrate their 5th anniversary.
Now, we’re not going to normalize cohabiting, are we? So how many partners are you going to keep cohabiting with to know if they’re “the one”?
ReplyDeleteIt’s not until you live with someone that you’d get to know them throughly, their true nature would always manifest and there’d always be constant slip ups that won’t be hard for you to spot.
Thank you!
DeleteThank you o!
Delete👏👏
Deletelike how many will you co- habit with🤣
DeleteNothing do una
ReplyDeleteI swear Nigerians are too judgemental, especially when it comes to male and female matter/sex, and they do the worst in secret.
ReplyDeleteAs we speak , thousands of these critics are cohabiting while some did that b4 now. “Santa Marias “
DeletePeople should live right secretly and openly, that's the pathway to peace of mind.
DeleteLet's hear word abeg, everything is judgemental to you people.Any thing against the standard of God is simply evil,how many people are you going to co-habit with to know if you can live together? Living like couples whereas you're not,are does that even sound to the ears? That they do it over there,does it make it right? Are they our standard for good living,are they the ones we should emulate?
DeleteFirstlady 👏👏
DeleteFYI - Everyone will answer to God one day based on His standards, not ours.
First Lady, you finish talk Abeg. Nigerians like to mask iniquity under the cover of the “y’ALL aRe sO jUdGemEntAL” rhetoric.
DeleteThere’s a big difference between condemning an act and condemning the people who indulge in such acts.
Thank you oh Firstlady.
DeleteLet us all start cohabiting, If the relationship fails, you move in with another man and cohabit till you meet the right one.
The way we even justify rubbish that stinks to the ears.
Firstlady how do you like your drink? Chilled yeah?
DeleteWe just normalize everything 🤦
Bloody hypocrites o
Deleteas we carry church for head reach the country is still backward, churches everywhere but increase in crime and killings.... native doctors re better than so many of us here that claim to be Christians, dropping vitriolic and hateful comments under anon mode for your fellow bvs.
China and other developed countries nor carry church for head but they are by far better than Nigeria, y'all commit worst sins than fornication but come here to speak against it, dropping hateful comments for another bv is a sin worse than fornication. you people re like the Pharisees, they decide what part of the Bible to obey(fornication is sin) but yet refuse to obey the greatest law which is to 'love your neighbour as thy self'
First Lady come and chop Knuckle.
Delete11:18 I guess you are speaking for yourself. Carry go.
DeleteAnon 11:18,you are the only one who has dropped vitriolic and bile filled statements.Goes to show the state of your heart....
DeleteGod bless you 11:18
DeleteLOL..
ReplyDeleteStellz, abroad and Naija are 2 words apart oh.. please stop comparing both..
There shebi the babe sef go dey contribute for house matter and stuff, here na extra responsibity you just won carry for your head with zero assistance..
Na traditional approach still be the way for here, until we choose to imbibe the full 21st century thinking in full and not only in some aspects when it pays us and go back to traditional in the ones we don't like..
Let's pick one struggle and run with it abeg.. the confusion don too much
2 worlds apart sir...
DeleteLol how did you write "2 words" apart?
DeleteLol
DeleteUna no get work.. common sense for don tell una say na autocorrect, but Una just won mumu unasef.. still had to hide in anons to do so. Joblessness🤦🤦
Abeg o. No compare o, we have our culture o.
DeleteGood for Sule and Linda ...congrats
Dante,why are you automatically assuming that those 2 anons up there have IDs?!So if they decide to use their IDs nko?Will you beat them up?!Loool!Please go sit down somewhere,and no,I'm not the previous anons and I don't have an ID on this blog.
Delete@dante you know there are a lot of independent babes out there right? The ones that (would) discuss the financial part of the relationship with their spouses and how to work around them...and they have been around since forever. Some babes are independent while some prefer not to be, just the way you have some independent guys and those that would rather not bother. While not leave the traditional ones and focus on the modern babes.
DeleteAnd there is no rule that says independent babes can't ask for help when they need one, life happens....if I call you a friend, bf, gf, spouse, partner, whatever I should trust you enough to reach out when I'm in need. Hell, I might even tell you first before calling mummy or daddy to come to the rescue.
14.58..
DeleteI agree with you that there are independent babes but I don't agree with you that they are 'a lot'..
Are you talking about the independent self made CEO that have to ask guys for money for hair, nails, iPhone etc? ABI is it the ones that'll come up with one scam business proposal within few days of meeting? Abeg, in this country, WE HAVE SEEN... Most of these girls are not ready for the 21 century responsibilities,. They just want the want the freedom, pleasure and evils- cos na only bad things weh oyibo do them dey copy, them no go copy they good ones weh dem dey do..
Hmmm..... different mentalities. For some men over here, it will be a case of see finish and series of abortions. Do what feels right to you anyways. As long you're an adult.
ReplyDeleteExactly.
DeleteI know a guy who loves this cohabiting thing because he wants free sex and someone to cook his meals, tidy up the house etc. After 4 to 6 months, he is tired and start nagging about your flaws and how he cannot marry you, you are not submissive, you did this and that. The one he is cohabiting with now has refused to move out because she said he promised her marriage and he told her to give up her apartment.
Most abortions are carried out by those who didn't cohabit.
DeleteStella stop promoting and encouraging rubbish and nonsense. cohabitation is sin therefore it is totally wrong. it is called fornication. stop correcting God's laws. you can't change them. young people are learning from this platform. so you are saying they should keep test running people,jumping from one partner to the other, ruining thier lives in the process. you people should stop all this rubbish. I'm so angry right now. mtseeeew
ReplyDeleteDon't mind her. Later, there will be prayer post later tonight. People want miracles but to obey they refuse
DeleteI'm weak! Everybody must show that they have the modern mentality 🙄
DeleteWhat's so hard in using your ID to disagree with someone.. Own your disagreement with whatever size of chest you have.
DeleteLovelace
What's so hard in using your ID to disagree with someone.. Own your disagreement with whatever size of chest you have.
DeleteLovelace
So you feel couples that dont cohabitate before marriage do not fornicate....If i hear... Even if you go and visit for just one hour,if ur going to fornicate,get pregnant and do abortion it can happen.
DeleteSome even get pregnant while living under their fathers roof.
Lovelace dear not everyone has an I.d
Delete@B and R the word of the Lord is the manual of every believer in Christ ,though we are imperfect we must strive for perfection, there are still people out there living according to God's precepts in totality ,that people are doing whatever they're doing doesn't make it right.
Let's stop normalising what's not right,this is me speaking to myself and us all.
Lovelace, all because of giveaway abi? Kontinu
Delete11:26 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteB n R no mind dem ooo. If you have ever visited ur manfriend and had sex pls dont be a hypocrite here! Most of the elderly parents cohabited and even had their children out of wedlock. No be sometime ago we come dey read news say some elderly couples don start to go pay their bride price, so those ones go go hellfire abi?
Delete9.42 pls learn to disagree like a normal human being. Angry over what? Hian, na so life hard? Take it easy so you don't burst any vein. If you are not happy pls leave this blog. It's not for everyone abi. Na she get blog anything she likes she posts. The fact that you do not share same opinion with her doesn't mean you should kill yourself.
Delete20:18 Maybe you are talking about your own experience, don't speak for the rest of us pls. See them strongly advocating for sin, later you wonder why things are upside down.
DeleteEvery Malam with his own kettle
ReplyDeleteSpanish lantern, I agree with you. The Nigerian mentality of see finish will enter the matter.. You can see one person up there already spewing trash this early morning. I still believe it takes two matured and purposeful minds to work get married..
ReplyDeleteMost men know from the start they won't end up marrying the ladies they are dating but still go ahead to deceive them for whatever reasons best known to them. One has to be really careful when dating..
Lovelace
Some women here has given birth to all their God given kids to one man,yet the man has not paid their brideprice. They are cohabitants abi? What do we call them? They are many here in my area. Yet when them come on internet,na their mouth sharp pass about fornication and adultery
ReplyDeleteIf you like live together for hundred years before marriage,in the marriage normal issues will still arise,the only thing that will keep the marriage together is godly virtues like kindness, respect, tolerance etc.Any marriage not founded on God and His principles is doom for failure. Everyone should develop his or herself character-wise, chikena.
ReplyDeleteTrue words.
Delete💯💯correct
DeleteYou think it's cool, okay. How do we call ourselves Christians and then go against what is explicitly stated in His Word? Let people take a stand please, God hates lukewarmness.
ReplyDeleteMay God help me and help us all , to live right and not follow modern standards.
DeleteAmen Choc.
DeleteIt is one thing to know something is not right and it is another to justify it.
Exactly Ms Abroadian, exactly the point. They are trying to change the narrative but that ain't happening.
DeleteMonths or years, the fucking is not justified Ibrahim,stop lying mallam
ReplyDelete" according to the Bible " wey almost all of una dey carry, you are not to live with anyone (man/woman) until the proper rights have been made for your coupleship. That being said, we are not living in Bible times anymore (even though you should be since una dey carry the Bible upandan) and nobody gives a damn about people's opinions anymore (only what una pope says matters sometimes sef). People do what they want and what suits them. If a man decides that unless he lives with you for a while before he can decide if you're wife material, then it's up to the lady to agree or not. If a woman says that unless she lives with you as a man before she'll know if you're husband material, it's up to you as a man to agree or not. But sha remember that people Sabi code their main character but not to worry, character is like pregnancy. You can hide it but it must show one day and know that, while living together, there shall be some fucking for free, cooking for free and other things for free that will go. How many men or women will you do that one for? It doesn't matter sha because you'll learn from every relationship and grow into the one that will turn into marriage Las Las. But just know that you can meet someone and not live with them for some time and still marry them and have a healthy marriage and you can still cohabitate with person and still have a healthy marriage with them. But pls think o, why aren't people ready to take chances again? Once upon a time people got married without knowing the woman (as in they'll bring the woman from one village far far away) and they will start to live as man and wife after dowry has been paid and they'll sleep together and have kids and live their lives until they die as husband and wife. These days everyone wants to be in control because of too many fucked up individuals out there. This is life. There is no manual. Just do what you can and leave the rest. I expect my 2k from anyone who try comment under here.
ReplyDeleteHow can you say you are "glad" you committed a transgression? To me, that just shows zero repentance.
ReplyDeleteThis woke generation na waya.
So, the few weeks taught him all he needed to know? Okay. No more comment.
Don't mind the mumu. As if you can know all there is to know about your partner in few weeks. He had better thank God it worked for him.
DeleteYou see this relationship and marriage thing, there's no right manual for it. what works for A might not work for B, just do you and leave the rest to God.
ReplyDeleteWhat are you leaving to God?? When you will go blatantly against his dictates. Do you and stick to the consequences abeg
Deleteoh sorry I said you should do you and leave the rest to God, please you can leave it for satan ok.
DeleteNever knew you re now god that issues 'consequences' to people, like you follow all "his dictates" in the Bible. St anonymous without sin.
There is actually a manual for it. It was God that instituted marriage and he gave a manual which is the bible. If we humans sincerely follow the guideline just as we follow manual when we buy automobile then all will be well. There will be issues no doubt but the bible would help in handling it right.
DeleteSo how come some pastors (Pastor Chris Okotie , Chris Oyakhilome) re divorced or ain't they aware of the manual???🙄
DeleteIs there any human that follows the manual 100%? even you, Do you follow the manual wholeheartedly in your everyday life?
Oh, so because Pastor Chris' marriage ended, therefore we should abandon the Bible and its teachings? Wow. So smart.
DeleteDear Kidjo, Firstly as a Christian one should strive to imitate Christ and not any pastor, that is why it is called Christianity. You are right, there is no human that follows the manual fully and the reason is because we are all imperfect. So the idea is to imitate Christ as much as possible and avoid WILLFUL sin which is what cohabiting is.
DeleteKiddo,salvation is a personal race!!If you like,keep looking at man to run your race o!!
DeleteGod's foundation stands sure. Anyone who calls on God should depart from all forms of inquity. Cohabitation breeds fornication and fornication is a sin. It is what it is. If you want to be a Christian just be a Christian(a follower of Christ) and if you don't want to, renounce christianity and live your life. Don't come and be changing God's principles abeg.
ReplyDeleteThank you!
DeleteHypocrites full Nigeria, that's all I can say, what does the bible say about it?? You play pick and choose too much, what is wrong will always be wrong.... even if it seems right
ReplyDeleteEven the abroadians that see nothing wrong in living together, get divorced on daily basis. Is it not on this same internet that we read of how they lived together and dated for 15 years, then get divorced in their 3rd month of marriage?. Cohabiting is not enough measure for an excellent marriage.
ReplyDelete👌👌 exactly
DeleteCohabiting before marriage means fornication cause 9 out of every 10 couples who cohabit before marriage have sex. So if you say Cohabiting before marriage is okay, what you are saying is that fornication is okay. 😎
ReplyDeleteI’m currently cohabiting with my boyfriend and I’m not proud of it. Sometimes I hate myself while sometimes I’m happy to have him all to myself day in day out. Can I advise younger ladies to cohabit? Hell NO! I’m just too broke to live alone. God help me. I’m trying my best to hustle and save and get a place of my own.
ReplyDeleteI pray help comes soon.
DeleteStart from somewhere, get a single room or move back to your parent house if you have one.
I don't want to imagine the stress of doing wifey duties day and night and thinking of sorting out your life.
To say no to task or request for sex will be hard because you are at his mercy.
It is well with you anon.
DeleteI pray you are able to get a place of your own.
I’m currently cohabiting with my boyfriend and I’m not proud of it. Sometimes I hate myself while sometimes I’m happy to have him all to myself day in day out. Can I advise younger ladies to cohabit? Hell NO! I’m just too broke to live alone. God help me. I’m trying my best to hustle and save and get a place of my own.
ReplyDeleteGod knows my next marriage we go cohabit for plenty years before we ever discuss marriage. Once beating twice shy. Wetin my eyes see for my first marriage (dirtiness and laziness aspect) God no go make me marry person way I no live with. In short my house will still be very available to japa to incase any nonsense occur lol.
ReplyDeleteSinners judging others for sinning differently.
ReplyDeleteOur advocate of immorality is here, kontinu.
DeleteWe all strive for perfection cherie doesn't mean we should turn a blind eye to what's not right.
DeleteBonjour et bonne journée doudou
The matter tire me o!
DeleteThey are so sure that those cohabiting must be having sex because they stay together, as if those that don't stay together can't ve sex as well.
Well there are worst sins than fornication, hate is one of them, for if you hate someone and say or wish hurtful things against that person even in your heart, you've murdered that person.And so many of these bvs shouting 'fornication blabla' do go anon to insult others so as to appear a saint with their normal id, So if anyone here has gone anon to curse another bv because you hate that person, you've committed a greater sin than fornication. SDK'S blog Pharisees.
Kidjo, it's not right to try to justify one sin because of another sin. So not right. Sin is sin, what is wrong is wrong whether that is hate, bullying, fornication, lying etc.
DeleteKidjo calm dowm, no be fight. 'they are so sure those cohabiting must be having sex because they stay together' you sef check am na, how can you stay together just like that, are you a log of wood? that is why it is said, stay away to avoid falling into temptation. And yes, those who stay apart also commit gbenshing so theirs is that they keep the first rule of not cohabiting but fall for the second rule which is the reason for the first rule. Na confusion be their own
DeleteYour second paragraph says 'there are worst sins than fornication. There is no worst sin, sin is sin. All sins breaks God's heart.
Same way you admonish people not to hate on others and not to go anonymous to spread hate and jam heads but to show love to one another is same way others are admonishing people not to cohabit and commit gbenshing in the process. So you see, we are all advocates for one thing or the other. In other words, we are all doing well
Blackberry must always be the cheerleader of wrong morals.
DeleteA queen I stan
Anon 11:28,you're funny 🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteSee as we dey glorify/praise/polish sin.
ReplyDeleteUna congrats
As in.. e shock
DeleteLmao it's only when it comes to sex, marriage and dressing that u people shout SIN sha. All others no dey gather this kain noise. Lmao
DeleteLily Rose, who stopped you from condemning other sins? U wan disguise hahaha
DeleteDs is why it’s not every question asked that one should give an answer to. Doesn’t make u a good person even if u divulge d truth. What stopped him from skipping that part of d interview. It’s ur life & u have every right to keep certain things between u & God. Nevertheless, I love both of them & their union.
ReplyDeleteHe actually seemed proud of it for him to have carried his hand to reply a tweet about the topic and quote his own experience.
DeleteI am here to read the comments
ReplyDeleteI HAVE A RIGHT TO AIR MY OPINION; IF AT THIS STAGE IN YOUR LIFE YOU DO NOT HAVE AN OPINION THAT IS YOUR PROBLEM AND NOT MINE....
ReplyDeleteYOUR INSULTING REFERENCE TO MY END NOTES ARE BEING DELETED; YOU CANNOT COME TO MY BLOG AND INSULT ME AND EXPECT ME TO ENABLE IT DO YOU::: HAVE AN OPINION AND MAKE IT INSULT FREE:::
I DONT GIVE A HOOT ABOUT ANYONES OPION OF ME AND THAT IS IT::: I DONT KNOW YOU AND I DONT WANT TO KNOW YOU..... IF YOU ARE ON THIS BLOG TO MONITOR MY PERSONAL COMMENT AND THROW INSULTS; PLEASE LOG OFF AND LOOK FOR A LIFE FAST.
I DONT GO WITH THE BANDWAGON AND I DONT CLAIM TO BE ALL HOLY LIKE SOME OF YOU HERE PRETENDING BUT GOING THRU HELL IN YOUR REAL LIVES ... LIVING TOGETHER BEFORE MARRIAGE HELPS AND IT IS A PITY YOU LIVE IN A PART OF THE WORLD THAT FROWNS AT SUCH STUFF....
YOU ARE HERE QUOTING BIBLE FOR ME AND INSULTING ME BUT YOU ARE NOT MARRIED AND HAVING S#X::::NONSENSE!!!
SOME HERE YOU WOULD HAVE BEEN SAVED FROM THE HORRIBLES MARRIAGES THAT U ARE IN IF U HAD COHABITED FOR JUST A BIT::::EOD
Please, then stop the prayer post in that case. You can't be promoting immorality and doing prayer post, haba.
DeleteEven if one lives 100 years with their partner doesn’t justify cohabiting or they wouldn’t divorce.
DeleteI live in Europe and I can tell you, there are believers in Europe who still lives according to the words of God.
If one calls himself or herself a Christian then they should live according to the ways of the Lord.
Cohabiting is a sin period. How ever you tried to garnish it, is a sin.
People suffering doesn’t mean God hates them so much, our graces differs from each other. Where you are is not by your might or having perfect home/marriage doesn’t make one better than others, like I’ll say, is God’s grace and as human we have our own individual pain and suffering in different forms, it could be material, health, family challenge, work etc.
If you are not keeping to God’s commandments especially love your neighbor and your God is a sin, meaning fornication is not the only sin we have.
Living in any part of the world is not yardstick to change the Bible or ways of the Lord.
Peace#
Fornication is a sin in every part of Christendom and the standard of God doesn't differ country to country.
DeleteHomosexuality and transgenders is quite accepted in the western world yet you frown at it and even wouldn't promote such on your platform yet cohabiting ain't a big deal. selective morality is as bad as having none at all.
Stella I get you, but we are living on very thin lines these days. Young people be looking for any excuse to go completely haywire. The actor guy said it's okay what he did but he also mentioned that it was only for a few weeks(nobody will look at that one). Yes, alot of people commit sexual sin but then again, moving in with a guy and staying as a couple. Sex will be on another level..ooo
DeleteJust imagine a world where everyone dating started cohabiting, I tell you getting legally married will start looking old sch in a very short while.
12:43,seconded
DeleteI am not even here to support Stella. I've had issues with her takes some times. But what I can never do is dictate how she should run HER OWN blog or tell her what she should believe or not. Who am I? Am I a saint? Did I contribute to the making & success of her blog? So who then are you?
DeleteGet out of here if you don't like it! It's common sense. Let her deal with her maker and His judgement just like how He will deal with you. But what u cannot do is tell her how to run her own blog. No one comes to tell u how to run ur business or home; why do u think you should do that to someone else? Preach in love or get out. But dont come & command someone to do things as if u own them.
The standard of God doesn't differ country to country. 👌
DeleteWord!!
13:57 why not carry cane and come and whip them na as per blog prefect wey you be.
DeleteThe only thing i know about is that cohabiting before marriage doesn't change anything any woman that is desperate for marriage may tolerate anything just for the man to wife her, have we not men beating up their girlfriends while dating and the woman will still remain in the relationship and if possible marry the man if he propose so i don't believe it does anything. I have seen a man leave a woman that birthed 6 children for him to marry the cousin of the lady saying he didn't marry the baby mama so most times na women they suffer more for this cohabiting palaver.
ReplyDeletePls.... Make una be calming down.... Calm down People!!!
ReplyDeleteThis is a delicate issue, biko nu jili niya nwayo 🙏🙏
Lmao if you want to vex nigerian church goers, just bring the issue of sex, side-chics & dressing. You will see their eyes turn red as if you killed somebody. They NEVER EVER have the same energy for criminals, corrupt politicians, lying/thieving pastors, etc. Infact, they will defend such with stupid shit like "mind your business", "touch not my anointed", "do you have proof?", "you have not walked in her shoes", etc etc.
DeleteSome of them have lied today. Some of them have shouted and/or hit their house helps today. Some of them have lied to their husbands & wives today. Some have stolen from others today. Some are fucking other people asides their spouses. Some are collecting bribes in their offices. Some are sitting on people's success & promotion in their offices. Some have insulted someone on the street today. They have mocked someone today. Many have CHEATED their customers; selling fakes, exaggerating prices, lying etc. & THEY CALL IT BUSINESS!
They don't see all these as sin. Bring fuck fuck matter, then war starts. Because explain exactly what this nonsense vitriol and anger is for? Where is this energy when ur politicians steal from you? Should we open a post on a corrupt official? I promise u wont find this much emotions running around. Should we open a post about the killings & kidnappings going on? Count the number of comments and compare.
ALL SIN IS SIN. But the fact that u always ALWAYS only have energy for certain ones only show ur own HYPOCRISY & nothing else. That's why you religious people DO NOT command any respect from anyone; your double standards are just too glaring. From the C.A.N all the way to the sheep church goers, no one respects nor admires you because u carry so much hate for people who only SIN DIFFERENTLY & u radiate such hate fantastically. Zero impact on the world, only noise and stupid insults.
so where do you stand as this is a delicate issue?
Delete13:44 madam Lily Rose, after this your epistle, can you please tell us where you stand? T for thanks.
DeleteGet the fuck off miserable anons. What's your business where anyone stands? Annoying sanctimonious humans
DeleteWow! Wow!! Wow!!!
ReplyDeleteReading comments made me jollificate.
So we still have good people on the blogoshere? I'm impressed.
Yes o. They want to turn black to white but we no go gree. Evil thrives when we keep turning a blind eye to it.
DeleteNews flash! Suleman was a leech. He moved from one girlfriend’s house to the other. He didn’t HAVE A HOUSE. This actor moved from ex girlfriend’s house to Ihuoma’s house. Though this is wrong, it would sound better if it is coming from a man that wasn’t leaving off his girlfriends. Hopefully he is doing better in his Matt with Ihuoma. Yes I know what I am saying. Let’s not glorify what is both culturally and scripturally wrong.
ReplyDeleteI'm curious. Are you his ex?
Delete🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteNo one is perfect,but let's not get to a place where we can no longer call a spade a spade.God help us all.
ReplyDeleteWho are you to tell Stella what to post and what not to? I don take down una names, anyone of una wey collect giveaway from Stella go purge the money out! Make una no come here dey cry giveaway since d money na from person wey believe in cohabiting.
ReplyDeleteDem don suddenly turn Christians wen dem dey talk rubbish talk here dem become atheists. Stella talk her own dem turn her to sinner say make she no do prayer post! SMH! JESUS' P.A. I go remember una names if dem born una well make una apply for giveaway. Yeye dey smell.
Please rest, so because they collect giveaways they should not bare their minds? Except they insulted Stella, then that will be way out of line, If they didn't, what is the fuss? This is a post and the topic is open for discussion, no need for insults or catching unnecessary feelings. If you want to cohabit, nobody will beat you.
DeleteThe fact that I just had an abortion does not make abortion right, does it? I may have had my reasons to abort but that doesn't mean I did the right thing.
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DeleteAnon, thank your stars my reply to you was seized.
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