THURSDAY IN HOUSE NEWS....

 Hailings!!!

IN HOUSE MEMO

Hmmmm i saw all the arguments inside spontaneous post this Morning... The truth of the matter is that we have three winners because they all posted at the same time.... In Blogs, we use the time to determine who posted first.

I can decide to make only one person a winner but i wont do that, instead the three of them should send their numbers to my PA and we will gift them Datas as i cannot give only one person the 'something' indicated n the post of Wednesday..

Thank you all........ Shout out to all the people in Anonymous mode and that special fool that wants me to post his insulting emails to me so that he can trend here ...Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahha my people something dey happen .

Anyway, BYE FELICIA!!!!

Kisses to everyone and a big shout out to all BVs who meander from my Blog to Linda's Blog reading and commenting.....Yep I said it!

 

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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD


I grew up with a violent dad and I vowed to myself never to marry a violent man because I don’t want my children to experience any form of abuse, I needed to break the cycle.

As Pastor’s kids who always had to pretend all was well, when I started dating I had built a strong wall around me and never really opened up fully in my relationship, any slightest sign of anger issues in my partners I would run out of the relationship without hesitation.

I once broke up with a guy just two weeks into the relationship because during that two weeks I did things to make him angry and he never reacted for once, it was then I remembered that since we have been friends for years I had never since him angry. I ran ooo ( we are still good friends till date).

When I met my husband I fell in love totally, I held no part of me back, I opened up about my background and I was hundred percent myself around him. Soon we started having issues, when provoked I would go in violent rages and become physical. When I was in a fit of rage I would have extraordinary strength and lift things that I couldn’t on a normal day.

I became scared for myself and would cry to God for help. My husband (then boyfriend) had to call our pastor to intervene when I scratched his eyes out one day. I could see the fear in his eyes. My pastor was shocked because we were pretty close and very good friends, he was a confidant and could attest to the fact that I was someone who was always scared of confrontation, how much more being violent.

He prayed with me and gave me scriptures to help, I would still go into rage but without violence till I had a talk with my uncle who is a psychiatrist. I was able to see that because I saw a future with my man and I was opening up so much for the first time, I was very vulnerable around him and a lot of daddy issues and resentments that had been buried deep were surfacing.

Also when he made statements or jibes that I grew up hearing my dad say I would become violent ( those were the triggers). At that moment I wasn’t seeing my man anymore but my dad, so my mind would automatically go into attack mode.

I had to forgive my dad genuinely and let go of every form of resentment before things got better. I desperately wanted to be better because I was turning into the same monster I resented. It took time but I am now way better. I even have a slightly better relationship with my dad.

Recently someone asked me to intervene in his marriage complaining about how troublesome his wife is. He said he wished she was as calm as I am. My husband and I exchanged glances and laughed hard for so long. I told him how lucky he was to have his wife and told him a bit of my crazy past.

I am happy I have put that part in the past and I pray my kids never ever see that part of me. In case you ever stumble on this sweetheart, thank you for holding me down. Thank you for helping get all the necessary help I needed and also helping me to be better.




WOW...I hope that this writeup will help someone come out of their rage.... Thank you for being so open and honest in your writeups...

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From February I will do stand alone adverts as i deem fit.

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