THURSDAY IN HOUSE NEWS.....

  The day is beautiful and cold.....

Hailings!

BV CRYSTAL CELEBRATES BIRTHDAY WITH LOVELY PHOTOS

Beautiful Crystal is a year older today Thursday January 13,2022.

Please join me as I celebrate her....

Happy Birthday to you.. May all your wishes come true as you make them......

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IN HOUSE MEMO

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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD




When i was growing up I saw first hand what lack of integrity cost someone close to me. This person lost tens of millions and good connections just because he refused to be straight forward and as a child I vowed to do my best to always walk in integrity in all my doings.

I want my children to pick up such attribute. Recently I was going through the book of Proverbs in the Bible and I saw blessings attached to having integrity .

Proverbs 2:7 . Says “He grants a treasure of good sense to the he godly. He is their shield, protecting those who walk with integrity. ( NLT)

And I decided to see how I could be better. I checked the synonymous for integrity and I saw decency, goodness, honesty, truthfulness and many more. Related words also include decorum, propriety, honourable, etiquette, appropriateness etc.

So I saw that it was not just about my business dealings with people, it affects every area of my life, the way I talk (even joke), the way I dress, the kind of friends I keep etc. I have my work cut out in front of me because I am no where near where I want to be but I am taking it a day at a time.

 May God help me to do better this year.

From me to you....

I used to Imagine you as one goody two shoes until i saw your photo yesterday...... People of SDK Blog, this poster is dark skinned, long nose like Ndi oyibo, bright white eyes, oblong face with very beautiful features and she has a punk hair cut that suits her face..... 

It is comforting to know that your beauty did not intoxicate you and in these times, you opted to go with God...

I am your number one fan and love to read what you write.







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NAZIRITES INK

I discovered series of attempted fraudulent activities on my bank account and knowing fully well that this posed a great threat to my sanity and finances I decided it was time to obstruct every access to all online transaction. It was clear it has become porous. However, the changes cannot be effected until I visit a bank and make a one on one request, so I jetted out to do the needful.


Twas such a sunny Thursday afternoon, festive season and I was trying all my best to catch the 2pm closure time. The security officer was kind enough to let me in despite using an handkerchief in place of a face mask. So I encountered no delay.


I entered the bank hall with ease and I stood shortly at the automated door while wondering my eyes round the customer service desk with the intention to figure out the most approachable attendant usually detected with the one wearing the most demure expression.


My gaze quickly met with a moderately dressed, dark and not so handsome guy who had a big smile so I proceeded. After I had explained, he calmly responded that he was no expert for my complain while he wasted no time pointing me to another agent at the rear who is.

I walked over to her and she had no tag, making it quite difficult to address her by name provided it will produce familiarity and softness.

Likely in her 40s, chubby, black and beautiful. She wore a navy blue suit over a teal green camisole that caught my attention, Green is my favorite color.


I explained twice that I had a situation that I needed to be rectified asap but she didn't replY. By the time I wanted to reiterate my statement the third time, she cut me abruptly and told me she was tired and hungry. It was then I looked carefully into her eyes and saw defeat.


She flipped through the bulk of office papers and told me these are previous jobs that accumulated. She pleaded with me to exercise patience while she sorted them and I nodded in affirmation.

She picked her snacks and wanted to munch but hesitated a bit. I told that it was OK to take her snack and also drink some water to calm the tension, I further pampered her with kind words and she was deeply grateful and illuminated.


At that point, all I could think about was; she obviously was doing her job but she was absolutely stressed at it. It was written all over her. She needed some air. Mental job is tasking and she wasn't exactly functioning optimal, there were piles of office papers in front of her and she was fagged.

Just glad that my "Sorry" "Thank you" "Take enough time" went a long way.

It was like something took hold of her, she briskly round up the files on her desk and attended to me and in no time, I was standing outside the gate.

The zeitgeist of our environment could that "Well, she is doing her job", "After all she's been paid "... bla, bla, bla but even at that,
1) The most of us need a little pat,
2) Small things can often go a long way, 

3) Everyone needs encouragement to stay strong.

Hahahahahahahahaha Nazirites ink you have bad and good mouth ooooh...

 I love your write ups cos you no send and say the truth or exactly how you see it.






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FROM THURSDAY SP - PROFESSIONAL ADVICE NEEDED

Please guys help me out.. I need professional advice.. 

I want to put up my sign board at my business place.. Is it wise to put a part of what I do which is like an NGO also on the display. For instance... My business name is XYZ...then beneath the company name we have... Hair... Car... "Human Development" which is what I'm confused about.

 Is it okay adding human development as part of the services a company provides on a sign board or it's too broad and should be left out.

I think you should also add it, otherwise ow else will people know? Add it abeg!!!

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FROM THURSDAY SPONTANEOUS POST

''I was denied US visa and after my reapplication, I got a very far date in July and my classes starts by ist week of February 2022.Now the school wants to defer my admission from spring to fall season(Fall starts by Sept, October),so i can be able to go for the interview and if granted visa I would now join the fall session. 

Pls my questions are; 

If I defer this admission ,my 50% Scholarship is gone bcos it is non transferable as indicated in my Scholarship letter. Is it better I cancel the admission and reapply for a new admission, maybe luckily I would get Scholarship again . 

 

Second question is ; I wish to try admission with other American Universities also while waiting, is anyone aware if my SEVIS fee payment(A security fee 300 dollars which has a one year validity, so mine will expire 2nd Nov 2022),If my sevis fee payment receipt can be used for another different university if I'm lucky to get an admission with them?

 I'm sorry for bombarding you with questions, I'm not using agent, just struggling on my own with the help of a friend. Thank you all''.





I dont know anything bout stuff like this but what will you do if they deny you the Visa again.... Do you have sufficient fund in the account you showed them?

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