Greetings!!!
In my opinion, the relevance of marrying away from home cannot be overemphasized or doing due diligence before you do. Although, these do not apply to everyone because some families/tribe/people prefer to marry close to home, it is mostly based on individual preference, therefore, my view is objective.
Growing up, my Dad would caution and reiterate that we should not marry close to home, I kept wondering why yet he would not divulge. Later heard he played away-goals as a youth, hence, the strong warning. He obviously does not want his kids to sleep with another of his elsewhere.
One of my male friend confided in me that when he went to the village last Christmas, he had s*x with a lady who ended up being his cousin. It was after all was said and done that he realized. It took him sometime to be able to open up to his mother who later told him that catastrophe would not befall him because it wasn't premeditated.
In some cultures, it is considered a taboo and he might not have been so lucky, In other cultures, he and his family would have to appease the gods, not minding that it wasn't deliberate.
I was surprised the day I went to my home town for burial and realised I had tons of extended family members from my Dad's side that I haven't met before...
At the end of the day, It is very good that extended family should be introduced early and properly. People can travel and we might never tell who they will meet anywhere they travel to in the World. Imagine falling in love with someone who is your blood ties back home in Naija and s#x and pregnancy is already involved, how do you explain that?
Most Nigerians are lacking in one major area. They prefer doing " me and my family" package, but I think it's wrong.
Families should be tightly knitted, we should not only be seeing each other on Facebook and co, How about consciously organizing a get-together that involves everyone, so that the kids can identify who is who, that way, everyone is familiar with one another, family gatherings are also an avenue to swash old beefs, most importantly, you don't want to end up sleeping with your step brother or sister, or even a cousin.
Learnt some lessons from my friend's story; that premarital s#x, one night stand etc should be discouraged and that families should at least know one another to a good extent before couples tie the knot.
It is wrong in Nigeran but right in some other tribes. I know a couple from Syria who ae first cousins and they have three kids...Married legally.... Their parents betrothed them to each other when they were kids and they married as virgins... Her sisters also married his brothers and so forth...... I dropped my drink the first day the person introducing us mentioned it.......
My reactions stems from my belief and the Country I am from, I also shocked them with how i reacted.......Hehehehehehehehehe
There are a lot of blood ties in Naija nacking steady and nothing dey happen........
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DeleteI stop those mummy GO video long time ago.
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DeleteBreastmilk can't get sour while still inside the breast, it's taste will often change with the mother's diet, but mostly not bitter enough that the child will refuse to suck from birth.
DeleteMy daughter too didn't like to suck, it was always a struggle, but she loved breasmilk fed from her bottle, so I spent more time expressing than actually breast feeding her.
Poster try expressing and bottle feeding her, and if all fails, rest and continue feeding with infant formula.
I heard/learnt breast milk doesn't go sour or bitter
DeleteSis, there's nothing like a breast going sour. It cant even be bitter. It's God's natural gift to Mankind.
DeleteMaybe her nipples are too big for the baby to latch on. Let her just express and feed him. It is stressful but it will be worth it at the end
Breast milk do actually go sour but the remedy is just to express as much and throw out, the next batch is always fresher and kids love it.
DeleteBut if yaa pikin no suck after cleaning it out, biko formula is still okay. Babies differ.
Breast milk still in the breast cannot turn sour. Most of the milk come out only on demand I.e sucking..only a lil amount is stored in the breast and if not drunk, either leaks or reabsorbs.
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DeleteThe mummy GO memes and videos really irritate me. Like it irritates the f*ck out of me.
ReplyDeleteLike? I don't even know how to quantify it.
Like worm walking on someone skin.
She's dumb, very dumb. The foolish that the Bible refer to, she's one of them.
What's even the difference between her and the Jerry curl GO that said, 5G is coronavirus..
Just imagine.. and he his using 4G and 3G for his church ooo..
Another dumb fellow.. Big big backward thinking individuals.
Even see the one that did interview yesterday nko, that one.. saying raaaaabbisshhh..
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That woman is sick I swear
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DeleteWalahi those memes are so irritating 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
DeleteI just bumped into one of her videos where she said that football is a sin, SMH.
DeleteI thought I'm the only one that's angry with all she says. Very annoying and irritating.
DeleteMummy G.O isonu
DeleteSome people are making there own, it's not all what she said.
DeleteVery annoying. I just scroll pass all the videos of her.
DeleteI find the mama GO memes hilarious, they don't even say anything, just her crazy eyes picture always got me loling. Esp when u post or say something silly.
DeleteShe annoys so many people. But what gets me is I saw that in one of her videos her church was filled with men. They call it a church. Smh. I'm like whaaaat! So many gullible people. Anyway for my peace of mind na to jump and pass any time I sight that rubbish.
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Good afternoon people. Hope the day is treating us well? Enjoy the rest of the day.
ReplyDeleteStells what to do nau? Na to de use the demonized Bible carrying witches and wizards to be catching cruise nau. At first, i thought all that "if you do this and that you'd go to hell nonsense" where jokes/skits, but alas, they were real utterances by a supposed preacher of God's Gospel.
ReplyDeleteHappy new year to you and yours Stella, Happy new year SDKERS, God's blessings to all of us, all day, every minute in this new year. Amen!
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Stella I don't think the mummy G.O actually said all of those things, meme makers on Instagram are using her to catch cruise by creating these memes using her name.
ReplyDeleteI also do not like them and I don't have any on my phone
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DeleteIt's possible but still she has said so many things that irk one
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DeleteThat mummy whatever she's called, I get angry seeing all the memes and videos. I don't watch her videos anymore cos it's so annoying and everything is sin to her. I blame the people that sit down to listen to the foolish things she says.
ReplyDeleteIt's very annoying when watching her videos
DeleteI have never watched her video and I don't plan watching, very crazy somebody
DeleteI have stopped watching her videos too! So annoying
DeleteI don't know about the memo you are talking about but please let us not doubt the existence of hell. Except that person believes that Jesus is not God like he says. The Story of Lazarus and the Rich man, Luke 16:19-31 is no fluke. Jesus says that it is better to go into eternal life maimed than to go to hell with two hands, a place where the fire does not quench and the worms do not die. Let us not trifle with hell fire. Nobody should wish anyone hell fire.
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DeleteThe day is bright and beautiful. Everywhere mara nma.
ReplyDeleteShout out to all the beautiful women experiencing troubled marriage due to infertility. The Lord has heard your midnight cries. Angels of fruitfulness are right by your door. Just open and carry as many as you wish ..twins.. triplets etc. Peace is restored in your homes. It's enjoyment season. Joy has come🙏🙏🤩🤩🤩🤩
Shout out to all the beautiful TTC ladies in peaceful marriages. May the good Lord sustain the peace in your homes. Just open the door and welcome the angles desptched to give you children. Receive grace to conceive and bring forth in nine months time in Jesus name. The tailor has almost finished making the cloth for your naming ceremony. It's testimony galore.🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏💃💃💃💃💃
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DeleteMummy G O will keep trending for a whole. I've seen some of her videos and the ridiculous things are says. However, most of the memes out there are just jokes and she didn't say most of those things.
ReplyDeleteMarrying from immediate family is considered incest here in Nigeria. It's good for families to know each other but unfortunately, we are afraid of going to the village because of witches and wizards 😎
In Nigeria, the Northerners/Muslims marry their cousins, even my friend married his cousin, its not new in Nigeria.
DeleteTraveling to our res'tive villages can also help.
May God take the lead and protect us from harm.
God bless the givers.
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ReplyDeleteI dont think that mommy G.O said all that
Twitter people are only paying her back
But her videos annoys me sha.
I wonder the people who attend her church sha.🙃🙃🙃🙃
I watched the one she directly said football is of the devil. It wasn't a meme, she was preaching. Anyway I just can't anymore.
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Happy new year in advance o😁
Reminds me of election can't wait for power to change
Delete😆😂😂😆 but we just entered 2022 na
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DeleteHappy New Year in Advance 💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃💃
Lol. You're funny.
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DeletePraise you have come again this year
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Deletecalm down biko, what's the hurry
DeleteYou is funny Praise. 😅
DeleteSome are happy for Baba Bubu to evaporate. But if we still have the same failed systems in place, how will things change? It is like the systems are set up to fail, so that those looting can continue to do so indiscriminately. So right now my angst is what can really be done?
Hahaha. Jewuluchi Stella, your bvs are bam
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Laugh😄😄😄Are you dating exam paper??
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DeleteEven some exam paper can make you laugh when your expo came out😅😅😅
DeleteMe sef dey make people laff. It surprises me because I will just be talking normally, next thing dem go begin dey laff. 🤦🏽♀️
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ReplyDeleteMuslims marry each other very well and nothing dey happen..
ReplyDeleteCousins marrying each other to secure the family wealth..
But my aunt tried it's and all the children she was given birth to were dying until she left the marriage, families were not in support and my uncle that collect the dowry also fell sick because of the taboo he ate(dowry)..
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DeleteStella, you do know mummy GO didn’t say all of those things ba? But because she says stupid and weird things like that, people started making memes out of stupid things she could say.
ReplyDeleteI find them funny and hilarious. It’s not that deep.
Same thing I said up there
DeleteShe didn't say all the meme
She no go drink water drop cup
They are so trolling her😅😅😅🤣
But making a Joke about hell, shouldn't be a joke... That what makes it deep. It is like mocking God's word
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ReplyDeleteEnroute lagos already, we just passed Sagamu interchange and Google map is already indicating traffic at Mowe axis, urgghhh🤦🤦.
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I pray for safety for everyone of us all through this year, every journey we embark on shall end well.
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DeleteThat meme up there is it for me, the power of positive/negative thinking/saying
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone..hope everyone is fine? God i need a side hustle this my hair business isnt enough.
ReplyDeleteA fine afternoon SDK fam,at this rate,it means even the mummy G.O herself will not go to heaven because the microphone she uses is electrical and according to her,anything electrical is demonic🙄.But seriously,I feel she may not be in the right place mentally,una doh.
ReplyDeleteHeaven is real,hell is real.The Word of God cannot lie.
ReplyDeleteU don see the 2 before?
DeleteGood day blogfam ❤️
ReplyDeleteStill struggling with being happy.Kai this is not how i plan my 2020.2021 Savings gone just like that.Good afternoon everyone..
ReplyDeleteCheer up PlumpyJ, what's lost can still be regained. Wishing you love 💕, joy and happiness.
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ReplyDeleteI don ask my papaa if he get any exam wey e wan write 🤣🤣 he say no ooo. The way my palee dey serious if he's reading any News paper eeehn 🤣 i no fit laugh abeg. Ask am simple question na head n hand e go use dey demonstrate n answer person. Chief. O *** i tire for you i swear, who do us like this 😂😂
ReplyDeleteIt comes with the age.
DeleteMy dad was once like that but now he reads from his phone.
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DeletePleasant afternoon lovelies 💋
ReplyDeleteEnjoy the rest of your day 💕
Beautiful afternoon.
ReplyDeleteGreat day.
Pleasant afternoon lovelies
ReplyDeleteIt hurts when you see foolishness ,they brag and call it being smart while they are perishing. Common sense ain't common.
ReplyDeleteWhen you claimed to be smart and you are not seeing positive results, think again what you are doing.
Check your mental health.