"Rhema is a now word—a personal word for the moment concerning you. It’s different from the Logos of God, which is God’s Word in general. The Bible admonishes us to take Rhema and win with it. How? By talking. Rhema is the spoken Word; it is the inspired utterance of the Word of God from your mouth"
"As we pray always with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit, we utter words of faith directed towards whatever it is we want to effect changes in, and also against the forces of darkness and the powers of evil"
"You’re the one to wear the devil out. Resist him with the spoken Word"
Confession!!
I exercise dominion over the forces of darkness, and I cut down their activities in my city and nation. I take charge from the realm of the spirit today, speaking words of victory, prosperity, health and strength. With the Word of God in my mouth, I triumph gloriously, reigning and prevailing over all circumstances in the Name of the Lord Jesus Christ. Amen.
Further Study - 1 John 4:4; Joshua 1:8; Hebrews 4:12
*"I will lift up my eyes to the hills-From whence comes my help? My help comes from the LORD, who made heaven and earth." Psalm 121: 1-2.*
Today as we look up to the Lord, the maker of Heaven and earth will surely help us. The Ancient of days will send us timely help from above. He will connect us with our vision helper and dream actualizers in Jesus name.
The Almighty God will show us his steadfast love. His abundant mercy will not come to an end in our families. His compassion over us will not cease. They will be renewed each day in Jesus name.
Goodness and mercy will follow us all our days. Our testimony of His faithfulness will be great and many in Jesus mighty name. Good morning my SDK neighborsπ❤❤
UNA DON START OH WHICH ONE IS YOUNGIE GRANDMA AND YOUNG GRANDMA AGAIN? TOMORROW BOTH OF YOU WILL DENY THE IDS........ if you are friends or related i dont think its cool to use almost same id oh:::::::::::::just saying
Pls change your ID. Don't bring in confusion. In case you are a grandma like me,you should know we are old enough not to cause any confusion plsπ Stella I don't know her from any where, but if she wants to keep the ID I will change mine. I just dey my lane and not troublesome.thanks
YOUNGIE GRANDMA TRUST ME THIS ALMOST SIMILAR IDS WILL BRING PROBLEMS OOOOOOOOOO.... THERE ARE SO MANY IDS TO CHOOSE FROM AND NE CREATIVE; WHY CHOOSE SIMILAR IDS? OR YOU SOMEONE ALREADY USING ONE; WHY CLONE IT?
I have been on this blog since 2019 commenting under anno. I decided to use youngie grandma ID when I became grandma 3Months back. Why will I use something similar if I have seen such ID. I will change my ID before I comment again.
Hello Castle, I was the one that posted concerning the sewing machine. I've been replying commenting to reply you but it's not published, hope this goes through. My location is Bayelsa.
Hello anon, I'm just seeing this. I looked out for your reply that day but didn't see it. I thought you were in Lagos or Abuja, would have helped. I don't have any connect in Bayelsa. Sorry.
The Greek word used for gentleness means 'strength under control'. It pictures a wild stallion that has been tamed. It doesn't mean to be weak and wimpy. The only two people in the Bible who were called gentle - Moses and Jesus - were both strong. Gentleness is restraining your reactions. It's choosing your response to people rather than reacting to them.
For the next few days, let's look at what it means to be gentle. When someone serves you, be thoughtful and not demanding. Paul writes, 'Don't just think about your own affairs, but be interested in others, too, and in what they are doing' (Philippians 2:4 TLB). How do you treat restaurant servers, clerks, administrative assistants, employees, bank tellers, police officers, and others who serve you? Are you rude and difficult? Are you aloof and impersonal, as if they were just 'part of the machinery'? Do you realise they may have had a difficult day too, or do you think only of yourself? The first way you develop gentleness is to try and understand the people who serve you. And the first place you should be gentle is at home. The Bible tells wives to adorn themselves with 'a gentle...spirit' (1 Peter 3:4 TLB). Peter is simply saying that gentleness can be more attractive than any clothes or jewellery you choose to wear. To husbands, the Bible says, 'You husbands should try to understand the wives you live with' (1 Peter 3:7 PHPS).
If you tend to be insensitive and overbearing, you'll have to work extra hard to be gentle. The Scriptures say you must be understanding, not demanding towards the people who serve you and the people with whom you live.
I remembered there was a diary where I wrote different ideas of taking permission for going out.My sister use to wonder how I got approvals while she stayed at home π€£π
I used to watch their moods before striking.They once told me to write out ten reasons why I should start wearing trousers.Omoπ€£
Good morning, fam. I came to answer today's blog roll call. I have been really busy, hence my being MIA... Eternal rest to the BV who passed. May God rest her soul and grant her family the strength to bear the loss. For those going through health challenges, known and unknown, may God perfect your health.
As a man, if you cannot control your wife, my brother I will say it as clearly as it is- you have failed. If your wife does not think twice before her actions or before she drops any useless posts online, guy you no be man. The truth is poverty and laziness have taken away the core of alot of men. When a young man decides to marry a woman because she has more money than he does and he wants to cashout or probably she's more famous, he has already lost it. Joke or no joke, for a woman to come online and tell the entire world you're the next thing after "useless" simply because you didn't drop the kpomo you bought inside the freezer says alot about the "man". My wife won't even be online calling herself a comedienne to start with. Women need a very firm control. They easily get excited and spill shit. That is why you are a man. It's your job to make sure she doesn't misyarn. You need to be responsible. She needs to have you in mind when making decisions. It will help her in making the right one. But how does this happen when you have useless men practically everywhere? See the other idiot who calls himself a hypeman; see what that actress has turned him to. The sight of him repulses me. He even looks abused. Another girl whom I'm told has a "husband" twerks online for a living! Chai! Abomination! This simply means she has a charlatan as a husband. A very rubbish man. Guy if you don't have the resources, ignore marriage. It's not for you. Forget the nonsense talk about love, you cannot control a woman completely if you don't have money. You mustn't be rich, but the ability to provide and be responsible is the main proof of your manliness. Any other thing you're told is purely a lie. Ladies advanced in age might tell you otherwise to manipulate you so that you'll marry them- then the disrespect and pressure begin. Have a firm control over your family. You're the man. But you can't do this when she's paying the bills. You can't.
HMMMMMMM I REALLY DONT KNOW IF I SHOULD AGREE OR DISAGREE WITH YOU BUT U SEEM TO MAKE SENSE IN THE TWEKING PART:: HW CAN SOMEONE TWERK FOR A LIVING? WHEN I SAW THE VIDEOS I JUST SHOOK MY HEAD AND PITIED THE HUSBAND.....
DONT BE ANGRY OH MY DEAR; LAST LAST EVERYONE HAS A CHOICE ON HOW THEY WANT THEIR LIVES TO BE::::MAYBE MOTHERHOOD WILL CORRECT THEIR SENSES..
My aunt told me something some years ago, she said, the mistake many men make is accepting certain Nonsense from their women because they're broke, she went on to say, whether you're broke or not,as a man never accept any shii you know you can't live with. Always put your feet on the ground on bullshit.
I agree with everything thing you said my Gee, but we must remember that life has its ups and downs, going through what you said of a man providing, what happens when life happens and he isn't able to provide for a while? So the lady should begin to act up, frustrate him and throw tantrums? Nah!
Whether money dey or money no dey, a man should keep being a man and put check on his woman. That gender is the most confused species on earth. Them no Sabi Wetin them want..
"Ladies advanced in age might tell you otherwise to manipulate you so that you'll marry them- then the disrespect and pressure begin. Have a firm control over your family. You're the man. But you can't do this when she's paying the bills. You can't."
I love you already Caeser for this write up. Let's tell ourselves the truth, we can never be equal to men. That was how God made it, it started from time immemorial. There was a time in my house, when my dad faced challenges at work, things became so bad that he lost his savings and had to stay at home, a sad man. You know what happened?, my mum single handedly catered for everything finance. She payed our school fees, feeding, electricity etc. But in all, there was never a time she used it against my papa. She still showed him love, the respect she had for him even doubled. She still took permission from my papa before going for any occasion and my papa never abused that privilege. I really learnt a lot from both of them. Anytime I mistakenly come across that Jane mena ( and her likes) twerking or posting all sorts of things, it breaks my heart, I weep for their husbands. No iota of respect from ladies to their husbands anymore. I don't even care about whatever anyone has to say, but my husband will be my second God. Yes you heard me. The bible said we should be submissive to our husbands and not share positions with them. I'm not dumb and wouldn't give any man the opportunity to use me, but that doesn't mean I'll rub shoulders with my HUSBAND not boyfriend ooo. This woke and educated mentality has really done more harm than good to us. Don't be deceived by what you read or listen to on the internet, even those so called feminist worship the ground their husbands walk on, at home. They wouldn't risk their homes for anything.
Her defenders say she was joking and saw nothing wrong with such joke. Costly joke if you ask me. Can't imagine a wife speaking to or about her husband in such manner even as a JOKE.
Her defenders say she was joking and saw nothing wrong with such joke. Costly joke if you ask me. Can't imagine a wife speaking to or about her husband in such manner even as a JOKE.
Of course Dante, I agree life happens. But I believe a man should always make intentional decisions to cut down the chances of life not happening. When you have 3 or more kids in this economy,you have to be ready to face anything you see. When a man goes ahead to have many dependants, na him pocket and health go hear am. I told a chic I was only going to have one child. You needed to see her face. She thought I was crazy. She swore never to marry me if that was what I wanted. I asked her how many she wanted, she said 4 kids. I asked her who was going to take care of those kids, she said I was the man and it was my responsibility. It's my responsibility and you're making the decision of how many kids to have! That's where being a man comes into play. Stand your ground because na you go suffer am last last. Na you them go put under pressure. Your health will suffer the consequences. I will never in this life want to wake up and be burdened by the needs of my family. Mbanu. I will have the number of kids I know will not affect my lifestyle. Nwanne, as my wife and kid are flexing with my money, I'm flexing too. I won't pause my life. Carry what you can carry. If I believe my finances have really really stepped up, I may consider a second child. Google school fees at Harvard or Cambridge and see. Imagine paying up for multiple kids. Those are the type of schools I want my child to attend from primary to Uni. No woman will put me under pressure to have more kids than I can cater for. That's just one of the ways to remain financially fluid and not lose your power to your wife my brother. A man needs to be the man at all times. Supernova, God bless your mum for that gesture but we both know most women in this our generation wouldn't do that.
Please I have been looking for schools in Canada or UK where I can apply for pgd but I have not been able to get anyone.
Please can someone assist me on how I can do the search or what I need to do.
Secondly, I also looked for pre master program but the requirement I don't have like bsc. I have HND but I want to apply for pgd, once I complete it I can apply for masters.
HMMM THEM FIT NO WIN OH::MAKE I TAKE CHANCE TODAY I GO GIVE THE FIRST PERSON WEY GO PREDICT EXACT SCORES 10k WILL DO A POST ON IT LATER AND CROSS CHECK THE WINNER BEFORE ANNOUNCING WHATEVER MY PA TELLS ME.....I HOPE SAY I NO GO LOSE MY TEN KAY OOOOO.
PLEASE IF YOU THROW INSULTS AROUND A LOT DONT GO INTO THE POST TO PREDICT COS I WONT GIVE YOU THE MONEY:: MY MONEY WILL NOT GET INTO THE HANDS OF ANYONE CAUSING DISCORD AND MAKING THINGS GO SOUTH ON THIS BLOG ANYMORE::... even a penny.
Years back, I had some serious financial challenges that got me broke and suicidal. One day as I walked through the road, I stumbled on an old time friend we grew up together. He's now a pastor and doing very well. He owns houses and properties and frequently travels overseas.
So I booked an appointment with him.
I went to his office and in our discussion, I narrated my ordeal to him. All I wanted was something little at the time to keep sustaining me in feeding and transportation in my hustle.
After my story to him, he requested I buy some oil and other religious stuff which he will use and conduct a prayer section for me. I told him I don't know where to get the kind of oil and items he mentioned as if I am capable of buying them. He told me to bring 25,000 and his secretary will get them for me. I told him the money is much on me to afford. He said okay, I should bring 15,000 as an old time friend and he will add up 10,000 for me. That the prayers he will conduct for me will be for open doors and favors breakthrough.
I said okay, let me go and come back. I left and didn't come back to him again. This is a man I told I can barely feed or even recharge my phone, not to talk of transportation. I remember trekking to his office.
Looking back today, all I can say is that, God isn't a man that He will fail. He restored my soul. He fought my battles when everyone gave up on me.
Today, I've chosen to forgive everyone who said and did what they did at the time.
One thing people fail to understand in life is that, there was humanity before religion.
My mind is telling me to play baba ijebu & Bet9ja with my children's school feesπππππ Father lord, are you the one speaking to me?? ππππ.
Am waiting for a confirmation before I proceedπ€£π€£π€£π€£π€£π€£π€£
My reply was a joke because I know the comment was one too. This one I'm already getting unnecessary reply, please take note of that before you send Stella a three page column on how school fees can never be a risk.
_MEET SOMEONE'S NEEDS, IF YOU CAN, WITHOUT MUCH QUESTIONING_
_Dont be surprised that someone greatest need at the moment is a pair of bathroom Slippers! Yes, you heard me right!_
_I was once stranded in Sabo Ondo State and all I needed was N100 to get to my destination. The man who eventually helped me out looked like an angel!_
_Some few years back a man in suit at Ikeja, along the bus π stop walked up to me and begged me for N100 π΅ to board bus back home. I gave him N200 instead. He almost ran mad. Next he prostrated in his suit with eyes laden with tears of joy π ... I was apparently shocked because I was wondering how on earth could N200 bring so much joy π to somebody..._
_Friends, when duty calls and its within your capacity to meet the needs of others, please do it... *IT IS A PRIVILEGE...* God can use any other person but he choose to use you. You don't need to ask too many questions..._
_I have heard someone say, "How could someone at this age and time not able to afford N500!" I can only smile ☺ ... If you have ever been through the valleys of life, you will understand that nothing in this world is too small to become a need. My prayer is that you will not be brought to shame in Life._
_If you have to meet a need, don't ask too many questions. Don't become the critics of the recipient (coming to ask for help in itself is a harrowing experience)._ _Don't become a counsellor suddenly except you are fully persuaded in your heart to do so. Don't get irritated doing it..._
_The blessed giver is he who gives cheerfully... not grudgingly._
_Don't say why would somebody be in need of such... Go ahead and do what you need to do if you can, and thank God for the privilege to be in position to help_
_Hear this..._
_Every need you are privileged to meet is a divine ransom for your own soul... You could have been made to trade places and you could have been the one needing the help... The more reason you need to thank God for every privilege to help... No matter how trivial._
_And don't ever trivialize someone's else's need. Every man's burden is peculiar to him. Your own waste might be another man's weight. Be wise to know that a burden is a burden however small._
_A friend once told me that he stopped meeting needs because most men are ingrates... That seems very logical, but you know what...?_
_You don't need men's Gratitude but God's Divine Return... Because he who gives to the poor lends to the Lord... And when God repays you, he pays you back unquantifiably, because He never ever owes any man_
_Keep meeting needs, it is your surest insurance against lack and insufficiency..._
_Reach out to someone in need today...and always!!!_
Stella, good to see you on our blog street this morning. You say make you join us fry akara plus pap?? Correct!!! Abi you go join me later for this my palm tree, today??? That's where we are watching the eagles today. *sips sweet palmwine on the Palm tree*
If you are you alive YOU must SMILE, Because this is the greatest thing HAPPENING TO YOU. Not your MONEY,Not your profession. You're alive right now... So put on a smile and thank God you're alive. Life is a gift....
Good morning everyone Miss me π€ͺ It is been a while on this street Have a great weekend
Bonjour Blogfam! Happy weekend Beautiful People! Just finished doing chores! I feel like sleeping again lol it been a stressful week,iam glad things are gradually returning to normal
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RHEMA For War!!
ReplyDeleteEphesians 6:17-18.
Excerpts!!
"Rhema is a now word—a personal word for the moment concerning you. It’s different from the Logos of God, which is God’s Word in general. The Bible admonishes us to take Rhema and win with it. How? By talking. Rhema is the spoken Word; it is the inspired utterance of the Word of God from your mouth"
"As we pray always with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit, we utter words of faith directed towards whatever it is we want to effect changes in, and also against the forces of darkness and the powers of evil"
"You’re the one to wear the devil out. Resist him with the spoken Word"
Confession!!
I exercise dominion over the forces of darkness, and I cut down their activities in my city and nation. I take charge from the realm of the spirit today, speaking words of victory, prosperity, health and strength. With the Word of God in my mouth, I triumph gloriously, reigning and prevailing over all circumstances in the Name of the Lord Jesus Christ. Amen.
Further Study -
1 John 4:4; Joshua 1:8; Hebrews 4:12
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Delete*"I will lift up my eyes to the hills-From whence comes my help? My help comes from the LORD, who made heaven and earth." Psalm 121: 1-2.*
ReplyDeleteToday as we look up to the Lord, the maker of Heaven and earth will surely help us. The Ancient of days will send us timely help from above. He will connect us with our vision helper and dream actualizers in Jesus name.
The Almighty God will show us his steadfast love.
His abundant mercy will not come to an end in our families.
His compassion over us will not cease. They will be renewed each day in Jesus name.
Goodness and mercy will follow us all our days. Our testimony of His faithfulness will be great and many in Jesus mighty name. Good morning my SDK neighborsπ❤❤
Hey twinnie! π Amen!!
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DeleteWHICH ONE IS YOUNGIE GRANDMA AND YOUNG GRANDMA AGAIN? TOMORROW BOTH OF YOU WILL DENY THE IDS........ if you are friends or related i dont think its cool to use almost same id oh:::::::::::::just saying
Me I just saw the ID and commented in love o... I've been Young Grandma for a while now, and Stella, you know me!
DeleteAbeg tell them. There are so many moniker you can use. People get creative..
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Pls change your ID. Don't bring in confusion.
DeleteIn case you are a grandma like me,you should know we are old enough not to cause any confusion plsπ
Stella I don't know her from any where, but if she wants to keep the ID I will change mine.
I just dey my lane and not troublesome.thanks
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DeleteYOUNGIE GRANDMA TRUST ME THIS ALMOST SIMILAR IDS WILL BRING PROBLEMS OOOOOOOOOO.... THERE ARE SO MANY IDS TO CHOOSE FROM AND NE CREATIVE; WHY CHOOSE SIMILAR IDS? OR YOU SOMEONE ALREADY USING ONE; WHY CLONE IT?
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DeleteI have been on this blog since 2019 commenting under anno. I decided to use youngie grandma ID when I became grandma 3Months back.
DeleteWhy will I use something similar if I have seen such ID.
I will change my ID before I comment again.
Youngie grandma, if the person does not change it, go ahead and change yours or add something else to it
DeleteYoungie grandma, if the person does not change it, go ahead and change yours or add something else to it
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DeleteHahahahaha no be small battles of the grandmas. Abeg when nija go play make I go do consultation
Delete@yoriprincess Super Eagle's are playing by 5pm today
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ReplyDeleteHello Castle, I was the one that posted concerning the sewing machine. I've been replying commenting to reply you but it's not published, hope this goes through.
ReplyDeleteMy location is Bayelsa.
THIS IS THE FIRST TIME YOU ARE REPLYYING TO HER AND IT IS PUBLISHED YOU PEOPLE SHOULD WITH THE MOUNTAINS FROM MOLEHILLS BOLLSHEET PLEASE
DeleteTHIS IS THE FIRST TIME YOU ARE REPLYYING TO HER AND IT IS PUBLISHED YOU PEOPLE SHOULD STOP ALREADY WITH THE MOUNTAINS FROM MOLEHILLS BOLLSHEET PLEASE
DeleteStella I saw her reply before and you published it.
DeleteI guess this is the second time am seeing her reply.
I think she means from her end stella, not that you didn't approve it
DeleteHello anon, I'm just seeing this. I looked out for your reply that day but didn't see it.
DeleteI thought you were in Lagos or Abuja, would have helped. I don't have any connect in Bayelsa. Sorry.
Haba Stella Mamie, calm down.
DeleteI'm not saying you disabled it, I thought network didn't allow it go through ����
@Something Light, thanks I didn't see it.
Stella she didn't accuse you of not posting are comment.
DeleteAnon 8.05 You are welcome
I saw it In one post.
Next time if you drop a comment try and check back.
If no response you can drop a comment in another post like you just did now.
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Delete@yoriprincess Super Eagle's are playing by 5pm today
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Show a gentle attitude.' Philippians 4:5 GNT
ReplyDeleteThe Greek word used for gentleness means 'strength under control'. It pictures a wild stallion that has been tamed. It doesn't mean to be weak and wimpy. The only two people in the Bible who were called gentle - Moses and Jesus - were both strong. Gentleness is restraining your reactions. It's choosing your response to people rather than reacting to them.
For the next few days, let's look at what it means to be gentle. When someone serves you, be thoughtful and not demanding. Paul writes, 'Don't just think about your own affairs, but be interested in others, too, and in what they are doing' (Philippians 2:4 TLB). How do you treat restaurant servers, clerks, administrative assistants, employees, bank tellers, police officers, and others who serve you? Are you rude and difficult? Are you aloof and impersonal, as if they were just 'part of the machinery'? Do you realise they may have had a difficult day too, or do you think only of yourself? The first way you develop gentleness is to try and understand the people who serve you. And the first place you should be gentle is at home. The Bible tells wives to adorn themselves with 'a gentle...spirit' (1 Peter 3:4 TLB). Peter is simply saying that gentleness can be more attractive than any clothes or jewellery you choose to wear. To husbands, the Bible says, 'You husbands should try to understand the wives you live with' (1 Peter 3:7 PHPS).
If you tend to be insensitive and overbearing, you'll have to work extra hard to be gentle. The Scriptures say you must be understanding, not demanding towards the people who serve you and the people with whom you live.
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ReplyDeleteHow strict were your parents while growing up???
I remembered there was a diary where I wrote different ideas of taking permission for going out.My sister use to wonder how I got approvals while she stayed at home π€£π
I used to watch their moods before striking.They once told me to write out ten reasons why I should start wearing trousers.Omoπ€£
200% my late Dad was so strict,if you do anyhow,you go see more than anyhow sef
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DeleteGood morning, fam. I came to answer today's blog roll call. I have been really busy, hence my being MIA... Eternal rest to the BV who passed. May God rest her soul and grant her family the strength to bear the loss. For those going through health challenges, known and unknown, may God perfect your health.
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DeleteAs a man, if you cannot control your wife, my brother I will say it as clearly as it is- you have failed. If your wife does not think twice before her actions or before she drops any useless posts online, guy you no be man. The truth is poverty and laziness have taken away the core of alot of men. When a young man decides to marry a woman because she has more money than he does and he wants to cashout or probably she's more famous, he has already lost it. Joke or no joke, for a woman to come online and tell the entire world you're the next thing after "useless" simply because you didn't drop the kpomo you bought inside the freezer says alot about the "man". My wife won't even be online calling herself a comedienne to start with. Women need a very firm control. They easily get excited and spill shit. That is why you are a man. It's your job to make sure she doesn't misyarn. You need to be responsible. She needs to have you in mind when making decisions. It will help her in making the right one. But how does this happen when you have useless men practically everywhere? See the other idiot who calls himself a hypeman; see what that actress has turned him to. The sight of him repulses me. He even looks abused.
ReplyDeleteAnother girl whom I'm told has a "husband" twerks online for a living! Chai! Abomination! This simply means she has a charlatan as a husband. A very rubbish man.
Guy if you don't have the resources, ignore marriage. It's not for you. Forget the nonsense talk about love, you cannot control a woman completely if you don't have money. You mustn't be rich, but the ability to provide and be responsible is the main proof of your manliness. Any other thing you're told is purely a lie. Ladies advanced in age might tell you otherwise to manipulate you so that you'll marry them- then the disrespect and pressure begin. Have a firm control over your family. You're the man. But you can't do this when she's paying the bills. You can't.
HMMMMMMM I REALLY DONT KNOW IF I SHOULD AGREE OR DISAGREE WITH YOU BUT U SEEM TO MAKE SENSE IN THE TWEKING PART:: HW CAN SOMEONE TWERK FOR A LIVING? WHEN I SAW THE VIDEOS I JUST SHOOK MY HEAD AND PITIED THE HUSBAND.....
DeleteDONT BE ANGRY OH MY DEAR; LAST LAST EVERYONE HAS A CHOICE ON HOW THEY WANT THEIR LIVES TO BE::::MAYBE MOTHERHOOD WILL CORRECT THEIR SENSES..
My aunt told me something some years ago, she said, the mistake many men make is accepting certain Nonsense from their women because they're broke, she went on to say, whether you're broke or not,as a man never accept any shii you know you can't live with. Always put your feet on the ground on bullshit.
DeleteI agree with everything thing you said my Gee, but we must remember that life has its ups and downs, going through what you said of a man providing, what happens when life happens and he isn't able to provide for a while? So the lady should begin to act up, frustrate him and throw tantrums? Nah!
Whether money dey or money no dey, a man should keep being a man and put check on his woman. That gender is the most confused species on earth. Them no Sabi Wetin them want..
Blessings my Gee
"Ladies advanced in age might tell you otherwise to manipulate you so that you'll marry them- then the disrespect and pressure begin. Have a firm control over your family. You're the man. But you can't do this when she's paying the bills. You can't."
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I love you already Caeser for this write up. Let's tell ourselves the truth, we can never be equal to men. That was how God made it, it started from time immemorial. There was a time in my house, when my dad faced challenges at work, things became so bad that he lost his savings and had to stay at home, a sad man. You know what happened?, my mum single handedly catered for everything finance. She payed our school fees, feeding, electricity etc. But in all, there was never a time she used it against my papa. She still showed him love, the respect she had for him even doubled. She still took permission from my papa before going for any occasion and my papa never abused that privilege. I really learnt a lot from both of them.
DeleteAnytime I mistakenly come across that Jane mena ( and her likes) twerking or posting all sorts of things, it breaks my heart, I weep for their husbands. No iota of respect from ladies to their husbands anymore. I don't even care about whatever anyone has to say, but my husband will be my second God. Yes you heard me. The bible said we should be submissive to our husbands and not share positions with them. I'm not dumb and wouldn't give any man the opportunity to use me, but that doesn't mean I'll rub shoulders with my HUSBAND not boyfriend ooo. This woke and educated mentality has really done more harm than good to us. Don't be deceived by what you read or listen to on the internet, even those so called feminist worship the ground their husbands walk on, at home. They wouldn't risk their homes for anything.
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DeleteHer defenders say she was joking and saw nothing wrong with such joke. Costly joke if you ask me. Can't imagine a wife speaking to or about her husband in such manner even as a JOKE.
DeleteHer defenders say she was joking and saw nothing wrong with such joke. Costly joke if you ask me. Can't imagine a wife speaking to or about her husband in such manner even as a JOKE.
DeleteOf course Dante, I agree life happens. But I believe a man should always make intentional decisions to cut down the chances of life not happening. When you have 3 or more kids in this economy,you have to be ready to face anything you see. When a man goes ahead to have many dependants, na him pocket and health go hear am. I told a chic I was only going to have one child. You needed to see her face. She thought I was crazy. She swore never to marry me if that was what I wanted. I asked her how many she wanted, she said 4 kids. I asked her who was going to take care of those kids, she said I was the man and it was my responsibility. It's my responsibility and you're making the decision of how many kids to have! That's where being a man comes into play. Stand your ground because na you go suffer am last last. Na you them go put under pressure. Your health will suffer the consequences. I will never in this life want to wake up and be burdened by the needs of my family. Mbanu. I will have the number of kids I know will not affect my lifestyle. Nwanne, as my wife and kid are flexing with my money, I'm flexing too. I won't pause my life. Carry what you can carry. If I believe my finances have really really stepped up, I may consider a second child. Google school fees at Harvard or Cambridge and see. Imagine paying up for multiple kids. Those are the type of schools I want my child to attend from primary to Uni. No woman will put me under pressure to have more kids than I can cater for. That's just one of the ways to remain financially fluid and not lose your power to your wife my brother. A man needs to be the man at all times.
DeleteSupernova, God bless your mum for that gesture but we both know most women in this our generation wouldn't do that.
Ceaser/dante, men like you are the ones who SECRETLY wash their wives' underpants and then come out here to form macho.
DeleteThe Lord is good all the time and all the time,the Lord is good.
ReplyDeletePlease I have been looking for schools in Canada or UK where I can apply for pgd but I have not been able to get anyone.
ReplyDeletePlease can someone assist me on how I can do the search or what I need to do.
Secondly, I also looked for pre master program but the requirement I don't have like bsc. I have HND but I want to apply for pgd, once I complete it I can apply for masters.
Please help a sister in need.
Hello, schools in UK accept HND for masters. Do your research well. UK no be Nigeria wey dem go wan stress your destiny.
DeleteGood morning y'all..
ReplyDeleteA bright and pleasant day it is..
Warm hugs to you Stella..
Match day today for super eagles. I wish them luck..
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HMMM THEM FIT NO WIN OH::MAKE I TAKE CHANCE TODAY I GO GIVE THE FIRST PERSON WEY GO PREDICT EXACT SCORES 10k WILL DO A POST ON IT LATER AND CROSS CHECK THE WINNER BEFORE ANNOUNCING WHATEVER MY PA TELLS ME.....I HOPE SAY I NO GO LOSE MY TEN KAY OOOOO.
DeletePLEASE IF YOU THROW INSULTS AROUND A LOT DONT GO INTO THE POST TO PREDICT COS I WONT GIVE YOU THE MONEY::
MY MONEY WILL NOT GET INTO THE HANDS OF ANYONE CAUSING DISCORD AND MAKING THINGS GO SOUTH ON THIS BLOG ANYMORE::... even a penny.
INSULT YOURSELF NOT ME OH
Stella no go change mouth later when we win oh π π π
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Nigeria will win.
π€π€π€ that 10k go make sense o. Let me go and charge my phone ππ
DeleteStella yaff vex
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DeleteThis one Stellz siddon inside comment section dey reply back to back so. Worris goinon?π€
DeleteYears back, I had some serious financial challenges that got me broke and suicidal. One day as I walked through the road, I stumbled on an old time friend we grew up together. He's now a pastor and doing very well. He owns houses and properties and frequently travels overseas.
ReplyDeleteSo I booked an appointment with him.
I went to his office and in our discussion, I narrated my ordeal to him. All I wanted was something little at the time to keep sustaining me in feeding and transportation in my hustle.
After my story to him, he requested I buy some oil and other religious stuff which he will use and conduct a prayer section for me. I told him I don't know where to get the kind of oil and items he mentioned as if I am capable of buying them. He told me to bring 25,000 and his secretary will get them for me. I told him the money is much on me to afford. He said okay, I should bring 15,000 as an old time friend and he will add up 10,000 for me. That the prayers he will conduct for me will be for open doors and favors breakthrough.
I said okay, let me go and come back. I left and didn't come back to him again. This is a man I told I can barely feed or even recharge my phone, not to talk of transportation. I remember trekking to his office.
Looking back today, all I can say is that, God isn't a man that He will fail. He restored my soul. He fought my battles when everyone gave up on me.
Today, I've chosen to forgive everyone who said and did what they did at the time.
One thing people fail to understand in life is that, there was humanity before religion.
Good morning ππππππ
People have turned Christianity to busines...
DeleteThat's the plain truth, humanity comes first
DeleteGod is forever faithful
That's plan truth. People no longer help when they can't benefit from you. Sincerely only God can help. Thank God for your growth teejay
DeleteGood morning beautiful people π
ReplyDeleteGood morning beautiful people π
ReplyDeleteGood morning everyone.
ReplyDeleteThank God for this beautiful day.
E go surely be ✌️.
Happy weekend darling π₯°ππ₯³
DeleteGood morning bvs.❤❤❤❤
ReplyDeleteYour boyfriend already knows who he wants to marry,if you like stay in the kitchen and be shouting
ReplyDelete"Baby semo or rice?"
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DeleteLol.
DeletePlease are there no ladies in Nigeria who are not interested in marriage? Ladies who are in relationships just for the fun of it?
Castle I dey here oπππ. Honestly, if you just marriage, I don face front. That institution is not for me biko.
DeleteEnter your reply...sis castle, we are here! marriage is not for everybody. see me cat walking away...
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DeleteGood morning Bvs...
ReplyDeleteGood morning π₯°π
DeleteMy mind is telling me to play baba ijebu & Bet9ja with my children's school feesπππππ
ReplyDeleteFather lord, are you the one speaking to me??
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DeletePls go ahead and play. Come and patronise me if you are in Ibadan π€£π€£π€£π€£π€£π€£π€£
DeletePlay it, my sister. Everything na risk, even the school fees you wan pay na risk.
DeleteDon't do it.
DeleteSchool fees can never be risk, please.
DeleteMy reply was a joke because I know the comment was one too. This one I'm already getting unnecessary reply, please take note of that before you send Stella a three page column on how school fees can never be a risk.
DeleteEverything na joke now, kontinu.
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DeleteGuys! It was a joke pls. Nothing will ever make me do such
Happy weekend blogfam,RIP to Aduke,mau God comfort her family.
ReplyDeleteLive your life,don't let them bring you down...
ReplyDeleteGood morning everyone
ReplyDeleteIt's a chores day for me and I have a lot to do. Let me go and start from somewhere.
Have a nice day y'all
Just finished mine not quite long. Better you start Early. More energy to you dear
DeleteHappy weekend family
ReplyDeleteGood morning all,have a blessed day
ReplyDelete_MEET SOMEONE'S NEEDS, IF YOU CAN, WITHOUT MUCH QUESTIONING_
ReplyDelete_Dont be surprised that someone greatest need at the moment is a pair of bathroom Slippers! Yes, you heard me right!_
_I was once stranded in Sabo Ondo State and all I needed was N100 to get to my destination. The man who eventually helped me out looked like an angel!_
_Some few years back a man in suit at Ikeja, along the bus π stop walked up to me and begged me for N100 π΅ to board bus back home. I gave him N200 instead. He almost ran mad. Next he prostrated in his suit with eyes laden with tears of joy π ... I was apparently shocked because I was wondering how on earth could N200 bring so much joy π to somebody..._
_Friends, when duty calls and its within your capacity to meet the needs of others, please do it... *IT IS A PRIVILEGE...* God can use any other person but he choose to use you. You don't need to ask too many questions..._
_I have heard someone say, "How could someone at this age and time not able to afford N500!" I can only smile ☺ ... If you have ever been through the valleys of life, you will understand that nothing in this world is too small to become a need. My prayer is that you will not be brought to shame in Life._
_If you have to meet a need, don't ask too many questions. Don't become the critics of the recipient (coming to ask for help in itself is a harrowing experience)._ _Don't become a counsellor suddenly except you are fully persuaded in your heart to do so. Don't get irritated doing it..._
_The blessed giver is he who gives cheerfully... not grudgingly._
_Don't say why would somebody be in need of such... Go ahead and do what you need to do if you can, and thank God for the privilege to be in position to help_
_Hear this..._
_Every need you are privileged to meet is a divine ransom for your own soul... You could have been made to trade places and you could have been the one needing the help... The more reason you need to thank God for every privilege to help... No matter how trivial._
_And don't ever trivialize someone's else's need. Every man's burden is peculiar to him. Your own waste might be another man's weight. Be wise to know that a burden is a burden however small._
_A friend once told me that he stopped meeting needs because most men are ingrates... That seems very logical, but you know what...?_
_You don't need men's Gratitude but God's Divine Return... Because he who gives to the poor lends to the Lord... And when God repays you, he pays you back unquantifiably, because He never ever owes any man_
_Keep meeting needs, it is your surest insurance against lack and insufficiency..._
_Reach out to someone in need today...and always!!!_
_Good Morning, Great Minds_
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ReplyDeleteStella, good to see you on our blog street this morning. You say make you join us fry akara plus pap?? Correct!!! Abi you go join me later for this my palm tree, today??? That's where we are watching the eagles today. *sips sweet palmwine on the Palm tree*
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DeleteSDK should join you on top palm tree to watch the Super Eagles play today? πππππ
Good Morning Everyone π
ReplyDeleteThis weekend is boring sha. No light here π₯Ί Thank God I charged all through the night, going back to watch my dramas.
For some reason, I miss my village these days. I don't even understand why sef.
You all have a wonderful weekend.
HHwaiting!!!πͺ
If you are you alive YOU must SMILE,
ReplyDeleteBecause this is the greatest thing HAPPENING TO YOU.
Not your MONEY,Not your profession.
You're alive right now...
So put on a smile and thank God you're alive.
Life is a gift....
Good morning everyone
Miss me π€ͺ
It is been a while on this street
Have a great weekend
Bonjour Blogfam! Happy weekend Beautiful People! Just finished doing chores! I feel like sleeping again lol it been a stressful week,iam glad things are gradually returning to normal
ReplyDeleteGreat morning everyone. Enjoy the rest of your day.
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone. Wishing you a successful weekend.
ReplyDeleteCeasar I have a question for you, how would you control child birth thru you or your wife?
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