According to him;
"Most singles believe that in this day and age is it possible to have a relationship were there is no s#x? the answer is capital Yes, don't let the devil deceive you. Don't go and build a relationship on a foundation that will never stand. There are many godly relationships.
I have wedded more virgins than non virgins in my life.
Some of them even weeks after we are still trying to instruct them on what to do it, sounds funny but they have more chances of the marriage lasting than all these experience you are gathering. You said " how can you marry somebody that you are not s#xually compatible with? Until you meet the person you want to marry, any experience you are gathering is a waste of time some of you have done over syllabus you have PhD in s#xology and the person you want to marry has OND, school cert WAEC there's no way both of you are going to be happy.
When people tell me "Pastor I'm not enjoying s#x in my marriage" I'll say compared to what? all the experiences you gathered.. you said he doesn't last, what is the recommended scriptural and constitutional time for a man to last? All these things is because you have gathered wrong experiences. If the person you are with is the only person however they can last is lasting enough for you."
When people tell me "Pastor I'm not enjoying s#x in my marriage" I'll say compared to what? all the experiences you gathered.. you said he doesn't last, what is the recommended scriptural and constitutional time for a man to last? All these things is because you have gathered wrong experiences. If the person you are with is the only person however they can last is lasting enough for you."
Funny but true
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Someone with phd will cheat when married to someone with waec
Las las, marry your type.
I don't agree with him. Even a virgin will feel it if she is not being sexually satisfied by her husband. She won't be fulfilled. Plus she may need lessons with her husband on how to engage in and enjoy sex. She needs a patient lover (and vice versa). However I agree that premarital sex is a no if you want to truly follow the Bible.
DeleteHe no lie
DeleteAnon 13:38, I have heard another pastor say this same thing Pst Kingsley is saying and it’s not true, the first guy I had was a 1 minute man. After all the discomfort was over, I knew the sex was wack.
Delete16.30 God is the One that defines what is true, He made sex, we did not.
DeleteI really wanted to remain a virgin till marriage but the vicissitudes of life did not allow it. Had to go into relationship just so I could have a financial helper. Got pregnant and aborted twice. Repented of my sins and I know God has firgiven me. But I feel I am still being punished for my past sin. I have been married now do for 5 years but no child yet. Will get pregnant and lose the pregnancy. I have prayed for mercy but it seems like God doesn't hear me anymore.
Delete16:01 God hasn't forgotten you. Even people without a past go through similar experiences, it's all part of the journey. Hold on to Him, He never fails and He is rich in mercy.
DeleteI thought he is a pastor
ReplyDeleteSo? what has he said that makes it look like he's not a pastor
DeleteWhether sex before or after marriage, it doesn't defined a lasting together in matrimony. I've seen people who indulged in premarital sex and later got married and still waxing strong after many years. It's all about individual and their choice of life. Whatever works for anyone.
ReplyDeleteIn all, just like I've always said, when you find the right person, please settle down. There's nothing left in the streets.
Don't encourage people to indulge in pre marital sex! It's wrong. To think you call yourself a Christian. I'm not a virgin but I won't encourage people to tow my path.
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DeleteGod bless u, anon@11:11.
DeleteI tried to abstain but my partner said if I don't give in how do we know if we are sexually compatible?so we did it severally but thank God we are married today.
ReplyDeleteWow.God bless your home.
DeleteThat you are both married today does not make it any less of a sin.
DeleteYou are lucky but some are not.
DeleteSo, if he had tasted and it didn't work, you move on and keep tasting?
DeleteThank GOD we are married today. Same God who said he does not want sex before marriage. Of course you will get married but know that you displeased God in that aspect. @Hermajesty, Same God they disobeyed should bless their home? of course he will bless their home but that's after they have hurt him by doing what he said they shouldn't do. Sometimes we don't realize we break God's heart by disobeying him. He overlooks and still blesses us but lets remember that a time of giving account will come
DeleteAnon please what kind of preaching are you preaching here.
DeleteGod Himself says that if we confess and forsake our sins,He will definitely forgive us. Another passage says....our sins He will remember no more
Premarital sex is bad but one should not continue to stay far from God because of guilt. If they have both asked for forgiveness,God has forgiven them. Na you dey remember.
Darajah, well, nowhere in her comment did she mention confession or repentance, so the anon is right.
DeleteYou can't abstain by power, you need grace to overcome sin and take steps to avoid temptation. God ultimately rewards those who obey Him.
ReplyDeleteIn addition, it is to our advantage to abstain.
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DeleteTotal abstinence is still the godly standard.No compromise whatsoever.Till the end of the world,fornication is a sin.GOD ABHORS IT.
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DeleteYou can say that again
DeleteSound somehow but true
ReplyDeleteSins of the flesh. Sins of the flesh causes the greatest wounds on the soul. Have mercy on the world oh holy God. Have mercy on the world oh mighty one. Do not look on our sins. This hurts the Lord deeply. He does not want to lose any of us. Not one soul lost. Not one soul lost. Repent. Repent. People need to repent and return to God.
ReplyDeleteAmen nice one .
DeleteWell i didn't marry as a virgin, infact i was pregnant before my wedding and my marriage has been good. But if i am given the opportunity to do it over again i would maarry as a VIRGIN and marry my husband over again.
ReplyDeleteI will definitely advice my son and daughter to keep themselves before marriage, i know God will give me the wisdom and knowledge to guide my kids.
If I had abstained from sex and knew what I now know earlier, I would not be weighed down by the guilt of past abortions and the few relationships I had in the past. Don't let anyone deceive you. It pays to abstain. Thank God for the gift of his salvation but I am still scared of the past blowing up in my face when it's time to marry.
ReplyDeleteFornication leads to Abortion, which is is a type of murder.
ReplyDeleteNot always the case.
DeleteObeying God should be our foremost priority than anything,how do we call ourselves children of God and still do those things He detest.
ReplyDeleteDear young girl. Abstinence is best.
ReplyDelete95% of the time,the outcome of not abstaining always weighs more of the girl.
Abstinence is still the best policy. No fear of STDs, no guilt from abortions, no feeling of being used by previous partners.
ReplyDeleteSo grateful to my parents for instructing me in the right way and so grateful to God for not allowing me find myself in a compromising situation. May He give me the strength to continue to flee from fornication whether I eventually get married or not.
Please, don't listen to people telling you premarital sex is not a big deal. IT IS. Many people have lost their reputation, families and even their lives because of sexual immorality.
Well said Pastor.
ReplyDeleteMay God give us the grace to keep His word, amen
Beautiful comments.
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