Hailings
Advice
I got this from my friends wall on Facebook, she was given these words by a friend and I decided to share with you...
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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD
It’s been a year plus since I had my last C section. When I am exhausted there is this tingling and slight pain that I feel around my scar. I have been giving it time to go away since I was told that it can take up to a year for complete healing from C section in and out.
Yet I still feel the tingling sensation so I decided to Google about it as much as I could. I read a lot from mild to scary complications that can happen to a C section scar years later. I had to stop at some point for my own sanity sake, so I decided to ask other mothers on different online forum and it turns out that a lot of women are living with the after effects of child birth that doesn’t seem to go away even years later.
Some women complained about back pain that keeps recurring, some joint pains and migraine and a lot of women complained about pain and numbness in their Cs scar years later. One woman said twenty years after her C section she still feels pain when she does things that are strenuous. This complains were not just from C-section birth but vaginal birth too.
This is not to frighten anyone, its actually to encourage we mothers to take care of ourselves more. There is just so much going on with us, mentally, physically, emotionally, spiritually etc. Please let’s take care of ourselves more.
From my findings nothing can really be done about the pain I feel, apart from pain killers I am just supposed to try and rest more, I hope it stops.
Years on, i also still feel some kinda discomfort at the C section.... Even the point where that injection is given hurts sometimes and i have to use all sorts to take care of myself. I have a hot water bottle that works sometimes in place of pain killers... I have friends whose kids are already married who still have pains from C section and after effects of natural birth..... Women are awesome!
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NAZIRITES INK
There was a time my family kept moving from one place to another in search of greener pastures, it was so bad we barely used a year in a particular location and whenever we are moving, we leave behind the little acquired resources we have managed to gather to start over elsewhere .
And because its usually expensive and difficult to move properties around, we always ended up empty, broke and broken in the new location. By the time we move to another place again, we start all over from scratch and if things are not going the way we expected it, we move again and on and on like that.
Like, three years, six relocation. It was so tiring, frustrating and draining.
How can a human being suddenly become a vagabond like this? Totally depressing.
One fateful day, I told my husband point blank we are not moving again because i am tired. We agreed to stay put and put patience to action. This decision was further solidified when I was reading the Bible one day and came across two striking scriptures, Psalm 37:3, "...dwell in the land and verily thou shall be fed" and also Psalm 24:1, " The earth is the Lord and the fullness thereof..."
I came to the realization that it doesn't matter where I may be or find myself, I command prosperity because God my Father who owns everything has my interest at heart.
Stay where you are this year! Its time you stop running around, do good there and thou shall be blessed, the land will yield, you will eat the milk and honey thereof when you exercise faith, praises and Thanksgiving.
I wish you a fulfilling 2022.
Hmmm this does not apply to everyone... Some people need to change location this year...
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IS THIS A JOKE OR WHAT?
IJEOMAS GIST CORNER
Back then in the villa, we were in the village choir. Na so we go choir practice one evening, one of the women in the church came for evening prayers. She was the only one there in the church with us.
We were having choir practice and having fun, laughing and playing with the brothers in the Lord, lol. Mama was at the alter praying seriously oh, we didn't know that she was just moving her mouth to make us believe she was praying. Na so we do choir practice finish and said goodbye.
Next day being Sunday, we wore our choir robe and sat magnificently in the choir roll waiting to sing the song we rehearsed the previous day; oooooooooh hallelujah
Time reach for special number, na him mama raise her hand, sey she get special number. Pastor called her to the alter amidst clappings and cheers to encourage her.
Mama collect micro phone, ladies and gentlemen, na the song wey we rehearse, wey we don wear robe to present, na him mama come dey sing so, hahahahahaha. Chai we die wake up. It's not as if she sang it well oh, she use knife butcher the song.
Naso choristers vez eehh. Time reach for choir ministration, we no gree stand go minister for alter. Pastor was confused, he walked up to the angry faces and asked what the problem is. We tell am sey mama don already sing choir song give church.
Una for sing better version of wetin she sing nah, no need to vexs....lol
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DeleteRest in the name of Jesus Christ. REST!!!
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DeletePoorly raised kids!
Search for her on social media na.
DeleteIf this does not disgust you, then you deserve someone like this Naughty neighbor.
DeleteMay God have mercy on you Naughty.
DeleteYours is an attention seeking comments that are second to none..ππ
DeleteChisom with bad Mouth.
DeleteApologize as soon as possible.
This is so wrong of you.
I think it's time your comments are permanently banned here cos you are really sick upstairs.
DeleteJesus! what kind of ID pic is this?
DeleteNaughty person, tueh tueh to you
Hmmmmm
DeleteSome people are really suffering from quinometerophobia. Sick people in human cloths
wow! Chisom,why go this extreme? that's not a nice thing to call someone.please apologize and do better.
DeleteI hope Chisom's ID wasn't cloned.
DeleteI remb saying she is very very very pretentious, licking pples ass up and down, then d kind of utterances she makes na helele.
Chisom you r DEPRESSED and this blog is a getaway for u.
Better apologize.
Divine Health Confessions!!
ReplyDeleteMy words are loaded with power because I’m filled with the Holy Spirit! The rhema of God that changes things is in my mouth today. In the Name of Jesus, I pronounce health, increase, progress, and prosperity in my life. My organs are invigorated with the life-giving Word of God, and I am alive!
Yes oooo
DeleteI am alive by grace π
Amen,I claim it.
DeleteAmen
DeleteYippy, I'm alive.. Thank you Jesus.ππ
DeleteStella thanks for the advise.. Still evolving,though life is transient.. One has to try improving till the end.
Lovelace
Amen ππ
DeleteMaybe God has you reading this to remind you that when you face these times where you feel fatigued, overwhelmed, like you don’t have the strength to go on, that’s okay, Jesus felt overwhelmed. Moses and Elijah didn’t think they could go on. God is going to send angels to strengthen you; the right people are going to show up. God is not going to let you miss your destiny. He gives strength to the weary. -Joel Osteen
ReplyDeleteREMEMBER SAY: NA PERSON WEY GIVE UP,FUCK UP.
AIDS IS REAL,USE CONDOM.
SUICIDE IS NEVER AN OPTION.
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DeleteSomeone has pointed this out to you before, you can't be preaching Jesus and advocating for condom (premarital sex) at the same time.
DeleteThank you for this
DeleteI greet us all this sunny afternoon
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon Miss Ess π»ππ₯°π₯³
DeleteGood pm to y'all and how has been your Monday sfsg??
ReplyDeleteWhich would you rather for you and yours??
1.Pap(Akamu in my ebira parlance)
2.Custard(It comes in different flavours and it's dependent on you)..
#ManCrushMonday
Dear Martins please how do I upgrade to new iOS 15 π I can’t even use my blog id after my puffin browser stopped working
DeletePap oooo,well garnished with ginger and clove.
DeleteIf your friends won't tell you when you go wrong.
ReplyDeleteYou don't have friends.
You have sycophants, ready to place daggers on your back at first occasion.
Off to contact Paπ
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DeleteStella Maris that middle finger you posted means "eff u".
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DeleteGood afternoon all
ReplyDelete*This week , your visions and aspirations will not be wasted. Your destiny helpers will not be wasted. You will not be disconnected from God's grace, mercy and favour* .
Delete_There will be destiny helpers at every junction of your life to give you a push to your next level in Jesus name.._
Until You Start Paying House Rent And Feeding Yourself,You Will Never Understand Why The Prodigal Son Came Back Homeπ
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Good afternoon blogfams may God bless our hustleππππππππ
May the Lord Who commands the rising of the sun give command to all creation to conspire in support of your visions and dreams this year...
ReplyDeleteMay your progress be great and your prosperity be undeniable in every area of life...
In Jesus Christ Mighty Name. Amen.
Amen
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DeleteAmen.
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Amen.
DeleteOh no chisom I didn't expect this from you na, please apologise to stella
ReplyDeleteThis is not the real chisom na.
DeleteIt's the handwork of a jobless troll
Same here o.
DeleteChisom my dear sister biko apologize, I so love your comments and boldness; I never xperet this from you mama.
Biko apologize o.
I don't want to believe it's Chisom too..but if so better come out and apologize to Stella,what's the insults and disrespect for? We should all do better biko
DeleteI don't think Chisom did that. Maybe someone created a moniker with her name and posted that. I refuse to believe that.
DeleteI dont think its the real chisom, probably a troll
DeleteI don't think that's the real chisom, that ID is plastic
DeleteIt's a beautiful sunny π day πππππ
ReplyDeleteEnjoy the rest of your day peeps ❣️π❣️
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DeleteChisom,why am I not surprised?!smh
ReplyDeletePlease before you embark on weight loss,check the size of your head,to avoid looking like car keysπ
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon my people.
Because of ulcer am scared to take anything.
DeleteNeed to shed some weight
If you are interested in data giveaway kindly send mail to sdkofficialpa@gmail.com
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Holla IHN π
I am interested. I have sent a mail already.
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Thanks Stella.
Okay
DeleteWith comment screenshot?
DeleteIt’s not easy to be a working mother sha. It’s not easy at all. So since 24th of December, Alex’ school closed for the holidays and govt refused for schools to open until 10th of January because of projections of the effect of covid on the holidays. So my baby has been at home with me throughout. I was also working all through.
ReplyDeleteI could have gotten an exemption to stay home for those two weeks and have govt pay me but because I’m hoping to apply for a promotion in the nearest future, didn’t want anything to make them consider others before me.
Geez! It wasn’t easy. I will feed, bathe, play, cuddle her to sleep all while working.
Today came and I was so happy to see her go. Told her not to expect me to come pick her early, Infact I will pick her up quarter to closing time. It’s payback time π. Yes, I miss her already but I’m happy to miss her abeg
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DeleteSo sorry . Please try to pick her at the right timeπ€ͺ
ππ€£π kudos to you, it's not easy at all!πππ
DeleteI'm sure baby Alex will understand her mama need to hustle.
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DeleteAhn ahn that's another Chisom right? Can't be the Genny Chisom. Nah
ReplyDeleteNa the same bad mouthed staunch Genevieve worshipper o. The way she goes off on ppl,this doesn't come as a surprise.
DeleteIt's obviously not her. She doesn't use plastic ID.
Deleteππ€£π Are you startled? Even the popular pretenders some of you stan and restan so very much do go Anonymous to cuss one out...
DeleteI know it's frustrating to put stuff together and post for it not to be approved but i don't give a hoot again o trust me plus i am never going this route again..
Good afternoon y'all...
ReplyDeletetwas a stress free day for me though. Omo @ijeoma I know how that feels but the woman no try at all ππππ
Good afternoon everyone
ReplyDeleteThe advise from this piece might be helpful this year.
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*HEADACHE & TESTICLES:*
Joe had suffered from really bad headaches for the last 20 years.
He eventually decides to go and see a Doctor.
The Doctor says, 'Joe, the good news is I can cure your headaches.
The bad news is that it will require removing your testicles.
You have a very rare condition, which causes your testicles to press on your spine and the pressure creates one hell of a headache.
The only way to relieve the pressure is to remove the testicles.'
Joe is shocked and depressed. He wondered if he had anything to live for.
He had no choice but to go under the knife. The surgery cost him £15,000.
When he left the hospital, he was without a headache for the first time in 20 years, but he felt like he was missing an important part of himself.
As he walked down the street, he realized that he felt like a different person. He could make a new beginning and live a new life.
He saw a Men's clothing store and thought, 'That's what I need... A new Suit.'
He entered the shop and told the salesman, 'I'd like a new Suit.'
The elderly Tailor eyed him briefly and said, 'Let's see... size 44 would fit fine.
Joe laughed, 'That's right, how did you know?'
'Been in the business 60 years sir!' the tailor said.
Joe tried on the suit it fitted perfectly.
As Joe admired himself in the mirror, the salesman asked, 'How about a new shirt?'
Joe thought for a moment and then said, 'Sure.'
The salesman eyed Joe and said, 'Let's see, 34 sleeves and 16-1/2 neck.'
Joe was surprised, 'That's right, how did you know?'
'Been in the business 60 years sir.'
Joe tried the shirt and it fitted perfectly.
Joe walked comfortably around the shop and the salesman asked, 'How about some new Underwear?'
Joe thought for a moment and said, 'Sure..'
The salesman said, 'Let's see..... size 36.
Joe laughed, 'Ah ha! You got it wrong this time! I've worn size 34 since I was 18 years old..'
The salesman shook his head, 'You can't wear a size 34 sir. A size 34 would press your Testicles up against the base of your spine and give you hell of a Headache.'
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Surgery - £15000 π
New underwear - £6 π
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PRICELESSπ
Always take second opinion before accepting or taking any decisions. Your decision might never be reversible.
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DeleteOMG π€―π€― But the doctor for know say na tight pant and tell him to wear the right size...Great lesson
DeleteThat seem like a plastic ID because I would never believe or understand how someone would insult you. It is a thick black colour rather than a faint one. You don't deserve any insult. But if it is a real ID please stella do away with all of them rude Bvs. If they can not others then you are not an exception. It is just a matter of time till they bring the insult to your side. Declutter your blog space.
ReplyDeleteThe bvs that rain curses
The ones that wish others death and sicknesses
The one the insult you and your blog and add nothing but fight and insults please get rid to all of them.
Chsiom, if that is really you then you are extremely mannerless.
Hope you don't go about insulting other people under Anonymous too?? A lot of the Anonymouses always hurl insults and try to jam heads together..
DeleteUnfortunately, when people are rude / mannerless, they often don't even realise it or they see it as being bold. It's all about the environment a person grew up in, coupled with home training.
Delete@GeniusVincent you are right, alot of bvs go under anon to hurl insults and jam heads, I saw one on that Davido's house opening post.She went under anon to refer to someone as "oshino gibberish" or something and now used her id to drop another comment using the same "oshino" but not in a disparaging manner this time around.
DeleteNobody is perfect, but I don't believe Chisom would do such thing as to insult Sisi Stella, Sisi Stella is senior to many of us here nah, only a disrespectful child that insults his/her parents at home go fit insult her.
I don't even feel comfortable calling her Stella, but she doesn't like being called Sister or aunty.
Lovely day BVs. NI sometimes we need that relocation and start seeing life from other perspectives. Kudos to all the women out there.
ReplyDeleteAfter my wedding, I got my period and then didn't notice if I was ovulated that month. I've always seen that stretchy egg white lookalike discharge ant time I ovulate. November was the first time I didn't.
ReplyDeleteIn fact, I had no discharge at all. No signs at all. This got me worried. December, same thing. It's been two months of unprotected sex and nothing. I don't know if I should be worried or not.
Baby girl please do not put pressure on yourself..Conception or pregnancy starts from the mind...Enjoy the sex, have it frequently without worrying..If you need to clear any doubt, ask your physician, also do you understand your ovulation cycle, if not download the Flo app to help track...You are fine and continue legitimate knacking gbadunlly...
DeleteRelax, it's too early to start fretting.
DeleteDon't get worked up
DeleteOvulating without seeing the whitish discharge happens sometimes.
There's nothing wrong with you.
Trying to conceive whilst anxious isn't the best.
Just start telling yourself this
I am fertile, I am healthy, and I'll conceive at the right time.
Don't be
DeleteIt's still early
Download period calculator and use it to chart your period monthly to know your fertile period.
All the best.
Calm down. It will come.
DeleteI feel like a hypocrite saying this calm down because this was me 2mths after I got married. I took in the 3rd monthπ€¦
It'll happen.
o my God!! It's too early for this unnecessary pressure pls. Relax ooooooo!!!!! RELAX!
DeletePut urself under no pressure,u will be fine just be positive,be happy,have sex with ur husband anytime u please not with the aim of making babies but just to enjoy urselves.U will be suprised when U start feeling funny and later discover u are pregnant.Ur beautiful babies are on the way.π₯°π₯°
DeleteThanks Lovelies. I feel better from your words. ππ
DeleteWhat a sunny afternoon!
ReplyDeleteHello everyone.
My choice is to evolve
ReplyDeleteAlready made a screenshot of your advice. Thanks ma'am
ReplyDeleteIJ gist corner, you guys should have laughed it off and sang the correct version and probably much later relaid what happened to the pastor. It is well
Ihn post π
Hello Bv's π€π
Hollaππ₯°❤️
DeleteAbeg I don't understand today's weather oo,I don't know if it's the hot sun that's disturbing someone or is the new harmattan in town
ReplyDelete#letlovelead
I will share my story someday.. Step by step God is fighting my battles for me! I'm still fighting but I will conquer! Thank you @Mrs Akin gbola for standing with this stranger, it won't be in vain and thank you Mrs Korkus for this platform.. Thank you all for your prayers, please keep praying for me!
ReplyDeleteGood Afternoon and Happy new year guysssssss.
Thank God for your recovery, may it be full and permanent bv Tade Adeola. Afflictions shall not rise again in your life. Thank you Mrs Korkus, Mrs Akingbola and other bvs who reached out to her, God will remember you all too.
DeleteYou're more than a conqueror. God will surely see you through. Good to have you back, babes. ππππ
DeleteHappy New Year!! How are you doing dear
DeleteYou will surely testify,cos God will perfect all that concerns you. Stay strongπ€π€π€
DeleteMay God perfect all that concerns you.
DeleteThank God for you Tadeππmay your healing be permanent ππ remain strengthened π€π€
DeleteI pray that God be kind to you
DeleteMy darling ♥ π ❤
DeleteAwww good to have you back. You are a conqueror ❤️
DeleteSo good to see ur comment bv Rajab. Your healing is permanent and we await your testimony π€π€
DeleteMay God give u perfect healing,and take ur pains away.Trust God.
DeleteYou are more than conqueror and your healing is permanent in Jesus mighty name.
DeleteYou are a warrior
DeleteMay God perfect your healing.
DeleteHappy new year Tade.
DeleteI'm so happy to see your comment Tade, wow, God is good, I pray your healing is complete and permanent. Stay strongπππ
DeleteIt's so good to see your comment here, Tade. May God perfect your healing. it's well with you. Amen.
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DeleteGood Afternoon Neighbour's π
ReplyDeleteIjeoma I cannot imagine your faces ππππππ
ReplyDeleteNawa for that comment oooo ha, poeple dey sha
Nazarite una try oooo ehn, moving with or without load is strenuous, I hate packing with passion, is it the dismantling and reassembling...I am tired already sefπ
Enjoy the rest of your day my people
Lord have Mercy this is all I can say !!!
ReplyDeleteNa wa
Holla Choc π«❤️π₯° howdy?
DeleteHello sweet Jewelu choc Noir ❤️
DeleteMay God have mercy on us.
DeleteHope all is is well choc Noir?
Hi darling namesake. ππ
DeleteHi guys I'm alright ❤❤❤ I just had an experience that made me post this comment .
DeleteThanks yall lots of love
Stella I don't like Chisom but I don't think that is her real Id, it looks like a URL (plastic Id) to me, it's black. Like someone is up to some mischievous moves using her name. I may be wrong though.
ReplyDeleteOr maybe Stella clicked on the ID before screnshotting π€·♀️
DeleteCHISOM IS THE ONE PLEASE...... there was a comment she cursed someone that i held and that was the comment she wanted and cursed me for...
DeleteThen she's an angry and mannerless person..she needs to control her tongue before it's destroy her
DeleteI go like to try something new this year, like taking my bath in a washing machine and see what it feels like..π
ReplyDeleteWhat do you think bvs? Make I try am?
Run am jare,bvs dey your back π€£π€£π€£π€£π€£π€£π€£
DeleteIt is the best thought of idea. Don't waste time on second thought. Just run am, I dey wait to hear the result.
Deleteππππ and your name go enter Guinness book of records.
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Deletetry am, e go be like say you dey jacuzzi.πππ
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DeleteMy dear go on and do it.
DeleteIt would be a wonderful adventure and don't bother to come and update us. You'd be in the euphoria for so long to have our time.
Kisses to you as you wash away.
Don't use the front loader please, use the up loader, you will enjoy your bathing,and your skin will be shinning and can even wash away your sins sef, happy washing machine sauna bathing in advance
DeleteGood afternoon everyone...This is a brand new week with so much potentials...Haaa! Village sweet oh, I didn't want to come back to Lagos honestly..Is it the filtered air from the palm trees or the daily kiss with beautiful raw nature or the cool breeze both day and night and sight-seeing different animals from Osa (squirrel), bush meat and turtle dove...I almost cried leaving my village...
ReplyDeleteAfter New Year Day church service, my mom and 1 exchanged pleasantries with relatives and there was one particular elderly lady that greeted us fondly so when she left. My mom told me an intriguing story...This elderly lady had a bent back which she made her use a stick to support and enable her move..This lady really really suffered...Unfortunately, her husband died and this lady said she dreamt that her husband appeared to her and collected the stick from her; when she woke up - she threw the stick away, her back became straight like a ruler and she walked with so much gait and agility - You will never know she had a bent back unless someone tells you her story....
Wow! Strange things happening
DeleteWow!!!π²π³ What a wonderful testimony.
DeleteGlad to have you back π«π₯°π₯³
Happy new year Phoenix.
Welcome back to gidi bae π
DeleteHappy new year phoenix!
DeleteStrange happenings
DeleteWow
DeleteWelcome back to lasgidi
Welcome back Phoenix,seems like u had so much fun in the villageπ
DeleteWow!
DeleteHappy New year my dear Phoenix.
Thank you @Paris @Ekele @Twins Squared @Jeweluchi Choco @Ms Tee @Black Slimzy @Vahleree My dear I did oh and Mimi Love ❤❤❤
DeleteGood afternoon everyone.
ReplyDeleteSignout post, I choose to evolve.
Wait Stella, is that our beloved Chisom?π³π³
Wow! That’s the real BV CHISOM or an plastic ID impersonating her?
ReplyDeleteWait, why am I even asking?
At a certain age, being rude unprovoked just symbolises that you are a miserable piece of shit.
Stella, they are trying you but you are bigger than them. π
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DeleteBabes where have you been and how have you been !!!
DeleteGood to see your comment .
Chisom posted that comment abeg. This is not her first time insulting Stella. She did it on save a blog visitor sometime in 2019 when she was insulting shooter and Stella didn't post her comments.
DeleteIf she wasn't the one, she would have come out to clear her name. Na her way.
Chocolat Billionaire, Happy New year baby girl!
DeleteBeen back a minute now, good to see you too. π
...So then it is not of him that willeth, nor of him that runneth, but of God that sheweth mercy.
ReplyDeleteRomans 9:16
Lord, we ask that your mercy will locate all the families in the waiting room, Give them their own heritage and gift.... In Jesus name, Amen.
Reading that post yesterday was really painful, made me remember my 2years waiting experience and the cries. Now I had to run to do Family planning, This too shall pass.
Amen to your prayers ππ
DeleteHolla Sweetheart ❤️π
Amen
DeleteLooking at the Chisomπππ with side eyes π..
ReplyDeleteCan't be Chisom nwa Anambra..
Stella, that advice up there is πππ. The people in your life matter a whole lot. This year, I'm just gonna focus on drawing closer to God, and making my life better. Loving me more, my family and friends that matter to me. Hmm, Chisom, pls if you wrote that, apologise to Stella. Stay safe y'all. ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
ReplyDeleteGod help you Boo ππ
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DeleteAll chisom knows how to do is curse,curse,curse I wonder who hurt her,who raised her or the kind of environment she grew up in.the other day someone corrected her grammatical errors and she went off insulting and cursing the persons life out.this is 2022 u better change miss goody two shoes.stop bin toxic and re evaluate urself.u use swear and curse words a lot.u act as if u live a perfect life meanwhile no one is perfect,so very quick to call people names and curse them out with English wey she no sabi.As usual I know when u see this u will do what u know how to do best.curse!
ReplyDeleteπ€£π€£π€£ @ your last line.
DeleteThe person wasn't correcting Chisom with love. Let's learn to say the truth. Can you see the way someone brought perxian's attention to a comment she made this morning? That is the right way to correct. The correction given to chisom that day was subtly laced with mockery and leering. Correcting someone is embarrassing enough on its own on a public space but to move a step further by adding jesting to it, is an overkill. There is a way you go about correcting others which makes them feel at ease because they can tell you meant no harm. Correct if you will but always do it with tact.
DeleteAnyways that singular act I just spoke about does not in any exonerate Chisom's mannerism. She could have ignored or subtly threw her own jab without going overboard. One thing I noticed about the badly behaved ones on this blog is that they are extremely childish. When you act the way you you like a little child throwing tantrums all over the blog and behaving aggresively, it just screams, CHILDISH!
It does not make you look bold in BVs eyes like you wrongly believe. You end up looking like a badly raised Child.
Chisom is very vitriolic and excessively rude. We have a few of them like her on here and what I noticed is that they last the emotional intelligence to handle a heated situation.
I think it is time for Stella to start calling out her likes. Whatever you tolerate persists and Stella has been complacent about it for so long to the point they now bring their mannerlessness to her doorstep. No respect whatsoever for elders old enough to be your parents' mates or uncles and aunties simply because it's an internet space you feel acting like an uncultured being is justified.
I read the comment section and I see Stella say it was really Chisom and I am shocked to think I thought it was a plastic ID at first just giving her a benefit of a doubt, though. The nerve of her to insult Stella and still come back to comment today on other posts like nothing happened.
Good afternoon to you allπ€
ReplyDeleteHow's the hustle going?
Good afternoon to you allπ€
ReplyDeleteHow's the hustle going?
Chisom why nah. Oya apologies to Stella.
ReplyDeleteStella abeg no vex, pls forgive her.
Would u term a man who buys you stuff and does little things like subscribing or dstv, light bills, cooking etc..caring to a fault but doesn't give u cash as stingy? Me no understand dis man o.
ReplyDeleteDid you put money in his pocket? Smh
DeleteHe is not stingy since he does all those things. Have you ever needed money for something and asked him? Did he give you? If you have not done so, ask him for money and see his reaction.
DeleteSome people are like that but the cash still does the magic somehow..ππ
DeleteShame no catch you for this your comment.. you, what have you ever given him..
DeleteNa the guy I pity las las
Just imagine!!
DeleteGood afternoon Stella mama and Blog BVs.
ReplyDeleteIs that the real Chisom or another bv playing pranks with her ID? Anyway, my prayer is that those that like to hide under anonymous to drop nasty comments should use their own hands to expose themselves this year in Jesus Name. Amen.
ReplyDeleteIjeoma, that grandma was being childishly mischievous. Sometimes, I wonder if I'll become more childish and throw tantrums in old age.
Work resumed fully in earnest and pheww !!!!. Na second food i dey chop today π€£, Jewelu those words up there are Epic! That idiotic human being with that toxic comment, na wa to you ooo. Jewelu pls continue to ignore thats the best response to some toxic abd bitter mofos. IHN ..... Welcome
ReplyDeleteHello ihn π.
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon my lovely blogfam.
That advise up there is the koko.. whosoever treats u as an option doesn't deserve to be a priority in ur life..words on marble.
Motherhood poster..chai women are trying o.God please bless every woman.
Nazirate's ink,God bless you and more ink to ur pen. I'll eat the milk and honey of this land in Jesus name..amen.
Chai Chisom b'anyi,this isn't cool.That looks like a plastic ID o. Chisom pls apologize to Stella if you actually typed that comment,she doesn't deserve that.
Bvs enjoy the rest of your day.
E go surely be ✌️.
I'm currently doing portion control and OMAD diet. Choi, this meat pie is staring at me and I'm so tempted. This diet thing is not easy but I know its for the best
ReplyDeleteThe Lord is your muscles πͺ
DeleteWhen a girl introduces her boyfriend to her friends;
ReplyDeleteWHITE GIRLS: Wow! He's so cute!
NIGERIAN GIRLS: Tell him we are hungry!
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Goodafternoon BVs
ReplyDeleteWe just need to keep on taking care of ourselves
Its not easy moving from one place to another but there is always a time to move on/change location for some people.
You should always know the place of people in your life but in everything take charge of your life.
Childbirth is no joke
ReplyDeleteI laugh when I hear some women say they want to birth via CS because it's easier.
It's been 6years since my CS, but that place is still very sensitive. I can't sponge it, except I'm planning on running mad. On several occasions, my kids trying getting up and put their hand on me for support, the hand landed on the CS spot and I felt I was dying. The pain that shot through my body from that encounter can never be explained.
I now know why I have excruciating back pain at times.
DeleteEeya,so sorry dear π€π€π€
Deletechimoooππππ what do I do nah, I'm scared of vaginal birthing and was thinking of Cs
DeleteKai this is scary.
Deletehahahahahahaa... mama say una don too do jooor, she vex do her own.
ReplyDeleteIHN 2022... we meeeuuuvvvveeeee!!!!!
Welcome in house news.
ReplyDeleteI am fruitful
I am fertile
I will conceive
And give birth to healthy babies. Amen
Could it be a mischievous person using Chisom's name cause I don't want to believe it is Chisom...Stella apologies for the insults and I am happy that you have resolved to declutter the blog..This negative energy aint needed...
ReplyDeleteBV Womanhood I agree with you Women need to take care of themselves
Nazarite Ink Nice Write-up, some people need to relocate however the question is HAS GOD TOLD YOU TO RELOCATE....From the bible, see how Abraham was called by God and other faithfuls...You need to ask ''Lord do I proceed and move''? It is very profound
IJ Nwanne with the Sauce Una for still sing the song oh and add some Ogene and Udu vibes to it or invite Mama to join your guys to sing the song..Eyah maybe the song resonated something that happened to her or it summarized her gratitude to all what God has done from her
Welcome back Phoenix baby ❤️
DeleteThank you BV Osundi how are you doing
DeleteGood afternoon everyone.
ReplyDeleteStella you dey see/read things ooo, can you imagine what Chisom wrote, more strength to Stellicoco. Good day people
ReplyDeleteStella & d criminals working for her did that not Chisom. Next time enable the comment let's click on it by our very selves, we know how you & your staff roll. Fuck you dumbass blogger, fuck the URL black ink troll.
ReplyDeleteThis pain is deep. Taking you to a psychiatric home will be useless.. No help on earth for you except you genuinely renounce the demon inhabiting you.. Gosh such petrified hate.
DeleteLovelace
Did you take sapele water?
DeleteHow can you say that as a matter of fact! Please be careful oh no think say na blog only...No go chop better court case cause you can be identified....This is not necessary at all...
DeleteI am sad that Chisom actually said that, please apologize to Stella and learn to accommodate our differences..
Anon 15:36, you need help sha. Serious help.
DeleteIjeoma, that mama is lucky say I nor dey una choir, I for go wait for her for corner after church to ask her the meaning of wetin she do, cause I go wan know wetin push mama take do such. ππππ
ReplyDeleteSisi Stella, nor vex but I don't think that's the real Chisom, a mischievous person must ve used her name to do such. if you check, it's a plastic blog id(darker than the normal colour of blog id) a normal blog id is not as dark as the one up there. so many people head nor correct here due to frustration, but I go continue to dey pray for them as assistant mummy G.O wey I be. t
it was chisom that dropped that comment please...
Deleteits fine....no be today i don de chop insult but please stop the anonymous stuff u are doing right now......i can see it
Please Jewelu star woman no vex. I apologise on behalf of Chisom plsππ
DeleteAh ahn.. even this one too?? Na wa o. What do y’all gain???
DeleteChai.... Kidjo sef chop breakfast abi na lunchπ€£π€£π€£. SDK mama
DeleteI can't believe it's the real chisom insulting stella,.
ReplyDeleteSomeone impersonated her Monika