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UNCOMFORTABLE REQUEST
A husband that wants s#x when the wife is on her period; Is it normal?. its causing issues as the wife insist she isn't comfortable with it.
The husband says he also won't eat In the house when she is on her period since he cant have s#x. what's your advice on this?
*WHAT!!!!...... Please if he does not want to eat, leave him to stay hungry. Why the pressure? Does he wanna use you for rituals or what? Madam please DO NOT agree to his demands..... I know some people like it like this but it has to be mutual, if one person is trying to wrestle the other into doing it then all is not well....
*WHAT!!!!...... Please if he does not want to eat, leave him to stay hungry. Why the pressure? Does he wanna use you for rituals or what? Madam please DO NOT agree to his demands..... I know some people like it like this but it has to be mutual, if one person is trying to wrestle the other into doing it then all is not well....
Which kind man be that one? Hmmm
ReplyDeleteVery disgusting act..
DeletePlease ignore him. He should stay hungry
If a man really cares about his wife, he will put her comfort and happiness first
DeleteEspecially for things as simple as sex.
There are other ways she can help him relief himself for those days.
Please are y'all just outcha marrying your enemies?
He doesn't love his wife. Woman shine your eyes o.
DeleteHow disgusting
ReplyDeleteShe je cannot have sex on her free days, he should go and rest jor
Madam don't accept I even read somewhere that it has bad effect on the male
It’s a fetish. Disgusting but some people are wired that way.
DeleteTrue @ 16:36.. What one find disgusting another find okay.. Since the poster is not comfortable with it, she should have a serious talk with the husband. Then stand by her decision.
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That's nasty, abeg.
ReplyDeleteThis is not normal abeg. How long have you guys been married? Do you have any kids? Did he just start demanding for it this recently or it has always been like that from the beginning of the marriage?
ReplyDeleteYou can take a walk since you're not comfortable with this.
The weird things people do will make you sick.
ReplyDeleteWhich kind of husband is this? Because she refused you sex during her period, you will not eat? Wahala.
Tell your friend to avoid him during her period. He may have gone diabolical.
The second paragraph should make you raise your eyebrows.
ReplyDeleteWhat sort of a 'horseband' is this one? Women are suffering sha.
ReplyDeletedon't agree ,it is not save neither is it hygienic,even the Bible is against it .Don't turn your husband into your God he can denie you tomorrow
ReplyDeleteWow that is nasty though..Maybe it is his fetish side..But taking extreme measures just because you didn't get what you demand....Ewww Mehn When Hunger wire am him go know wetin dey shele...
ReplyDeleteMay God give you wisdom in handling it when family wan come settle matter; make him use him mouth talk wetin be him demand..All the best
Will be back to read comments
ReplyDeleteMake I go baff
Nah waaa. The request is not normal.
ReplyDeletePlease don't do what doesn't make you comfortable. But if you feel you can adjust, it's all really up to you. Its not a taboo but just something that might be very uncomfortable
ReplyDeleteApart from the unhygienic part and a risk to cause infections for him, I THINK it is spiritually unclean to have sex with a woman when she's in her period.
ReplyDeleteMake him understand you don't like it and let him explain why he's caught up with sex during menstruation 🩸.
If he's a Muslim please do not allow that, its a big sin for Muslims to have sex during period but you're encouraged to speak nice to her, treat her nice, respect her and don't mind her mood swings during this time. Play with her as you're not expected to feel irritated or treat her like a dirty thing during this time but xxx PLEASE DONT......
ReplyDeleteHmmm even when she's on her period, will waiting for her three to five days kill him? the husband is not considerate. He only wants what he wants not minding how the wife feels. what has his refusal to eat got to do with it, he wants to make her feel bad for not giving in to his demands. That's also selfish of him. And to your question poster, it is not normal. Others may 'like' it that way but no right thinking person would want to make love to his wife when on her period
ReplyDeleteThese kinds of issues are no issues between my husband and I, reason? Because we are believers in Christ and have a common understanding of the Scriptures;
ReplyDeleteLev. 18:19, Ezekiel 18:1-10
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DeleteMummy G.O, you don come back from Dubai?
DeleteLol
My hubby can't even stand a sight of my menstruation, poster your husband is up to something.
ReplyDeleteImagine battling through your period with all the pains and all and what a man wants is sex! Some men are just beyond daft. She is not comfortable with it for a reason. Plz tell her if she doesn't want it, she should never agree to it. She will be letting herself down.
ReplyDeleteThank you 👍
DeleteI know of a woman that's always sore down there, even on her period ,her hubby will tell her to wash off and come back, he will do it fast. Being a born again wife is not easy cos you are to bear everything smiling. She's thinking, always lean. One time the man traveled see as the woman come fresh, dey shine teeth up and down, shebi the man survived weeks without bedroom dance. Some men always take advantage of they will cheat ooo to put their women in pains
ReplyDeleteAnon, being a born again wife has nothing to do with what you described here. The woman is clearly suffering and has not figured out how to go about the situation. Is the husband born again too? if no, fine. If yes, I have no words for him as self control is not in his diary.
DeleteBoth are born again, but once he is with wife, his banana go dey do him tingling tingling everytime. The woman is being encouraged to endure e better pass cheating. But when the wife is not insight, his banana dey de unripe, maybe it's how he program himself mentally, women dey endure
DeleteIs that the reason Christ died for her sins?
DeleteWhen people understand that unhappy and angry people will not make heaven you will start living for themselves
Mtcheww
born again does not mean stupidity and it is not meant for you to endure slave master situations. a man who truly loves his wife will let her be during her period if she expressly says she does not want it. does she not freely give you sex other days? so why can you not focus on other things for the few days she is on her period? selfish man. I can bet that guy too is not celibate when he travels. there are some things I will sacrifice for my husband if they are not life threatening and major but you see some things in this category, make the marriage kuku end. sex is not a 3 square meal. I will not carry marriage certificate to heaven abeg...rubbish
DeleteChai umu nwanyi eriela nshi..nwoke apari tueeh.
ReplyDeleteHas he been doing it since u got married? If he suddenly started, it means members of his coven have told him to do it during your period so he can blow, gain favour somewhere or win contracts.
ReplyDelete😪😪😪😪😪😪
ReplyDeleteWhat is your husband's sex libido. High or low. How long have you been married. Is this the first time he is requesting for this or he has been like this.
ReplyDeleteIf you are newly married and your husband libido is high l guess you should have known the man you married. Some married couple have sex all round the clock. In period and out of period. There is no manual for sex in marriage. I will advice you do what gives you peace. Sex is conventual. If you are new in marriage, if your flow is not heavy and you don't mind. Just wash off and and allow him.
*consensual
DeleteHmmm na wa
DeleteBut the person clearly minds, that’s the point of this post na
DeleteThank you annon 16:01. Correction taken. Na auto correct do me.
Deleteany man who has sex round the clock and cannot wait during period days needs deliverance from the spirit of lust. it is not normal. your libido cannot be too high to have sex everyday. even a nymphomaniac needs deliverance because the body was not wired that way. God created us to be able to have self control, so if something is out of control and medicine cannot help then deliverance is needed because a higher spirit is at work.
DeleteThe kind of men I detest! 🤮
ReplyDeleteEwww.. this isn’t normal please
ReplyDeleteMy ex-wife loves sex during her period.. she fights me when I refuse self
ReplyDeleteGuess it has to do with the person
Exactly
DeleteIt's not right and doesn't feel right.
ReplyDeleteHer husband is very inconsiderate. If the sight of menstrual blood doesn't disgust him, at least the irritation his wife will feel during that period should make him compassionate enough to forget sex for at most 5 days. Phew! Things are indeed happening.p
ReplyDeleteThis thing called marriage ehn
ReplyDeleteThis one no follow abeg.
That man is selfish. I mean why will he threaten you? He can go eat outside or even move out if he wants.
ReplyDeleteAre you people looking for kids? It is advice for those looking for kids to try all around because some women ovulate during periods,if it's just for sexually gains only no advice
ReplyDeleteHow can a woman ovulate during her period? Please google what happens during menstruation and ovulation so you don't repeat this to anyone else.
Deleteyou say??? That man is up to something.
ReplyDeleteSelfish and disgusting man.
ReplyDeleteI heard it's not too good for the male organ. But some women don't mind. It's not ok for me thou
ReplyDeleteFor me o, I usually get really horny during my period, like out of the 6 days I get my flows I can feel horny for 3days.
ReplyDeleteIf my future husband will oblige me fine, if not fine.
Madam has your husband always liked sex during period? Or it's just something he started, if he just started it then I must say there is cause for alarm, although people can change anytime, but, the way he is going about it is totally wrong.
Try to discuss this properly and settle this matter. Put it in prayer too, goodluck.
I like your honesty The Lifted. People fail to see that different people have different needs at different times. Poster perhaps you and your husband are not sexually matched. Maybe you both can come to some sort of compromise during that time, but you both should really talk about it.
DeleteWhere is the problem if a grown ass man decides not to eat?
ReplyDeletelol...search me oh...a full blown adult? I will only beg you to eat if you are ill, but if na because I no gree to have sex on my period kuku turn it to fasting for the family...rubbish
DeleteWith these things everything needs to be consensual.
ReplyDeleteI am figuring your husband can live without intercourse for five days out of the month. Five days is not that long even for a high libido person.
The kind of mood swings I get during my period at times ehn. I dey be like winch, future hubby go dey stammer to ask me question talkless of sex. Dear poster ask God for wisdom e hear👍
ReplyDeleteHaa,Capital NO!!!!!!,Come to think of if,why the pressure?Abi is there more to it?
ReplyDeleteI guess it's his own fetish.
ReplyDeleteDisgusting though!
Sorry to say but your husband isn't normal. As for is not eating, hungry never do am.
ReplyDeleteGoodness!! So much toxicity these days, so disturbing!!!
ReplyDeleteI'm a married man (married for nearly 15 years now). I got no kink for sex while my wife is on her period, but I got no aversion towards it either - so being on her period does not bother me. However it does bother her, and I don't want her feeling uncomfortable.
Still, there had been times when we had been away from each other for weeks because of work but when we see each other is when the period starts. On many such occasions, she totally is more interested with scratching her itch than the discomfort of period.
What happens when I need action and she is on? She finds other means of meeting my need, and I let her choose creatively, but clearly she cares about my need as much as I care about hers - and that right there is the secret. If intercourse is not selfish, and your wife knows each encounter is a beautiful experience for both of you, she will be more open to trying stuffs with you.
I am just happy that after 15 years of doing the do with the same woman, and all the changes both our bodies has gone through, we still are hot for each other - actually I think she is even more hot for me now than before :D (15 years of learning her body no be joke)
Why do I just love this comment???
DeleteSelfishness and lack of kindness, is the cause of many problems amongst couples and I think it's bcos people come together for many other reasons, excerpt "love".
God help us!!!