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As Human, yes I do but after a while I let go. I easily forgive and too quick to apologize when I'm wrong. Life is just simple but often a time will tend to make it complicating on ourselves.
ReplyDeleteB4 yes! Now nothing bothers me, disappointments,a person's silly behavior,etc. Peace all d way....
DeleteGrudge reduces u Spiritually
I don't.
ReplyDeleteIt makes me feel so uncomfortable especially whenever I see or think about the person.
Is ignoring someone existence same as holding grudges ? Cos i m not sure under which one i fall
ReplyDeleteThey are not the same.
DeletePeace of mind is the koko
Isn't the very reason why you are ignoring that person's existence because of the grudge you bear?
DeleteCheck it and look inwards and help yourself.
Ask yourself, if I hear that something evil happened to that person, will I be happy? You see?
Ignoring someone is totally different from grudges. Peace of mind is priceless
DeleteIgnoring means u r protecting ur peace, guarding it jealousy
DeleteNo,I don't. People close to me know if you offend me, I tell you and move on. My peace of mind is IMPORTANT.
ReplyDeleteI dey keep grudge but if the person dey remorseful,i fit consider am
ReplyDeleteYes.
ReplyDelete1. I find it difficult to let go of hurts and ills done against me intentionally.
2. No matter how many times I tell myself it doesn't matter, it'll always affect the way I see you after the hurt.
May God help me.
Twins ♊ Squared
Me too
DeleteSigh....
@Twin
DeleteAnd how about when you hurt others?
Good question @19:53.
DeleteHmmm, sometimes I do sha
ReplyDeleteNope and there's no need na.If you call me out and i bear a grudge then i might still let it go.
ReplyDeleteWey the mind.
ReplyDeleteI can't.
I will be restless.
That why I avoid anything wey dey hot.
Grudges are waste of perfect happiness like a wise man once said..
ReplyDeleteI can't imprison myself over anyone's crime by keeping grudges..
If you are not remorseful,I still forgive and Forget,i mean forget your entire existence like Ctrl+Alt+Delete🤗
@MARTINS
Simple
DeleteYes, I do
ReplyDeleteI try not to, I rather ignore you totally
ReplyDeleteI don't hold grudges. But to be sincere, one thing I don't easily forgive or forgot. It's ungrateful.
ReplyDeleteNo, I don't and I can't
ReplyDeleteReason: I do not want to miss heaven. Jesus had once taken me
there and I don't want to miss there for any reason.
I know the Scriptures; "Father forgive us our trespasses as we forgive
those who trespass against us..."
If you do not forgive people their sins, God will not forgive you either.
I dont. I let people know when they do something I dont like and move on. If they are not remorseful, I keep a distance but no grudges.
ReplyDeleteI keep grudges but I am gradually learning not to again. It's not the best
ReplyDeleteWe no dey forgive for here🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
ReplyDeleteYou do somehow you see anyhow
QED
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Yes stella I'm holding grudges!! I dont have idea of when it will end because the woman in question offend me and my spirit, if I start to talk stella, it will not end .how can one be this wicked?? Is hard , I mean very hard to let go.
ReplyDeleteGloria, I hand you over to God God court.
Before I use to keep grudges but now The Word of God has melted my heart ❤,
ReplyDeleteNothing like Peace ✌🏻 of Mind..
In the past yes. Now I don't keep grudges, after awhile I forget.
ReplyDeleteI don't know how to keep grudges because I have a soft mind but I know how to ignore somebody, do as if I don't see the person
ReplyDeleteO can hold grudges for Africa. It's my first approach to expressing my displeasure.
ReplyDeleteNo, i don't. I will be so worried and restless. That issue will be in my thoughts constantly. But immediately we reconcile, i stay far away from the person
ReplyDeleteI hold grudges, but if the person repents, become sober, or asks for forgiveness, I forgive immediately. I hate a proud sinner.
ReplyDeleteI do but not to everybody
ReplyDeleteI use to but not anymore
ReplyDeleteYes, may not act on it but I will ignore your entire existence. I may eventually ket go of it but our relationship xan never remain the sane again.
ReplyDeleteScorpio babe...
DeleteI wish I can sef. If someone offend me,in my mind I will see I'm going to hold grudges but after sometime I see the person I'll start shining teeth,later I'll start beating myself,infact I'll be angry with myself that I couldn't hold grudges.
ReplyDeleteI used to, but not anymore.
ReplyDeleteI don't!! I love my peace abeg, I don't joke with it at all.. I just give you space or love you from afar.
ReplyDeleteI don't have strength and time to hold grudges against anyone but if you are a threat to my peace of mind I will just avoid you no matter who you are.
ReplyDeleteNo, I don't have that energy.
ReplyDeleteI didn't used to but found myself in a marriage where wife can be toxic. After frequent long term exposure I found myself struggling to let go and scared about the next time!
ReplyDeleteYes I hold Grudge and for Long too, this particular Relation dealt with me for no just reason, the other ones mocked my family when we came back to the village during the Sharia crisis in the North. As a little girl then holding a grudge toward them made me super Anxious and Angry. Holding grudge is not a good thing because it can Affect one's mental & Emotional balance. I allow bygone to be bygone now, One step at a Time.
ReplyDeleteThis is me before, especially while growing up. People older than me no dey touch me because I don't care who you are. I must come back for revenge. Na just to wait when you don forget. I go just look for stone or 2 by 2 break your head and run away. Them call police tire for me.
ReplyDeleteBut I thank God now. Sometimes I cant believe how matured I've grown. That's what having a family does to you. Me wey they buy fight for road. Now if fight one start na me go dey say person no fit play with you