TUESDAY In House News...

 Hailings.....

FROM TUESDAY SPONTANEOUS POST

Someone posted this

''You reached out to people outside this blog with the permission of Angel Koof. Was that the original intention of the giveaway??? Of course, Angel Koof would oblige but was that his/her original intention???

 You've turned the thing to a family and friends giveaway. Thereby robbing BVs that ought to have benefitted from it, yet we blame Nigerian government for the way the country is. I guess it's in our blood. KMT! No, I'm not interested in the giveaway but what you're doing is wrong and you should be called out for it''



Seriously? I am not even angry, just feel sorry that poverty has done this to you.... You should have commented with your ID, why did you go anon?Do you know who the Angel is? are you OK? please call me out for the money and lets see.. If you are not interested in the giveaway, why are you so damn bothered?

Robbing BVs? nah una money? wonderment!  I am giving them to my family and friends? if nah you nko? hehehehehehhheehe

 

THIS IS THE LAST GIVEAWAY THAT WILL BE ANNOUNCED. I have had enough...

The next one from Angel KOOF will be bigger and i will give it to anyone i want on this blog or outside of it..

The remaining recipients will not be announced, i will ask my PA to search the data phone call for their numbers and call them for their account details. I am done with this ish with twats like this.

For your info, I am not broke and dont need to steal giveaway money..

Thank you.

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GIST FROM TUESDAY SPONTANEOUS POST

''Good morning Beautiful People! Hmmmm something happened in my compound overnight,my neighbor was robbed of everything in his house including new electronics he just bought,they packed all his clothes,shoes,phones,laptops,even food haba! lol this is not funny,they even took his car keys but a neighbor parked behind him,so they couldn't go with the car but they went with his Car key and house keys:

he was supposed to get married this weekend,actually the gist is that he was engaged to another lady before who used to come here regularly,the one he is planning to engage this Saturday is a new beautiful girl, he came in late around 2am and forgot to lock the gate and his apartment, he woke up around 11am and everything is gone, including his ATM cards, this is scary, they even took all his shoes, but I suspect an inside job, no other tenant was attacked, so i thinks it someone that knows him very well, so sad but sometimes I wonder why men will engage a lady and waste her time when they know they can never marry




This is really sad.. I think it is the lady he dumped that might have done this but i wont blame her just yet... he may have wasted her time and then dumped her to marry someone else...

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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD


One of the things motherhood changed drastically or opened my eyes to was my mental health. How fragile it can be, postpartum care in Nigeria is very poor, nobody really tells you what to expect.

Nobody really talks about how hard it can be mentally and even when you try to talk, you are made to feel ungrateful to God. You hear things like “you should be grateful to God, what some people are crying for, you are getting it for free". This statement is very insensitive.

For some people child birth is a walk in a park. I have a friend who said all she felt till she gave birth were just slight cramps like menstrual pain and she had her baby without tears and all in less than two hours.

My own experiences were seriously traumatic with over twenty hours of labour which still ended in assisted birth. I have met women with way more traumatic experience, who had both traumatic pregnancies and delivery. They had so many complications, it’s a miracle they are alive and well. It takes a while to mentally adjust and find a balance when someone experiences this.

For me I was suddenly thrust into a world I never imagined because nothing can totally prepare you for this experience. My first had colic and acid reflux, coupled with me healing from a massive tear. I was a mess the first six months and I looked it. Then came the massive pressure to snap back, be sexy, have a flat tummy etc.

The pressure was so crazy, I sat myself down and told myself “ you just went through a life changing, life and death situation, it took your body nine months to get here so no pressure. Take your time deal with yourself mentally first and it will naturally show outwardly too”.

Then the be "sexy for your partner talk came so he will still find you attractive". I laughed in Swahili the fist time I heard this, I was dealing with so much yet someone was encouraging me to buy sexy lingerie and try to spice things up in the bedroom barely six months post partum.

S#x was the last thing on my mind, I was exhausted emotionally, mentally and physically, the last thing I wanted was to banter to someone's s#xual needs. I was also dealing with changes in my physical body, bigger tummy, the new webs of stretch marks that kept on coming, constant headache, painful and sometimes sore nipples etc.

I sat my partner down and discussed as much as I could what I was going through and how he needed to help for bedroom dealings to go back to average( definitely not as hot as it was before the kids yet). He listened and did his best to help me, so I was more relaxed. He helped take care of dinner a lot, helped with certain chores and watching the baby so I could do other things. Bought gifts and tried to make me feel special over again. Assured me I was still attractive and all. All this helped settle us settle back better.

Motherhood has its great rewards, its the most fulfilling thing I have ever done but men! it is hard work. Real hard work that nothing prepares you for.




Your story took me down memory lane..... Thank God most women heal from the shocking entrance to motherhood....

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FROM MONDAY CHRONICLE POSTER

Thanks a lot everyone, I have decided to separate from him until he becomes responsible. I have another question. The drugs prescribed to me are risperidone and carbamezepine.

 I googled it and the side effects scared the shit out of me. It's been months now and I have not been able to summon courage to take them. Pls who has taken these drugs before. Where you able to live off it? If it's drowsy how do I run my business and feed my kids. I am just really scared. 

I get panic attacks and sometimes just breakdown and cry. I also have bad mood swings, could be sad all day. Will the drugs help? I'm the poster

Na wah

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PINKYS CORNER


Una well don ooo, hope you guys are enjoying your day shaaa?


This morning, I left home so as to get something done at Sepeteri(this is a slang used by louts and some students which means a bad child but it's also a name of a town at OYO North, between shaki and igboho). Sepeteri is far from where I stay at Ibadan, so I got to the bus station and we the passengers entered and the driver zoomed off after all the rubbish rules at the park.


We got to a particular area, it was so cold, so I needed to just manage myself because I was sitting close to the window. There is this guy sitting beside me with his Girlfriend, they were sitting so close that, you Would notice them easily.(Note: it was 3 on that back sit which I was at the window side on the right). Then I began to sleep off but I noticed some strange hand movements which was disturbing me , so I stylishly opened my eyes and pretended as if I have been buried in the sleep.


This guy was fingering this lady badly and the lady in question was holding the microphone   and using it exactly the way a drunk driver handles a car gear. I was shocked then I asked myself, "Where is this girl's pride"?. They continued this nonsense. The guy was controlling himself from giving a noticeable sound but our sit was not balanced(was shaking). I was even thinking and saying to myself, that, they can't do more than this nonsense until this lady stoop so low and not even minding I was sitting close to them, she lowered her head as if she wants to relax then she started sucking the Microphone  . It was then I knew she has no shame.


They did this nonsense for some minutes and stopped, then the driver made mentioned of a particular area which they both alighted with some other passengers. I never knew the woman sitting on the front( the second to the last row)knew what was going on, then she said "E ma try oooo"( meaning, you try oo), I asked her why and she said " iranu ti awon omo ale yen nse legbe yin"( the rubbish those bastard are doing beside you). I just smiled and told her it's non of my business, it's their life.




LADIES, PLEASE, TRY AND EDUCATE,ORIENTATE AND RESPECT YOUR BODY. I DO NOT TERM SUCH ACT AS LOVE.
WHY DO SOME LADIES TEND TO DO THINGS WITHOUT FIRST PUTTING MORAL VALUES INTO PLAY?


It's a pity anyway because this lady in question is a pretty lady but sincerely, I was so disappointed.




oh well like you said its none of your business, it is their life..... I can imagine that dirty, unwashed stinking rubbish being put in somebody's mouth...lice infested blokos....... Dont blame the lady, the man is also useless.... Imagine that dorty unwashed hand in someone's kpekus... OMG!

Please let me go and throw up

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