Year don dey end oh......
INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD
I have a lovely step daughter who is a pre- teenager , beautiful in and out and well raised by her maternal grandparents. Before my husband and I started dating he told me he had a daughter and wanted to know if I was going to be okay with it before we moved further, I was and here we are.
I love this young lady like she is my own and I treat her as such, I am not trying to replace her mom who is late. I am just trying to do my best and be there for her like I would do for my own kids. She gets to spend the holidays with us and I try to make it as fun as possible.
Raising a pre teen is another ball game entirely, I am new to this but I have promised myself to do everything possible to give it my best shot. Right now I am still walking on egg shells around her when it comes to discipline or correcting certain things. I feel that to be able to be as firm as I should I need to make her see and know how much I love her first so that when I make corrections she will know its coming from a place of love and I won’t just be seen as the hard step mother.
Also no one has given her the s#x talk yet,( I am mortified) this world is so dangerous, a young girl should know about her body and also how to avoid predators and every form of s#xual abuse but I am trying not to be too forward or offend the grandparents ( they are deeply religious)with my approach because I won’t hide or sugar coat things. I hope very soon I will be able to though.
I am praying our relationship continues to blossom and flourish and I will keep doing my best and my part to make it so.
We thank God that the year is coming to end, however, one thing I think folks must avoid in this coming year is the use force and desperation to address issues. Honestly, it mostly ends in premium larger tears.
Precisely on Dec 20th, the neighbor opposite my house lost her younger brother to the cold hands of death.
Rumor has it that the guy used, thunderbolt, popularly called "MΓ‘gΓΉn" on his wife who unknowing to him has a side c#ck.
The rule is, once a woman's private is laced with "Magun", which is usually done by the husband I guess, assuming she's unfaithful, sleeps with another man, later sleeps with her husband again, the husband will die.
Sadly, he was buried the following day and sadly, the world has moved on. His sister, my neighbor who was wailing bitterly the other day has gone back to her usually bubbling self.
Now to the part that baffles me; since the man laced her with spell, he obviously suspected she was cheating, so why not collect your kids and send her away? why lace her with Magun? unfortunately, It was this same spell that led to his untimely death, talk about using one's own hand to destroy one's self.
This coming year, lets try to operate with discretion and carefulness, avoid some situations if you really can, treat cheating spouses and any other related subjects with urgency but not desperation, cause God forbid, anything bad happens, the world will move on. It is well with our souls as we go into 2022.
WHAT.... if he suspected she was cheating and laced her with the thing, why in heavens name did he sleep with her again? This story is not complete abeg... I wont believe anyone will be that dumb......
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FROM TUESDAY MORNING SPONTANEOUS POST
''Hello BVS
Compliments of Seasons...
Please I need URGENT REPLY ,Please do Reply, Advice and Suggest under this Comment Even if you are a popular BV please still Do Comment Under Anonymous..I need to know what to Do Before 12noon Today 12/28
I went to where I was ask to come For Cleansing After Fasting for 7 days .the cleansing will be done with flogging of pigeon and washing of face and More (In igbo)I wuchapu uchu stopping me from success and Marriage...yes I am Beautiful,Dresses Well and Matured Yet know Reasonable Man Has ever said Hi in years,I am in my Late thirties..my uncle once suggested I do so with a native Doctor I dogde it But this one is with a church..
What do you guys think, suggest or advice..who have done it and what Happened after
P: S: I was told to this In 2012 By same church I ran And 9 Years later I am Back...Ike gwuru..
Thank you so much ma'am for posting''
This does not sound right at all so i will beg you not to go, if you went already, just know that you have multiplied your problems times 100... You cannot collect a gift from the devil and expect it to be free.
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DeleteHow are you sure after the flogging, men will start saying "hi"?
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@stella, it's well, what will be done tomorrow works permanently
@insidw motherhood, pls do the sex talk with her, and thanks for loving her like yours
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ReplyDeleteAunty that wants to go for cleansing, pls go to MFM for normal prayers and fasting , don't partake in that ritual
ReplyDeleteNdi uka white or Ekpere Ufuma will cleanse you. Those spiritual churches do that but I think it has its repercussions just like those seeking fruits of the womb from there. Ife I cho ka ifuππ I hope you understand
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ReplyDeleteThe heat is back in lasgidi
Lol @Stella. Is it easier talking to boys or you let your husband do the talking cos they're boys?
ReplyDeleteWhen you have a good relationship with your kids, the sex talk won't be awkward. I lived with my elder sis and have a beautiful with my nephews esp the first one. I thought about sex and condom and it wasn't awkward. He's 26 now and we're still very close..
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DeleteMy dear you want to go for a so called cleansing,I pity you just like Stella said you have multiplied your problems by 1000. Seek the face of God this life is turn by turn when your time comes nothing on this earth can stop it. You are receiving a greek gift that will put you in trouble! Nacking or flogging of pigeon sounds like the same thing to me. My dear run as fast as your legs can carry you. I hope at the end of the day after washing your face you won't end up loving the native doctor! I did just 21 days fasting in my house I never went out at night I didn't quarrel or fight with anyone during that period at the end of that fasting and prayers I met my husband I didn't visit any shrine or church or man of God. I did what I did as my spirit led me. So be careful. Devil does not give freely without a price! Be warned ⚠️
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Its well with you young woman just desist from taking further actions,right now you should be seeking for deliverance from the automatic bindage you have entered by seeking those dark agents, thereafter you go for prayers and counseling,keep doing you,all this pressure it's because you are in Nigeria,it's well with you and many others in your shoes
ReplyDeleteIHN is here. Good day everyone.
ReplyDeleteFlogging of pigeon and washing of face? what kind of house is that? Please go to a bible believing church that has a strong deliverance ministry and do your cleansing.
ReplyDeleteTruly, if you do not know the God you serve, you will spend 100k on 'stuff'
Flogging of pigeon? What won't one hear?
When you stop wakaring from Jericho to mushin and to the bushes looking for what is not looking for you, things will come to you as God has proposed. Sister poster I just dey pity you because the church you went to and to other places added more sorrows than joy. Be wise. Take your matter to our Lord Jesus Christ and let Him handle your matter. Don't go and carry more demons into you. The ones you have, you have not come out of it. I wish you well. God Almighty meet you when you least expected. God is everywhere but not in all places. Be careful.
ReplyDeleteWonderful afternoon all. People are dying, no one knows who is next, let your heart be pure. Strive to be a good person. Give room for offence because it will come. Accommodate such offences because we are all not perfect. Only God Almighty is Perfect.
Greetings again and again
Poster pls don't go anywhere for the cleansing. This is evil, pls locate any mfm church close to you. There is nothing God cannot do. Pls I beg you don't go through with it.
ReplyDeleteThank God for journey mercy,left my base to owerri today..omg!!,motion sickness dealt with me,l vomited thrice on the way,,my bitter cola and Tom Tom failed me today..
ReplyDeletePlease someone should tell me what to do .. how do l over come this,its so embarrassing
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Thank God for safe trip..so sorry for the motion sickness
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DeletePraise to God for your safe trip. Motion sickness can be so uncomfortable
DeleteSorry about that dear. Thank God for journey mercies
DeleteThank God for journey mercies
DeleteGo to a big pharmacy and ask for medications to prevent motion sickness
DeleteI've posted this somewhere before.
DeleteCheck any pharmacy around you for Promethazine tablets, use a tablet 30 minutes - 1 hour before your journey begins and you should be fine.
NB, it might make you feel drowsy while in transit but that's better than the whole vomiting and shii that comes with motion sickness.
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DeleteGood afternoon bvs.
ReplyDelete@post from sp,don't do it pls, they will only weep more demons to your life while you come back seeking for more solution. No bible believing church will do that. Fleeeee.
ReplyDeleteExactly... sis keep praying to God yourself. We all have access to Him. Keep praying for mercy and for Grace to speak for you. It is well with you dear, I await your testimonyπ€π€π€
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Nazarite ink, so u are saying u support a man collecting kids from his wife before throwing her out? Na wa!
ReplyDeleteJoy you are funny o, isn't it better than this tragedy? Which would you have preferred for him?
DeleteEka Joy you just mirrored my thoughts.
DeleteHow on earth should Nazirite say such
don't get your issues complicated, pigeon knacking is not of Christ. true deliverance comes from Christ; run to him!!!
ReplyDeleteThese is the problem with some ladies, beauty doesn't give one husband, but it's by God's grace, and secondly most of you single ladies want already made men, there's absolutely nothing wrong in marrying men who are educated but still hustling, the poor guy you look down on today in the next 5 years you won't recognise him again by then level must have changed because no condition is permanent, because you are beautiful doesn't mean na only rich guys go the rush you. Please don't go to that "church" that wants to use pigeon to beat you all in the name of deliverance. Please pray and believe that your prayers have been answered, if you have characters that don't make you recommendable please purge yourself of it and ask God for help, most good girls get married by recommendation, people are watching you.
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DeleteRitual that looks like deliverance,pls poster go to Mfm for serious deliverance prayers.u can also join Nsppd every weekday from 7am to 8:30am .God has the ultimate power to set you free from bondage,if u go this way u might think u are free but it’s only a matter of time before u realize u have carried more demons on ur head and ur problems have multiplied.God in his mercy and power wil set u free from every stigma and stagnation in ur life..The gift of God addeth no sorrows..it is well with you poster.
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ReplyDeletePoster that want to do cleansing, why not go to a church for deliverance. May God help you.
ReplyDeleteInside the mind of a woman going through motherhood, please do the talk already
ReplyDeletePoster that wants to go for cleansing, run and never look back
Nazirites ink, may his soul rest in peace. Good afternoon people
Good afternoon everyone
ReplyDeleteMartins, please help, my daughter was gifted a chrome book, a small laptop with just 1 gig,please which application can I install on it,so she can use it to play games and also download films for her. Stella please post. Thanks
ReplyDeleteMehn, 2022 should be different abeg.
ReplyDeleteSomebody will write her chronicle with explanations. Then somebody else that doesn’t know that person from Adam will come and say, the person omitted some details. Then because he is God, he will put in the omitted details, and then judge and give advice base on his own version of the story πππ. Anamachikwa.
May God remove such spirit from us in 2022
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DeleteMc pinky no need for that your laughter, you are neither here nor there, learn to pick a struggle and stand by it.
DeleteStella,I want to let you Know that I love you genuinely.keep being you & may God order your steps, Amen.compliments.
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone, i trust your day is going well.
ReplyDeleteThat Magun thing has caused a lot of havoc and people still do it. Why not divorce the woman instead of this wickedness called Magun? Please let's be mindful of whatever we do.
This rubbish still exist and more reason, aan should be watchful..no be all hole be better hole
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ReplyDeleteIf I were you, the lady who wants to do cleansing, I will find my way to MFM for their 3days fasting and deliverance program. The devil will give you a finger, then collect your head, the devil gives no free gift.
ReplyDeleteWill anyone be so dumb to put magun on his wife and still go back to sleep with the woman when he knows if the woman is cheating and he sleeps with her na die straight??? What will make a man put such jazz on his wife if not suspicion of infidelity?? Then why still sleep with her when u don’t trust her? Maybe there is more to this magun story cos I’m baffled.
ReplyDeleteHi Good afternoon...
ReplyDeleteWho else is expecting a parcel from santa or has recieved courtesy of the yellow network... I recieved a message this afternoon from jumia...
I wonder how people keep tab on others, even to the extent of remembering what the person said in January, una nor get work? I can't remember what any bv said in November .
ReplyDeleteHow to be classy without spending a dime:
Read books to improve your diction,think before you talk, walk with elegance(walk like a beauty queen and not mama iyabo from Ajegunle) , dress well(you don't need to burst a bank to dress well, just make sure your clothes re neat, well ironed,right colour combinations and they accentuate your curves or hide your flaws), style your hair to suit the structure of your face .
Lastly, mingle with the right people,build a good network inclusive of two or more rich & well to do persons, they might invite you for their birthdays or any event where you get to meet and tangle with other rich classy and well to do peeps π from there you go dey know more better peopleπ€π€π€
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DeleteYou are welcome @MZ B, Have a lovely day ahead.
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DeleteWonders shall never end...It is well with our soul oooo.
ReplyDeleteLet's be watchful and be security conscious cuz what my eyes saw today..infact..
You saw another one today?
DeletePinky your life must be so interesting.
Anyway send in make we read.
By the way, the bv that wants to flog a pigeon in the name of deliveranceππ wetin the pigeon do una in the first place? pigeon re peaceful birds and you want to flog the poor animal, for what nahπ π π π
ReplyDeletebetter put your leg one place before you go and add to the one you re facing.
Go to church frequently and pray with Psalms, that book is more powerful than a native doctor, but most Christians re too lazy and impatient to pray their way out of problems on their own.
Hi kidjo,
DeleteCan u please tell hw to pray woth psalms?
Many thanks
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Deleteyou don't need any specific way, what I do is to peruse the book of Psalms by the weekend then jot down the chapters and verses that relate to what I wish to pray for in the coming week, that way I always have at least 1 chapter and verses to read and pray with a day.
like today I read Psalm 3 vs 1 to 8.
I'm still going to read and pray with it before I sleep today. currently using this verse to pray for protection from the wicked ones.
You can read and pray with Psalms first thing in the morning and last thing before you sleep or anytime you wish.
and please always be positive and have faith in the prayers you are going to say after reading the book of Psalms. praying without faith is a waste of time. No matter how you say a prayer, the most important thing is your faith that matters.
DeleteThank u Kidjo,
Delete..will do this with fasting
Madam with Cleansing issue.
ReplyDeleteI don't think you have any problem....The only thing you need is to go down on ur kneels and talk to God.
Prepare, some days fasting and prayer for ursef and when u start, you need to confess ur sins whole-heartedly before anything.
May the blessings of God that Maketh rich and addeth no sorrow continue to be our portion Amen . Run, run from that evil ritual you are about to trap yourself into.
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DeleteGood Afternoon Beautiful People! Hope you are all enjoying the holiday? Thinking and thanking God all through the week!
ReplyDeleteGood Afternoon Beautiful People! Hope you are all enjoying the holiday? Thinking and thanking God all through the week!
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon everyone
ReplyDeleteposter please don't go for any cleansing, I don't think that's the best way to solve your problem but to multiply it as Stella said.
Pray to God to direct you to the right place to get pray for.
I did white fasting and prayer and God answered my prayers.. please don't go anywhere they'll ask you for black candle, pigeon,red soap or what not.im ππ you ooo.
ReplyDeleteIt's not by how fast but by how well.if u re in lagos,pls go to watchman ebutemetta parish,by Thursdays 7am to 11:30.those guys are on fire,I don't think I have anything to worry about anymore
Poster cleansing please be wise,don't go thru that road,it is very dangerous for your future and destiny,that's devilish deliverance and it is not of God.
ReplyDeleteLook for MFM or any Strong BIBLE BELIEVING CHURCH FOR your deliverance.
May God order your steps to a right and geniue church ⛪ not all this road side church.
Good afternoon people π.
ReplyDeleteMotherhood woman, pls prep her on sex education biko, no time for kiniko.
ReplyDeleteI commend u for being nice to her.
If you can log on to NSPPD daily and pray fervently.download and also pray deeply...or go to MFM.....baby girl knacking pidgeon na double triple problem o
ReplyDeleteStella my advice for the toxic ones with gutter mouth is to stop posting there smelly comments. Except they wash their mouth and mind with sound reasoning and human feeling.
ReplyDeleteHow can u not think of ur fellow human's feeling before u wash them down with bitter and self harming words, which can send one into depression.
U can go ballistic when annoyed, but learn to choose mild words.
#learn to pick words#
Peace out
Please poster for deliverance. Dont go and knack any pigeon o. It will be worst if you do so.
ReplyDeleteGood evening everyone. Compliments of the season.
ReplyDeletePlease eh Martins I need your help. I'm using Infinix hot 1oi. Unlike my old phone where I can easily change storage to SD card, I'm finding it difficult with this one.
The last time I tried, I was asked to format SD card as portable storage, which I did but I feel like its still my internal memory that's in use. Because in my old phone there's this arrangement that happens when I switch storage
I changed storage in Xender and camera. But there's no option of changing storage in the settings except formatting which I already tried.
I don't know if you understand what I'm explaining. I hope you do. Is there a way I can do this? Omo everything I think I know about phone has failed me here o
Thank you
Good evening everyone. Compliments of the season.
ReplyDeletePlease eh Martins I need your help. I'm using Infinix hot 1oi. Unlike my old phone where I can easily change storage to SD card, I'm finding it difficult with this one.
The last time I tried, I was asked to format SD card as portable storage, which I did but I feel like its still my internal memory that's in use. Because in my old phone there's this arrangement that happens when I switch storage
I changed storage in Xender and camera. But there's no option of changing storage in the settings except formatting which I already tried.
I don't know if you understand what I'm explaining. I hope you do. Is there a way I can do this? Omo everything I think I know about phone has failed me here o
Thank you
Nice stories and topics,
ReplyDeleteHeck the way I have been busy this holiday and sleeping as well π€£π
Well done guys