Sometimes some people take matters into their own hands and serve it cold to someone who hurt them..
Have you ever served anyone revenge cold? or was it you that someone served revenge for something you did? what happened and how did you execute the revenge? what happened after you revenged? Did you learn your lesson from the revenge?
Lets gist!
I no get strength..I forgive and move on
ReplyDeleteSame WhatsApp group,no energy to fight.i cry and move on.
DeleteExactly, I forgive before the person even apologise. Even if you don't apologise I forgive you.
DeleteIf you don't forgive you are doing yourself. Because you are not a saint either and in one way or the other you would have hurt someone be it purposely or mistakenly. God won't forgive you too and you won't receive mercy when you pray.
Admin abeg add me to the group. I no get strength to shalaye
DeleteI believe when your heart and hands are clean,sometimes move let God do the fight.
DeleteI forgive and move on without looking back.
DeleteI don't revenge,I just move on
ReplyDeleteLet's call her "Ada"
ReplyDeleteShe was hurt because her husband f*cked her bridesmaid and even made "porn" out of it. I asked her, "are you going to divorce him", she said "no". (mind you, the man was remorseful, which she also admitted.) Then I said, "work it out, pray it out, wait it out . . . be calm and let him try to decode you etc." She instead grabbed an ex and did the unthinkable. This was an ex that was hurting from being dumped for the "rich guy". Now, when she eventually made up with her hubby, she dumped the ex again; bad move. The guy sent "everything" to both her phone and the husband's phone and even the phone of her pastor whom they both had had counsel from and earthquakes began. Her marriage was over in less than 24 hours. She couldn't attend church again, she slipped into major depression, lost her job and so on. Mind you that she had her hubby's porn on her phone too. But no one was interested in that one.
Wow, this is a case of revenge gone wrong. Wisdom is really profitable. So sad
DeleteEeeeeyah, the moment she cheated, she should have told the husband nah that they are eve now even. So that everywhere will cool off same time frame. She is not a wise woman atall
DeleteWhat she did is very wrong, as a Christian u don't cheat bcoz ur partner cheated. That's too low of her
Men steady serving what they can’t take. I blame her for taking him back in the first place and even stooping lower in the name of revenge
DeleteMoves like this has never paid the woman na.
DeleteDoing the “unthinkable” was her undoing. There are so many ways to deal with a cheat. Cheating back never ends well mostly with the married ones.
DeleteNow, I’m sure she regrets what she did, but then it’s too late to go back.
STELLA ABEG REST AH AH
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Anonymous 2017 at 14:59
My friend's husband f*cked her bridesmaid and she was boiling. Threatened to walk away from the marriage but didn't feel that will heal her hurt. He even made a "porn" out of it. I asked her to be patient since the man was remorseful, which she also admitted. Then I said, "work it out, pray it out, wait it out . . . be calm and let him try to decode you etc." She instead grabbed an ex's penis and sucked and fucked. This was an ex that was hurting from being dumped for the "rich guy". Now, when she eventually made up with her hubby, she dumped the ex again; bad move. The guy sent "everything" to both her phone and the husband's phone and even the phone of her pastor whom they both had had counsel from and earthquakes began. Her marriage was over in less than 24 hours. She couldn't attend church again, she slipped into major depression, lost her job and so on. Mind you that she had her hubby's porn on her phone too. But no one was interested in that one.
I DON'T WANT TO LOOK FOR THIS COMMENT ELSE FIRE WILL START.
She didn't consider the mental health of the ex before involving him in her trash..
DeleteIf you can't deal then leave, dem no gum your yansh put for the marriage
People dey get mind o.Why not quit instead of cheating back?
DeleteHusband and wife, both birds of a feather.
Delete😮😮😮😮😮😮
DeleteCheating back does not favour women, infact, cheating in general. Men and even society at large will leave a cheating man and lash out at the cheating woman
Delete@Dreza
DeleteDo you know why?
A woman decides if intercourse should take place, not the man.
If the man decides and goes ahead, it is called "rape"
So anywhere you see intercourse, a woman submitted herself to it.
15.28 🤣🤣🤣😂😂 E don tire us honestly
DeleteAnon 15:28, so this story is from 2017? Wonders😂😂
DeleteWhether 2017 or 2021
DeleteSome are seeing it for the first time
I posted both
Lolz 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
DeleteI give people a taste of their own medicine. Call it revenge if you like.Some sins should not be forgiven.
ReplyDeleteThis is me. I serve it hot.
DeleteMost times I forgive but when it's too painful to let go, I revenge
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DeleteI don't even have mind to take revenge that will hurt someone.Many had tried to pull me down,not that I can't take revenge. I avoid them knowing that they won't use the same light they tried to blew off to shine.
DeleteA brother in my church, he proposed to me and I accepted. Went to his house although not the first time. He drugged and disvirgined me, so I poisoned him after 2months but still called for help. Today his reaping it so hard because the poison is still affecting him. Spending all his money on his health.
ReplyDeleteNo regret.
Pls keep me anon in case my Id shows
Good for him, all rapists deserve worse .
DeleteHmmmmm,u shld have reported him to the authorities. I belief later in life when u encounter God in truth and in spirit, u will become sober about this, and pray silently for his recovery, for now peace unto ur beautiful, i know u are still hurting, may God heal ur wounded heart
DeleteYou have posted this before and repeated not regretting your actions. Meaning you would not mind his blood on your hands because of your virginity. Being a murderer even if no one knows you killed someone is not a good tag.
Delete😳i'm so sorry about what happened to you. How do you feel knowing what he is going through? kindly forgive him. Please
DeleteGood afternoon
Did you marry him?
DeleteThis is wrong on all counts, what he did was despicable, but you didn't have to go that far, this is something God will have avenged for you swiftly
DeleteThink I have read something similar here before,Anon was that you?
DeleteThe earlier people stop taking all these pretentious church people seriously, the better.. Sometimes some people just go out of their way looking for someone to lie and decieve them, but it definitely won't be me. Na so one babe tell me say she no fit dey with me unless I stop taking any drink that contains alcohol, even wine.. like say I intended being with her before.. if I was a deciever like these church brothers, na so I for begin pretend to be Wetin I no be ontop kpekus.. tho some kpekus can make you consider it sha, make I no lie.. there are kpekus and there is bomb pussy.. the type that even if she's misbehaving and everyone is asking you why you're condoning her trash, you no go fit talk 🤣😂.. you go just dey talk say she dey lucky say you love am, but for your mind you know you've been pussy whipped 🤣😂😂
DeleteMay God help us 😂🤣
He is "a rapist"
DeleteYou are "a murderer"
God will still judge both.
You must be still hurt cos you posted this before. Are you happy with his health condition now? Of course you are still hurt. Ask God for forgiveness and ask him to heal the guy.
DeleteMen! I don't know why they put their lives in jeopardy because of a few minutes pleasure, wait, what pleasure do they even derive from rape? A sex where the woman is deeply asleep and not reciprocating or the one she is crying and begging? To top it all, they will still beg the woman and ask that they continue the relationship. SMH.
Do you men actually believe that a woman can forgive her rapist? It's like you don't know what rape does to a woman, to you people, it is just sex, after all she was not a virgin, she has been doing it before bla bla bla. You should be scared for your life and that of your generations if you are a rapist.
It hurt me so bad. Im not a murderer, cos I gave him help.I'm married to a more respectable man. He knows what I did to him .
DeleteDo u know I would have die from the over dose drug
Anon 17:12: u got ur revenge. But u are still on here doing repeat. Means even though u had ur pound of flesh, u still can't let go. Do u want to kill him finally. Will you get the closure you need then?
Delete17:12, forgive him so that you will heal. You don't want to live the rest of your life carrying this hurt, do you?
DeleteI don't take things to heart so nothing like revenge in my diary, because I believe two wrongs can never make a right.
ReplyDeleteI dey revenge before but now the holyspirit has penetrated my heart, i now let it go. I only pray to God to help me forgive or i completely cut off from the person for my peace of mind.
ReplyDeleteBabe u will still revenge. Leave that matter.
DeleteLovetoloveu, stop putting words in people's mouths. Person type A, you are claiming B 🙄🙄
DeleteIf you hurt me, yeah I'll cry, and move on. But sit and plan a revenge, nah, that's a waste of my precious time. I believe karma is real, in the mean time, I keep my distance.
ReplyDeleteI don't have any revenge bone in my body. I might stay mad, throw insults and snob the person but I no sabi the revenge thing.
ReplyDeleteMy wife thinks she can get away with adultery. She fucked someone else, got pregnant and she thinks I won't know. ( I have zero sperm count but she does not know). She said she wants to go have the baby in the US since she is a citizen. I know she is leaving me to permanently join her boyfriend. I am thinking of how to deal with her. She took a for better or worse vow with me.
ReplyDeleteYou had a zero sperm count but you did not tell her? are you not a hypocrite? not like it justifies cheating but you are not a Saint either so please go and sit down!
DeleteShe took a for better for worse vow with you, you say? like if you found out she does not have a womb and can never give you a child you would say the same thing you said and stay there with her. Deal with her nah
Wow! Oga please don't hurt her.
DeleteLeave her for God to judge. Do not soil your hands,it's not worth it.
She does not know u have zero sperm count, yet u wickedly married her. Mtcheeeewww
DeleteYou too, why didn’t you tell her you have zero sperm count? Wonder why people will keep hiding things from their partners and later be seeking revenge (wey no lost) upandan.
DeleteMind you, I am not supporting what your wife did oh!
Chai!
DeleteThis is serious. Does it mean you decieved her? Kindly have a rethink of whatever it is you want to serve her so you don't end up damaging yourself in the process. Good evening
DeleteDid you tell her about your zero count before the marriage?? If you did not, then sir, you are wrong also.
DeleteGet your little self out of here. You have zero sperm count and you never told her about it, what does that make you?
DeleteYou wanted her to suffer in the name of for better or worse. Some of you are just wicked.
Why is ur zero sperm count unknown to her?that is big time deception to start with...what if the child she's carrying is truly yours cos miracle still happen, except u have a prove that she cheated.
DeleteYou both are wicked. Your marriage is all about deceit, adultery, lies....I'm so pained like i know you in person. Chai
DeleteYou both deserve each other, A deceiver+ a cheat=1. Why didn't you tell her about your zero sperm count?
DeleteAnon 15:44, thank you. I no sabi write long story. This story just turn my Belle. Marriage built on deceit seeking revenge, really?
DeleteI don't blame you. I blame her for bringing the pregnancy to you. If she had divorced you quietly as soon as she got pregnant for her boyfriend, you won't be here typing nonsense. Useless man.
DeleteI'm sure your family was showing her pepper yet you kept quiet. Devil.
As for you ttc women reading this, doctor says you are ok but your horseband refuses to go for tests or he went and he came back and told you they said he is "fine" too, siddon there o, I say siddon there and keep ranting on social media.
Aren't you the villain here; zero sperm count and you hid it?
DeleteAn innocent child's life is now involved😳😳😳😳😳
May the devil punish you greatly, ekwensu like you!
DeleteYou deserve to be cheated on bloody liar, pot calling kettle black.
Wicked people everywhere!!!
Oga you got served ,well deserved breakfast. Madam knew that you knew you couldn't father a child,so she beat you to the game, she's a step ahead of you.
DeleteAnon 14:54
DeleteYou are an evil man.
There are lots of ladies that don't want to have kids, why not marry one of them.
But you deserve that kind of lie Mr man, you knew you have zero sperm count and didn't tell her? Pray tell what your plan for her was? You think she doesn't know, but she probably knows and decided to pay you in your coin. You deserve what she did to you 100%!! I bet you would have gotten a woman(en) pregnant outside your marriage if roles were reversed, boda oni jibiti.
DeleteBetter lick your wound and move on.
Your wicked lie is even an impediment to the marriage.There was no marriage between both of you if you kept that away.
DeleteWhat are you revenging?ina don balance una self.You both deserve each other.
DeleteBoth of you deserve each other. A liar and a cheat
DeleteUncle you are birds of a feather. You deserve her. Go and deal with her na, what are you waiting for? mtcheeew
DeleteI just move on
ReplyDeleteI barely revenge personally but noticed that people get hurt after hurting me. A lecturer got hit by a car back then in school after he said something awful to me in class which made me cry. He came back after spending a month at the hospital,with wounds on his face and hands, called me aside to apologise. he won't be the first to experience such after hurting me.
ReplyDeleteYou're a witch
DeleteMy fellow witch sighted @Shootergyal
DeleteMe too kidjo. If I shed tears as a result of someone hurting me badly, the repercussion would be bad. Now I just try not to take any hurt to heart.
DeleteSame with me, I forgive but karma refuses to forgive those who hurt me, they end up badly.
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DeleteMy dear, those who don't understand end up calling me names. There are people who you mustn't hurt, cause if they cry and their tears get to God, God will punish the causative agent of their tears especially when they are innocent. what I normally do is not to cry but call the person and forgive even before they ask, cause if I don't do this, I might end up pitying the person later when they start experiencing any misfortune.
DeleteUna get contrary spirit. Simple
DeleteKidjo we need this your cry on top of all APC and bad politicians.
DeleteShooter gyal, haba!! That's too much nau.
Delete17:44 i am so sure stella did not enable kidjo's comments.kidjo will chew shooter raw cos my young professor does not have time for nonsense.shooter had it coming her cup is full
Delete@Chike I don't cry unnecessarily, you nor know say those politicians nobi ordinary people wey things dey easily affect. many of them na strong men them be o
Delete@Kidjo, in your post at 16:53, you insinuated that it is God that exerts revenge on your behalf then in your post at 18:46 you are claiming that politicians are not ordinary people, so are you say that these politicians are more powerful than God with respect to what @Chike TEFLON asked you in 17:42?
Deleteanon19:29
Deletewhere did I claim that "they are more powerful than god" you people like to put words in someone's mouth.
I ve no dealings with "APC" politicians,even the ones I had
business with didn't hurt me so I can't take revenge. What they do in office doesn't affect me to the extent of crying.
I still repeat that most re not ordinary persons but highly fortified men, they have religious leaders praying steadily for them, but they are not above judgement from God.
abeg nor put words for my mouth next time o cause it's an open fact that most Nigerian politicians are not without spiritual backup.
Kidjo you're like me. My own is once you hurt me, and I am innocent; you've signed your warrant. Anything you see take it like that. Before I used to vex. But when I saw the patterns in the people who hurt me, I calmed down.
DeleteI've always walked away when I needed to, forgave and moved on as well. I've got no mind for pay backs.
ReplyDeleteI don't have the heart for revenge. I just cry and move on.
ReplyDeleteStill planning and working towards my revenge but it's actually to be very successful.i was stripped off alot of stuff but I will rise again.
ReplyDeleteI don't hold grude at all, keeping malice zaps energy
ReplyDeleteI don't love so hard.So whenever I notice that the relationship is getting cold,I call it off before you beat me to it 😁
ReplyDeleteAnonymous7 December 2017 at 13:16
ReplyDeleteIt is not okay for any of the spouses, man or woman to cheat. But for the woman, the implication is grave; she and everything she represents may not recover from it like that of the "woman caught in adultery" in John chapter eight. Where was the man?
A lady I know was hurt because her husband fucked her bridesmaid and even made "porn" out of it. I asked her, "are you going to divorce him", she said "no". (mind you, the man was remorseful, which she also admitted.) Then I said, "work it out, pray it out, wait it out . . . be calm and let him try to decode you etc." She instead grabbed an ex's penis and sucked and fucked. This was an ex that was hurting from being dumped for the "rich guy". Now, when she eventually made up with her hubby, she dumped the ex again; bad move. The guy sent "everything" to both her phone and the husband's phone and even the phone of her pastor whom they both had had counsel from and earthquakes began. Her marriage was over in less than 24 hours. She couldn't attend church again, she slipped into major depression, lost her job and so on. Mind you that she had her hubby's porn on her phone too. But no one was interested in that one.
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Anonymous7 December 2017 at 15:07
Omg pls stop ,this your story never taya You? If i lay my hands on you . Did you save this whole text as a form of punishment for blog visitors or what? I feel like screaming !
Yeeeeee. I remember this gist an Anon keeps posting on revenge posts
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DeleteMy belle hurts😂😂
Some of you have too much time on their hands. Like How did you dig out a post from 2017? Geez
DeleteAng has a catalogue of "stories" for pasting at regular intervals 🤣🤣😂😂
DeleteYvonne you are the ADA?
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My revenge is to be successful, that area I am hurt ,I always try to turn my pain to power. I don't have time to start planning nonsense, I just cut the relationship or situationship off and move ahead. You can't hold someone down without being down to make sure the person is held properly.
ReplyDeleteGbam!
DeleteThis happened in school Boy n girl fighting as per couple ish, girl ran into my friend's room, I was there, me n my friend prevented d boy from hitting her further, this boy round up 3 of us beat😁😁 I wonder how 3 of us couldn't fight him 🤣 we ran out shouting, unfortunately for him we ran into his own room since it was open, n locked d door. God so kind, it started raining with heavy thunder, this boy knock tire, threaten tire, nobody in d lodge agreed to help him. We ate his cornflakes,licked his milk n tea, his gf emptied his bottle of salt into his soup n stew. A lodge mate called d caretaker n he came, this was hours later. We now opened d door, boy was drenched n shivering, they asked him to apologise n if he threatens any of us 3, he would be arrested. Two weeks later d girl is back with d boy, anytime he sees me, he calls me militant.
ReplyDelete🤣🤣🤣🤣The girl still went back
Delete🤣🤣🤣
Delete🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteHahaha. Blackberry and friends in the mud. 🤣🤣🤣
Delete🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 After una chop beating d girl still go back. Kpele
DeleteI forgive easily, no strength and time to start planning what is not
ReplyDeleteI may ignore you and act like I didn't notice. Then i will wait till you show yourself finish. My silence treatment and attitude will make you to start reporting yourself to anybody you see.
ReplyDeleteEspecially when your plans failed, you will even beat yourself and start crying for no reason.
Honestly, this silent treatment is the worst killer of all. I use it now, very well.
DeleteI just cry very well then move on.
ReplyDeleteRevenge?
ReplyDeleteIf it is something very serious and I am very hurt, if I cry, different misfortunes and evil occurrences will befall the person. I don't need to lift a finger.
Two of my exes called to beg me after several years. One had a ghastly accident that left him with a limp. No job, no wife, no child after several years. The other one lost his job and could not get anything tangible to do for years.
One of my cousins too, her mum had to come with her to beg me, she was sick for a very long time, her education stopped. She really hurt me when I lived with them.
So now, if anyone offends me, I just remove it from my mind and shrug it off, I don't want people to get hurt anymore as it doesn't add anything positive to my life.
I cry,forgive and move on
ReplyDeleteI don't have time for revenge . I hand over everything to God. Forgiveness open doors for a better tomorow .
ReplyDeleteThe good Lord most tomes help with the healing process.
Times
DeleteMe revenge,no..but my "Chi" will do the work.
ReplyDeleteWhen I was in jss2 there was an annoying boy who was always troubling me. One day, during free period, he started insulting me and when he didn't get a reaction out of me, he started insulting my native people. I've always been self conscious about my culture because of something that happened when I was younger, so that was the last straw for me. I started insulting him back and I don't remember what I said, but it got him mad enough that he walked up to me and slapped me twice across the face. I saw red and tiny me pushed him to the ground and started swinging. I beat the hell out of him and my other classmates had to pull me off. He went home limping, but even that didn't stop him from cornering me in the girl's toilet few months later.
ReplyDeleteI hope you beat him up in the toilet as well. Useless bullies. They need to be taught a lesson.
DeleteWhat revenge? I don't have strength biko
ReplyDeleteRevenge is not in my dictionary o...I just cut you off like you are dead and I face front🙄
ReplyDeleteI still talks to the person that hurt me badly, I just want to witness his karma first hand, I know it will come
ReplyDeleteNo, I don't seek for revenge rather I let it all out in silent prayers and let God deal with the person
ReplyDeleteI live for revenge, it's my life and I don't feel bad at all. You see people are so wicked, they hurt you and and apologize then hurt another person and apologize that's how they'll continue hurting people. But if you know that you'll be paid back with your own coin everyone will act up
ReplyDeletePlease be helping us deal with them 😅
DeleteI cursed someone who said he only dated me cos I was the only one who refused to sleep with him when we were younger. He came with marriage and me thinking he was the love of my life, believed until I saw bride price list of Akwa Ibom (we are both Igbo). His bestie was the gf all this while. When I confronted him, he insulted me so badly that I couldn't say anything. I left him and was quiet for a long time until deep in the night, I cursed him will all my heart and soul. I said he will never marry before me. He never did, has like 2 baby mamas now. I forgave him eventually and called him to wish him well.
ReplyDeleteCurrently cooking one right now. If God didn't want me to get my revenge he won't give me the means. I have gotten every info and I have arranged everything. Just waiting till end of the year.
ReplyDeleteTick Tock b**ch!
anon tomorrow is not promised, you don't know what will happen the next minute and you're already scheming revenge for the end of the year. Have a rethink and do not enter the new year the way you plan to
DeleteCheck the spirit before you act, it may backfire if you were the first offender. Why don’t you forgive and allow karma to deal with the person.
DeleteLmao. E get people wey you de revenge for. Me na expert counter revenger. Na you go tire.
Delete7.00 same way you go jam those that pass you. Lmaooo
DeleteIf I had some sort of super power, Lord knows I will fuck some people up.
ReplyDeleteI am still looking for one man in the face of this earth to run him over with a car, yes I will do it unless I don't see him ever again in this life, that one is sure.
Shuùu 😳😯😲
DeleteAbeg waitin en do you?
@FINNY why will you do that? Just let go as revenge is in God's hands
DeleteThink through your decision before you do something you will regret for the rest of your life.
DeleteFinny my sister pls don't kill him, you don't have to go to jail because of one evil person. By midnight, cry and mention his name and call on God to deal with him for you. Kpe! mekop?
DeleteI set fire to all his Certificates/ birth cert plus more.And I'm not sorry.
ReplyDeleteI don do many and I don’t regret it. I still have a few. I was team leave it alone till back to back, bad things happened. Until I revenged before that stopped. Now, I no send anybody papa. I fight back!
ReplyDeleteThe desire for revenge sometimes depends on how deeply you are hurt. At a very vulnerable period in my life, my spouse hurt me and kept hurting me for a couple of years. To make matters worse, I was in the vulnerable situation by agreement, because we were both working towards a goal. I tried talking about it because I believed in communication but the hurt continued and there was even attempts to play it like it was all my fault. There was never admission of doing anything wrong!
ReplyDeleteEventually when I got to a place where my recovery started, I announced I wanted to leave the exceedingly toxic marriage. Initially, I wasn't taken serious, then I started separating myself. It was only at that time my spouse started begging o! OK, I reconsidered, forgave and stayed. But every now and again, I remember how I was treated at my vulnerable moment and it takes a really strong will and repeatedly handing it over to God for me not to plan a payback!
I will never put myself in such a vulnerable situation again! Forgiving doesn't mean I have forgotten what this person can be capable of when the situation supports it! Revenge on the other hand won't solve anything, and our children will probably suffer more than us from the fallout! Sometimes I still feel love for this person, but at other times, I am just so angry!!!
Go for therapy dear 💝
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