A lot of women are on this table and need to let this advice sink in.........
Thursday, December 30, 2021
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ReplyDeleteAnyways I just read Victoria Iyanmas response and I give Victoria a 100%. God bless you wherever you dey Victoria 🙏🏾👍🏾👏🏾
DeleteHusband's should also cover their wives nakedness and stop celebrating their wives' failures. They is no perfect wife.No be only women everytime. Madam rest in Jesus name.
ReplyDeleteAmen
DeleteThank you o
DeleteThere's no perfect human being
Which one is there's no perfect husband
So if you marry a man that molests small kids let's cover him because men aren't perfect?
Mtcheww
I agreed with you 101 per cent
DeleteAmen
DeleteAmen
DeleteEverytime women women
Advise the men too
By the way, men talk about their wives more than women.
DeleteHave you heard what some men tell their sidechics about their wives? You will throw up. The silly sidechic will even believe him until it's her turn.
Have you heard what some men tell their families about their wives and still smile in the wife's face? You will throw up.
I listened to one of her sermon that women shouldn't bother about their husbands side attractions, they should rather wear clothes and do shakara in front of the side chic and she said one thing in her dialect and people started rejoicing.... really, really. Men would love that sermon with all their heart. Can she tell men not to bother about their wives side boyfriend?
This is a coping mechanism and not a cure. She gives you people secret to cope but what if coping doesn't work anymore. Are you happy sleeping all alone on your big bed seeing your youth waste while your husband is off to wherever enjoying himself, comes home once a while, barely touches you, takes you with him only for functions that he needs to show off he is respectable married man. You just answer married by mouth. The only time you see him is when he is sick, broke or very old.
Congratulations "unwoke" women. Keep treating HIV, STDs, High BP and plastering wounds instead of seeking the permanent healing and cure for it.
KING XOXO MYSTERY
I am sick of hearing her sermon, I always skip and roll my eyes.
DeleteI don't take all these ndi oke amamihe seriously, they never practice what they preach.🙄🙄
Xoxo mystery i saw that too. She said aje ku mi ni on je. Means you are eating my leftovers. I am tired of all these teachings. Why not counsel men and women to go into marriage in good faith and be of one flesh
DeleteKing Xoxo 😍😍
DeleteThis woman is an oppressor and an enabler of those who oppress the weak.
DeleteI no dey ever read or listen to her post. Money worshipper. She thinks is the next best thing since the discovery of tissue paper.
She's as fake as they come.
Who are those braindead people emulating this loud mouthed shallow minded fellow?
Shugargirl, you have manners at all?
DeleteI'm never her fan but this makes sense.
ReplyDeleteThere's no perfect wife either, not her fan either
DeleteIt does not make any sense. Gullible people
Delete14.11 have some sense please.
DeleteOver to the married women! To be a couple no easy at all.
ReplyDeleteNa wah o, this life get as e be!
My bf will be like babe this thing I want to tell you don't tell anybody o,I will say no I won't and he will be like no need I won't tell you again, cos most times when he tells me stuff and I will download to my sisters and later na me go go report myself give am mistakenly I will just be like ehen boo you remember that thing you talk, I tell my sister o, and she said na there kasala go bust and I go begin beg, sorry 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂
I'm learning to keep my mouth mute.. but I don't discus with outsiders and friends o, just that my sisters and I are so close.
Receive wisdom
DeleteYour sisters are not your boyfriend
Keep your mouth shut
Keep discussing with your sisters who will in turn tell their friends and boyfriends and the news will keep spreading. Mtcheeew
DeleteMost sister and brother are actually the green snake under green grass, but the bond of family love blinded us to their antics before we realised our marriage is over, it happens to me so I know. My blood sister crashed my marriage with her witchcraft bit I never realised until the deed was done the first person I always say my deepest secret to.
DeletePlease, use the mic
ReplyDelete🤣🤣🤣🤣 Off the mic 🎤
DeleteWho will now cover women nakedness like this? side chickens?
ReplyDeleteIt's both ways,
ReplyDeleteWhat people don't know is that men gossip more than women. Just give them beer and cow tail peppersoup, them go start to dey misyarn. You can see from chronicles of married men how much men talk.
ReplyDeleteGbam
DeleteAnon 13:03, don’t worry, we know men gossip more.
DeleteMy husband is the watsap administrator for amebo men.
It’s so bad that My in-laws know the colour of my pants sef....
You are telling me? I say when i hang out with hubby and his friends or colleague or male relative, come and here gist na.
DeleteCover his abusive nakedness.
ReplyDeleteCover his cheating nakedness.
Cover his deadbeat nakedness.
Cover your tiredness carrying huge burdens.
I am not the type to tell women to break faith and end their marriages but women like this would rather shame abused women to silence which is what was obtainable in her generation thou. Their generation of men were raised to give shit while the women were trained to pack it in silence.
Thank God for today's generation of husbands. Marriage today is garbage in, garbage out and many men have learned to love right and be responsible or get their butts kicked.
Discretion is important
DeleteHowever some sores start to rot when covered up instead of healing
Don't put words in her mouth, that wasn't what she wrote. Stop projecting.
DeleteGod bless you Ms Saphire
Deleteevery gender should cover their side biko...
ReplyDeleteVictoria Inyanma has replied. Says the preacher is enabling abuse.
ReplyDeleteThe truth is in the middle. Not all nakedness should be covered, and not all should be uncovered.
#isokoman
I so love Victoria Iyanmas response. I don give her 100%
DeleteIts a man's world
ReplyDeleteAmazon b
Hmmm
ReplyDeleteWho will now cover the woman's nakedness?
Careless crowns?
DeleteMany men talk childishly, carelessly and foolishly
As they do not understand what leadership means
Today is about covering husband nakedness. Next time we shall discuss that of wife
DeleteFew weeks ago...she (Funk) addressed men too.
ReplyDeleteMany women castigating her need to actually sit down. Go to YouTube. Watch the video properly and think logically rather than emotionally.
Most times...when a clergy give advice on marriage. Most women that comments emotionally negatively are either bitter...have had a a troubling relationship...divorced etc.
That message she gave is not for women who are divorced or married to men who are unreasonable(which is a minute number of men).
Also....it's okay if you don't want to take her advice. If your husband who is decently good most of the time makes mistake...feel free to report him to social media. Feel free to insult him. Feel free to pack out. Feel free to divorce.
Just know that if you do...you will end up like Victoria inyama who is always bitter and posting negative stories.
Same way most women think they are managing their husband is same way your husbands are managing you.
After all...there is not much a mán gain from marriage other than children. The rest he can get without getting married.
Sex...most men get more sex as single men than when they are married. There Are many married level headed men who are doing soapy because the wife has closed shop.
Affection: most women dont give men affection unless he brings money to the table in marriage.
So Wetin be him gain? He would be better off financially without marriage. Sef.
God bless you and bless your generation to come, 1 million likes to your comment.
DeleteGbam!!!! people will just rush to castigate without hearing the full message.
DeleteTo each his own, whoever wants to wash his or her spouse dirty linen in public should go ahead while then wise knows when to reveal and when to keep quiet.
So because Victoria spoke up, it means it's only divorced women that have issues with her.
DeleteAnd what's wrong with being divorced? Tell me. What's all this tag just to make what Victoria said to be less justified?
Everyone with common sense should find wrong in what she said. She is not above correction. And her sermon is mostly about women.
I could say that it's women with unhappy marriages that listens to her because she gives you the secret of coping in a bad marriage. But I am sure in 1, 2, 3, you are going to tell me how happy your marriage is.
KING XOXO MYSTERY
God bless you,they just pick a part from the message and leave the rest. Those saying she is always talking about women,well that's her ministry.
DeleteBeing divorce is not a stigma. The woman that has the strength to walk out is stronger and bolder than you women judging her and enduring pains in your marriages.continue to cover your husband's wandering prick and keep treating STDs.
DeleteI only remember her as the woman who was 'conning' other gullible women of £1,000 as seed offering. On the the last day, she will answer to her maker for such brazen extortion!
DeleteBECAREFUL WHO YOU LISTEN TO!!!
It's this kind of preaching that makes women cover when their husbands sleep with their minor helps.
ReplyDeleteStop covering up evil all in the name of he is your husband.
Yes, it is true. "Love covers over a multitude of sins." If you love him, you should not be eager and happy that "he failed or fails." Any wise woman should treat her family matters with utmost confidentiality. When the chips are down, the "friends" will clear. But your husband and kids are there with you all the time.
ReplyDeleteActually when the chips are down, good friends still remain, good husband's remain, children will always remain.
DeleteSome husband pick race when the chips are down and all the women will be left with is trying to get in touch with friends she left because of the marriage.
But why the chips be down? Why can't the chips go up? Why can't she go from blessing to blessing?
Nigerians always always waiting for the chips to be down for someone and they don't know it's a wizard mentality.
KING XOXO MYSTERY
kig xoxo maybe nee king tonto herself ...the multiple comments ehn
DeleteI agree with this woman. How many women have written to this blog to complain that "there is no husband, not even a man saying hi" to them.
ReplyDeleteAnd how many men have done that? Think about this week alone.
If there is no man where they are at, maybe they should leave their environment and go to another place.
DeleteWhat makes you think that all men have overflow of women? There are men who are single single.
It's this scarcity mentality that makes women date married men.
KING XOXO MYSTERY
I had a teacher in school named "Nwokediuko" -a male is scarce. If we want to tell ourselves the truth, husbands are scarce. There may be many men around you o.
ReplyDeleteBut husbands are scarce, every scarce. And a lot of the ladies you call to unleash on your husband will not bat an eyelid to marry him if you drop him.
A lot of ladies married another woman's husband and lived to tell the story or did they live?
DeleteHusbands are not scarce. This scarcity mentality makes people settle to receive abuse.
No husband is scarce anywhere.
KING XOXO MYSTERY
Na her type dey advice women to suffer till they die in the marriage. Nonsense and ingredients. clicks tongue
ReplyDeleteNo be everything Dem dey cover oo or else e go choke.
ReplyDeleteMost women do cover, only a few will come online and type, "hey fam, my husband cheated"
ReplyDeletewhich they type anonymously
DeleteNo be only cover, na pot
ReplyDeleteLet him do anyhow, he will see his story on social media. Nonsense!
Anon 14.09 your comment cracked me up
Deletehmmmmmmmm
ReplyDeleteThis is a wrong statement
ReplyDeleteVery wrong
Absolutely wrong.
There is no perfect person anywhere but do not cover anyone's abuse. Some of the sermon I hear from her is not Godly. What she tells women and men is ignore.
How about telling people to deal with their problems, seek help from God continuously until you become better?
Sometimes women preach because of their experiences in their own family.
There are women and men who became better through constant change because someone spoke up. Don't ever remain on the same level in life instead of crying out and seeking for help.
Dear abused men and women, don't cover anyone's abuse. Don't do that. Husbands are not scarce. It doesn't matter if your neighbor is experiencing abuse and pretending to have a perfect marriage. Don't be like her. You have a life, you have a destiny to fulfill, your children needs you, your family needs you. It doesn't matter if he married another person and they seem happy, good for them but it can be all smokes and screen
No matter what you do in Nigeria , you will have an audience and more especially if you have a title to add to it.
Choose what you listen to carefully. Anyone that their words don't match the nature of the love of God that you deserve, flee from such person and sermon.
Speaking up and walking away has saved lives.
There will always be a woman who will blindly marry him, it doesn't mean he is now a better person and something is wrong with you, No, the woman may be coping. Look at Precious case. Is there no woman with her ex? Is the woman enjoying?
Speak up and save your lives. This culture of silence has killed more than it has kept. If women can be real and speak up on their experiences but No, they are busy trying to one up on their married or single friends putting up that happy image, hailing their cheating, abusive husband all over social media, writing sweet trash for a man that is curled up with another woman. At least if you can't speak up, stop covering up and enabling him with your writeup.
KING XOXO MYSTERY
All of projecting your issues onto this woman.. ehn. Where exactly has she mentioned covering abuse?
Delete*of you
Deleteking xoxo I feel you are taking her sermon out of context ...maybe we should all listen to the full thing apart from shouting on social media what other way can a marriage be saved??
DeleteWhat about men that gossip about their wife as in have no limit of discussing their wife with anyone available to listen. The advice should be for both parties and it is not only womaen that has the spirit of gossiping.
ReplyDeleteSpeaking from experience duo.
Her opinion though, her right too. But experience has taught me that people like her can't practice what the preach, if her hubby don't give her freedom she wants , her type will fight him to finish, so the man just dey background enjoying his peace. A man in my neighborhood specializes in sleeping with married women that their husbands are not financially capable even pregnant ones, his wife knows but will always be gisting how good he is even when not asked ooo( covering him), but guy man go get nerves go another man's house to sleep with the man's wife on their matrimonial bed, he was caught, the helpless man just beg him to do it outside with his wife and never his house again. The married women he sleep with hide it from themselves and people(covering him), now he goes about bragging how their bodies look making his wife look like a fool. Don't cover sins, it multiplies. No matter the gender, seek help on time to save yourself and partner. It's over covering of sins and taking her advice that makes couples matter reach social media, if it's handle well when small, we see life is easy, no one is perfect
ReplyDeleteThe quote should be read in context. The quoted words are from a full sermon or lecture. And more importantly, it is not for everyone. It is for her church members or seminar attendees. Until we read the full sermon/lecture, it is better to take the good of the quote, and let well enough alone.
ReplyDeleteThose who ask why only women are focused on These days, preachers specialize. Some people are also gifted in some matters. Clearly this preacher's ministry is targeted at women. Her husband may choose to focus on men matters. There are preachers better in matters concerning youths, or Christian finance/business, or personal development,or deliverance, etc. If you enter the church hall of a deliverance pastor, you may think, based on what you see or hear, that the whole world is full of possessed people except the preacher.
Women and men who are always defensive of each gender even on neutral matters like what the preacher said in the quote, even if that's all she said, need to check themselves. Maybe, the statement hits home with them. Otherwise, what the preacher said should not ordinarily provoke the kind of personal attack launched at her by Victoria Inyanma.
Who disagrees there is no perfect husband. How many women love their husbands telling on them on everything. When both genders are used in illustration, the truth in the preacher's words are clear beyond argument. But because her ministry is to women, she rightly referred to only women.
A preacher should not be deemed or insinuated as preaching the covering up of husbands' sins or anybody's sins unless the preacher expressly says so. Nothing in the preacher's quote says wives should cover sins beyond those the Bible says love covers.
Thank you, well said 👌
DeleteOn this, I completely agree with your write up.
DeleteMen,be brave. Speak the truth in love and wisdom to avoid the tragic consequences later.
ReplyDeleteCovering up helps no one in the long run, it destroys trust.
This woman is not called of God. She is not a pastor. LISTEN TO HER AT YOUR OWN PERIL.
ReplyDeleteFolks, go and study the Bible by yourself. Ask for help from the Holy Spirit.
please pastor rest, this is one of the reasons why domestic violence is on the increase.
ReplyDeleteI pity people that listen to this business woman.
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