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They said i am a bully. Good evening Stella mama
ReplyDeleteHow do you scold adults for things they are doing wrong and they term you a 'bully.'
DeleteI no even sabi wetin be bully then. Maybe because I went to mixed day secondary school with my elder sister. No bully .
DeleteI was not bullied but l can remember one encounter of bullying l did to one primary school boy&l regret it till today.
DeleteI have bullied before. I didn't realize that was what I was doing. That was in secondary school. I deeply regret it now
DeleteNone of the above
DeleteYes I've been bullied but my siblings dealt with the bully and taught me how to stand up for myself.
ReplyDeleteI was bullied in primary, secondary and a little in the University. The thing still triggers something in me whenever I see someone being bullied and I must jump in to help.
ReplyDeletePraise God I'm not that girl anymore, I don't even have the liver to watch those horrible bullying videos online, I can't take it. Even my social media handles, I'm extremely particular about the people/pages I follow.
See SDK people I can write a book about bullying and it's effects, it's a terrible experience for anyone to go through. Let's be careful and kind to one another.
I have been bullied once in secondary school by some deplorable..Smh!
ReplyDeleteI haven't actually bullied someone physically or verbally before cos there's no need for that...
@Genius,are you sure you are not a bully?🙄. Good evening
DeleteYou haven't bullied anyone verbally on this blog...wonders shall never end.
DeleteSuffry dey lie sha.
😆🤣😂 Y'all should leave me abeg..
DeleteI just strictly and critically react to issues without being sentimental but it's fine if most of you think that i am a bully(which is not true)
Good evening,Mz B
Lies! @ genius. You're a BULLY!
DeleteThat person that wants to bully someone like us is mad. You are very very mad. Abi orie ti gbale ni? 🤣🤣🤣
ReplyDelete😆😆😆 Mine was even in a day school o..I saw him after graduation and he was looking at me endlessly..
DeleteOmo igboro, na you dey bully person abi
DeleteEsaah I dey feel you.
DeleteNa you bi the ' Mr Bully' himself.
Yes,I've been bullied alot ,but thank goodness I know how to fight back as a Tigress😎😎😎
ReplyDeleteNa so😁😁😁😁. Good evening
Delete😄😄😄Goodevening Darling@Mz B
DeleteI ve time now, lemme gist y'all about my experiences with Bullies.
DeleteFrancis was the biggest pupil in my class in primary school and bullied everyone daily. it finally got to my turn,He stole my pencil everyday, had to come to school with new ones daily.
My parents noticed and asked me questions, I told them that it was Francis. One particular Friday, I was writing when he grabbed my pencil, I tried to report him to the teacher but she didn't listen to me cause I was a stutterer then. I tried to drag my pencil from him but he pushed me so hard that I hit my head on a desk. I went to the teacher again and tried to report but Francis shouted from his seat that I slipped and fell before I could say anything.😔
I went home with the bruise, my dad was infuriated, he called me after dinner and ask about Francis "how many hands does he have?", I answered "two", his next comment was all I needed to be able to stand up to Francis and any other bullies in life. Dad was like "Francis has two hands and you have two hands, deal with him with the same two hands he uses to fight you". He taught me how and where to hit in order to have immediate effect on my opponent,I decided to let my nails grow as well so as to use to pinch him incase my punches didn't do much😡.
A week later, I was in class doing my classwork when Francis came my way,the teacher on duty went to the staffroom to get something. I told him off but he tried to drag my pencil as usual, I didn't know when I landed him a slap, followed by serious beatings. I dug my sharp fingers on his face, the whole class started shouting, so the headmistress and some teachers came, they dragged me off him, took him to clean his wounds and made me kneel down in the staffroom during break.to cut a long story short, I was happy seeing the blood from the scar on his face, that was how I put an end to his bullying in my class.they invited our parents and the issue was sorted out . Francis later became my very good frd till we left primary school.😁😁
😀😀😀Kidjo
DeleteAnd the violent,taketh it by force
Francis was nothing but a weak ass loser all that while. Nice one!
DeleteYes o,@I'm blessed😁😁😁😁
DeleteThanks dear CHISOM🤗🤗🤗🤗
heheheh claws of justice....tearing apart bullies and saving classmates
DeleteYES I've been bullied countless times,I remember when I was around 8years old my cousin plug hot iron and place it on my chest because he was jealous of me,the scar is still there till tommorow,then when my dad died and I moved to my uncles house,mehn that man bullied me en,at a time I wanted to run away.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry
DeleteSo sorry
DeleteThere is a difference between molesting, assault and bullying know the difference
Delete19:18, professor, explain the difference na🙄
Delete@19:18,I know the difference,thank you
DeleteYes I have been bullied and I don't bully people.
ReplyDeleteYes
ReplyDeleteNope, never been bullied or bullied anyone
ReplyDeleteAt work. Yes. I have been bullied, because of babe��������
ReplyDelete😆🤣😂 See your mouth
DeleteI've been bullied. When i was in Primary school, we had one bully that was constantly beating me but one day i stood up for myself and injured the bully badly, the bullying stopped that day.
ReplyDeleteWay to go
DeleteI was bullied all through my primary school, but in my senior secondary school,they wanted to bully me again, I did not let that happen Lai Lai.
ReplyDeleteFunny enough, I have never bullied anyone always on my lane jeje
Bullying sucked big time!!
I've never been bullied.
ReplyDeleteI called out a class mate in secondary school when some of her friends were complaining that she won't give them her bread until it gets spoilt and her dad brings her fresh bread every Friday, she will give it to her friends when she can no longer eat it.
It was a boarding school, so sliced bread was kinda special. I told them to tell her to her face but they were afraid of her, so I called her out in class during night prep, everybody insulted her and she cried. She told me last week, that's after 15/16 years of the incident, when this recent bullying was happening, she said I bullied her on that day.
I apologized sha because I didn't have strength to argue.
. But I don't think that is bullying o.
Therefore, I have not bullied anybody before 🙄
To me that's bullying,what is your business when she decides to give out her bread?those friends can decide to reject the bread or were they under any obligation to collect it? Even if u must talk to her,why didn't you talk to her in private why call her out during night prep for people to insult her ontop her own bread.
DeleteTherefore u have bullied someone before and that makes you a bully
@simplytonia yes you bullied her, but thank GOD you have apologised that is all.
DeleteYes,I was bullied, received a dirty slap in JSS one from a girl in the same class but different subclass,she was six years older than me,I was coming from a private primary and I wasnt used to the whole government school attitude.though she apologized the next day saying she did that because mydad often dropped me off at school in the morning in a Volkswagen,I speak English and I do shakara alot.small me then,asked how thatis my fault,that my dad take this route to work.she wanted me to be her friend after but I just couldn't even my own parent never slapped me.
ReplyDeleteI was bullied in primary school, after I beat the crap outta the bully, my morale was high, by the time I got into secondary school and met bigger bullies, I absolutely refused to be bullied, I was called "that insolent port Harcourt girl".
ReplyDeleteI am not a bully and I hate bullies.
So right from my senior secondary school days, if you try to bully me, na to follow you bumper to bumper, so tey you go know what's up!!
ReplyDeleteDon't know I I've ever bullied anyone. Can't say for sure as no one has ever referred to me as one. I've been called harsh though, cos of my bluntness. I'm a bit more diplomatic now that I'm married.
ReplyDeleteOf course, I've been bullied many times before. I guess only few people can say they've never been bullied. Even bullies were once victims of bullying.
Never been bullied, didn't bully anyone
ReplyDeleteI've not been bullied.
ReplyDeletenever been bullied. My mum was the headmistress of my primary school, so I and my sisters were treated like an egg.
ReplyDeleteThen my elder sisters were my seniors in secondary school, no one dared looked at me and my younger sister in a bad way.
Then in my university, I wasn’t bullied. No one cared🙂
E mi keh!
ReplyDeleteNo one can bully me, I be fire.
I don't bully and I don't allow people to bully me.
I am friendly with everyone, if you carry fight come, we go fight am.
I've never bullied someone because I hate making someone feel bad, I've never been bullied too
ReplyDeleteI was timid when I was in Primary school and part of secondary school. I was bullied so badly until I snapped and became a bully to my bullies as a defense mechanism.
ReplyDeleteNow, I can't stand bullying. I hate bullying with a passion.
You dare not try to bully anybody in my own secondary school or you will be expelled. The school trained the best not bully touts.
DeleteI was bullied in secondary school and it wasn't funny at all.
ReplyDeleteNo, I have never been bullied and I have also not bully anyone.
ReplyDeleteAwa ya werey gan o.... we can never be bullied... we bully bullies.
ReplyDeleteI was bullied both in primary school and in church, yes church
ReplyDeleteI can't even bully anyone, no strength
I've never bullied someone because I hate making someone feel bad, I've never been bullied too
ReplyDeleteYes... When i was in primary school( Catholic), I joined the assembly officials ( I love singing) and i forgot the prayers during Lent period. Instead i was saying "The Angel of the Lord declared unto Mary instead of Oh Queen of Heaven rejoice". That was how one girl a class ahead of me who always bullied me just collected the mic from me, slapped my face and said the correct Creed. I felt bad and was so angry. After the morning assembly, as she was packing up the mic and stuff, she said "Stupid girl, tomorrow try it again". Immediately, I didn't know when i slapped and started to beat her. One of our teachers held me but was happy i beat her to my satisfaction. Guess what? That marked an end to her bullying me.
ReplyDeleteSo 2018, I was going somewhere and entered a bus, She was in the bus and recognized me. We greeted, chatted and she introduced me to her husband. I greeted him and the bus moved. After some time, they were in a conversation and it seems the guy couldn't follow her to where they agreed too and tried explaining to her, she just flared up and was like you'll do no such thing,you must follow me, how dare you?.... Everyone was like 😳🙄🙄. I just said within me, this girl hasn't changed... Do bully's every change?
My secondary sch was a breeding ground for bullies. I was bullied a lot and unfortunately the school authorities turned a blind. Management of CSSKD, I can never forget the trauma.
ReplyDeleteMy Boss wanted to bully me. She was the bank manager and I was just a little customer service officer. She started picking on me, bodyshamed me, called me names just because I did not commit a little bank fraud( overlook some ATM card processing rules) she wanted. I treated her F.up. I started recording her, I was ready to risk it all. My salary was just one tenth of hers. She came to me crying and begging. I just left the yeye job and relocated outside the country. She was later sacked but because someone else reported her too.
ReplyDeleteI have been bullied several times in the past and still being bullied now..
ReplyDeleteIt started right from primary school, my classmates seniors and even some teachers used to make fun of me because of the kind of dentition I have, it's scattered and I have big lips too, I was called a vampire , elete kpomo etc..
My English teacher will still compel me to read out comprehension passages in front of the class, so I can be made mockery of..
I wrote common entrance in pry 4, got into FGGC owerri as a very young girl, 9yrs in Jss1.. All d way from Lagos to owerri, nobody to mingle with in the school..
Throughout my Jss days from Jss1 to Jss3, I was bullied..i had a very full hair that almost starts from my forehead, it was long too.. I was very slim, and this bone at the neck was so visible.. I was called skeleton, witch, vampire, all sorts of names..
Whenever seniors were bored in yellow house, they will call me and make me do all sorts of dehumanizing things for their amusement..
It affected my personality alot, I became a loner (still is), I will always sit at the back in class to avoid interacting with people so they don't see my teeth, it affected my self esteem, I became so timid and always scared or ashamed..
Even as an adult the ripple effect of bullying still affects me till date..
Whenever I log in to Facebook and see pictures of those seniors that bullied me in secondary school, I get sad and angry but I wish them well..
If you're a bully, please stop, I beg you in God's name, stop that act of bullying.. You won't be there to wipe tears of your victims when they cry at night, you might not even have the opportunity to apologize for the evil you did because you all will part ways, but your wicked act causes havoc in the life of your victims..
I am even in tears as I write this.. Sorry for the long epistle..
I’m so sorry for what you passed through during the course of your education. I pray for mental and emotional healing to you.
DeletePs:I also schooled at fggc Owerri.
Sorry dear. It is well with you. You are a beauty, let no one take that from you. You are the apple of God's eyes. It is well. Just so angry you were made to go through this. Be strong
Deleteoh dear, so sorry about your experiences. hope you know that people are paying millions just to have kpomo lips now? I too have kpomo lips and it's part of my sexy attributes. I've been bullied several times because of it on this blog but I don't care cause I know about the secret of bullies,they bully you when they see something they don't have in you(could be your shape,eyes,intelligence, height,etc).
DeleteThe lack of that which you ve that they so much desire creates the hate in them . No need to cry ok, there's something special in you that they are jealous of.
Would love to be friends with you, are you based in Abuja?
So sorry
DeleteSo sorry you had to pass thru all of this dear, you are beautiful and very special to God 🤗🤗
DeleteBeautiful Soul
🤗🤗🤗❤️❤️❤️
DeleteSorry you passed through that 🤗
DeleteSending hugs to you!! 💞💞
DeleteYou are strong ,U are beautiful,u are a queen,never let them get to u.❤️ And 💡
Delete😘🤗🤗🤗 so sorry
DeleteSo sorry about your experience
Delete🤗🤗🤗😘😘😘
So sorry dear🤗🤗🤗
DeleteYes but I made sure I beat hell out of her.i shred everything she had on her include her bra and panties. After that day everybody became afraid of me and they started calling me tigress.
ReplyDeleteLion doesn't born sheep . Come with your bully ,you go with bully scar.
ReplyDeleteMy colleague is bullying me & others but I want to get evidence before I will report him because he's a chronic liar. The bullying is affecting me psychologically. But is not that I can't face him & teach him a lesson that he will never forget in his life but I don't just want to go low like him because he's a drunk & he's always high on alcohol & Igbo
ReplyDeleteI've been bullied, ha those girls showed me oba. 2 of them fah....they'd wait for me after lessons..one in front and the other @ my back.🤣🤣🤣
ReplyDeleteI have been verbally bullied. Though I know those humans doing it are not mentally okay. Many are mad in this Lagos , few are roaming.
ReplyDeleteThey tried to but each time they did, i always fought back and made them back off in fear and respect.
ReplyDeleteMy Boss was a bully to us in the office.
ReplyDeleteI just wrote my resignation, dropped my I'd card,locker key and left last week.
He started calling, I didnt pick.
came to my house to apologise to me and my husband same day at past 10pm.
Anyway,he has changed and office is now
peaceful. I am still job hunting though.
Chai. God will provide you with a better one.
DeleteOn several occasions ooo and on one of them, the girl (almost my mate ooo but very streetwise) peeled yam at home and purposely didnt wash her hand. Na my mouth she come take do cleaner. Mouth scratch me ehnn, I use am scratch wall before I became alright. Seriously, I blame my dad a little. If my dad hears that you fought outside, whether you started it or not, he will flog you. I guess that was why I found it hard to fight back. Make them come try am now, this my big bones no be for decorations. Ama crush them to pieces.
ReplyDelete🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteLol
DeleteI have been bullied in secondary school but I always stand up for myself,even though I was tiny then,my late mum taught me to stand up and face them
ReplyDeleteI've been bullied.
ReplyDeleteIn secondary school,we had on bully in the class named Busayo,she was always on my case, all because I use to wear an oversize school sandal,(remember those days, when your mum will buy you a particular sandal,you'll wear for years) that's exactly what I had then,i was always shy to go out for break all because of Busayo.
One fateful day,I was upset because they stole my money,immediately I saw Busayo laughing at me I knew she took me money,I move close to her and told her today I will beat you and you'll return my money and you'll also stop bullying me.she thought I was joking when I slapped her twice (Trust student na they gather round hailing me )with speed pushed her to the floor and filled her mouth with grass.
Till we graduated she never cross my path again....
You are the bully here. Busayo never beat you, did she?
DeleteHow's she the bully when Busayo started it first by making mockery of her shoes😕😕😕? @19:56
DeleteI think she bullied the bully. Showed the bully shege! I can't feel sorry for said Busayo because she got it coming.
DeleteAnon, no, she treated the fuck up of her bully
DeleteI was bullied several times in school (primary and secondary) but I was so determined to revenge, reasons why I went for Taekwondo and made sure I was so good at it even till now.
ReplyDeleteI have list of people I tend to deal with but I was unable to do just that because we later became friends after I got admission into FCE(t)akoka and they have also experienced my bad side when we were with some friends a year after I got admitted in FCE
You taekeawhat??? LMAOOOOO
DeleteThis anon 02:24 is definitely your wife 😂😂😂
DeleteBullying is bad! Say no to bullying!!
ReplyDeleteIt’s well
Yes I have been bullied, but I stood up and fight back. No, I don't bully people.
ReplyDeleteAll through my life.
ReplyDeleteSeveral times and it started affecting my self esteem at a point. I'm glad I'm getting better now.
ReplyDeleteBeautiful Soul
Chai 90s I bullied sheyi and e got me almost blind but I shook am pencil back for eyes o.. na do me do I do u.. sheyi our after school lessons .. where is u and in the name of bisi!
ReplyDeleteGrowing up,I was bullied,by my elder sister(older by 13yrs).When mum or anyone buys us things,she would take them,ranging from clothes,chocolates,jewelry,she would say in her famous lines "don't you know I'm your senior".Untill one day I stood up to her and we fought,it was bloody,from that day,she respected herself.
ReplyDeleteI was bullied several times while growing up
ReplyDeleteYes, by my former boss
ReplyDeleteYes I have been bullied in secondary school. I later stood up for myself and put an end it.
ReplyDeleteI am not sure if I have ever bullied someone,but have been bullied by my husband
ReplyDeleteServals times to be precise!
ReplyDeleteInteresting question.
ReplyDeleteYes, I've been bullied by one boy in primary 3 and my 'supposed friends' who was also our tenants then in primary 5. From that day till they left our house in secondary school I see them as my enemies so I made sure nothing ever brought us together again even till this moment cos theirs was such a terrible one. But in my secondary life like this, I've became the Jagaban plus my elder brothers influence
ReplyDeleteI was kind of a bully as Far back as nursery school. 😓. I remember on little girl in nursery 3 that usually had snort n thick yellow mucus in her nostrils. It irritated me so much n I would always beat her whenever the teacher wasn’t looking. I feel so bad whenever I remember it and I hope she doesn’t remember it. A few other victims in primary school though, one summoned courage n beat me up eh, I gave her space immediately.
ReplyDeleteFunny enough I entered secondary school n didn’t even bully anymore. Don’t really recall any now. Always Had like 10school daughters at a time and I became fellowship girl then so I was more interested in making my juniors to attend fellowship n night prayers hence I was always nice to them
My primary and secondary School mates used poverty to bully me and my siblings eee.
ReplyDeleteI grew up in a poor home. Infact, the only accommodation my Mom could afford then was uncompleted building(uncompe). If my school mates passed and saw me in our uncompe, hmmm, the next day school will be hell for me. They will so bully me, some will even come and push or slap me. I couldn't talk or react back because of fear and where I was growing up.
If any of them mistakenly see me hawking around eee, the whole school will definitely hear it.
If I'm returning home from school with my sack bag where I put my books, I will be crying on the road till I get to my poor home.
My school uniform must always expire on my body and change color because of overused, it will just be tearing anyhow. That one is another bully from my class and school mates.
I wore oversized sleepas to school or sandals I picked on the road,that one is another round of bullying. D..
I thank God for life anyways and still believing him for a better tomorrow.
Say no to bullying of all forms both verbal and physical bullying..
Tomorrow shall surely be better for you in Jesus name, Amen.
DeleteI'm being bullied everyday on this blog😒😐😔
ReplyDelete😂😂😂😂😂😂
DeleteSorry okay ? But you too like wahala .
Look who is talking?The Chief bully himself🙄
DeleteI just remembered my former MD bullied almost everyone at work & some even less than 40 years old started suffering HBP because of his constant harrassment & bullying but at the end he got into trouble & was asked to resign but that na sack . 99.9% of the staff was very very happy & even use it as testimonies in their churches because they have been praying
ReplyDeleteWow just imagine!!!
DeleteI don’t think I have bullied anyone,I’m always very careful about hurting people,I always consider their feelings,I don’t even like embarrassing people.before I say something to my friends I caution myself not to hurt them or make them feel bad.and if I’m confronted about my wrongs I apologize.
ReplyDeleteMy step brother bullied all of us cos he was the first child and a senior to all of us his siblings, he is a tyrant ,he likes people worshipping him and running around on his instructions.back then years ago he came to visit us one day and by 9:30 pm he sent me outside to go buy eko for him,my area is a rough place,there’s a motel on my street where bad boys hang out with the prostitutes so that place is always filled with Igbo smoking boys.My parents always made sure as a young girl I’m not outside late at night,this man made me go to the street looking for eko to buy .
I didn’t find it so I came and told him I didn’t see eko and he sent me back,he said if I couldn’t find it I shouldn’t come back home.i was angry and scared of roaming around my area by 10 cos I was a very small girl then.
My dad sat down there and he didn’t say a word,cos he does no wrong in his eyes,that was how I was wandering the streets looking for eko by 10pm I didn’t see,I got tired went home in anger and gave him the money told him I didn’t see it and I went inside my room.do u believe this man took the money went outside he came back by past 11pm with eko,woke me up and reign insult on me.i had to wait for him to finish eating by 12 packed the plates washed them and went to sleep.
After that night, for more than a year,he wasn’t talking to me or answering my greeting anytime he came around. I was slightly relieved at least I will rest from his bullying and tyranny.
It was later I heard from his wife that he usually ask her to kneel down and raise up her hands if they have issues at home.he heats her up at will,he locked up her shop and asked her not to work again, a masters degree holder.then when she forcefully got another Job he asked her to be submitting her salary to him or she quits the job.i felt pity for that woman after giving birth to 4kids for him her eyes must have seen shege for 11 years!! She left him and ran for her dear life,Now he is remarried to another woman and I can’t help but wonder what that one is going tru silently. She never see anything.
When my dad died he tried to frustrate my siblings but those ones made him know they are no longer the little ones he used to bully then,they all stood up to him and since after my dads burial he hasn’t showed up again.now all he is after is sharing of the money my dad left in his account before he died,death that is not even up to a year,sigh!!!
Me I detest him,I don’t even want to have anything to do with him.cos I was too scared of him as a child when I saw how he treated my siblings. He beat his son one day his son fainted.he woke him up and continued the beating cos d boy broke the neighbors rubber bucket mistakenly.
Gosh! People dey this world oo!!!
DeleteWhy didn't the mother run with her children? You see why women are advised to birth the number they can take care of especially if you see say the man get K-leg? May he not damage those children irreparably. I have always been bullied, at home, by parents and siblings, in primary, school though not much, secondary school was hell, I was bullied a lot and I think I bullied a few people as well. I was still bullied in university and when I started work by some terrible bosses and colleagues.
DeleteI have come to understand that I am easygoing, I also grew up watching my mum raising her voice and being confrontational even when it wasn't necessary so I realize I had a problem setting boundaries and communicating my feelings politely, today, I can never be bullied by anybody neither will I ever bully anybody, it's important children are taught to be nice and polite but assertive whenever necassary.
I have never bullied anyone and yes I was bullied in secondary School it was so terrible l had to tell my mom who intervene and the girl was suspended for a term
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