This is spontaneous because there is a memo attached.....
MEMO TO BIG D
Good afternoon Stella, I don't know if it's late to help post this for today's single and mingle. I was going to post this during the week, when you talked about "regret after divorce" couldn't come up with the right words and still don't have the right words to explain this.
Please everyone available online this hour should help me apologise and beg, someone I met from a previous edition.
That I messed up and took a lot about him for granted. When you meet someone who seem too simple and good to be true. Someone who is the opposite of the types of guys I had been with in the past. And you feared they may not be who they appear to be. The speed at which the mingling was growing became frightening, and I doubted it was love.
I judged you just because I wasn't calm enough nor put more effort in trying to see you for who you are. Neither did I try to understand you in all the simple good ways you carried yourself. I prayed and the signs were bright, yet I doubted you. While we were together I didn't realise how much you've influenced my growth. Big D, please don't participate in today's edition of single and mingle, I need us back. Forgive me for everything.
I know you would think it's all because I now know you are not broke like you portrayed. This has got nothing to do with it sincerely. I just come to my better judgement. I miss you in all tiny spaces, even though we've never been that close. Please Big D.
Hmmmm Big D, she don beg, please forgive am and avoid todays singles mingles if you still her but if not well, the choice to take part is yours...
Hmmmm Big D, she don beg, please forgive am and avoid todays singles mingles if you still her but if not well, the choice to take part is yours...
Big D as in?
I don't know who "big D" is but his plea is passionate enough.
ReplyDeleteThat last paragraph is a tough sell, going by the mindset I see of ladies on this blog
and in Nigeria generally.
That's my opinion.
Yes, I think she demeaned him thinking that he is broke. So many Nigerian girls are insolent
Deleteand uncouth.
😆🤣😂 I basically can't deal..
DeleteMoney alone doesn't make a man. Me I check values.
DeleteI check contents more than the look and money.
If 'you've never been that close' according to you, then how or what are you missing???
DeleteLolll.
Big D as in Big D&*c😂😂 please forgive my immorality 😉
ReplyDeleteLike it's too sweet to leg go😂
DeleteI wished you were more specific with what you did to him. There is no shame in telling it as it is. It is a confession.
ReplyDeleteYeah
DeleteWell let's hope he forgives her.
Madam ki lo de??
ReplyDeleteYou can't tell him to avoid today's post.
That you met someone doesn't mean it must end up in marriage.
Take it easy.
🤣🤣🤣🤣 He shouldn't participate? Chai Jesus! you guys are funny big D or big e if you want to participate please,by all means do!
ReplyDeleteBig D, forgive her for goodness sakes please. Don't participate in today's mingle and single. Biko
ReplyDeleteShe is a woman and I am sure it took her a lot to do this. Please give her a second chance. I go love oooo😁
Everyone deserves a second chance but If the feeling is gone please let it be known and don't string her along.
Now they would say big D is dante😂😂
Poster you should have used his real name and not an acronym now. all the people whose name starts with D now will start fearing false accusation.
Anyway, poster inasmuch as all is fair in love and war. I applaud your bravery. I just hope Big D would not start to feel himself and abuse this show of love.
Even stella's dog is feeling fly.😂
Wow! This Big D must be a big deal for you to come out like this...
ReplyDeleteI pray Big D hasn't moved on so he can come back to you already.
I can't wait to read the follow up🤗🤗
My own Big D kindly locate me😍🤗☺
Lolz
Deleteyour own big deal will locate you soonest.
Big D
Biko come and drop a reply
D*
DeleteAmen🙏
DeleteThanks Something light🤗
My own Big D, I promise not to stress you o😎😁...well???😄
Heeeee Heeeee!
DeleteYou are welcome fresh fruit.
DeleteAnon 18.40
Do you want a big D or you are big D?
Big D biko forgive her. If you still have any feeling left for her pls reach out to her and avoid today's s&m, if not, then still reach out and let her know your stand. Pls no chop her and run o,let her know if you no want her again
ReplyDeleteBig D, please, forgive and take her back. Good luck poster
ReplyDeleteHmmmmmmhhh 🤔.
ReplyDeleteIf I were big D I would forgive her and move on.
No hard feelings.
Life is too short to keep putting up with people who misunderstand your every move.
I follow you do hmmmm! Some people don't really know what they got till it's gone..Big D forgive her and be watchful till you're convinced otherwise..all the best guys
DeleteEya. It's touching o. Please big D forgive and give her second chance.
ReplyDeleteBig D,if u are no longer interested,by all means let her know,don’t string her on cos of this public apology..it’s better to take relationship out of the equation and just be friends if u don’t like her anymore.dont shag her and dump her cos she is apologizing.thank u for ur understanding.
ReplyDeleteIt would be difficult for him to accept that you love him;except financially you both are on same level now..
ReplyDeleteFinding true love when money is involved seems difficult;and if he is an active Bv and reads comment especially when marriage and finances post comes up;it will be quite hard for Big D to accept now that you love him for his personality and not his money..
That's the honest truth;and I wish you both the best..
@MARTINS
👍👍👍👍👍
DeleteI think her eyes are still on the money aspect which she now discovered is there.
As in ehn and she's such a bemused joker
DeleteLike! I can't deal at this cusp.
DeleteCorrect.
DeleteThat money part don scatter everything
17;57 🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteFood don land for Dante and ceaser
ReplyDeleteCan't wait to hear their takes. Dante and ceaser oya show
DeleteI always look forward to Ceaser's comments.
DeleteI love his guts as a man.
Though sometimes he sounds off key.
Lolz
DeleteExpecially Dante..."Mr one of my friend"
Dante come o
Please don't disappointment
Ceaser will drop his on early morning spontaneous post(sango of our time)
Now that you mentioned them, they may not say a thing 🥴
Deletecan't wait to participate I want to find somebody's son, mature guys please post your request so that some ladies can contact you
ReplyDeleteJust be careful.
DeleteHmmmmm, most people don't always know what they have until they lose it.
ReplyDeleteBig D I join the online In-laws to beg on her behalf ehh.
ReplyDeleteOnline in-laws kwa?
DeleteHe should please forgive, by all means but, I don't see why we should help you force a relationship that has waxed cold right from the onset. Is it not too early to send the entire village begging? What will you then do if married?
ReplyDeletePretending to be what you are not only works in Nigerian movies. You don't have to plaster your account balance on your forehead but it's important not to send a false signal and make a marathon interview of your relationship where everything is a test. That can be exhausting.
Do your research and be sure not to let the shadow of your previous bad experience shade the good in the present. Try to find out about the person you're dating and have your eyes open, sure but don't doubt the evidence if it's good.
I fear Big D's ego is bruised and may want his own pound of flesh which is a very difficult place for a lady to be in. You are the price to be sought, not the other way around. I think this guy should be free to try his luck in the s and m coming up. That you don't want him to makes me rather uncomfortable. This is not a foundation for a healthy relationship. There's too much drama, dos and don'ts too early. Take time to heal from your past and your fears. You're not a bad person.
When doing your research make sure it's from the right source.
DeleteDon't base it on assumption so you won't regret when you later find out .
Big D, we weren't in your story, but I trust you will handle the situation pretty well. Made God order your words and actions. Good luck
ReplyDeleteBig D ekpele ooo. Sorry on behalf of our sister. For now am watching man u and chealsea. I vote for chealsea the sky is very blue
ReplyDeleteI just have to drop this here because it happened just now!
ReplyDeleteI was going to catch a flight to another city in the states and booked a taxi via a taxi company.
I noted immediately that the taxi driver is a Nigerian (from S/W to be precise).
He came promptly, like 10 minutes ahead of time (kudos to him). He was on the phone with someone speaking
his native language most part of the journey. He drove quite well for a journey of about an hour; kudos again to him.
I for one do not really like interacting with Nigerian when outside of Nigeria and it is
because most of them are grubbers (please this has been my experience and I crave your indulgence
if you have a different experience).
When he stopped us in front of the departures, there were vehicles on the queue to leave and I was obviously
in a haste to catch the flight. I did not collect the receipt.
Now, here is the issue, he debited me some two digit percentage, more than the reader registered.
If I call the taxi company and report the time and
location he picked me up, he could be charged with a misdemeanor at least and the prosecution might lead to jail/deportation (Americans do not
joke with transaction scams of this nature). Should I go ahead and remove one bad egg from the system or...?
Why do some Nigerians behave this way?
Reach out to him first if you have his details and let him explain himself it could be an honest mistake. If he starts acting up then report him .sorry
DeleteIs there any additional charge added to trips? If none, kindly report, you don't know what further crimes you might be saving someone else from down the line.
DeleteP.s. - I know your experience may have influenced your decision, but I have learnt to approach each individual with an open mind.
You now discovered he is loaded or what? Bug D, forgive her but participate In S n M, if she worry u toomuch, knack her! 😁
ReplyDelete🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteYou are mean Blackberry. Women supporting women indeed!
DeleteThis is not funny, everything isn't about sex you know.
DeleteBig D, abeg please forgive her
ReplyDeleteThis lady is not sorry, I know messages written from a sorry heart . I bet you have his numbers and social accounts. What effort if did you make to reach him. Why wait till tonight, you suddenly realised your mistake or what. We big D forgive, but forgiveness shouldn't stop you from participating in tonight's S and M
ReplyDeleteOshe! Mr omniknowest
DeleteFollow your heart@big D
ReplyDeleteEeya...pls Big D forgive her and give her a second chance if u are still interested.
ReplyDeleteBig D, participate today if you want to.
ReplyDeleteShe just realized you are not a broke Bros.
Move on!!
Big D! Please forgive her naa
ReplyDeleteBig dick,sorry I mean big dough, forgive our sis o, she won't se be e mo
ReplyDeleteNot funny
DeleteBig D forgive her and give her second chance to make things right.
ReplyDeleteBig D please forgive her and give her 2nd chance to make things right.
ReplyDeleteUncle Biggy pls look into her case one last time 🙏
ReplyDeleteI think Big D has already forgiven her going by the kind of person he is from her write up,but he should explore his options.If it is meant to be,all well and good,if not,life goes on.
ReplyDeleteIt's well with Big D
ReplyDelete