On Saturday in house gists, we talked about the major thing that made us fall out love with someone we were madly in love with...
Some of the comments cracked me up!
Now let's discuss the reason why you are MADLY in love with the person you are in love with..? What is the major thing this person did right?
For me, it is letting me who I am and not trying to change me, letting me pursue my dreams and supporting me... I HATE DREAM KILLERS!
Being real
ReplyDeleteHe puts me first...
ReplyDeleteAnd he's a good father...
Selfless..
He's honest..
He loves me more than I love him
Tolani my lover is still elusive.
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Delete1001 reasons jare.. I believe my husband is one of the few good men remaining in this country. Guy is just too good. Everyone around me confirms it and tells me how lucky I am. His colleagues at work tells him every day that he's a good man.
ReplyDeleteI can't start outlining all he does for me and the kids, but his goodness and personality is the reason why I'm madly in love with him
My husband loves Jesus so much. ππππππππThat attracted me to him; the character of Christ, gentleness, kindness and peace.
ReplyDeleteHe gives me peace. He does not pretend from the first time I met him till now.
He helps me to look after our kids from the cradle till now. He is very much involved in their lives.
I have every liberty, respect and love a wife can get. I love my sweet hubby. ππππππππππππ
He accepted me the way I am! Told him about my past from the first day he asked me out and he never judged me till date!
ReplyDeleteHe encourages and supports my small hustle!
If I am to do this again, na you I go still take!
My Bobo, God bless you
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DeleteI like my partner because we banter a lot and agree on most things. He is also supportive, some times he doesn't agree with me but encourages me when I'm particular about doing something and if and when things go wrong, he doesn't say ''I told you so'' but comforts me when I'm sulking. The scolding can come later when I'm calmer.
ReplyDeleteFor me, it’s completely accepting my son as his. Allowing me to shine and be whoever I want to be.
ReplyDeleteI love him more now because he does more than his share of house chores and child care. π
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DeleteHe is kind and strong minded but the goat is presently annoying me.
ReplyDeleteGoat π ππ
DeleteGoat π Kwa?
DeletePray against goat anointing
DeleteHe is not trying to change me and for pushing me to get the things that makes me happy and successful in my career.
ReplyDeleteHe is a gift i keep unwrapping everyday.
I'm not lucky, I'm BLESSED
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DeleteYes Stella, my husband supports me like his life depends on it and he carries my dream on his head more than me the owner of dream sef, and he is a GIVER
ReplyDeleteHe treats me like an eggπππ,I don't know what I did right to deserve someone like him. God bless you babyππππ.
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DeleteWho's that guy loving u like an egg when I ve been preparing to shoot my shot at u.smally kidjo ve a guy hmmm
DeleteThis one was made SPECIALLY for me.
ReplyDeleteI don’t have the exact words to describe him the way I’d love to.
He respects me, my opinions.
My problem solver.
He loves me unconditionally.
He is a very patient man and condones my excesses.
We are in each other’s heads and, like intertwined.
When we fight, you’d think that’s the end of us, give us 20 minutes and we are laughing and cracking jokes like nothing happened.
I respect him a lot and he adores me.
He gives me space and freedom, he is not perfect but 1 billion percent better than my father. My mom was very strong that sometimes I asked her when she was alive what she saw in my father. Women endure alot
ReplyDeleteShouldn't he be the one searching for you?
ReplyDeleteShouldn't you pray to the Lord Jesus that the one locates you?
Many reasons actually. He's patient and kind. Puts me first in everything and... It's amazing how spiritual he is.
ReplyDeleteWe argue about everything, just for the fun of it(google settles it, google should be tired of us by nowπ), he gets my jokes... Everything abeg! Our sex life is crazyyyyy... OMG! I'm blushing nowπ€... Marriage is fun for me finally
This is sweet.π€π€
DeleteMay you continue to enjoy your union.
Marital bliss I wish you always.
Mtshwww love wey money no dey, abeg Mr man go n hustle I need money
ReplyDeleteWetin stop you from hustling too? You no get leg, hands and brain? Dem forbid you to hustle? Nonsense.
Deletenawa oh Anon 14:42 ..you sef go hustle nau, abi is hustling made for only the male gender?
DeleteHe's a good man,not perfect but perfect for me.Understands me so well and tolerates my excesses.He's always very supportive and challenges me intellectually and gives me room for more improvement.Love always Leboosky,always got your backππ.
ReplyDeletestill single, I pray I get a man that loves to banter alot like me I need a gist partner
ReplyDeleteYou will get dear. It is not good for a man to be alone and it is even more terrible for a woman to be alone.
DeleteSo how do nuns and priests cope? Smh
DeleteAmen oh. I pray I meet a nice man
DeleteBlackBerry, I am not anon 15:07 but I think this chapter explains your question.
Delete"For there are eunuchs who were born that way, and there are eunuchs who have been made eunuchs by others —and there are those who choose to live like eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. The one who can accept this should accept it.” (Matt 19:12)
So anyone who does not fall into that category stated up there in the verse or who does not belong with those you mentioned in your question may feel lonely. This is why I strongly believe marriage is solely for companionship/fellowship first before every other thing that comes with it.
hehehehe let's gist nau.. Anon 14:44
DeleteHe's an amazing as in amazing daddy.
ReplyDeleteHe is a great provider, food, provision, luxury and comfort for us.
He's very protective of me and pampers me silly.
Though he has his own wahala, but, putting i and the kids first is Always a priority.
#ManLikeMyHubbyππ₯°ππ₯°
Na wah oo, my mates dey get cow, me dey get chicken, okay ooo. Apart from my Dad, I've never really gotten a soul mate like that. Now, I love with both my head and heart along. Maybe if a God sent man comes along my way and treats me Divine, I might then fall madly in love.
ReplyDeleteHe puts me first,he gives me peace of mind,he is open,a great father,a good husband ,wants me to grow and be successful,he got me my two federal jobs,looking for ways for me to sucees,.infact the good sides are too numerous to count.
ReplyDeleteSacrifice and selflessness.He’s got to be the most selfless person I have ever seen.He thinks of me and the kids before he thinks about himself whenever he’s about to make decisions.That right there is everything for me.
ReplyDeleteAre you me? I dropped my comment before reading this.
DeleteRelationship Status;in God we trust.
ReplyDeleteSomebody son go find me one day,one day
I don dey wait,dont stay too far away
Somebody's son go love me one day ,one day
I don dey wait dont stay too far away
Yeah,yeah,yeah, yeah
Somebody, Somebody
Somebody son go love me one dayyy
Una wey husband love, hold him tight with respect, e no ease at all
ReplyDeleteWhich one is "currently madly in love".
ReplyDeleteLove that makes you mad don blind your eyes bi that. The person got your 'mumu button '
Because he is the most considerate human being everrrr. He ALWAYS ALWAYS puts myself and our child into consideration whenever he's making a decision.
ReplyDeleteHe is oh so kind, not just to me but even his friends and colleagues.
Very stress free guy, he makes marriage easy abeg. God bless and keep himπππ
Amen
DeleteSacrifice n selflessness.
ReplyDeleteKeep to his words.
Hard-working n industrious.
Listen to my advice n above all,provides me all I need despite d long distance btw us.
Omo see beautiful comments describing their partners πππGod when π₯Ίπ₯Ί
ReplyDeleteVery soon dearπ€π€π€
DeleteHe is God sent
ReplyDeleteThe peace he gives me is priceless
He can go to any length to make me happy
Always put me first and shield me everywhere. I bless the day I said yes.
Pretty girlie, good response π
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ReplyDeleteHe that finds a wife, finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord Prov. 18:22
"He" not "she"
Are you going to argue with God's Word too? do not let desperation set in and you are good to go.
My husband nags like a woman but after his nag, he will apologise a million times which I'm sick off. He looks at my ugly face whenever I'm angry and try to make me happy. He's not rich but buys what he can afford. He's also slow to anger. He wants me to get my PhD whereas he stopped at bsc and said he's too old and tired to go back to school for master's degree. Does motherhood and PhD go together?
ReplyDeleteSo you’re ugly ehhyah but in Gods sight you’re beautiful.
DeleteMe when fine like mami water no see husband to look me
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DeleteHe is sooooo hardworking,he loves family and extremely homely.He knows how to take care of me and understands me. I ransacked his phone yesterday and i didn't find anything implicating there. I met him on this beautiful blog. Thanks so much Stella. You are Godsent. I always say i can't date another tribe but omo,this guy is a spec and more.
ReplyDeleteyou want go implicate a guy that loves you, OK nah, this relationship is DOA, Stella post o
DeleteYou are a sicko anony 18:29.. nothing can ever spoil this relationship. Carry your sick self away from my comment. Crazy asshole
DeleteWaiting patiently for somebody's son ππ
ReplyDelete*** relax, you have lost this argument.
ReplyDeleteWaiting for that one that I will always be his number one.
ReplyDeleteTee gives me total peace,put me first.
ReplyDeleteHis a lover of God to the core,a great father to our children,his integrity is second to none,I call him my rare gem,my special blessing from God.
Make una leave them **** na their way be that. Na only then know everything for their mind
ReplyDeleteWhen I first met him, I hated him LOL. I thought he was the biggest, most arrogant asshole.
ReplyDeleteA week later he apologized for being so rude and told me he wants to get to know me. Thank you God, that I didn't allow my preconceived notions of him push me away. I would've missed out on my soulmate.
My husband is the most selfless, most supportive man I have ever known. There is nothing he doesn't do for me and the kids. This man will take up night feedings so I can get some sleep. This man held my hand throughout 28 hours of labor. All the capital I used in establishing my business came from him. That's how much he believed in me. I don't know where I would be without him. A great provider, a generous and supportive husband.
I love my Capricorn with every fibre of my being!
Capricorns dat are stingy ?
DeleteMy husband is the true definition of a protector and defender. I and our home are his priority. Nothing else comes close, not even his family. He ensures I am liberated enough to pursue my dreams and pushes me always to conquer new grounds.
ReplyDeleteI truly don't know how I got this lucky. Na my 2nd marriage be this oo. I thank God for perfecting all that concerns me and bringing the best my way.
You are lucky. Congratulations.
DeleteWhere are the husbands? Is it only the women that are in love?
ReplyDeleteHe's so rooted in Christ...like it's so amazing watching someone match his words with his actions.
ReplyDeleteIt's our 7years tomorrow and I will say yes over and over again to him.
Happy wedding anniversary to you and your family ππ
DeleteWaiting patiently for that somebody's son,I want my own πππ
ReplyDeleteI didn't see my comment π π π π π π’
ReplyDeleteMaybe you forgot to post it
DeleteFather in the name of Jesus, I tap into all the graces this favored woman carry that has earned them good husbands and I receive for myself a Godly, kind, selfless, protective, caring, hardworking, and compassionate man in Jesus' name.
ReplyDeleteAlso lord, help me to be that woman a blessed man will have and be fulfilled. So help me God, amen!
Amen!!!
Amen
DeleteMy advice to the lady with strong smelling punani please look for small portion of Ram blood mix small water in to it and use it to wash your puna it will go. Someone wife cursed you with ram that any where you go it will smell like ram
ReplyDeleteYou can position
ReplyDeleteBut he has to find you
My wife is the meekest person I have ever known. She's selfless, she prayerful and beautiful. I owe her alot. Since I lost my job last year, she has consciously assisted me with paying some bills. She noticed have been depressed but she feeds me with God's word and his promises.
ReplyDeleteI love her with all my LIFE and I wish I can get a job right, just so I can aswell make her and my kids happy.
I really do love him be4 not until when he only marry me to satisfy his sefish desires
ReplyDeleteMy husband is kind, patient, generous,protective, forgiving and he loves God genuinely, so he always tries to love me in the best way as God has instructed him to. I am enjoying the luxuries of this life, all thanks to him. God just created him specially for me because he makes marriage sweet and stress-free.
ReplyDeleteI speak it into existence, so shall it be for me, AMEN