She hit the nail on the head... Nigerian men catch your shade!
Wednesday, November 24, 2021
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So true. Ladies are high touch personalities, they fall in love through their ears and stay in love through their ears.
ReplyDeleteStella mama hope you are much better? get well soon
Thank you ma.thank you! I hope they listen
DeleteHahahahahahaha mama has broken the table completely.Most Nigerian men are mind readers.
ReplyDeleteGbam!
ReplyDeleteOn point
ReplyDeleteMadam that is small thing compared to ladies that will keep silent and expect you to read their mind to know they are angry and still expect you to figure out the cause without being told.
ReplyDeleteWorst is that you will ask them what is the problem, they will say "nothing, I'm fine" yet they are not fine. They will continue carrying face until the man will read their mind or pet them before figuring out the problem. (Heaven knows that once I ask you the problem and you reply nothing, I'm fine or never mind, my dear e don be. Carry face from now till next year, I won't ask again until you are ready to speak up)
So madam pastor, ladies need that advice more than men.
God bless you for this..most Nigerian girls will make you confused as in you start doubting if you in a relationship with them.the women need the advice more.
DeleteAbeg no stress yourself brother..
DeleteThem go dey keep silent then later turn the table to say we no understand women language, after acting childish.. you know all the wahala weh men carry for head.. na to dey try decode Wetin a grown up individual no gree talk go come dey give person headache..
Anyone who cannot communicate shouldn't be in a relationship.. very toxic and depressing trait
Thank you brother.
DeleteChike my guy is exactly what you explained just now.He is so petty and can keep malice without letting me know why even if I try to find out. So I have learnt to give him space when he starts without even asking him asking again cos no need asking bcos he will say nothing.He behaves like a woman and due to u don't care again,he tells people that cares to hear that I do not love him enough like he do loves me ,just because I do not care again whether he is keeping malice or not. I'm fed up already.
DeletePlease can you teach or tell me how best to follow his type cos he usually start talking to me when he is very satisfied with the malice and it takes months sef.I know he wasn't with a woman,this is his nature.
I still finds it hard to move on,please can you tell me how best to handle his type of person?thanks.
Maybe he was revised by a single mother
DeleteAnon 12:58,
DeleteI'm afraid to tell you that your guy has no handle, unless he fix himself by himself.
But you can try to sit him down and explain to him that if he has any issue with you, let him speak up so that you guys can sort it out as two mature adults.
Sometimes you may do something that upset someone without knowing until they speak up.
After the heart to heart discussion with him and he did not change, it is left for you to decide if you want to move on or to stay and manage him.
But if na me be you wey he ask why I don't pet(care) for him when he is carrying face, I will gentle tell him that if I need something to pet, I will go and buy a dog as pet and not a grown ass man. But if he is in desperate need of someone to pet him, he should go and get a nanny or meet his mother and not me.
Whenever he is done carrying face, he will come around.
Thank you Chike for this advice,I will keep pushing.
DeleteAnon 16:08 you will keep pushing? Are you a wheelbarrow pusher. That guy may likely not change. He is an adult and not until he sees something wrong with his attitude and decides to change, he will not change. If you remain in the relationship get ready because he will become more comfortable keeping malice with you seeing you have accepted him for who he is. If your mind is telling you something is wrong somewhere, believe it and save yourself the stress
DeleteNot men only
ReplyDeleteANON 12:58 pls stay away from that guy,ain't you tired of the cycle? it's toxic and you deserve better,pls run🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃🏃
ReplyDeleteYou are right Arielle , you need to run for your life, the world is hard, you want to make it more harder for yourself. Any man that Love you will not keep a malice with you up to month and still say he Loves you.
DeleteYes ma !!! Many of them on this table . Talk them will not talk, they expect you to know their mind like say we be winchi? I know some rxnship wey don break leg cos of this winchi matter. Hope i dey communicate?
ReplyDeleteOn point, wehdone ma
ReplyDeleteWow, she is actually addressing men. I'm surprised. I thought these churches said it's solely a woman's responsibility to keep a home LOL. Anyways I hate the way these churches try to delineate marital responsibilities according to gender. Men also need to be loved. Men also like to hear they're loved. Women also need to be respected. That whole "men need respect" "women need love" thinking is so flawed. Men and women equally value love and respect. Besides everyone's love language is different. Some women like to hear that they are loved like Pastor Faith is saying (words of affirmation). Some women prefer you show them (acts of service). Same with men. With regards to relationships, churches try too hard to put people into boxes.
ReplyDeleteThis!!!, I am glad she is addressing men, it has become like a church tradition to be reaching "submission" and " a good woman builds her home" even when the man is effectively tearing down the home by himself. The most annoying is the "those that need husband should come out" prayer, Men no dey marry? Are all married men depressed? They should tell us let us know if we are doing something wrong.
DeleteI attended a church of recent and the pastor prayed "Those that are searching, those waiting to be found, those who have found but need to be sure or need resources, may God meet all of them at their point of need in Jesus name". I said a very loud Amen to that balanced prayer. Well done Ma.
She talks, wahala, she no talk wahala. No pleasing some of you.
DeleteSo on point
ReplyDeleteWell said.
ReplyDelete@12:58 please dont try to understand him! Move on with your life! They get worse by the day so for the sake of your mental health please leave him
ReplyDelete👌👌👌👌
ReplyDeleteThank you mam..
ReplyDeleteThank you ma'am 😊
ReplyDeleteNigerian is full with dysfunctional men and women broken and traumatized by their parents,society and only experience conditional love from them which we tend to project into our relationship, women expect money/gift from men inexchange for sex and loyalty and expect other way round from women. Our society is broken, no love from within, only relationship by bargain.
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