It's a freaky Friyay and hope y'all are having time of your lives already?
I ate beans pudding(apapa) earlier on and tbvh,i ain't really much of a fan of the ebira delicacy..ππ
I am currently binge watching the MMM series and it has been fascinating sfsg..It's gonna be episode 5 in a jiffy and y'all can't be bored with characters plus casts like Esther,Lola,Kimmy,Marion,Susan,Wale,David,Dikeh,Tunde et al excluding the white guy being featured with the unappealing accent...πππ
Tonight, all I just wanna do, is drink and get filled while listening to a good collection of RnB. Got a wine gift earlier this week from an old friend.
On my veranda on 1st floor receiving cool breeze then I looked down into the next compound on ground floor, the window is open.π€π€π€πππππ€ Holy Telecom guy is on leave since Tuesday,his Ph babe came visiting this evening,make una follow me shout o,the gbenshing na die. ππ£π£
God is good. The week started off really stressful and I just brought each and every single thing before the Lord, and He came through for me beyond what I could have done myself. Thank You Jesus.
The Lord Jesus asked me to go and preach to one of the governors in the North I did and he said and I quote "he will receive Jesus over his dead body" What do you think will happen in this case, we have been praying for his repentance for a while. He is one of the sponsors of terrorism in Nigeria; a fact he acknowledged when we met and wondered how I got to know.
You have done your part. Send the holy spirit to do the rest. Give God no rest through prayers and his word. If God actually sent you, You will see him convert if you don't doubt.
@Zaram "Send the Holy Spirit?" As your servant or what? Don't you know that you are talking about the Spirit of Christ here? Why not "ask the Holy Spirit?"
My dear if you relocate to the abroad, believe me that will be the end of bouts malaria for you. Malaria and Continent of Africa goes hand in hand π
Freaky Friday. What can I do without you my Lord? When I count my blessings I feel like THANK YOU is not enough. I'm just relaxing. This body is crying for help, the spirit keeps pushing it to carry on. Hey! Christmas break should do and come that the body will relax and take care of. Got an exciting news ,body just dey totori mi. December is sure season to hook up with old 'Homies'. 'I dey my dey' here ,avoiding bad energy. They think I'm that quiet,they never see me in the midst of happy people. Enjoyment is life. Stay positive and keep it real.
I went to the market today to buy shoe for my 10 year old n I couldn't believe the price I was hearing! I ended up not buying and she cried her eyes out today.may be I will just buy aba made for her tomorrow but it won't last.Gi5d help us ooo
My son cried his eyes out for a suit I priced for him for Xmas The price no be here!! My head is already paining me thinking about this Christmas e no easy for single parent out there,sis do wetin you fit afford.one day e go better
Good evening beautiful people. Rain,rain and more rain in the beautiful city of PH. Wash away all dirts dear rain and keep the city of PH clean
So i went to my stylist's(aunty no chanse) today to make my hair. She showed me a beautiful hair she put up for sale. The hair was fairly used, haba i can't wear mbonk, hair wey i no know who wear am before. She told me how one of the guys in the area sold it to her for a lesser price. He said he bought the hair for his babe. Babe was f......ing up, he took it from her on her next visit. He can not come and go and be planting while another guy will be harvestingπ. Dear men, why some of una dey quick vex this season na, some will be looking for issues where there is none once e enter Novemberπ, una good just dey provocate dey find faultπ. Man and woman matter too plenty this period here, what's happens
There is this friend of mine who was dating a lady some years back, because he had not had sex with the lady before and the lady keeps on deceiving him.
On one fateful day, he asked me to accompany him to the girls shop, I thought we wanted to go pay her a visit not knowing the idiot was going there for something else.
On getting to her shop, my guy forcefully collected the phone he bought for her including the sim because he was the one who bought the sim too. I was so ashamed of him and had no choice than to just leave him there and went back home.
My sister forget that thing!! That lady dey sell stolen goods! That's how they stole my gas cylinder,sold it to a stylist dey claim clearing and forwarding agent thieves!!!
Just here watching African magic Igbo. The week has been tough but we thank God. Who else is watching the series 'Farin Jini' on Rok2? I believe it will be a nice series...I trust Uzee to always deliver.
Tired of being alone.Missing my only child who is incommunicado from abroad. Only reaches out when in need. After the need is solved, its a blackout. No relative there. She is 21 just alone doing masters in Atlanta.
I would have loved to be hearing her voice every now and then. She doesn't call. I just need to give her space but the silence is not sitting well with me as an only child. If she reaches out,it's just hi mum via text only. Nothing more. No gisting as mother n daughter. Please, who has this experience with growing child?
Do i ignore her and just leave her like that or what? I am worried as a single mother
Do not ignore her. Communicate your feelings to her and try to build a relationship with her. I know you feel calling her often might seem like you are disturbing her, so? She’s all you got.
Try to be the one reaching out. Ask her questions that will make her to talk or open up to you. Not frightening questions that will make her to hide and keep to herself. If she's on WhatsApp try to chat her up too and encourage her to tell you anything at all. It's this way probably because there was no deep mother daughter relationship before she left. It's not late as you can develop it now, and yes her silence is disturbing. She might also just need alone time to study or be on her own but it's important you reach out and encourage her to do same too
The fear of every woman, but I think this is the time to build a strong relationship with her ,tell her about things going on in your life as well,make a her your gist partner.You can start by calling twice a week ,drop chats for her occasionally but please don't allow the wall between you two keep growing. Tell her how you feel she is no longer a child ,trust me she will understand.You can try to study her itinerary,so you will know when it is best to call her.I wish you luck
You should be worried. That's how one of my former neighbor's son went to do his BSc in the US (in the early 2000s), the guy later became a recluse. Only God knows why.
This is not so good. Women hardly forget their parents.. Maybe she's engaged with so many things or in a relationships that demands her full attention. Talk to her about your feelings. You can even tell her you want her to come back home and be closer to you. In all I hope she begin to give you more time an attention.
Please don't stop oo She may be oblivious of her attitude towards you, communicate by telling her your feelings maybe she LL come around.God bless your efforts it's not easy rara
Please call her like 3 times a week routinely and tell her you are just checking up on her. You can create a gist sometimes, something that will interest her. You can also tell her you want to see her beautiful face and ask for a video call.
How was growing up like with her? Hope you weren't too strict? This is happening with my cousin who got married 2 years ago. She said after their dad died their mom was too protective of them and she wouldn't let them be. Today, it is church, tomorrow pastor will come to the house to pray and bind evil spirits, that she didn't let them mix or enjoy their childhood etc. Her mom would lament about how she was struggling to provide and that her mom was too bitter.
She clearly told me that there are people who have it worse than her mom and she was tired of her mom's pity party that she isn't the only widow. My jaw dropped, I advised her and told her not to cut off her mom for these reasons, she will soon be a mother and shouldn't be too critical of her. Our parents are not perfect, as long as you don't have evil parents, accommodate their flaws please.
Sorry for the epistle and all the best with your daughter.
Try using lovely words like white mothers do such as LOVE, DARLING, SWEETHEART in ur conversation .. It's embarrassing wen u didn't start from wen she's a baby break d habit. Call frequently
@Olomo Nice suggestion If you don't want to go to all night in the church stay in your house, study your bible and pray. My dad always told me that if your stay quiet, what will happen to you will stay quiet.
For BV Nkiru, I have been searching for you on this post. I mostly see your comments too late. Anyway, I am in Sweden studying now. Came some months back. Hopefully, we meet one day.
Please o, what kind of joy do big men derive in golf game π️. Like I don’t get the head and the tail of the whole fuse. Is it the walking aimlessly about the golf course or the carrying about that heavy bag of theirs that contain the clubs. I was bored out of life today tbvh.
ps: na my PPA director send i and my colleague to help the golfers. Will be going back there tomorrow π«π«π«
Lmao golf is beautiful π I find it weird that people underrate golf lol We actually travelled for the weekend to play golf lool. Oh how miss my dad.
I have been having problems commenting for some days now, I am just testing the microphone with this comments to see how far I have been able to rectify it, una good evening
Congratulations on fleek for you No shackles fit stop your shine In Jesus name amen Me and pineapple juice (home made) this season na die Na so my body just dey sweet me
What ever you take might have a side effect, more reason you cant sleep. Change your routine, after dinner everyday, get a cool bath, ventilate your room and make sure the bedings are fresh, play a cool music and be relaxed, sleep will comeA
Just a quiet evening, found out two weeks ago that my ex is getting married tomorrow, we were supposed to get married this same month and in the third week last year. Was diagnosed of POI last year and the wedding got called off........ Just a little sad though, but God has been awesome this past year and given me this incredible strength.
I've read this before.sweet heart, maybe it wasn't meant to be. God will give you a man that'll love and stay with you. It's normal to be sad, just don't let it lingerπ€
God is indeed a merciful God. If curses really work, Buhari will have been dead The way Nigerians curse him daily. Why will you intend to increase fuel knowing fully the masses are suffering.
While some are cursing him, others are blessing and praying for him! A lot of wealthy thieves depend on him so the thieves are the ones praying for him! The guy dey consult die! Fulani get jazz! Real jazz plus oyinbo use of stem cells to put his physical body together!
Just on my bed going through Sdk post. You guys rock. .
The suffer head in this country ehhh! I dont kniw what happened, i saw lots of people trekking. No public transport.
I was forced to stopped for a nice looking lady but when multitudes rushed towards my car struggling I had to zoom off before they spoil the door handle. Weekend is here, nothibg happening. I am sipping wine alone in the comfort of my room. PHCN just took their light.
If you get pregnant and deliver without complications. Please go and do thanksgiving if you have not. What my eyes saw today pass me. A young lady got pregnant and went insane. She vomits everything she eats. Surviving through drip. Heard that is her nature. She suffered the same date during her first pregnancy but unfortunately the baby died after delivery. So many ethopic pregnancy operations to save the mother and remove the foetus. One woman did major operation because her family planning entered her stomach. According to her, she was bleeding non stop for months before she came for the opportunity. More than 8 fibroid operations. One coughed after fibroid operation and the stitches broke. The stench from her stomach is strong despite being in the hospital for more than a month......God bless all mothers.
Zaram is like the stomach is decaying? Why don't they refer her to a specialist Hospital? Do they want her to develop complications? I'm scared for her life.
I injured at work today on one of my thumb. The blood did stop even after pouring spirit. we later used iodine and plaster. Thank God we have first aid box. I also took a teaspoon of codolin syrup cos of mild dry cough,was feeling sleepy at work π. My plan was fish peppersoup and binge on Kdrama but just ate noodles and listening to turn up Friday till sleep calls.
Thank God for another weekend. My mother called earlier this week claiming she diesnt have shi shi to eat. That she went beggibg neighbors for food but couldn't eat the food that was offered and slept on empty stomach. I took pity out of my own lack and sent her some money. Can you imagine the priority of an 80 years old woman is to go and make her hair. I repeat she went to do her hair from the money I sent for her feeding. I called her today to enquire if she got the money as she did not acknowledge the receipt behold she said 'sorry.I went to do my hair,gray hair has taken over my head'. 80 years still going to salon. All the money might go into supplements. All these entitled people! I am so angry right now.
Sooner she will demand for chop money again. I am sick of family demand.
Sorry anon just do your bit when you can. Mama won't be here forever. If making her hair will make her happy, why not? Though I understand your point that buying food in the house should have been her priority, mabinu you hear. Old age also comes with drama.
Please take it easy on her,I’m quite sure she won’t even make an expensive hairdo,maybe weaving or didi,which is very cheap to make.At her age I doubt she will really have strength to make heavy hairstyles,probably she just wants to look neat and smart...and about the money,she must have bin pulling ur legs with the talk of begging neighbors for food.besides at her age,little strolling and interaction with people is good for her,dont be too angry just overlook her attitude na old age..enjoy her while she is here.
It is your mother you are talking about. What is wrong in going to a salon to do her hair,? Allow her flex oo and if she ask give. God will bless and supply your needs
I think you should place her on salary kind of, and explain things to her. If you budget 50k for her, give her 30k at first having it in mind she will call to ask for more. I'm not trying to indulge her. It's obvious you both don't have a good mother-daughter relationship, find a place in your heart to forgive her.
I believe we are misusing the word 'entitlement', not everything is entitlement, some of our African parents labored all through their life to give their children the best out of the little or nothing with them with the hope of the child taking care of them later in life. I won't advise any parent to pause his/her growth and wellbeing because of a child with this 'I'm not their retirement plan' agenda we see online. Entitlement is the new one, for now, we've moved from gaslighting, guilt-tripping, narcassist, and the likes. I'm not one of those who chorus nobody owes you anything at every given opportunity, we owe each other support, affection, and other beautiful things, if not, why are we humans? Trees support trees in the forest.
People now prefer to die in silence to avoid being tagged entitled.
Mhen sickness no good for body oo, extremely tired time to use night Drugs,if not I will hear do you know how much I got those drugs again this night ππ
Nothing much to do,Lying down in my bed,there is a church next to my house praying die by fire prayers,they are apparently having a night vigil and as hot prayers are flying around the pianist is playing Joeboy’s alcohol song beats as the background warfare song,πππ
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I was supposed to have a sex-a-thon with my lover tomorrow. Circumstances have changed though. So konji continues till next time. Its not easy oh.
ReplyDeleteI feel your pain
DeleteHmmmm
DeletePele dear..the Lord is ur strength.
DeleteMan shall not live by sex alone
Is "sex-a-thon" another word for fornication?
DeleteGood pm,lovelies.
ReplyDeleteIt's a freaky Friyay and hope y'all are having time of your lives already?
I ate beans pudding(apapa) earlier on and tbvh,i ain't really much of a fan of the ebira delicacy..ππ
I am currently binge watching the MMM series and it has been fascinating sfsg..It's gonna be episode 5 in a jiffy and y'all can't be bored with characters plus casts like Esther,Lola,Kimmy,Marion,Susan,Wale,David,Dikeh,Tunde et al excluding the white guy being featured with the unappealing accent...πππ
Enjoy your weekend and π goodnight.
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DeleteGood evening people
ReplyDeleteKitchen gurus please between Air fryer or Halogen oven
Which would you recommend?
Which is a better buy?
Which is more healthy??
It was such a stressful week but we thank God.
Halogen oven is more spacious. I got one as a wedding gift,you can Google it though.
DeleteHalogen oven does the work of an air fryer plus you can do a whole lot more with it
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DeleteTonight, all I just wanna do, is drink and get filled while listening to a good collection of RnB. Got a wine gift earlier this week from an old friend.
ReplyDeleteCheers for a successful weekπ·π·
Enjoy oo
DeleteLife no get duplicate
Drink drink drink. Alcohol contribute to early deaths of men in this continent.
DeleteOn my veranda on 1st floor receiving cool breeze then I looked down into the next compound on ground floor, the window is open.π€π€π€πππππ€
ReplyDeleteHoly Telecom guy is on leave since Tuesday,his Ph babe came visiting this evening,make una follow me shout o,the gbenshing na die.
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DeleteMy friend, pray for them and sleep joor
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I'm lounging with my goons tonight π₯π₯π₯ i can't kee myself
I have movies to binge on later
Hypnotic
Dynasty
The king's affection (K-drama)
Behind her eyes
I wasted my precious time watching 'passing' hiss
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DeleteParis!!π₯°.no movie for me tonight due to injury,just wanna sleep.
DeleteI finished watching Love alarm yesterday..
Have u see the king's eternal monarch?
Nne enjoy
DeleteHypnotic and behind her eyes are highly recommended. Enjoy
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DeleteStella thanks for the Data giveaway, God bless you
ReplyDeleteGod is good. The week started off really stressful and I just brought each and every single thing before the Lord, and He came through for me beyond what I could have done myself. Thank You Jesus.
ReplyDeleteGod is great
DeleteHallelujah!!
DeleteThank God
DeleteThe Lord Jesus asked me to go and preach to one of the governors in the North
ReplyDeleteI did and he said and I quote "he will receive Jesus over his dead body"
What do you think will happen in this case, we have been praying for his repentance for a while.
He is one of the sponsors of terrorism in Nigeria; a fact he acknowledged when we met and wondered how I got to know.
You have done your part. Send the holy spirit to do the rest. Give God no rest through prayers and his word. If God actually sent you, You will see him convert if you don't doubt.
Delete@Zaram
Delete"Send the Holy Spirit?" As your servant or what?
Don't you know that you are talking about the Spirit of Christ here?
Why not "ask the Holy Spirit?"
"If God actually sent you," so you think someone will just wake up and go to government house and preach to a governor in Nigeria?
DeleteU have done your part oh!
DeleteMove unto the next assignment.
God gat you!
God bless you for your boldness
DeleteHis situation is described already in Psalm 52.
DeleteYou try.
DeleteHave been indoors since morning. Though I took my first dosage of Anti Malaria.
ReplyDeleteAbegi is there anywhere they are healing Malaria. I mean permanent healing.
Quick recovery
DeleteSpeedy recovery ππ€π
DeleteGo to Redeem camp and stay there for 6month
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DeleteMy dear if you relocate to the abroad, believe me that will be the end of bouts malaria for you.
DeleteMalaria and Continent of Africa goes hand in hand π
Please get well soon Most Complex.
Amen.Thank you Ij Ph,Paris and Pincky that told to go Redeem camp lol
DeleteWishing you speedy recovery
DeleteGood morning this evening my sdk fam. Hope your night was good? I’ve missed you all❤️❤️π€
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DeleteGood evening this evening..we miss d you too and we all love you.
DeleteGoodnight
Just need to relax this weekend.
ReplyDeleteHave a great weekend everyone.
Have a relaxing weekend Sweetheart ❤️❤️π₯³ππ₯
DeleteFreaky Friday.
ReplyDeleteWhat can I do without you my Lord?
When I count my blessings I feel like THANK YOU is not enough.
I'm just relaxing.
This body is crying for help, the spirit keeps pushing it to carry on.
Hey! Christmas break should do and come that the body will relax and take care of.
Got an exciting news ,body just dey totori mi.
December is sure season to hook up with old 'Homies'.
'I dey my dey' here ,avoiding bad energy.
They think I'm that quiet,they never see me in the midst of happy people.
Enjoyment is life.
Stay positive and keep it real.
Cat walking away....... ....
This will be me soonest
DeleteI read this with a smile @ you around happy people , I'm just imagining the energy hahaha .
DeleteEnjoy a swell weekend .
I went to the market today to buy shoe for my 10 year old n I couldn't believe the price I was hearing! I ended up not buying and she cried her eyes out today.may be I will just buy aba made for her tomorrow but it won't last.Gi5d help us ooo
ReplyDeleteNice Okrika shoe is just 2k, stop putting yourself in unnecessary wahala
DeleteMy son cried his eyes out for a suit I priced for him for Xmas
DeleteThe price no be here!!
My head is already paining me thinking about this Christmas e no easy for single parent out there,sis do wetin you fit afford.one day e go better
It is well..My God will provide for you and surprise you in Jesus name because I don't want you to buy the aba made.
DeleteWhat is wrong with Aba made? It's time we start celebrating our own home made goods biko.
DeleteAba made no dey last.That is what is wrong with it.Its not bcos it's locally made
DeleteWatching a movie but should go to bed shortly. Feeling so sleepy and tired.
ReplyDeleteGood evening beautiful people. Rain,rain and more rain in the beautiful city of PH. Wash away all dirts dear rain and keep the city of PH clean
ReplyDeleteSo i went to my stylist's(aunty no chanse) today to make my hair. She showed me a beautiful hair she put up for sale. The hair was fairly used, haba i can't wear mbonk, hair wey i no know who wear am before. She told me how one of the guys in the area sold it to her for a lesser price. He said he bought the hair for his babe. Babe was f......ing up, he took it from her on her next visit. He can not come and go and be planting while another guy will be harvestingπ. Dear men, why some of una dey quick vex this season na, some will be looking for issues where there is none once e enter Novemberπ, una good just dey provocate dey find faultπ. Man and woman matter too plenty this period here, what's happens
Fabu ooo. On today's episode of fabrication
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DeleteThere is this friend of mine who was dating a lady some years back, because he had not had sex with the lady before and the lady keeps on deceiving him.
On one fateful day, he asked me to accompany him to the girls shop, I thought we wanted to go pay her a visit not knowing the idiot was going there for something else.
On getting to her shop, my guy forcefully collected the phone he bought for her including the sim because he was the one who bought the sim too. I was so ashamed of him and had no choice than to just leave him there and went back home.
Some guys get mind shaa
My sister forget that thing!!
DeleteThat lady dey sell stolen goods!
That's how they stole my gas cylinder,sold it to a stylist dey claim clearing and forwarding agent thieves!!!
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DeleteSuch a petty man!
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DeleteJust here watching African magic Igbo. The week has been tough but we thank God.
ReplyDeleteWho else is watching the series 'Farin Jini' on Rok2? I believe it will be a nice series...I trust Uzee to always deliver.
Me!!! I feel it will be interesting too. The girl that went on a run with that guy(dunno their names abeg) is very fine
DeleteI am busy cooking ofada rice and stew.
ReplyDeleteI'm coming with my plate
DeletePlease send me small abeg..I love it..
DeleteAnother lonely weekend.
ReplyDeleteTired of being alone.Missing my only child who is incommunicado from abroad. Only reaches out when in need. After the need is solved, its a blackout. No relative there. She is 21 just alone doing masters in Atlanta.
I would have loved to be hearing her voice every now and then. She doesn't call. I just need to give her space but the silence is not sitting well with me as an only child. If she reaches out,it's just hi mum via text only. Nothing more. No gisting as mother n daughter. Please, who has this experience with growing child?
Do i ignore her and just leave her like that or what? I am worried as a single mother
Do not ignore her. Communicate your feelings to her and try to build a relationship with her.
DeleteI know you feel calling her often might seem like you are disturbing her, so? She’s all you got.
Try to be the one reaching out. Ask her questions that will make her to talk or open up to you. Not frightening questions that will make her to hide and keep to herself. If she's on WhatsApp try to chat her up too and encourage her to tell you anything at all. It's this way probably because there was no deep mother daughter relationship before she left. It's not late as you can develop it now, and yes her silence is disturbing. She might also just need alone time to study or be on her own but it's important you reach out and encourage her to do same too
DeleteEya, pls don't ignore her. Try not to be just her mum, but her friend. Talking to her like a friend might bring her closer, all the best ma'am
DeleteThe fear of every woman, but I think this is the time to build a strong relationship with her ,tell her about things going on in your life as well,make a
Deleteher your gist partner.You can start by calling twice a week ,drop chats for her occasionally but please don't allow the wall between you two keep growing. Tell her how you feel she is no longer a child ,trust me she will understand.You can try to study her itinerary,so you will know when it is best to call her.I wish you luck
You should be worried. That's how one of my former neighbor's son went to do his BSc in the US (in the early 2000s), the guy later became a recluse. Only God knows why.
DeleteThis is not so good. Women hardly forget their parents.. Maybe she's engaged with so many things or in a relationships that demands her full attention. Talk to her about your feelings. You can even tell her you want her to come back home and be closer to you. In all I hope she begin to give you more time an attention.
DeletePlease don't stop oo
DeleteShe may be oblivious of her attitude towards you, communicate by telling her your feelings maybe she LL come around.God bless your efforts it's not easy rara
Please call her like 3 times a week routinely and tell her you are just checking up on her. You can create a gist sometimes, something that will interest her. You can also tell her you want to see her beautiful face and ask for a video call.
DeleteHow was growing up like with her? Hope you weren't too strict? This is happening with my cousin who got married 2 years ago. She said after their dad died their mom was too protective of them and she wouldn't let them be. Today, it is church, tomorrow pastor will come to the house to pray and bind evil spirits, that she didn't let them mix or enjoy their childhood etc. Her mom would lament about how she was struggling to provide and that her mom was too bitter.
She clearly told me that there are people who have it worse than her mom and she was tired of her mom's pity party that she isn't the only widow. My jaw dropped, I advised her and told her not to cut off her mom for these reasons, she will soon be a mother and shouldn't be too critical of her. Our parents are not perfect, as long as you don't have evil parents, accommodate their flaws please.
Sorry for the epistle and all the best with your daughter.
Keep praying for her.
DeleteTry using lovely words like white mothers do such as LOVE, DARLING, SWEETHEART in ur conversation .. It's embarrassing wen u didn't start from wen she's a baby break d habit. Call frequently
DeleteMs Abroadian has said it all. If you were too strict on her, communication will be minimal now that she's out of sight.
DeleteThank God for another Friday, it's been a busy week.
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ReplyDeleteI will take a well deserved rest tomorrow.
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ReplyDeleteWatching Zee W¹orld and reading �� old posts
ReplyDeletePlease where are the nice places to chill for a single girl in Lagos on a Friday night.
ReplyDeleteKindly help a sister.
T T for total tenks.
On the island...Adeola Odeku.
DeleteOn the mainland... Isaac John street ikeja. Or Surulere axis. There are nice spots there.
Funny...it all depends on your area or where you are at the moment.. you can't be on the aisland and tend to go hangout on the mainland.
DeleteYour location will help us in answering you.
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Your kind of place,is it bar, lounge and so on! Also which location?
DeleteChurch all night service.
Delete@Olomo
DeleteNice suggestion
If you don't want to go to all night in the church
stay in your house, study your bible and pray.
My dad always told me that if your stay quiet, what will happen to you will stay quiet.
good evening my people
ReplyDeletegood evening my people
ReplyDeleteAwele..how is you and hope you good
DeleteFor BV Nkiru, I have been searching for you on this post. I mostly see your comments too late. Anyway, I am in Sweden studying now. Came some months back. Hopefully, we meet one day.
ReplyDeleteI don’t know why I feel so down anyway I’m going to binge YouTube videos till I sleep off.
ReplyDeleteE-hugs
Delete@Snarker, it is well with you and whatever it is the case, my good Lord will sort it out for you.
DeleteCome here π€π€π€π€π€π€❤️
DeleteLots of love I'm sure you'd feel better by morning hugs.
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DeleteJust gave my wife sleeping tablet.
ReplyDeleteI need to sneak out and hang out with my side chicken.
Premature cock.
DeleteSo fake
DeleteNice move..soon, that ur sneaking will lead you to something else if care is not taken
Deleteππ€£π You be werey..Oloshi ma ni e!
DeleteLord have nercy!
DeleteI hope the chicken lay an egg soon.
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DeleteMay God have mercy on you... Of this is truly True π²π²π²π²
DeleteWhat if your side chic dies? Repent o
DeleteJust here chilling with my brother in law and his wife and talking about his daughter’s wedding that is happening tomorrow
ReplyDeleteI am sure you're enjoying your stay, regards to Alex
DeleteCongratulations in advance
DeletePlease o, what kind of joy do big men derive in golf game π️. Like I don’t get the head and the tail of the whole fuse. Is it the walking aimlessly about the golf course or the carrying about that heavy bag of theirs that contain the clubs. I was bored out of life today tbvh.
ReplyDeleteps: na my PPA director send i and my colleague to help the golfers. Will be going back there tomorrow π«π«π«
It's boring to watch sef.
DeleteDon't like that game..I swear
Deleteππ€£π Pele!
DeleteLmao golf is beautiful π I find it weird that people underrate golf lol
DeleteWe actually travelled for the weekend to play golf lool.
Oh how miss my dad.
It's the putting
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DeleteNothing special o,na just the feeling of being a big man
DeleteAbi you don see poor man play golf before
πππ. I love golf.
Delete*fuss*
Thanks for the correction @ Castle
DeleteNothing much, just here thinking about life.
ReplyDeleteSoon, everything will get better
DeleteIt's well ππ God got you π€π€❤️
DeleteI have been having problems commenting for some days now, I am just testing the microphone with this comments to see how far I have been able to rectify it, una good evening
ReplyDeleteHello tue tue..
DeleteYour mic π€ is working fine
Good evening Awele your face show
DeleteWatching Tyler Perry's movie and catching up on old posts here.
ReplyDeleteParis, enjoyment minister π₯°π€
Present Hun ππ₯³πΎ happy weekend π❤️π₯°
DeleteBeen cooking and washing since 5pm and still on it.
ReplyDeleteMight eat pineapple for dinner.
Ended my IT today and all I can say is God be praised.
Congratulations
DeleteGlory be to Jesus...it is well with you
DeleteCongratulations darling π₯³ππ have a relaxing weekend π€π₯³
DeleteEku cooking ati washing oooo
DeleteCongratulations on fleek for you
DeleteNo shackles fit stop your shine
In Jesus name amen
Me and pineapple juice (home made) this season na die
Na so my body just dey sweet me
Good evening to you all.
ReplyDeletePls house, i find it so difficult to sleep at night. Sometimes i am awake till morning and i just get up in the morning, bath and leave for work.
What can I take without side effect?
You need to engage in more excercise. This will make you sleep fine
DeleteChamomile tea,
DeleteStay away from your phone, listen to nice music
Lights out, refrain from thoughts that wouldn't let you sleep .
Most importantly pray to God , he gives his beloved sleep
What ever you take might have a side effect, more reason you cant sleep. Change your routine, after dinner everyday, get a cool bath, ventilate your room and make sure the bedings are fresh, play a cool music and be relaxed, sleep will comeA
DeleteEats lots of banana
DeleteOr still take smoodie regularly
But please try and run Test o
Blood pressure
Sugar level
Malaria
Infection
Try sleep aid supplements or concentrated oils like cbd oil
DeletePut your mind at rest, commit your worries to the Lord before going to bed, and leave them there.
DeleteJust a quiet evening, found out two weeks ago that my ex is getting married tomorrow, we were supposed to get married this same month and in the third week last year. Was diagnosed of POI last year and the wedding got called off........ Just a little sad though, but God has been awesome this past year and given me this incredible strength.
ReplyDeleteI've read this before.sweet heart, maybe it wasn't meant to be. God will give you a man that'll love and stay with you. It's normal to be sad, just don't let it lingerπ€
DeleteSending you strength and love ❤️❤️π€π€
DeleteGod would bless you with a better partner.
DeletePlease cheer up darling everything would be alright .
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DeleteGuess he was never your husband. Your man will find you soon.
DeleteHe's not meant for you do please be happy... everything happened for a reason, sorry about your happened!
DeleteAnon 21.44 it's well with you
DeleteWhat is POI @21.44
DeletePremature ovarian insufficiency
DeleteMissed so many posts about 3 weeks ago. Going through some now
ReplyDeleteAmazing Grace doing amazing work tonight..enjoy them
DeleteWelcome
DeleteGod is indeed a merciful God. If curses really work, Buhari will have been dead The way Nigerians curse him daily. Why will you intend to increase fuel knowing fully the masses are suffering.
ReplyDeleteThe thing tire me I swear..we are in the hands of fools
DeleteNa God hand we His own dey
DeleteThat one na walker wey dey cruise
DeleteWhile some are cursing him, others are blessing and praying for him! A lot of wealthy thieves depend on him so the thieves are the ones praying for him! The guy dey consult die! Fulani get jazz! Real jazz plus oyinbo use of stem cells to put his physical body together!
DeleteI hv this itching around my kpekus. And I am 21weeks pregnant. Is it OK if I use funbact A.
ReplyDeletePls help. Trying to finish king of boys on Netflix.
Go and ask your gyn o
DeleteJust on my bed going through Sdk post.
ReplyDeleteYou guys rock. .
The suffer head in this country ehhh! I dont kniw what happened, i saw lots of people trekking. No public transport.
I was forced to stopped for a nice looking lady but when multitudes rushed towards my car struggling I had to zoom off before they spoil the door handle.
Weekend is here, nothibg happening. I am sipping wine alone in the comfort of my room. PHCN just took their light.
M just all alone ..thinking about ma life..
ReplyDeleteIf you get pregnant and deliver without complications. Please go and do thanksgiving if you have not. What my eyes saw today pass me. A young lady got pregnant and went insane. She vomits everything she eats. Surviving through drip. Heard that is her nature. She suffered the same date during her first pregnancy but unfortunately the baby died after delivery. So many ethopic pregnancy operations to save the mother and remove the foetus. One woman did major operation because her family planning entered her stomach. According to her, she was bleeding non stop for months before she came for the opportunity. More than 8 fibroid operations. One coughed after fibroid operation and the stitches broke. The stench from her stomach is strong despite being in the hospital for more than a month......God bless all mothers.
ReplyDeleteZaram is like the stomach is decaying? Why don't they refer her to a specialist Hospital? Do they want her to develop complications? I'm scared for her life.
DeleteMay the holy spirit grant her uncommon healing
Y'all download Kizz Daniel's new EP and thank me later. I looooove Kizz! No bad songs pro maxππ
ReplyDeleteYup yup and me too
DeleteI injured at work today on one of my thumb.
ReplyDeleteThe blood did stop even after pouring spirit.
we later used iodine and plaster.
Thank God we have first aid box.
I also took a teaspoon of codolin syrup cos of mild dry cough,was feeling sleepy at work π.
My plan was fish peppersoup and binge on Kdrama but just ate noodles and listening to turn up Friday till sleep calls.
Sorry,u will be fine by tomorrow.❤️
DeleteSorry Uzu
DeleteSorry ❤️
DeleteThank God for another weekend.
ReplyDeleteMy mother called earlier this week claiming she diesnt have shi shi to eat. That she went beggibg neighbors for food but couldn't eat the food that was offered and slept on empty stomach.
I took pity out of my own lack and sent her some money. Can you imagine the priority of an 80 years old woman is to go and make her hair.
I repeat she went to do her hair from the money I sent for her feeding. I called her today to enquire if she got the money as she did not acknowledge the receipt behold she said 'sorry.I went to do my hair,gray hair has taken over my head'. 80 years still going to salon. All the money might go into supplements.
All these entitled people! I am so angry right now.
Sooner she will demand for chop money again. I am sick of family demand.
Loool. She has to look good please
Deleteππππ hipop woman
DeleteSorry anon just do your bit when you can. Mama won't be here forever. If making her hair will make her happy, why not? Though I understand your point that buying food in the house should have been her priority, mabinu you hear. Old age also comes with drama.
DeleteDrip is eternal π
DeleteNor vex abeg
Please take it easy on her,I’m quite sure she won’t even make an expensive hairdo,maybe weaving or didi,which is very cheap to make.At her age I doubt she will really have strength to make heavy hairstyles,probably she just wants to look neat and smart...and about the money,she must have bin pulling ur legs with the talk of begging neighbors for food.besides at her age,little strolling and interaction with people is good for her,dont be too angry just overlook her attitude na old age..enjoy her while she is here.
DeleteIt is your mother you are talking about. What is wrong in going to a salon to do her hair,? Allow her flex oo and if she ask give. God will bless and supply your needs
DeleteI think you should place her on salary kind of, and explain things to her. If you budget 50k for her, give her 30k at first having it in mind she will call to ask for more.
DeleteI'm not trying to indulge her.
It's obvious you both don't have a good mother-daughter relationship, find a place in your heart to forgive her.
I believe we are misusing
the word 'entitlement', not everything is entitlement, some of our African parents labored all through their life to give their children the best out of the little or nothing with them with the hope of the child taking care of them later in life.
I won't advise any parent to pause his/her growth and wellbeing because of a child with this 'I'm not their retirement plan' agenda we see online.
Entitlement is the new one, for now, we've moved from gaslighting, guilt-tripping, narcassist, and the likes.
I'm not one of those who chorus nobody owes you anything at every given opportunity, we owe each other support, affection, and other beautiful things, if not, why are we humans? Trees support trees in the forest.
People now prefer to die in silence to avoid being tagged entitled.
Eeeyaaa. Poor mama. She needs to look good for herself, please help her be happy however you can.
DeleteMhen sickness no good for body oo, extremely tired time to use night Drugs,if not I will hear do you know how much I got those drugs again this night ππ
ReplyDeleteMasterpiece of God, If you don't want to hear that please take your drugs so that you will be healed.
DeleteJust here sdking after a blessed week
ReplyDeleteGood evening blogfams ππππππππππππππππππ
ReplyDeleteNetflix and chill
ReplyDeleteJust relaxing with some good movies on my phone,my kids are sleeping,I missed watching movies at the cinema,since I gave birth,have not had the time
ReplyDeleteNothing much to do,Lying down in my bed,there is a church next to my house praying die by fire prayers,they are apparently having a night vigil and as hot prayers are flying around the pianist is playing Joeboy’s alcohol song beats as the background warfare song,πππ
ReplyDeleteHahhahahahahahahah!
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