The first slide is a shade and the second one is to explain the reason for the shade and those who belong in the category......
Tuesday, November 16, 2021
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This issue has been over flogged abeg. Defend your shade with your full chest. No need for explanation.
ReplyDelete*yawns*
She's always throwing shade up and down. that makes wonder if she's really happy or she's just a natural bitter person.
DeleteImagine, Daddy FRz is who you look up to? SMH!!
Uburu esu
Most time! Is unhappy people that throw shade. Aunty get busy. U hv been ranting.
DeleteNa them sabi
ReplyDeleteokay we have hear madam
ReplyDeleteYou sef don't understand your shade
ReplyDeleteAre you the one giving them free money??
ReplyDeleteThis transgender is always throwing shade
ReplyDeleteLol
DeleteThis is not news madam.. You just decided to make ‘shading’ a hobby all of a sudden..?rest please
ReplyDeleteWhen I read this , what came to me was that she was shading these girls getting gifts from men and shouting ‘hard work’ up and down the internet. Omo, when I saw the vicious comments on a blog , because of lack of understanding . As if they have been waiting to release their venom on her because she married a footballer. Stella, Nigerians have sunk to an all time low right now, I think it’s because a lot of people are not living the life they feel they deserve and so they have become easily triggered by the slightest thing. The comments were terrible. Instead of beefing people that are doing well, why don’t you hold your ‘head’ and pray. Eleda yin ni ke ma be ko gbe Ori yin de ibi ire. All the curses are a waste of time.
ReplyDeleteIheoma welcome ooo
DeleteThis beefing people that are doing well is what I am experiencing now, I have a click of 6 close friends, we all are graduates but I was the only one who got a very good job with salary close to 2m,a side hustle that fetches me 450k a month, and investment that gives me 2.5 m yearly.i am grateful to God for blessing me this much at 25. I got married also to a very rich man,all my friends are so envious of me.i dare not question prices of article in their presence. we went to buy show for aso ebi,one of us will be getting married in December, I decided to pay for our shoes, so we eventually found a vendor who has all our sizes,I mentioned I wouldn't be paying more than 15 to 20k a pair making it 100k for 5 of us. We got there and they all planned to take shoes Worth 30 n 35k, I just handed the vendor the 100k,took my own and ask them to add their own money to complete it, that's when they returned the shoes and pick the ones within our original budget. I noticed they were kind of forming a click isolating me, saying all manner nasty jokes. I decided to transfer another 5k to them each to buy a simple clutch bag. I pay for our meals without getting thank you from them. I send money frequently to each of them without getting thank you. My sister adviced I should cut them off.
DeleteAnon 14:49.
Deleteyou have outgrown them - keep them as friends but give them space. remember 20 friends cannot play together for 20years. remain cordial but give them space - dont cut them off completely. sometimes in the near future hopefuly when they are blessed financially too they will understand. Now to the one wey concern me - which side hustle give your N450k monthly? care to share? i am interested ejooooo, please, biko
Anon 14:49,God really blessed you o.
DeleteBefore cutting them off, maybe talk to them and let them know how you feel about their attitude towards you.
Anon 14:49 cut them off slowly and with wisdom. Envy is the mother of many evils. Be careful. I wish you well
Delete14:49 run! You are not safe.
DeleteI remember a time in my life when God blessed me more than my "friends". I was busy trying to be humble and supporting them financially and ignoring spiteful behaviour/comments. Hmmm! Guess what? Few years down the line, i lost my job, my relationship with my rich boyfriend didn't lead to marriage, My businesses werent doing as well. The same people I had been praying for and supporting mocked me, gossiped about me, up to spreading lies. The disrespect was gbas-gbos. It was like: Ehen! Shebi she thinks she has two heads. What's worse is that, they all seemed to be progressing career wise, getting married, starting businesses, relocating abroad etc. At the time I was struggling.
At the time, anything I said was rubbish. No support -financial, emotional or connects. Nothing! Just insult, mockery, abuse, pretence. Some even starting rehashing things I did in 1900 and using the opportunity to start new fight. To say I was weak and broken is an understatement. Even the one that I introduced to my bfs friend and the guy changed her life. She went around saying she can't tell me good things happening to her because she knows I will be jealous as my life is somehow. Funny enough i wasn't because the guy is a womanizer and I told her to be careful but she saw money and doesn't care. Now they've broken up. The married ones regrouped without me. I felt subtle joy about my situation. I can't explain it.
The thing is: When you spend time with people below your current level, your conversations don't improve and you don't become aware of how to tackle new challenges at your level. You keep having low level conversations and your brain doesn't develop into the realm that you are functioning in. In the end, na you go lose.
So, painful as it may be, take all the name calling and smear campaigns now and CUT THEM OFF. I wish someone had told me this years ago. You have noted the signs, what are you doing there? Proving "good friend". It will shock you what those ladies think of you and what they are praying to happen to you.
Also, you don't know tomorrow. Maybe God is giving you this money because you may not marry a very rich man in future. If you marry say a guy who has potentials, it's your money that will fund his ideas and agenda to success for both of you. Don't use it on people God hasn't sent you to. Use your resources on other things to avoid stories that touch.
I also find that when you are doing better than people, they have unrealistic expectations of you. If you fail at something tommorow they start to rejoice because they see a human side or you. If it's too much, be like me: relocate and change number. That way it would seem as if you are busy trying to settle in and if they reach out just keep the conversations flat.
In conclusion, you are wasting your time with those girls. Challenge yourself with more exposed, more experienced people, who have gone ahead of you in life and overcome challenges you are yet to. Move close to them and learn from them. Leave these ones alone. E no go pay you.
Please stay away from such friends. Is it when they destroy your marriage, your reputation or worse take your life that you would wise up? You are seeing the signs, you are still being their friend? You think the experiences of people in SDK are just stories? Una no dey ever learn.
Delete16.53 wow, thanks for sharing your experience and I hope you are in a better position today. If not, I know you surely will get there, as this is an experience God needed you to pass through.
DeleteAnon 16:53,well said thank you.may favour follow you too.
DeleteAnon 24:49, you are not safe..
Move. Envious persons can kill you with sword or tongue.
Iheoma if you can afford to throw shade, then you can also afford to receive shade from your online shaders, she sounds so bitter, always throwing shade but running for cover when any1 comes for her. Just shut up and sit down in your house.
DeleteBeauty queen? Where, when, how?
ReplyDeleteHiaaaaaaaaaaaa!
I'm not really a fan of Iheoma and I don't really comment but it's important to note that she was MBGN in 2014 or 2013 I think so she qualifies beauty queen
DeleteMake she swear sey she never in her life had a divine helper. Na when dey don repent or stabilize, dem go turn motivational speakers & sanctimonious. Abegi, no body, I repeat, no body, even 99% of d married ones be saint. Ihuoma, how did u make it to where u are today bcoz I no sey u no be Ds Cuppy from inception.?
ReplyDelete99%? When did you carry out the survey, biko? Please stop generalising, not everyone dabbles into these things.
DeleteI'm not ihuoma's fan but I don't think she is denying ever receiving financial help, just don't come attribute it to hard work as that is misleading.
DeleteNawa o, you just hate this girl.
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