Hailings............
Please drop a memo for me or anyone BV in the comment section...Say something nice to lift up someone down today...
Kisses to ya'all....
I dey hungry oh.... Been long i had swallow....
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MONDAY CHRONICLE POSTER EXPLAINS FURTHER.
Stella thank you for posting..
I am the poster,let me clear some things for the people asking. I met my baby daddy in March 2019 and he told me that he wants to marry me immediately and start a family ,i told him to hold on because it was too sudden and i needed to make enquiry being that he is 46 as i was curious on why he was not married or have a girlfriend at that age because that was what he told me.
I made enquiries from his two friends and get to find out that he was married and got divorced but without telling his friends that he was getting married in December of that same 2019. I remained friends with him from that March because we were getting to know each other to know if we like each other and by June we started dating properly by which he said we should start trying for a baby immediately so that when he travel by December he will go and meet my people without knowing that he was planning to marry someone by that December which he hid from me and both his friend.
Also he has a Ugandan girlfriend here and also promised to marry herd which he also hid from me and his friends. I got pregnant by August and that was when all he’ll let loose, oga changed and told me that he already has someone he wants to marry in December and that i should abort the baby which i refused and i really suffered because of that. I gave birth in May of last year and i allowed him to use his name to register as the baby father thinking that he will file for the baby’s document after that but he refused with always giving me one excuse or the other, i don’t want to marry him not for the way he made me suffer . i just want to know the way to file for my baby documents without him knowing .
I would have called his real name and town here but just don’t want to be the reason for him and his innocent wife to have problem. I didn’t use pregnancy to trap him rather he just came to play me but unfortunately it resulted to an......
Babe you did not finish posting your conclusion...
I still think there is a way you can stay whether the baby daddy helps you or not... you are your baby's guardian and thus have the right to stay in the UK and take care of him since he is a citizen
There must be a way!!!
There must be a way!!!
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PINKYS CORNER
Some men get liver oooo. A friend called around 9pm on Saturday but I missed his calls, after some time, I went into the living room to check if my phone was fully charged then I saw the call again, I picked then I heard "Bisi, Joo, mo need help e". Ogbeni,if na money please count me out for now because wetin dey my mind now 1billion no fit solve am'', I jokingly replied him.
He continued, ''Bisi, please help me call my wife and beg on my behalf oo, i have wronged her seriously and she has gone out of the house for almost 2hours and refused to pick my call''.
I asked him what happened then narrative essay began........
Someone sent me bet9ja game last week and he didn't bother to play it but noticed the game played as predicted and this same guy has been sending him game which is always being played as predicted(all these yeye fixed matches), so he sent one recently and he saw that some people staked with over 100k so he took 20k from his wife savings to stake the game (then I interrupted) '' you took or stole 20k from her savings''
(he couldn't answer me perfectly) then I asked ''so what happened after stealing her money''.
The game played as predicted but na Man U spoil am but before he came back home from where he went to the wife had gotten home and she was in need of the money so he had no choice than to confess what he used the money for, now he needs me to help him beg.
The game played as predicted but na Man U spoil am but before he came back home from where he went to the wife had gotten home and she was in need of the money so he had no choice than to confess what he used the money for, now he needs me to help him beg.
Ok, I called the wife, when she picked up the call, she was crying badly( u know women now) she told me that money was to complete the house rent she went for because Landlord told them to park out this month and the husband had just been laid off from work, so she went to get another apartment without the knowledge of the husband (just like a surprise), now 20k has gone, how will she be able to cope, will she be able to find another house? so many questions at a time.
I was dumb-founded, didn't know how to give response but at the end, I told her that the husband had explained everything blablabla, I tried calming her down then called back the idiot friend, infact, see person wey do bad thing still get mind to curse me say se I be man, why I go dey talk to am anyhow cuz of small thing.
Guy man has refused picking my calls since and was calling to ask if all has been settled. baba don vex cuz say I tell am the truth
That part you asked him if he stole his wifes money really cracked me... Why will a man steal a woman's money? A really shameless behaviour!!
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I dont like this mindset at all so i wont say anything since i dont know if you are fasting, make God no go vexs for me like he was with the landlady.... *side eyes*
I was dumb-founded, didn't know how to give response but at the end, I told her that the husband had explained everything blablabla, I tried calming her down then called back the idiot friend, infact, see person wey do bad thing still get mind to curse me say se I be man, why I go dey talk to am anyhow cuz of small thing.
Guy man has refused picking my calls since and was calling to ask if all has been settled. baba don vex cuz say I tell am the truth
That part you asked him if he stole his wifes money really cracked me... Why will a man steal a woman's money? A really shameless behaviour!!
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NAZIRITES INK
"Didn't I say I will deal with her? Don't bother yourself praying"..
The statement was clear and loud. I was just right by the kitchen sink about to do the dishes that morning when I heard it.
Prior to the episode, I was praying, asking that the pumping machine be restored, shockingly, God revealed that was her punishment for speaking rudely to me.
Previous night, the compound was robbed, surprises me to know my husband and the landlady were awake when the thief operated.
A few weeks earlier, the landlady called me and started to insult and harass me. According to her, I should come check on her, I had been indoors for a week due to spiritual activities, we share an entirely different flat so I wouldn't even know if she was sick.
We are barely two months here and this is happening? No Lord! I don't want from frypan to fire. I can be quite introverted so its pretty difficult to keep checking on people, I greet warmly and move on. I'm not the type to pry. Individual differences.
Often times when i am fasting, I try to avoid confrontation, she didn't know that, she was extremely rude, but I didn't let that get to me. I try my best to avoid trouble because of the 'not pleasant' former apartment experience. I begged her not to be upset and while I was still speaking, I heard God spoke in clear terms that He was going to deal with her, somehow, I kept the information to myself and didn't tell my hubby until after the incident.
Little wonder this happened, Well, I shuddered and exit the kitchen. Even though deep in my heart, I had forgiven her completely, Seems God was not pleased after all. It was a done deal not open for discussion or negotiation. The following week, she brought in a new machine.
This my God ehn, He never seizes to amaze me, His ways are not our ways.
The thief was later caught, after I told her to ask for mercy.
I dont like this mindset at all so i wont say anything since i dont know if you are fasting, make God no go vexs for me like he was with the landlady.... *side eyes*
Just because of small talk wey landlady talk, God told you he would deal with her? Haaaaaaaaaaaa......
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PHARMACIST NEEDED
Please I need a pharmacist amongst bvs in my pharmacy in Lekki Phase 1 at admiralty way.
Kindly publish the vacancy on your platform
The applicant should have a licensed pharmacy degree and
2 years prior experience in pharmacy management
The pharmacist would be responsible for ensuring the smooth running and functioning of the pharmacy, dispensing medication effectively and safely
- Managing stock levels and be another expert for our customers to talk to, providing health care service and advice at the counter
- Coordinating the delivery, reception and recording of orders
- Supervising the supply of drugs to patients according to medical prescriptions.
The salary is competitive according to the industry standard
Free lunch and breakfast is inclusive
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PHARMACIST NEEDED
Please I need a pharmacist amongst bvs in my pharmacy in Lekki Phase 1 at admiralty way.
Kindly publish the vacancy on your platform
The applicant should have a licensed pharmacy degree and
2 years prior experience in pharmacy management
The pharmacist would be responsible for ensuring the smooth running and functioning of the pharmacy, dispensing medication effectively and safely
- Managing stock levels and be another expert for our customers to talk to, providing health care service and advice at the counter
- Coordinating the delivery, reception and recording of orders
- Supervising the supply of drugs to patients according to medical prescriptions.
The salary is competitive according to the industry standard
Free lunch and breakfast is inclusive
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ReplyDelete1. Nothing makes life sweeter than making people happy
2. The people you help today become your soldiers in the battle of life tomorrow
3. To invest in properties is good but to invest in people is far far better
4. Try to make money, but try also to make people great
5. Your greatest trophies are the tears you wipe away from people's faces not the things you acquire
6. Your greatest achievement should be raising achievers
7. People will defend, stand by you and honour you when they realize you value them
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DeleteDon’t quit. You never know how close you are to a break through._successminded
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DeleteThere's a light at the end of the tunnel, whatever you're passing through is a phase that would pass eventually.
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DeleteTo Stella and every bvs I see as family(names too numerous to mention)I love you all and always know that tomorrow is going to be alright.One love.
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DeleteSign out meme is apt. Good afternoon everyone
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DeleteThanks for your words of encouragement.it's 10yrs I graduated,no job.I managed to start up a business, which is not moving smoothly at all.For 2 wks now, I have been down.Crying , praying to God to remember me for Good this October.
DeleteGod will surely remember you Blessings, hold on and don't give up. Keep calling on Him
DeleteMy memo goes out to every TTC women on this blog. May this year be the end of your TTC journey and may we celebrate you soon on your good news.
ReplyDeleteAmen and Amen, God open my womb for my children. AMEN .THANKS FOR THIS EKA JOY ,God bless you
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DeleteThank you for this Eka Joy.God bless you and yours.
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DeleteIf you are a man, you are jobless or you have a small thing you are doing but not enough to take care of the family, your woman is working, pls don't marry yet.
ReplyDeleteUpgrade before you marry. Don't turn someone's daughter to sufferhead. Na beg I dey beg you, that wedding money, even if it is ten thousand naira, use it to upgrade your hustle. The two holy books have said it, a man who cannot provide for his family is worse than an infidel...
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DeleteGod will surely help us all
@14:18
Delete"a man who DOES not provide..." Go and read the Bible very well and stop quoting out of context to justify your greed.
Thank you Stella and God bless you
ReplyDeleteStella, I felt the same way you did concerning that post front the nazarite ink. However, I read in the Bible how God infected Mariam the sister of moses with leprosy because of 'ordinary talk'. She felt slighted and spiteful towards moses her brother so God heard her demeaning and hateful talks about him and told her to sleep outside the camp after he inflicted her with leprosy so that everyone would see her shame and learn from her misery. He did that to serve as a lesson to others to stop being envious about those he doesn't joke with.
ReplyDeleteThat is why we need to watch those we fight with or insult out of envy or spite. Every single word we say concerning others to bring them down or disgrace then he does not overlook if that person is someone he esteems. God fights.or disgrace then he does not overlook if that person is someone he esteems. God fights.
You are so right ⏯️
DeleteI try not to talk carelessly and deliberately hurt anyone.
May God help us all π
It takes a lot of sacrifice and consecration to be the kind of person God will defend and fight for. Moses was known as the meekest man on earth. A person can't be abusing people upandan and think God will fight for them, na OYO you dey.
Delete15:48 Of course, if you are someone abusing people up and down to stir up a fight or elicit a reaction, making remarks about others out of envy or slight even when they did nothing to you in the first place to warrant that, then na OYO you dey.
DeleteIf you are the instigator, the troublemaker or the quarrelsome being then don't delude yourself thinking God will fight for you. God is never on the side of wrongdoing. He judges righteously.
However, the lady in the story above, The nazarite ink woman wasn't insulting or abusing her landlady in the former house or the landlady in the present house nau. In all her posts here you can see she always avoids quarrel and do not fight back, same with her husband.
But if you are someone who fight people who aren't fighting you, hating them for silliest reason, looking for their downfall for no sensible reason at all. God help you if their walk with God is strong and He does not play with them because then you might not know what you have gotten yourself into until it is too late. Everything is not village people.
God does not joke with His own, thank you anon 14:20
DeleteOne of the worst things that can happen to a woman is to marry a man that gambles. Nne ehn, suffering will be ur middle name.
ReplyDeleteSomeone hustled house rent for u wey be man, u still go thief am bet. No be village people curse be that?
Someone said he wants to marry you...meet your people and so on. But instead of doing that, he said
ReplyDeleteyou should "begin trying for a baby immediately...? Wow
How do we ladies allow men to make a mess of our intelligence to cheaply?
Knowing the Lord Jesus and studying his Word to imbibe the fear of God will go a long way to make us wise
and value our womanhood. And know that "in all things, God works for the good of those who love him and are called according to
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Cheer up and let those conversant with UK laws advise you properly.
When you are not the one going through it, don't judge.
DeletePoster of yesterday, your best chance is citizens advice bureau. Google anyone close to you, call them on phone and hopefully you will get advice on the way forward. Don't let anybody push you to a lawyer they will only take your money and mess you. If you have no physical proof, you can't file for the child unless somebody comes up to help you.
I'm not one to judge any form of pregnancy, I'm ttc and I know the pain of childlessness and I find it painful the way most women here judge single mothers without knowing their story.
If I had chosen to play around rather than be a good girl maybe I would have been a mother and not an abandoned ttc woman. And yes I am very much in pain right now.
Anon 15:53
DeleteYou shall carry your children and your children's children in Jesus name. You are not abandoned because God is omnipresent and always with you,He shall turn your pains into testimonies in Jesus name.
My memo goes to all parents and guardians taking care of children/young people with special needs...You are the real MVP and very soon we will have a robust discussion and have support groups from our Ministry of Health and have a full inclusion in this country in all spheres of this country..Kisses and Ehugs to you..Seriously rooting for you all...
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DeleteGod strengthen them,it ain't easy. Kudos to them
DeleteIf you are consistent and attentive on this blog, you will read and pass deep examinations of life. I have never visited any other blog since l stormed to this blog years back. When life challanges shows up, Armed with the word of God. My mind will remind me of a post or a comment on this blog that relates to the issue I have at hand. I will get inspiration and smile.π π π π . problem solved. I am now a pocket marriage cansellor due to the advice BVs give on marital chronicles.
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DeleteTo intending dads and all dads here...Learn all you can about fatherhood, because the betterment of society lies on your ability to raise a strong family with values. All the best guys!
ReplyDeleteThanks Morgan.. really appreciate this
DeleteMC Pinky, please always translate Yoruba to English language when you write for in-house news. Thank you.
DeleteRe: social medis being down, imagine what the true rapture will be like, banking systems down, trains, chaos everywhere.
ReplyDeleteRepent while there is time.
Don't give up
ReplyDeleteKeep pushing.
There is nothing you cannot achieve.
Put your mind to it and you can do it.
Pls let's learn to save no matter how small.
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To every job seeker and unemployed person(s), may you find that which you desire sooner than you expect. We will all celebrate your good news here. Amen.
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DeleteI claim it in Jesus name.
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DeleteStella, men like my dad still steals money ooo. In fact, it happened on Sunday.
ReplyDeleteMy mum's 3k disappeared
LMAOOOO no vex say I dey laff. Wetin e wan use 3k do. Buy bread? Awon 'ead of d house'. Oboju ole.
DeleteOh my God...this is so funny
Delete@sdk, yes, touch not my anointed and do my prophets no harm, that's what the scripture says. It is an instruction.
ReplyDeleteGod knows how to deal with his servants when they err. But you insulting God's servant or talking against them, it's a no no.
God is God. And his ways are not our ways. Read your Bible a bit more and you will get it.
@Nazirite, keep your walk with the Lord. Wishing you more grace.
Now I come on this column more often because of your post.
God bless.
His ways are not our ways
DeleteMy ex came to request to have my daughter spend the weekend with him after months of not remembering if she feeds or not. Do you know since then this man refused to take my calls not until last night that he picked his call( that's because my dad sent him a stinker message) and gave to her to talk. It's not like the girl even knows where she is. He relocated and I no longer know where he lives.
ReplyDeleteMbok how do I do this one. He got married last year so obviously the girl stays with the wife when he leaves for work. His wife and I,there is no love lost there.Was I wrong in allowing my daughter to see her father and have a relationship with him?
I'm trying so hard to be calm before I do something now and he will call me crazy like he always says I am. When will you bring my daughter,he said he will bring her.
As I am even typing the thing is pissing me off.
I have made so many sacrifices,entered into debts etc just so he will come and yank her off like that without my permission?
I'm sorry for ranting.
Whoever said premarital sex isn't costly?
Stella you said we should drop a memo? This is mineπ
Hope I am anonymous before those people with long term memory will drag me for life her
Collect your daughter and never ever let him see her again outside of your area. Simple
DeleteMa'am, men stealing their wives money is not a new thing in the area. There's one here that anytime he has money, you won't see him for weeks until he squanders all on pino pino girls and alcohol. Comes home to steal his wife's money. The wife sef borrowed herself sense and started saving her money in the bank, Oga will still get hold of her ATM and withdraw her money.
ReplyDeleteThere was a time she gave me her ATM card to keep for her cos of her horseband. Sometimes she comes back from work to meet a scattered house, Oga is desperately looking and searching for where she keeps her mouth. The other time he was beating their first daughter mercilessly for not releasing her mum's ATM card to him not knowing that it was with me, lazy man
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DeleteAnd the woman is still living with such a man? She is raising her children in such setting?
DeleteGod forbid!
I wonder why some men can't come up straight to tell their wife when then need little cash.
DeleteYour wife can give you money when u are in need only if you know in ur mind that whenever you have,u also spend on her
It's women in such marriages that mock single girls.
DeleteI'm in Abuja with the kids, please which fun places can you recommend someone to visit.
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon Stella and bvs,
ReplyDeleteWelcome ihn.
Don’t become cynical. Don’t let this world harden you. Don’t allow your heart to stop feeling for others. Let people be mean and hateful. That’s not who you are and you don’t have to join in. You remain kind and sincere. Protect your heart and your inner peace at all times.
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DeleteA man returned home one evening very drunk. To prevent his wife from knowing he's drunk to avoid trouble, he quickly took his 'laptop' pretending he is busy doing something on it.
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Wife: You are drunk again, abi?
Husband: Me drunk? You've started again oo
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ReplyDeletePinky your story made me smile at some point, he should find a way to return the money, that woman has been supportive, he had no right to steal from her.
The guy na mumu,I swear
DeleteTo everyone going through one challenges or the other, I wantyou to know that God sees and hears his children
ReplyDeleteTrust in him and you ll surely come out victorious
Amin
Amen
DeletePraying for as many that want to relocate legit to another country.
ReplyDeleteGod almighty that did mine will do yours for you.
Life here in the Queen's land is so surreal.
Never knew people can be waking up by 8am. It's so strange to me.
Clean and peaceful neighborhood. No stress to live a basic decent life.
God almighty will redeem our dear land.
One love to all BV's.
One day I go share my story.
Amen..
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DeleteI desperately want to leave this country π
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DeleteEnjoy. Even though there's no hope, l still believe in MIRACLE
DeleteHi Martins,hi everyone please recommen a good site I can download movies please thank you π
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DeleteLife journey is tough.. I pray that anyone in a tight spot Right now receives permanent solutions to their problems...
ReplyDeleteThose going through accomodation problems, may it become a stepping stone for a better place.. Hold on to the God who never fails. He got you π―. πππππππππππππΉπ.
Still in My Teachers day mood celebration... π
ReplyDeleteHappy teachers day Teacher NK. God bless you graciously for all the good work you are doing.
DeleteMy widowed mother was a teacher and with her small earnings, she raised all seven of us up. My mama teach private lessons tireeeee for big man area in festac to make extra money to see us all through school.
She is my VIP, my world, my most valuable player.
I doff hat and cut cap for you teachers.
God bless you Teacher NK.
Happy Teachers Day Nk.
DeleteHappy Teachers day Nkay. Considering going back to teaching... The experience is worth it.
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UJ Frequency, may God bless your mom. God will keep her to enjoy her old age. Amen.
DeleteTo every one of us going through one phase or another, may God come through for us. He will wipe away our tears and we shall come back to testify of his goodness.
ReplyDeleteBeautiful afternoon to everyone.
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DeleteNo matter how dark the night is,the day must surely break forth,every problem has an expiry date,hold on,stay strong,God hasn't given up on you so don't give up on him.
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DeleteKeep doing your best, Baba God will handle the rest.Everything will surely be alright
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DeleteTo all job seekers,may God open new doors and opportunities unto us all.
ReplyDelete@Paris darling,thanks for checking on me,I'm doing well and the network here is still intact.ππ
Please can I appply for USA visiting visa with a salary of 350k for a family of 5 and savings of over 3m. Not intending to japa thou,just honest tourism
ReplyDeleteGood afternoon, though the times are hard, keep pushing, keep hope alive, one day it may be better..
ReplyDeleteSDK you're a blessing,keep being youπππ
Congratulations bv Sue for the birth of your daughter
ReplyDeleteTo every one believing God for the fruit of the womb . May the Lord bless you and may you rejoice with your bundles of joy.
ReplyDeleteFor every one going through financial crisis. May God bless you and may His rain of abundance fall on your household.
For anyone going to emotional distress, may God's joy fill your heart. May His Grace speak over you.
For anyone who is just having things easy or is stranded. May God, the way maker , step in on your behalf in Jesus name.
Not easy #
DeleteSDK please do this memo post often.
ReplyDeleteSuch sweet sweet and encouraging words. I'm just smiling here and shouting Amen.
My earnest desire right now is to Japa,this country no Taya anybody reach me swears, HOLYSPIRIT you see my heart,pls come to my aid,I am tiredπππ
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