Thursday In House News..

 I dey salute eeeeeeh.....

AMETHYST WINS FACE OF IN HOUSE NEWS

The winner of face of in house news competition is BV Amethyst with 62 votes


Participants and their votes


AMETHYST - 62votes
DEBBIE - 35votes
GEENA - 5votes
GRACEY - 4votes
HEARTY - 3votes
LAURA CHRISTEL - 20votes

Winner should send me mail for her winnings...

 The other winners should send me their phone numbers for data gifting.

Those interested in the next face of in house news can already start sending in their photos.....

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BV AMETHYST PRESS RELEASE ON BLOG ALLEGATIONS.

Good afternoon lovely bvs...

 thanks for your votes yesterday , I appreciate everyone of you, I read Stella's spontaneous post this morning and I have to come defend myself and clear some misconceptions...

Going through the post this morning one can point to the fact that its a case of mistaken identity, I am not the BV Amethyst some of you are mistaking me for I am a different BV Amethyst, never been an orobo....

I sent Stella my makeup free pictures for her viewing only AS evidence I can see the buzz my pictures created based on yesterdays comment:, even up to accusing me of identity theft or what not...

Yesterday was the first time of posting my pictures on foihn competition and first time ever on sdk blog.

Yes I went all out to get a good picture cause it cost me nothing to do that, in everything I do in life I do with a touch of excellence, if I was to send anyhow pictures you guys will drag and condemn it cause I read the comments on the last foihn news,I went all out and the dragging and complain is out of this world.

 I guess the saying "you can never please humans just do you"is so evident here, please let's live and let live...

One love y'all*peace

You look even better without make up and your skin is so beautiful.

I think someone is just out to rubbish this beautiful lady... lets drop it, the photos sent to me is the photos of another BV gotten from the BVs facebook page..

The way some of you monitor others here is so bad...live and let live please.

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NAZIRITES INK



They are constantly quarrelling, throwing insults and curses:....

'' she's your daughter for crying out loud! Your only child''! and you, she's your mother! she deserve some respect. It is unfair to treat her this way'' ......

On the other hand, was she ever in the picture, played her role? the answer is NO, God forgive me, she deserves it...

She was never going to keep quiet, telling everyone that cares to listen that Folake is a wayward child. She suddenly brought a baby from Cotonou and she didn't even see or know the man responsible till date.


Really Iya Folake??? Where were you when all of these was happening"? You are obviously a careless Mother, a bad mother, reason why you people will never allow this street any form of peace, constantly constituting public nuisance.

The day I sort her service to make my daughter's hair, she mentioned she is going back to Cotonou and would leave her daughter behind.. In my heart, I said "You better don't come back to your mother with another nasty pregnancy, hope you've learnt your lessons"...


Following week, I was looking through my window when I saw her taking her granddaughter along in the street, going to town I guess..... Apparently, Folake is gone,


In my thoughts,


"This is your opportunity to set things right and correct your errors, I hope you know what you are doing this time around, Folake is never coming back for this one, but this is God giving you a second chance, you failed as a mother, I hope you pass as a grandmother and a mother for the second time".

This is deep and sad.... Starting all over again as a mother when she should be relaxing and enjoying as a grand mum..

And you Judged the woman for not playing her role as a mother? Sometimes motherhood comes with a storm and takes some women by surprise, by the time the storm is over, the child is all grown up and messed up....Hmmmm!!!

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A STORY TO ENCOURAGE SOMEONE PART 2

Read part one HERE

..Fast forward to 5momths into pregnancy and I haven't registered for antenatal.
My husband kept assuring don't worry you will register. I remember on the sixth month we were able to gather 15thousand naira successfully without touching it ,we drove down to mother and child where we met a shocker that paralyzed my initial Google search.


I gave birth to my first baby in a private hospital so I didn't know how much the antenatal was, I did my online search and I got the idea that the antenatal fee for mother and child varies ,I couldn't get the exact one for my area but saw one that was 13k so we relied on that .

Getting to the hospital that day we were told it has been increased to 24k from 17,000 . That was how we turned back home to continue the contribution.


Seeing the way things were going at that point I couldn't hold it to myself again I had to tell my people what was going on.
My husband got angry, I told him this isn't about food again, it is about my life and that of our unborn baby


I said it is either he allowed me solicit for money outside or we tell our people .

We agreed it is better we tell our people first and the outcome will determine whether to resort to second option.

Thank God our families, stood by us and supported both financially and in every aspect.


I was scheduled for my CS to hold on the 30th of July but I was rescheduled.


Infact I stayed in the hospital from morning till like 7 in the evening without food.
I was rescheduled because they had an emergency that took longer than expected.

Two days to the day I was rescheduled to have my CS my husband got another JOB!


God did it in an unexpected way !!!

I was happy because I didn't know how we would have been able to pull through because at that point the engine of the car we were using for Uber had knocked.


Incredible GOD came through and at the point we needed him most.

Shortly after he started the job he got me a phone through Easy buy( a system that allows you to buy phone and be paying monthly till you finish your payment ) .
I started drop shipping again but mehn the game had changed ooo a lot scammers every where, customer no longer trust vendors again .

I started rebuilding my brand, along the line I was introduced to peanut business, where one can buy the peanut, repackage in ones name and sell.....


As soon as we enrolled my first baby in school I jumped at the peanut idea, and started started fully in February.
I will buy, package it in plastics and small nylons and carry it from one supermarket to another. I will take the small nylons to market and sell at wholesales price .

The business, was gradually picking up , because I started growing a customer base, that calls me to supply anytime they run out of the peanut and was making profit even though the margin was small.

Shortly after my fourth order of peanut In late March, COVID came and there was total lock down, all the major markets I supply in my were on total lockdown till the final lifting in August or so . That was how my peanut business died from covid.......


To be continued......

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INSIDE THE MIND OF A WOMAN GOING THROUGH MOTHERHOOD


 I once wrote about a neighbour of mine who has two wives in a room and parlour apartment with around six kids in between, the first wife has only one child, so for a long time I have heard their noise but for the first time I witnessed their ruckus.

 The normal me would have walked away as soon as they started but the presence of the children stopped me in my tracks.


The second wife’s children were jeering at the first wife and urging their mom on. They blocked the first wife from fetching water from the compound’s well, she had to fetch water from a far distance. The second wife poured bowls of sand on the first and chased her around with a huge stick, it was a pitiable sight.

The children were laughing gleefully while the first wife was crying and asking God why she had to go through so much ridicule. I really wished I could help her out of that place but I don’t know if she is willing or better still I don’t understand why she is still there because I hear her say a lot of times that no one can chase her from her place.

I wish her eyes can be opened and she can realise that her so called place has become a prison and her only child does not deserve to grow up in such a toxic environment.

I wish for his sake she will leave that place where she is faced with so much ridicule.



This is another sad one....

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